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Stop press: it looks like the implementation of this plan is to be delayed indefinitely because of a technicality. A statement to this effect is expected to be made in Parliament today, so keep watching.

I would endorse this and take it further. Just because it’s a bathhouse/sex club doesn’t mean you’re under any obligation to have sex at all. You might feel more comfortable just looking round the first time, getting to know what it’s all about. Have a sauna, have a coffee, use the jacuzzi... bathhouses can be nice places just to chill out and relax, it doesn’t have to be about sex all the time. And believe me, whatever you do choose to do, no-one is judging you. Of course, you may prefer to dive right in and have sex with everyone there: it’s entirely up to you. But it’s not a ‘failure’ if you don’t. It took me years to pluck up the courage even to go to one, so for me just crossing the threshold that first time was an achievement, and it took several more visits before I felt comfortable enough to have actual sex.

It really depends on the situation. In a pre-arranged one-on-one session at home, for example, it can be disappointing if a top cums in less than two minutes when you’ve been anticipating a long fuck and spent a considerable amount of time cleaning out, etc. But there are other times when I love a quick cummer- at an outdoor cruising ground, for example, where there’s a danger of being seen/caught. And also when I’m in cumdump mode at a sex club and it’s more about quantity than quality: I want a succession of reasonably quick fucks, not some guy that takes forever to cum and is going to monopolise my arse for the best part of an hour. Different horses for different courses. But on balance, I would have to say that I’d rather have a guy that cums too quickly than one that either doesn’t cum at all, or that takes so long about it that various parts of my body have started to fall off.

You could always face the wall, pull your pants down and bend over. That’ll definitely get their attention, and make it quite clear you’re a bottom looking to get plowed. Works a treat for me 😉 Of course, it does depend on the kind of bar you’re visiting, I suppose... perhaps try somewhere less ‘nice’?

Oh, this is a popular thread, isn’t it? Well done, RandyCubby. Mine was syphilis. Got it from sucking cock (I didn’t fuck in those days). And I’m pretty certain which cock it was. Some random guy off Scruff in east London. Had a big sore on the underside of his head: I didn’t notice till I’d already started sucking him. Anyway, I was too polite to stop and question it (yes, I really was that stupid!), so carried on till the job was done. I remember afterwards in the car wishing I had some antiseptic mouthwash lol. But after that, I put it out of my mind, as one does. Fast forward 6 months, I had a sore throat that wouldn’t go away, white patches on my tonsils, a painless rash all over my torso, and aching joints: full-blown stage 2 syphilis. Easily fixed, just a couple of VERY painful penicillin shots in the arse, and then a long wait to see if my titre count came down- which it did. Tbh, the worst bit was telling all my regular suck buds, but most of them were actually fine about it. But strangely it did change my life, and led me on the road to becoming the cumdump I am today. Being forced to confront my sexual health (I’d never even been tested before) and having to deal with an STD made me realise that catching one wasn’t the end of the world. We’re all very lucky to live at a time when all of them can either be cured or managed, for the time being at least.

Hey LatinPozSlut- I see no-one has replied to your post yet, and I don’t want you to think we’re all rude and unfriendly over here, so I’ll try to advise you as best I can, though it’s been a while since I’ve been to a London sauna. The sauna scene in London isn’t what it was 10 to 20 years ago: many have closed down, killed by a combination of sky-high rents and the dating app revolution. Same story in cities the world over, I suppose. However, there are still a few worth trying. Perhaps the most central one is Sweatbox in SoHo. It’s just reopened after a complete (and necessary) refurb, so it might be quite good- can’t say for sure, as I haven’t been since it reopened. It tends to attract a somewhat younger crowd than most saunas, and plenty of fit types. Probably busiest late eves (after 11:00pm). Then there’s Pleasuredrome near Waterloo- I think it’s open 24 hours, and often quite busy. It caters to all types: the good, the bad, and the ugly. Unusually for a UK sauna, it has private rooms you can rent. Another one is Chariots in Vauxhall. Personally I dislike it: it has all the atmosphere of DIY warehouse. Seems to attract a younger, more drug oriented crowd. There are several more smaller ones dotted around, not all of them in central locations. I’ve heard good things about the Locker Room in south London, but haven’t been myself. Perhaps someone on here with more recent sauna experience can give you more up-to-date info. But do make sure you visit some of the sex bars and clubs as well- they seem much busier and much more popular than the saunas these days. Don’t miss the Vault (Vault 139), and if you’re happy to go naked, then you should go to SBN on a Sunday afternoon, where you’ll find literally hundreds of guys fucking, most of them bareback. First thing to do when you arrive is go to any gay bar and pick up a copy of the free weekly QX magazine, which will give you listings of what’s on where each night. Hope you have fun!

