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PozBearWI

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  1. The other strong undercurrent, one that we can celebrate is the trend towards honesty in our relationships. It just ceases to be a relationship when we hide who we are to each other. A lot of the time it is our time IN the relationship that helps us understand ourselves. Now if we make an active choice at the start that we're going to be evolving; the question really becomes whether or not we are curious enough to actually accept our mates evolution? And will our mate choose to accept ours? That resolved tells us whether it is a lifelong relationship or just a step along the way...
  2. .... aaaand then there's the old curmudgeon amongst us (me). Man I hope as we experience life we take it in thoughtfully, and with gratitude. I'm not sure my own cake is quite done yet; but being in my fourth quarter of the hypothetical 100 year life (queue up "100 Years" by "five for fighting"); the batter has risen and a crust is forming. Of course when my cake comes out of the oven I'll have passed away. Such is life. Take it in. With you guys it is a delight to see you're engaged and learning. It won't stop until it stops... We're at that lovely annual time of the year when daylight get's longer. It took me awhile to stop seeking to escape what is; and instead find pleasure in each day. It makes no sense to fret whatever happened yesterday. And truly what ever is going on right now is best taken in, experienced, and understood as best we can. Ducking it cuts us off from learning. You guys rock more than you might know it. Keep it up gentlemen. And Happy New Year.
  3. PozBearWI

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    @Philip well said brother. My background was computers from my late teens on. High school was math/science as well; and to my regret now, history and english was boring. College helped expose me to more; but still much like you; the predictability of math or the exploration of science was still my base. It took time for me to move beyond reading for specific information to reading for pleasure and general information more along the line of how our species works. Writing and learning to express our thoughts in a cogent way takes time and effort. Run on sentences? Done well they don't run off while they run on. 🙂 While this website is, as named, about raw sex; our method of communication is the written word. And that is in part for me what keeps me here on Breeding Zone. It is a text based site; and thus engages other parts of our body beyond our dicks and ass holes.
  4. Philip, thanks for your post (and the sexy avitar on your profile - I have a thing for sexy adams apples). Over the years sex has waxed and waned for me; sometimes being my dominant focus, and other times growing tired of the "same ole, same ole" and focusing on other interests. I think that is good. While sex can be pleasurable, too much of a good thing can be, mmmm, too much. It seems like finding balance in our lives is where we find life fulfilling.
  5. As long as the other guy is poz too, I am comfortable
  6. If I were to set an average, about every three years we have something to treat. I don't fret it though.
  7. @pozbearwi.bsky.social
  8. While the mutation (whether homozygous or heterozygous) is certain beneficial, the procedure used on Mr Brown is quite a serious one. Not something most of us could or would choose to "cure our HIV". It also isn't a guaranteed cure. It is a data point on the road to discovery of potential cures. When he had his bone marrow transplant it wasn't with the intention of curing his HIV. That was a happy albeit unexpected outcome.
  9. @prowling4u yes I think most of us know who; but not how....
  10. I truly did NOT misunderstand @prowling4u. I have the CCR5 delta32 mutation. I am not cured of HIV. My bone marrow is more likely to simply infect a fellow HIV+ guy with my strain after they wiped out his in preparation for bone marrow transplant. Where are you getting your information that this mutation is a cure?
  11. As one with the heterozygous version of this mutation; I have some experience with this. Bonemarrow donor? Seriously, I am poz, they don't want my blood save to test and evaluate. As far as receiving strains; maybe that'll happen, but most likely not. Not worried I am going to become "more poz" than I already am.
  12. Simply, just be who we actually are....
  13. Just recovering from such an infection. Not fun even a little.
  14. I've been somewhat out of the play scene for about a year since I seroconverted. But we were at a group sex party and my mate encouraged me to join the fun while he waited for our late comer (frustrating, there is often the one guy who doesn't give a crap that someone is waiting to check him in before they themselves can join the party). I did exactly that and really enjoyed a few hours of playtime. His comment at the end was "it was nice to see you play again".
  15. I built my sling frame to be compact, portable, sturdy, beautiful. Built to hold a six point sling, which for me is a game changer as the mid back support is excellent and long term comfort makes it a clear winner. As far as sling sex? I agree it is hard to beat. It's purpose is obviously for fucking. Specifically butt fucking.
  16. My online profiles are all up to date. And indeed since testing poz a hell of a lot has changed. Regular play buds have evaporated. No regrets though. If they run at reading I doubt a face to face conversation will help.
  17. I would add being poz and not on meds has its inconvenience as well.
  18. An excellent start, hope for more.
  19. @topblkmale I suspect many are responding about their first fuck more than understanding what "rape" actually is.
  20. To the OP's question here; Should we be worried or do anything about this... I'll throw in my experience from having lived the gay revolution from 1969 to now. It makes no sense to fret about words. They are words and as we can easily observe, the definitions and intent of them morph. It isn't so much what anyone says to or about us. For openers, I submit it is better they be saying something than be silent. Wouldn't it be better to actually talk about it with the individual speaking and perhaps, discover what they actually mean than for us to assume we understand their intent by one word? I think in most domains this might be our modern social media problem; we have opinions before we have understanding.
  21. @lancguy14 man an EXCELLENT job brother. I sense there is more to come but we're already three loads in... 🙂
  22. The other thing that started a couple weeks back are phone calls from a friendly sounding lady telling me about my back taxes.... Had I owed back taxes I would of course have already known from a letter from the IRS. Each call gets noted as a spam call blocking further calls from that number. But sure as shit a few hours or a day later the exact same voice is calling me about my purportedly back taxes from a different number. So far in the last month there have been at least 50 of these....
  23. I've experienced that as well @ellentonboy. But I hadn't previously blocked the idiot. My suite of security software was ahead of it for me. I wouldn't even have known except I periodically go in and empty spam, and scroll through the list to make sure there are no unintentional items in spam. Note though, just because it appears to be "from" a known person, there is a reason my software put it in spam. So I use care to see whether that really came from my buddy Ron; or someone pretending to be him.
  24. I don't understand the motivation to keep secrets from someone we supposedly love, respect and care for. Yeah lots of people do; but that doesn't make it a good thing.
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