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I’m afraid to me and most Brits of a certain age, the word “pussy” is always going to conjure images of Mrs. Slocombe from ‘Are You Being Served?’. And for those of you unfamiliar with that 1970s sitcom, it’s not an image you want popping up in the throes of passion!
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
Spunkinmyarse replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Went to Hard On again last night, which is a monthly sex club event in London. Only my second time there, but it’s looking like it might become a regular fixture. Competition for bench space can be tough: there aren’t that many padded benches suitable for fucking to start with, and only a handful are in good positions with plenty of passing traffic. Needless to say all the cumdumps know exactly where they are and make a beeline for them on arrival. Anyway, I did alright, and this time I tried really hard to keep track of the loads I took. Reckon I got 13 or 14 in total. Lost count of the actual fucks, but must have been easily double that. Best load of the night was in a sling actually, of which there are half-a-dozen or so. It was getting late, and I’d lost my slot on the fuck bench. Rather than wondering around, I climbed into a vacant sling, more for a rest than anything else: I rarely have much luck in slings. Anyway, this time I was followed by a handsome blond leather jock, who wasted no time slipping his big cock inside me and proceeded to fuck me with great skill. As I’m usually a head-down-arse-up kind of bottom, I rarely get to see the top’s face as he fucks me, and had forgotten what a pleasure it is. I loved seeing the agony and the ecstasy as he pounded away at my arse, the intense focus in his eyes as he approached his orgasm, and then the sheer relief when he finally came. But what I really loved was the broad grin that spread across his face once he’d finished, the grin that says- from one bloke to another- “That was fucking hot, mate, thanks for sharing such an intense moment with me”. Because after all, that’s what it’s all about- two men briefly connecting on an enhanced level of being. I think I need to make more use of the slings in future... -
I work for myself as a landscaper too, DannyBoyCMH, so understand how that line of work presents all kinds of opportunities for outdoor fun. I’ve also made great use of clients’ garages and garden sheds over the years, always with the slight fear that I’m going to get caught out one time. I’m currently working at a golf course where I frequently invite men over and entertain them in the bushes, particularly now the weather is warming up. Only ever oral, though. I’m too hung up about not being cleaned out to venture into outdoor fucking: working outdoors means I have very limited scope to prep myself.
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Anyone planning on going to Hard On tomorrow (20/04)?
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It used to bother me too, DarkroomTaker. But I’ve got used to it, and now I find it quite hot. Our perception of certain words and phrases can change over time, depending on how they are used. I’m just grateful if a top is verbal/communicative enough to call it anything at all!
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I’ll second that. My nipples are very small, and not sensitive in any way, shape or form. I read somewhere that 60 percent of guys have have sexually sensitive nipples, and 40 percent don’t... or it may be the other way round. Either way- it’s not fair! Those of us who don’t are missing out on an entire erogenous zone (or two)! Very envious of those guys that do... Trouble is, it makes me very poor at nipple play, because I just don’t get it. Usually I just forget the nipples altogether during sex (they don’t even register), and when a guy does ask me to play with his nipples, I’m rather half-hearted about it. Kind of like: “blah, blah, blah- can we get back to your cock now?” I know I’m supposed to please my top, but I find nipple play rather boring, and should perhaps stick with tops who share my lack of sensitivity/interest in that area. I wish I could come up with some clever plus side to having small, crappy, functionally useless nipples, but I really can’t. It just sucks. I should imagine that’s why most of the replies to this thread seem to be from guys who do have sensitive nipples: the guys who don’t will just skip it and direct their attention to something they can get excited about.
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Oh, I just put up with it lol. To be honest, there seem to be enough tops to go around, and I usually get my fair share. Of course, I’d rather have them all to myself, but I live in the real world and that’s never going to happen, except in a private gangbang maybe (and I’m always open to offers for that ?). I have to say that in general, I find the ratio of tops to bottoms not nearly as disadvantageous as is often made out on this site. I find it usually pays to get to clubs and parties fairly early. It seems to me that many tops arrive early, shoot and leave. I used to think that hanging around till the end would be a good strategy, but I’ve noticed that by the time the event is drawing to a close, all the tops have gone and you’re just left with the bottoms, exhausted but still horny, all eyeing each other up in vain.
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I have to say, it’s the main reason I don’t like sharing a top with other bottoms. I’m Aries- everything becomes a competition. I’ve had a couple of encounters where a top has deliberately pitted me against another bottom, promising his load to whoever does the better job. I hate that, and although I’ll go along with it because I’m sub, I’ll steer clear of that top in the future. Trouble is, I have to be first, and I have to get the load: the whole encounter is ruined by the idea that I might not get it. I know that’s selfish of me, but I just can’t help it. As it happens, I love hanging out with other bottoms when we’re not in direct competition with each other, eg: the bar area of a sex club. But when it comes to the fuck bench, I want them all to just disappear and leave me as the only hole in the village.
