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AlexBBPig

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About AlexBBPig

  • Birthday 05/07/1974

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  • Gender
    Male
  • Location
    Minneapolis
  • HIV Status
    Poz, On Meds
  • Role
    Bottom
  • Looking For
    Fun times

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  • BarebackRT Profile Name
    AlexBBPig
  • Adam4Adam Profile Name
    samsp
  • Recon Profile Name
    AlexBBPig

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  1. I’ll be getting it as soon as possible. Isolation, social distancing and masks all suck.
  2. I looked at a number of insurance policies a few years ago at large ans smaller insurance companies. All of them indicated that they would not insure individuals with HIV. They also required a release of medical records where they would have seen the diagnosis.
  3. You are right - not a crime. They could try to get them for violating their oath of office, but they would not get a conviction.
  4. Not just the family, but every elected official and every political appointee who stood by and said nothing, while he tried to destroy this country. A good start would be the entire cabinet for not pulling the trigger on the 25th Amendment and every Republican Senator who voted to acquit.
  5. I've used Firefox for a while now. DoH does work on the desktop version.
  6. I have not used a condom or allowed a top to use one on me for at least 15 years. I’m very clear about it with potential partners. I’ve lost some really hot potential partners over condom usage, but it’s such a turnoff to me that even the hottest guy wouldn’t be able to get me in the mood with a condom.
  7. It was a little of both. I was having more sex than any other tine in my life. That was the source of great happiness. However, I struggled with an unhealthy relationship, which drove me to compensate with the random sex. For myself, it’s pretty common to have parts of my life that are good and other parts that are not so good.
  8. 1 or 5 as I'm an exhibitionist, but 6 would work as well
  9. Personally, I have no issues with being filmed. I can respect those who don’t want to be filmed. I’ve been in a couple of group situations where one guy really objected to being filmed. The strong objection, caused the guy who asked the question to really try to film without anyone knowing. Some guys take the objection as a challenge.
  10. You really need to be prepared for life as a poz. Being poz might seem liberating, but you can still contract a lot of other STDs while you are out living freely. I’d echo the comments about the costs. If you have insurance most if not all of the costs will be covered. The drug manufacturers have programs to cover the rest if you have insurance. But there’s costs for the routine blood tests, the doctor visits, etc. that aren’t always covered. If you don’t have insurance, you will be in trouble really quickly. My meds are about $100 / day. I couldn’t afford to pay that out of pocket for very long. That’s puts pressure on me to always have a job. Without a job, I have no insurance and no healthcare. Something think about if you want to be in a serious relationship at some point. It’s impossible to get any substantial amount of life insurance if you have HIV. Every insurance company will automatically deny you when they pull your medical records and see that you have HIV. One more thing to consider. Even though meds can suppress your viral load, you still have a compromised immune system. That means that you may be more susceptible to contracting other viruses, and if you do contract something your compromised immune system will have a more difficult time fighting it. I’m not trying to scare you, just give you some things to consider. Most days I don’t really think about having HIV. It hasn’t really impacted my life substantially. I prepared myself for the diagnosis long before I actually heard the words “the test came back positive”. That preparation has helped alot, since knowledge is the best defense for fear.
  11. You will only get manhandled in a darkroom if you allow yourself to be manhandled. Everyone in there is looking for the same thing - sex. If you resist, they will keep searching for someone that wants to have sex with them. They’re not going to waste the time fighting for a partner when there’s many others nearby.
  12. I barebacked for almost five years before I became poz. I wasn’t chasing, so I have no idea how many poz loads I took before I actually became poz. Lots of bathhouse sex during that period, so I have no idea when and who pozzed me.
  13. I’m a poz bottom, but definitely was not a chaser. On the rare occasions that I top, I will only go bareback. So for me, it’s about fairness. If I’m not willing to put on a condom when I top, how can I ask anyone to wear a condom when they top me? I knew when I started barebacking that I would become poz at some point. I accepted that fact long before I actually became poz. I don’t hide my status from anyone, but I don’t feel the need to initiate a discussion beforehand. I assume that anyone who is having sex with strangers has done some research to understand the risks and that they will ask questions if they have concerns. If they ask, I have no problems showing any or all of my test results to potential partners. If they aren’t comfortable, I’m happy to walk away with no hard feelings.
  14. It’s definitely the thickness that creates a challenge for me. I work on stretching all the time so that I can please anything that comes along. The biggest for me was 14 but not real thick - maybe 6 or 7. It was a challenge, but definitely worth the effort. I’ve only had one get away from me, a thick 12 incher. After he nearly made me pass out by thrusting all the way in on the first stroke, I couldn’t get back into the right mindset. I felt like a failure and years later still feel bad.
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