How about ‘dual deposit scheme’? Guys who want to attend have to put down a significant financial deposit in advance, which they only get back if they actually attend and make a deposit of a different kind?

Hi Dirtydudedub- I haven’t come across any art like that on this site, and do not intend to look to see if there is any.. I’m presuming/hoping the moderators are keeping the site clean of such stuff? As far as I might aware, they seem to be doing a good job... However, as a UK resident, what you say obviously gives me cause for concern. The idea of ending up on the sex offenders register for simply being on this site is alarming. The same goes for any talk of underage sex, obviously. The rules regarding this seem to be quite clear: discussing it in a manner that eroticizes it in any way is quite rightly prohibited. I was wondering if the moderators have any comments that might help clarify this matter further?

For what it’s worth, I entirely agree with LetsPOZBreed. I’ve never come across biting before, and although I’m open to indulging new fetishes, I would want to exercise some control over this one.

Love this thread, haven’t seen it before. So much of what has been said already is spot on. Things that resonate with me in particular are: 1). Inadequate facilities for cleaning out. Here in the UK I don’t think I’ve come across a single sauna which has made any provision for this at all... I mean, I don’t expect ordinary pubs/restaurants to provide these facilities, but a sauna should have all the necessary plumbing. Come on- step up! 2). Guys standing around the cruising areas having a good ol’ natter about God knows what. Particularly upsetting when a hunk you’ve had your eye on as a potential ‘rough top’ reveals himself to be as camp as Christmas. 3). Guys who shamelessly just won’t take no for an answer, and who repeatedly prey on one’s good manners and politeness to try to force one into an unwanted coupling (“I really didn’t want to, but I just thought it was rude to keep saying no 🤷🏻‍♂️“). In defence of the guys standing round who refuse to make eye contact: I used to be one of them! It doesn’t it necessarily means they are arrogant or think themselves better than everyone else: they might just be painfully shy and a bit out of their depth. I would often fail to make eye contact with guys I thought were far too good for me: I was fearful of rejection, or a getting a look of disgust/dismissal from them in return... For some people, I think it can take many visits to the bathhouse to acquire the confidence needed to interact properly with the other guys there, so cut them some slack!

Totally agree with you, NLbear. I pride myself on my cocksucking abilities, but always feel sorry for the guy who’s using my throat during a spit roast session. He’s definitely the one getting the raw end of the deal: I just can’t concentrate properly and give him the attention he deserves, and I know I’m doing a shit job at blowing him. Usually I give up after a while, and just focus 100 percent on the guy in my arse. Unless the guy at the front end is a serious throat fucker- then I really don’t have much choice in the matter I think spit roasts are like many things in life. The idea is better than the reality, so don’t lose a lot of sleep over it, Coastalbender.

Guys, if you don’t like guys glued to their phones at clubs like the Vault, just make sure you go on naked nights (eg. Mon and Thurs)! Phones aren’t allowed, and you have nowhere to put them anyway... But I think you’ve hit the nail on the head. From time to time, I’ve thought about arranging something in a hotel, but when it comes down to it, I just think “Nah, I’ll go to a club instead”. It’s just so easy- you pay your money, strip, and get straight down to it. And when you’ve had enough you leave. Also, now that Prep has become so ubiquitous, most of the action is bb anyway, so there’s really no need to use bbrt to find like-minded guys. There’s always horny action going on at these clubs. I appreciate that it might not be quite the same as a more intimate group at a privately arranged party, but it scratches an itch, and can be extremely horny in its own way. Although I haven’t matched Dawson’s load count yet, I’m getting up there! With literally hundreds of horny naked men crammed together in one venue, it’s perfectly possible, just so long as you’re prepared to ‘put out’, as our American friends say.

Playerking, Airmax: I feel I need to stick up for the cumdumps again... At least the cumdumps are putting themselves out there and trying to organise something (and often paying for a hotel room in the process). It’s not their fault if others can’t be bothered to organise parties: it’s very rare I see a top going out of his way to arrange something. Don’t take us cumdumps for granted: you’d miss us if we weren’t there

Hello Airmax, I’m looking at the party listings on the Greater London bbrt site, and can currently see 16. Granted, none of them look particularly well attended, except one, which is showing 17 attendees. When you are searching parties and selecting the Greater London area, are you leaving the next field (city) blank, or is it showing ‘London’ by default? If the latter is true, then it won’t show any parties where a specific area of London has been included, like ‘Lambeth’, or ‘Camden’...

