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I reckon this is something we’d all like to know! My feeling is that they don’t, not in London, anyway. I think this is a case of healthy fantasy mixed with that nagging worry we all get from time to time, namely that there’s a better party going on somewhere else, and we just haven’t been invited lol. Even though I wouldn’t expect to be approached by such a group (stereotypically I’d imagine they’d go for young twinkish or femme bottoms), I still think that between us we would know about the existence of such breeding teams by now. Whether on bbrt, Grindr or other sites (including this one), I think they would leave some kind of trace. I suppose it is possible that they are so on the dl that they don’t- and it would be great if someone on here was to prove me wrong!
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Easy access hotels in Montreal
Spunkinmyarse replied to Spunkinmyarse's topic in Montréal Metro Area
Thanks for the tip @Phillymale Am in Montreal as we speak, and have checked out the Gouverneur- currently staying at GI Joes and having a great time taking loads all night, but there is going to come a point when I need a proper bed and some sleep! -
Easy access hotels in Montreal
Spunkinmyarse replied to Spunkinmyarse's topic in Montréal Metro Area
Thanks for your reply @Gilmtl. Funnily enough, I was also thinking of just taking a room at GI Joes, at least for the first night. I don’t get in till quite late- doesn’t seem worth paying for a hotel when I was planning to head straight out to a sauna anyway lol. I didn’t realise you could book an overnight room at the saunas- you can’t do that in London... -
Can anyone recommend a hotel in the gay village area of Montreal with easy room access for late night encounters, etc? Will be in town from Weds to Saturday this week...
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How do you keep a load tally as a bottom?
Spunkinmyarse replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Hello @NWUSHorny- I talked about this very topic earlier today in another thread. I find it similarly frustrating, and it’s the reason I can’t contribute to the Load Tally threads on this site. From my experience as a slut bottom, it’s not feasible to keep an accurate load count in a bathhouse or fuck club situation for exactly the reasons you outline so well in your post. And I’m always slightly suspicious (or maybe just jealous!) of bottoms who claim they can, and are able to give an exact number once the load count exceeds more than a half-a-dozen or so. Sure, if you’re entertaining your partners on a one-to-one basis over the course of an evening, then fine- but if that’s the case you’re unlikely to rack up the kind of eye-watering totals I’ve seen touted around. Such totals would require some serious group action, and in any kind of gangbang situation you’re really not going to have much of a clue who came in you and who didn’t, so keeping an accurate score becomes impossible. It is just about possible to keep track of the number of fucks, but not all fucks translate into loads, and I’m sure when some people talk about load count, what they really mean is fuck count. Until someone invents some kind of arse implant to keeps track of these things, I think best (and realistic) estimates such as yours are the only way forward. -
How many guys have you ever had in a 24 hour period?
Spunkinmyarse replied to mcmeddler's topic in General Discussion
It’s very difficult to keep track when you’ve got your head down and arse up in a busy fuck club, and have been randomly selected as the ‘popular’ bottom that particular evening. Recently at SBN in London I did try to keep count, and clocked some 32 fucks in the course of an afternoon. How many of those were repeat fucks I have no idea- it’s impossible to tell if you’ve got your head down. Similarly it’s impossible to tell how many of those fucks turned into loads- once you’re loose and got cum dripping out of your arse you just can’t always be certain if one individual top has cum or not. But I reckon between about a third and a half of them did, so that would be about a dozen loads. Although that was indeed a busy session, it was by no means record breaking, so I’m estimating my personal best in a 24-hour period lies somewhere north of 40 cocks and 15-20 loads. -
made an arrngement o be preloaded for a top..........
Spunkinmyarse replied to Londonbear's topic in Your Last Load...
Indeed you are, @Londonbear. Sometimes I think true tops just don’t realise how much effort bottoms go to in order to give them a pleasurable experience: the cleaning out, the diet, the pre-loading, etc. Nonetheless, manners are for everyone, including tops, and I’m afraid I’m not one of those subservient bottoms who believes that tops can do no wrong. He’d have to have a very good excuse indeed if he wanted to use my arse again, and I’m not just saying that to be petulant. The fact is, I would just lose interest in him, especially when there are so many other tops around, as you so clearly demonstrated yourself! -
Ok, maybe not- but on my way
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A timely post. Just back from the clinic having been treated for what seems to be my annual infection- always happens in August for some reason. Gonorrhoea this time. No big deal- tested, diagnosed and treated all in the same day, just a single shot of antibiotics in the arse. Seems a worthwhile price to pay for all the raw cock and loads I’ve taken since my last infection this time last year. I must have had literally hundreds of men inside me since then, and in some very sleazy situations. I get tested every 3 to 4 months and am always amazed when the results come back clear. It makes me think that either STI’s are much less widespread than the anti-sex propagandists would like us to believe, or else I have just been very lucky. Thoughts, anyone? last
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Interesting theory, @RawCunt. It’s usually the dating apps that get blamed for the death of fuck clubs, bathhouses, cruising grounds, etc. But you think it’s the easy availability of free porn. I think there’s a lot of truth in that, and it doesn’t bode well for the future, once VR really starts to kick in. Are we heading for a place where no-one meets in real life at all, and everyone just stays at home fulfilling their fantasies digitally? Makes me glad I’m old lol.