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Oh dear. I’m going to stick my head above the parapet here. I don’t shave. Never have. Hairy all the way- just as nature intended. Actually, I’m just lazy. It seems to me that for every top out there that likes ‘em smooth, there’s one that likes ‘em hairy. So I don’t bother: I don’t think shaving would land me any more cock. But it seems to me from some of the other responses to this topic that a lot of bottoms shave simply because they prefer the look/feel of it themselves. And I’m all for that- it’s as good a reason as any to go to all that effort. But for me- well, I guess it’s just not my thing.
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“Something spiritual”. Love it. It’s not called Cumunion for nothing... I think a lot of us cumdumps may feel there is something spiritual about taking anon cock and multiple loads. It’s hard to put into words because I guess it comes from somewhere deep in our DNA that predates language. But when I’m being fucked by a random stranger, I feel on one level that I’m not communing with just the one individual, but that I’m in some kind of communion with every male on the planet: half of humanity. The individual represents the universal. And so on that basis, it doesn’t really matter what he looks like, because in some way he represents every man that has ever existed. It’s powerful stuff. Not sure if the top feels the same- maybe he’s just getting off. But that’s just fine lol.
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Pig Breeding With Ugly/unattractive Men
Spunkinmyarse replied to SweatyKum's topic in General Discussion
When I first started going to clubs and sex bars, I would find myself wandering round finding all kinds of reasons not to have sex with any of the guys there. I found I was incredibly picky, writing off great looking guys just because they had a slight paunch, or were ‘outside my age range’. But I wouldn’t approach the really attractive guys either, because I didn’t want to get rejected, and if anyone approached me I would refuse them for being too forward (I am English, after all). In the end, I worked out that the only way I would get fucked was if I knelt/lay down on a bench, arse up, face down- and just took whatever came along. I came to the conclusion that as a sub bottom, I’m not made to choose, I’m made to be chosen, and I’m much happier for that. Now I take loads off all cummers- the good, the bad and the ugly- and generally prefer not even to see who’s loading me. And I tell you, it’s fucking marvellous!!! -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
Spunkinmyarse replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Been visiting my parents for a week in the North, and always get horny after a few days’ enforced celibacy. So decided to break my fast on the way home by stopping off in the Midlands at my favourite sauna: the Greenhouse in Darlaston. My god, I’m glad I did. It was Sunday afternoon, so I knew it would be busy. After reading another post on here from cumslut74 about the best place to position oneself, I headed straight for the darkroom downstairs, and got straight down to business. The first guy made a play for my cock, but as soon as I told him I was ‘bottom only’ he told me to turn round and bend over. A nanosecond later he was inside me. His was just the first cock of many. I finally settled on a fuck bench just outside the dark room, head down, arse up, and took whatever came along. Impossible to say precisely how many, as is always the case in these situations. But I’m guessing something like 25-30 cocks, and about 12-15 loads. I reckon about two out of three were bare: suffice to say, it wasn’t long before I was ‘flooded’. Stayed till about 6, at which point the crowds started to thin, and it was time for me to continue on with my journey home. Love that sauna- wish there was one like it in London, but with rents and property prices so high, I just don’t think a sauna of that size is financially feasible in the capital anymore... -
Sadly it’s true. The loads don’t all stay in there, and in a gangbang situation, guys fuck it out of you as fast as they fuck it in. That’s one of the reasons I dislike condoms so much: he’s gonna pull all that cum out of you, and not replace it with anything! Same with guys who just use your hole and don’t cum- grrrrr. But otherwise I agree with most of the other posters on here: there’s just no such thing as too much cum. After a few hours of being fuck in a bar or a club, I might finally get the urge to leave, but that’s never because I’ve had too much cum. It’s just because I’m getting tired and/or hungry. Suddenly the idea of a burger on my way home becomes really appealing, and eventually overwhelms my ongoing desire for cock and cum. After all, there will always be more cock to be had tomorrow or the day after...
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I’ll be sure to bring this up for discussion next time I find myself talking about Brexit lol
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Just go for it! A two hour drive isn’t that long, and definitely worth it if you get loaded! And everything Eros says is right: it’s confidence and attitude that gets the cock, rather than age and looks. I’m always envious of the guys who aren’t afraid to make the first move and go after what they’re looking for. I tend to be rather timid, and wait to be approached... and sometimes that results in a long wait! A lot of younger, better-looking guys than me also fall into that category: you often see them standing there, largely ignored, looking rather lonely. It’s those older, more average guys who walk round the place like they own it that get the best results! Anyway, have fun and tell us all about it when you get back!
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Where are you most successful with barebacking?