I always intrigued to hear about the goings-on in ‘legitimate’ saunas across the US: it sounds hot! I’ve NEVER come across anything remotely sexual happening in any such sauna or steam room anywhere in the UK, or even in the changing rooms/showers. I just can’t imagine how it would even get started. It doesn’t help that most saunas like that seem to be mixed. I’m not sure if it’s just me and my prudish ways: I’d be interested to hear from other Brits about their experiences.

Good advice on how to get there from NY, MuscleAss- but still like the idea of taking the train. I love long train trips, and have done part of the route before: it’s very scenic. Apart from anything, I don’t think I could handle US airport immigration twice in one trip lol- hopefully it’s less painful on the train!

Thanks for your replies, guys- some useful tips. I’ll definitely have to check out the dates for any Montreal Cumunion parties in September, and see if I can build a trip around that.

Spoken like a real pro, Tallslenderguy! I can see I’m going to have to work harder if I’m want to take this cumdump thing to the next level!

Hello guys- this one’s for our Canadian brethren, really. I have to visit New York in September for a personal matter, and having spent some time there over the winter, found it a difficult city cumdump-wise... (and I haven’t had much luck since on here either, finding out from native New Yorkers where I went wrong lol 🙁). So, I thought a sneaky little train ride to Montreal for a few nights might be fun, and would be interested to know how cumdump friendly it is. I understand there are some good saunas there? I’ve been to Montreal before, and like it as a city, but that was before I started taking loads, so have no idea how it scores in that front. Any pointers gratefully received...

Last week I took more than 30 loads in my arse. If you’d told me a year ago that that’s where I’d be now, I’d have dismissed it as pure fantasy. Two years ago I hadn’t been fucked at all for over 20 years. My journey from cocksucker to a fully-fledged bb cumdump has been swift. Partly due to Prep, partly due to a change in my personal circumstances, and partly due to a realisation that time is ticking and “If not now, when?”, I have taken steps to make my fantasies come true. I too used to dismiss some of the load counts I’d see on this and other sites as fantasy: “1,500 loads a year? How is that even possible?”. But having taken over 30 last week (and with no superhuman effort- just one sauna visit and two evenings in a sex club), I can see how it is perfectly possible. I have no doubt that many of the stories on here that read like fantasies to some are in fact true. I’m also just as sure that there’s a lot of bullshit. But I’m not so sure that I am in a position to distinguish between the two. One thing I’ve learnt on my journey is that there’s nowt so queer as folk, and only a fool would use his own limited life experience to pass judgement on another’s.

Before I started barebacking, I was just a cocksucker, and for many years, one of my very favourite regulars was an Algerian Arab, with a huge cut cock (obviously). Like many oversized cocks, it wasn’t completely straight and had quite a pronounced twist to it, but somehow that just made it hotter. No-one ever pounded my throat quite the way he did. He was superb. Whether I was on my knees in front of him, or lying on my back with my head over the side of the bed, he used my throat hard, fast and furious, a real piston fuck. He’d mastered verbal too, and really knew how to bring out the whore in me, and make me crave his cock like my life depended on it. Needless to say, his orgasms were intense. He had amazing self-control, but when he finally decided to let go, I could always feel his cock writhing and spurting in my throat, as it pumped his load straight into my stomach: in all those years of sucking him, I never once got to taste his semen lol. Afterwards, we’d both collapse back onto the bed in exhaustion and share a post-coital cigarette as he told me how my throat was better than all the pussies he’d ever fucked, and how I’d ruined any other form of sex for him. I have to agree, it was great sex, and proof in my book at least that good oral can hold its own against anal any day. So yeah- my (limited) experience if Arab men has been very positive!

No-one gets my spunk. EVER!

Good luck, CumdumpIT. I was in NY for a month or so during the winter, and found it very difficult. It seems to me the scene is quite different to the one we’ve become used to in Europe: in the city itself there seem to be very few (if any) of the kind of sex clubs, bars or saunas that we take for granted in London or Berlin. I think things are based more around the hook-up apps and privately arranged parties in hotels, etc., so you might need to invest some time in a bit of pre-planning, and try to arrange some meets in advance, preferably with guys that know their way around over there. I’m not sure you can just turn up spontaneously at a given bar or club on any given night, and expect to take multiple loads. I’d love to hear how you get on in New York. I’d also love to hear from any guys actually based in New York about how the scene works over there and where I went wrong in February. I’m planning another trip in September, so don’t want to make the same mistake twice!

This is it exactly. I have a complicated but effective regime that I just don’t break. If something gets in the way of a particular session on a particular day, then I’ll make it up the next day or the day after that. It’s non-negotiable. If you start finding an excuse to skip one session, then you’ll find an excuse to skip the next, and the next. My motivation is sex. Like RangerRick, I find that at my age, I have to look the best I can if I’m to compete with all the younger cumdumps out there. So far, it’s working, but I can’t take that for granted.