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Spunkinmyarse

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  1. I’ve taken some two dozen cocks this afternoon and god knows how many loads, and I can tell you, I feel pretty manly right now!
  2. I think there’s a compromise solution. I’m often out and about prior to visiting a sex club/cruise bar, so can’t go through the full deep cleaning out process. But I can and do use a bulb douche, and will find a public toilet where I can spend 20-30 minutes getting myself pretty clean. Here’s the thing: 9 times out of 10 it works like a dream, and I can get fucked for hours and take multiple loads with no problem at all. But there is that 10th time, where things might get a little messy at some point during the session. Nothing major, but enough to send me back to the bathroom to ‘freshen up’. So it really depends whether you can bear the awkwardness of that 10th time. In an anon setting like a club or bar, most tops either don’t care that much or don’t even notice. In a one-to-one session it might be a bit more embarrassing, but as so many others have pointed out, accidents do happen from time to time, and it’s just best to deal with it as and when. Personally, I think life is too short to spend three hours cleaning out for a five minute fuck. Much as I love fucking and much as I want to be as clean as possible, there are just better things to do with that time.
  3. Welcome, @MuscCumslut! So many questions- where to start?? Although I have hosted anon hookups at home, I’ve never hosted a full-on gangbang (still on my bucket list lol), and take most of my loads semi-anon at sex clubs and cruise bars. In such situations, letting go and allowing any top to breed you is both liberating and empowering: it frees you from the burden of choice, and enables you to fulfil your role as a cumdump serving all of mankind- I thoroughly recommend it! What kind of experience do you have?
  4. Totally agree. It’s simple really: if a ‘top’ wants to see my dick, then we’re not compatible and we’re not going to meet. End of.
  5. We’ve been conditioned, largely by women (I think), to see extended foreplay as the mark of good sex. I’m not so sure. Maybe there’s a time and a place for it, but usually I like to get straight down to business. Oh, and btw, I for one DON’T view sucking as foreplay.
  6. You’re definitely not alone in this- somewhere on this board there’s another long thread entirely devoted to this topic. For me, it’s a rare event: it happened last night, as it happens. I’m beginning to think that it’s all about position. If I’m face down and the top is lying directly on top of me, then I can feel it- and it’s the hottest feeling ever! But doggy-style, I feel nothing.
  7. For me, I reckon there’s two things going on: 1). Liberation. I can be ridiculously picky when it comes to one-to-ones whether arranged through the apps or in real time situations, such as at the sauna. Going anon removes the burden of choice and frees me from myself. It allows me to wallow in sex in a way that I simply couldn’t do if I had to pick and choose my tops. 2). When I get fucked anon in a sex club, the top pounding my arse could be ANYONE, and on some weird level inside my head that means I’m getting fucked by EVERYONE. In a one-to-one situation where I know the guy, I’m simply having sex with an individual, and of course that can be great. But the less I know about the guy topping me, the more it feels like I’m having sex with all men in general, which is amazing! He becomes Mr. Everyman: nobody and everybody at the same time. I know it sounds nuts, but after a good session with multiple anon loads in my arse, I feel like I’ve bonded on a deeper level with all of mankind- and that’s fucking hot!
  8. I take PReP. I’m a cumdump. All I need from a top is his load. I need neither his opinion on the matter nor his validation. Respect yourself, and not the views of others who are poorly qualified to make such a judgement.
  9. So, @Pumpndump, did you get any action last night??
  10. I think this is the main difference between a “party” and an “open-door” hosting session. The former implies that there will be several guys present at once, whereas the latter implies that it’s going to be more a series of one-to-ones over a period of time. Of course there will be some overlap, and it’s always possible (and maybe desirable for some, at least) that guys will run into each other at an open-door session, creating a party-like event. The point is, each situation will attract its own set of tops. Those that enjoy group play will favour the party, whereas those who prefer one-to-one will go for the open-door session. Some will do both.
  11. Although I’ve turned up and been surprised to find one ‘extra’ top, I’ve never been lucky enough to have been surprised with 3 or more. I think my reaction would vary wildly depending on how well I knew the top with whom I had arranged the meet in the first place. If he were a trusted a regular, I reckon I’d be thrilled, and would tear off my pants and spread my legs in a heartbeat. But if I didn’t know him well, or if this was my first meet with him, I would be pretty nervous, perhaps even scared, depending on the ‘vibe’. I still think I might tear off my pants and spread my legs, but there’s a chance I might just scream and run away like the sissy I am lol.
  12. I think the first thing you need to do is find someone you trust to be on hand in case things take an unexpected turn. Although it’s undoubtedly a hot scene, you will be putting yourself in a potentially vulnerable position, and I think you’ll enjoy it more knowing you’ve got back up, just in case. This also opens up an opportunity for someone to film some of the action, so you’ve got a record for posterity
  13. I’ve never seen that, @blackrobe. Which sites? Maybe that’s the way guys like to play in the PNW- could do with more of that here!