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I feel like I’m slipping into bareback
Spunkinmyarse replied to Nasicus's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I’m with the previous couple of posters on this: just get yourself on PreP. You don’t say why it’s not an option. If it’s cost, you might want to look again- it’s getting cheaper all the time. Here in the UK you can get generic PreP for something like $0.75 per pill. If you go down the event-based route, that means you could binge on as much raw cock as you like in a 24-hour period for about $3.75 (5 pills): how about that for good value! Of course, there are the other STI’s too- and you’d have to get your head round that. Just remember, they’re all currently treatable, and in my opinion shouldn’t stop you living your life and fulfilling your fantasies. -
I take it a simple bulb douche is out of the question??
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Bathhouse for the first time.. anxiety/nerves
Spunkinmyarse replied to Nutts69420's topic in General Discussion
Definitely try again, and then try again some more. I know exactly where you are in your head: I’ve been in that place too. It took me many visits before I became comfortable with it. Just remember, there’s no pressure for you to do anything until you are ready: you’ve got nothing to prove to anybody. Gradually you will acclimatise, and it will become a ‘normal’ environment for you, and your horniness will slowly emerge triumphant over your nerves. -
I’ve finally got to the point where if a guy tries to fuck me with a condom at a sexy club, I’ll turn round and say no. I used to put up with it coz I thought I should- but they’re just too fucking uncomfortable, AND they make me feel I’m gonna shit myself lol. Sometimes guys try to ‘reverse stealth’ me and slip one on when I’m not looking. As if I wouldn’t be able to tell! Thankfully, as a species, they seem to be becoming rarer, but I’ll still have a bad night now and again when they seem to multiply like Tribbles.
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You’re lucky, Ozpig. I’d love to find another sleazy cumdump to pig out with, but finding one is proving to be a tough call!
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American cruise Ships vacations
Spunkinmyarse replied to DarkroomTaker's topic in General Discussion
I think I’d stick to an all-gay cruise if it’s action your after (I don’t have any personal experience to pass on- just what I’ve heard). Most gay US cruises seem to involve Mexico, the Caribbean or even Canada in their itinerary, so if you want to stick to just US ports, I think your severely limiting your options. I’ve always fancied the Key West/Puerto Rico thing: I wouldn’t want to stop anywhere ultra-homophobic like many of the Caribbean islands, and support their hate with my hard-earned cash... -
SBN stands for “Stark Bollock Naked”, which is just a British expression for completely naked. It’s the name for a cruise event which takes place from 2:00pm every Sunday at a venue called the Union Club in an area of London called Vauxhall. It’s well attended, usually about 300 guys or more, and as the name implies, the dress code is totally naked (except foot ware). Sex is very much the name of the game. I think it costs £17 or £18 for non-members, which includes a drink and coat check (you don’t have to be a member to get in). There’s no such thing as ‘fashionably late’ in London: make sure you get there by 3:00pm, as most of the action takes place between 3:00pm and 5:00pm. There’s often a live sex show on stage at about 5:00pm, and things start to peter our after that. From 6:00pm underwear is allowed, and the event staggers on till 10:00, but it’s not as good in the evening (although I’ve never stayed beyond 7:00pm). I hope you enjoy it if you go, is great fun!
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Tops and bottoms: Ever had rough sex border on rape?
Spunkinmyarse replied to bttmsubslut's topic in General Discussion
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One thing I like about this site is its ‘history’. When this thread was started several years ago, a number of the tops expressed surprise that there were bottoms out there who didn’t like having their dicks played with: apparently it had never even occurred to them that not all bottoms enjoy it. Move on a few years, and we now have a whole fetish dedicated to it, with chastity and cock cages, etc., and I think it’s now much more acceptable (even desirable) to keep the bottom’s dick entirely out of play during sex.
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If you’re happy going naked, and don’t mind fucking in front of a crowd, there’s a couple of options you gotta try: SBN on the Sunday afternoon at the Union Club in Vauxhall (2:00pm-6:00pm: but get there by 3:00pm), and Vault139 at 139 Whitfield Street. The Vault is open every night, but the dress code varies from night to night (check the website). Monday and Thursdays are naked, and probably the best/busiest, especially Thursdays. Being over 40 is not an issue at either venue, and both events are pretty full-on. Naked events seem more scewed to a somewhat older crowd anyway- young guys don’t always have the confidence to get naked and/or get fucked in front of a room full of strangers. Have fun- as it happens, I’ll be over in your side of the Atlantic at the time: otherwise I’d come with you
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Which member on BZ would you like to hook up with?
Spunkinmyarse replied to a topic in General Discussion
Awww- thanks, Hornedpigdc! It’s nice to know someone’s cares -
Which member on BZ would you like to hook up with?
Spunkinmyarse replied to a topic in General Discussion
Anyone else feel left out? This is like being back in gym class at school, and being picked (or in my case, not picked) for the soccer team lol -
Sounds like a nightmare, mate- sorry to hear it. Seems like you were just unlucky, that kind of thing can happen to any of us. Question is, would you give Paris a second chance, or recommend it to anyone else? I used to live there, and never liked it much- but that was in the days before I became a cumdump, so don’t know how it stacks up on that front...
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Blimey, from haemorrhoids to biblical quotes and the Divine Right of Kings, and all in one easy thread! Only in America, boys
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Never! Cumming destroys my horn for days at a time, and turns me into a normal person. I’d much rather be a slutty cum-hungry cumpdump craving loads all day long and whoring my arse out to all and sundry.
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