Spunkinmyarse replied to DaddyBare's topic in General Discussion
This thread was started in 2012, before the Prep ‘revolution’. I wasn’t doing this back then, and am surprised to hear just how available bb was at that time! Nowadays when I cruise the bars and clubs of London, it’s quite hatd to find a guy who wants to use a condom, but they’re still around. Sometimes I feel a bit sorry for them, as these days it seems perfectly acceptable to refuse a guy who puts on a condom, and they always seems a rather crestfallen when this happens. Whereas when I was young, quite the reverse was true, and there would be general moral outrage if you didn’t use a condom. -
Are you perhaps searching for the ideal cock, which is preventing you from connecting with those you actually come across? It doesn’t sound as though you are shy or find it awkward initiating contact, which would be another reason why you’re finding it hard to get fucked. Sometimes at a club or sauna I can be a bit picky or feel a bit awkward at the beginning: I need that first fuck to get me started, and there’s no stopping me. It sounds like you might be similar. You either need a dominant top to take control and force the issue, or failing that just put yourself in a position (eg: arse up on all fours in a dark corner) where you have no choice but to take that first cock! Anyway, I live in Essex, so am not too far from you. If you’d like to hit the London sex clubs and/or saunas with a ‘wing man’ to look out for you, let me know
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Being felched - Bottoms what do you think
Spunkinmyarse replied to Slut4anyload's topic in General Discussion
I’m afraid I’m with the OP on this one. I hate being felched! As far as I’m concerned, once a top has dropped a load in my backside, that load is MINE! I’ve worked for it. I want to keep it, savour it, and attract other tops with it so they can use it as lube. Nothing worse than a greedy bottom diving in there the moment the top pulls out and stealing all that creamy goodness. I’m like, “Fuck off and get your own cum!” If that makes me selfish, I don’t care: I’m not there to satisfy other bottoms’ needs. The only exception is a felching top. I still don’t like it, but if he’s going to put a load back in, I can’t really complain about him sucking a load out first. -
How To Accept You're A Slut Bottom
Spunkinmyarse replied to bottomingboy's topic in General Discussion
I’m a total bottom slut. I’m good at it and I’m proud of it. I don’t feel any less of a ‘real man’ because I take cock up the arse. It takes guts, strength and stamina to take cock after cock, and allowing men to use your body so they can experience the ultimate in physical pleasure is something you should definitely be proud of. Let go of the cultural baggage that tells you you’re not a real man because you bottom. Own it and be proud of it. You may be wired differently from the dominant men who fuck your, but you have equal value in the world.- 40 replies
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One of the reasons I hardly ever cum, is so that I can stay in some degree of ‘heat’. Normally this is simply a pleasant and manageable degree of horniness, enough to make me visit sites like this and plan my next cock hunt. As most people here have already said, this horniness gradually builds up over time if it’s not satisfied, and occasionally reaches raging levels if circumstances have conspired to deny me access to cock for any length of time (family holidays, etc). But once I’ve cum, it’s a different story. Total disinterest in all things sexual, sometimes for several days. Suddenly the rest of life seems to open up again, with endless opportunities for doing different things. It can be quite refreshing! Doesn’t last for ever, though- and that horniness soon starts to build again...
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Question for the tops on here: when you are fucking a guy, can you always tell if he’s been loaded? As a cumdump, I love taking multiple loads in my arse. I’ve always imagined it must be fairly obvious if a bottom has already taken cum, but don’t know for certain (I’m a total bottom, and have never experienced a fuck ‘from the other side’). For me, sperm is the ideal lubricant, but I’m curious whether tops feel the same way...
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Do you use poppers only when it’s too big?
Spunkinmyarse replied to Japbtm's topic in General Discussion
Love poppers, always have- even in the days when I only sucked cock and never took cock anally. It’s the buzz, and the sex-crazed ‘zone’ that taking a hit puts you in: as some of the other posters have already pointed out, the rest of the world briefly seems to melt away, and it’s just you, him and his cock (mostly just you and his cock tbh), and an overwhelming desire to get him and his load as deep inside you as possible. I have to say that I must have got used to them to some extent, because in recent times, I don’t seem to get the same level of buzz I once did. Although maybe that’s down to a new formula or something: recently someone gave me a hit of a brand called ‘Wings’... and that really did take me back to the good old days. It doesn’t seem to be available in the UK. Anyone know where it might have come from? -
Love it when a top shoots hard and deep but then stays inside for a while, gently pushing his load around with his cock, massaging it into the walls of my arse, forcing it in deeper. Even better if there’s already another load or two in there. So disappointing when a top pulls out he moment he’s cum, unless of course there’s another cock poised to take his place...
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The Cumdump Network - Locations & Phone Numbers
Spunkinmyarse replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Name: faggot, cunt, cumdump Number: 07946-069105 (Whatsapp best) Location: Braintree, Essex, UK Times available: evenings, weekends Times NOT available: normal working hours Age: 47 Height: 5’9” Weight: 75kg Ethnicity: White Fit, muscular cumdump with hot hole ready for filling. Pump and dump welcome. Arrive balls full, leave ball empty.