  14. I reckon this is something we’d all like to know! My feeling is that they don’t, not in London, anyway. I think this is a case of healthy fantasy mixed with that nagging worry we all get from time to time, namely that there’s a better party going on somewhere else, and we just haven’t been invited lol. Even though I wouldn’t expect to be approached by such a group (stereotypically I’d imagine they’d go for young twinkish or femme bottoms), I still think that between us we would know about the existence of such breeding teams by now. Whether on bbrt, Grindr or other sites (including this one), I think they would leave some kind of trace. I suppose it is possible that they are so on the dl that they don’t- and it would be great if someone on here was to prove me wrong!
  15. Thanks for the tip @Phillymale Am in Montreal as we speak, and have checked out the Gouverneur- currently staying at GI Joes and having a great time taking loads all night, but there is going to come a point when I need a proper bed and some sleep!
  16. Thanks for your reply @Gilmtl. Funnily enough, I was also thinking of just taking a room at GI Joes, at least for the first night. I don’t get in till quite late- doesn’t seem worth paying for a hotel when I was planning to head straight out to a sauna anyway lol. I didn’t realise you could book an overnight room at the saunas- you can’t do that in London...
  17. Can anyone recommend a hotel in the gay village area of Montreal with easy room access for late night encounters, etc? Will be in town from Weds to Saturday this week...
  18. Hello @NWUSHorny- I talked about this very topic earlier today in another thread. I find it similarly frustrating, and it’s the reason I can’t contribute to the Load Tally threads on this site. From my experience as a slut bottom, it’s not feasible to keep an accurate load count in a bathhouse or fuck club situation for exactly the reasons you outline so well in your post. And I’m always slightly suspicious (or maybe just jealous!) of bottoms who claim they can, and are able to give an exact number once the load count exceeds more than a half-a-dozen or so. Sure, if you’re entertaining your partners on a one-to-one basis over the course of an evening, then fine- but if that’s the case you’re unlikely to rack up the kind of eye-watering totals I’ve seen touted around. Such totals would require some serious group action, and in any kind of gangbang situation you’re really not going to have much of a clue who came in you and who didn’t, so keeping an accurate score becomes impossible. It is just about possible to keep track of the number of fucks, but not all fucks translate into loads, and I’m sure when some people talk about load count, what they really mean is fuck count. Until someone invents some kind of arse implant to keeps track of these things, I think best (and realistic) estimates such as yours are the only way forward.
  19. It’s very difficult to keep track when you’ve got your head down and arse up in a busy fuck club, and have been randomly selected as the ‘popular’ bottom that particular evening. Recently at SBN in London I did try to keep count, and clocked some 32 fucks in the course of an afternoon. How many of those were repeat fucks I have no idea- it’s impossible to tell if you’ve got your head down. Similarly it’s impossible to tell how many of those fucks turned into loads- once you’re loose and got cum dripping out of your arse you just can’t always be certain if one individual top has cum or not. But I reckon between about a third and a half of them did, so that would be about a dozen loads. Although that was indeed a busy session, it was by no means record breaking, so I’m estimating my personal best in a 24-hour period lies somewhere north of 40 cocks and 15-20 loads.
  20. Indeed you are, @Londonbear. Sometimes I think true tops just don’t realise how much effort bottoms go to in order to give them a pleasurable experience: the cleaning out, the diet, the pre-loading, etc. Nonetheless, manners are for everyone, including tops, and I’m afraid I’m not one of those subservient bottoms who believes that tops can do no wrong. He’d have to have a very good excuse indeed if he wanted to use my arse again, and I’m not just saying that to be petulant. The fact is, I would just lose interest in him, especially when there are so many other tops around, as you so clearly demonstrated yourself!
  21. A timely post. Just back from the clinic having been treated for what seems to be my annual infection- always happens in August for some reason. Gonorrhoea this time. No big deal- tested, diagnosed and treated all in the same day, just a single shot of antibiotics in the arse. Seems a worthwhile price to pay for all the raw cock and loads I’ve taken since my last infection this time last year. I must have had literally hundreds of men inside me since then, and in some very sleazy situations. I get tested every 3 to 4 months and am always amazed when the results come back clear. It makes me think that either STI’s are much less widespread than the anti-sex propagandists would like us to believe, or else I have just been very lucky. Thoughts, anyone? last
  22. Interesting theory, @RawCunt. It’s usually the dating apps that get blamed for the death of fuck clubs, bathhouses, cruising grounds, etc. But you think it’s the easy availability of free porn. I think there’s a lot of truth in that, and it doesn’t bode well for the future, once VR really starts to kick in. Are we heading for a place where no-one meets in real life at all, and everyone just stays at home fulfilling their fantasies digitally? Makes me glad I’m old lol.
  23. I’m with the previous couple of posters on this: just get yourself on PreP. You don’t say why it’s not an option. If it’s cost, you might want to look again- it’s getting cheaper all the time. Here in the UK you can get generic PreP for something like $0.75 per pill. If you go down the event-based route, that means you could binge on as much raw cock as you like in a 24-hour period for about $3.75 (5 pills): how about that for good value! Of course, there are the other STI’s too- and you’d have to get your head round that. Just remember, they’re all currently treatable, and in my opinion shouldn’t stop you living your life and fulfilling your fantasies.
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