As I said in my earlier reply, I was told 'sexy comes in all shapes, sizes, colors and ages' but the same can be said for jerks. In various other threads, I've talked about my dear friend with benefits, a sweet, sexy black man but I feel the need to elaborate. We chatted online for a few weeks until we finally agreed to meet. Our first kiss lasted 10 minutes and it was more passionate than any kiss I'd ever experienced. That passion extended to the bedroom. (I need to provide some background which will become pertinent later. At the time, I was still with the man who would become my ex, a sexual racist, he had friends of all races, but only had sex with white men and only if they were circumcised. That should have been a red flag, but I digress. We were both too slutty for monogamy, so we entered into an open relationship, never playing as a couple and never in our own bed. As the years went by, I evolved and embraced my piggy/kinky side while he remained 100% vanilla. I'd return from playing, smelling of cum, piss and ass. He'd complain and I told him if he didn't like it, he could sleep on the sofa. Our sex life dwindled and in our 8th year it stopped altogether and he was just a body in bed.) This was when I met the sweet, sexy black man. After our first time, we progressed to fuckbuds and eventually friends with benefits, meeting regularly and establishing a deep emotional connection. In my 10th year with the ex, he did something that betrayed my trust. Not a violent man, I yelled at him and suggested he visit his parents for the weekend. Once he'd left, I knew it was over. I called my sweet, sexy friend and just giving him a general idea of the breakup, he said he was free, so I told him to pack a bag and I'd be driving him to my place for the weekend. We spent the entire weekend fucking the stench of my ex out of the bed and sleeping with him brought us even closer, only leaving our bed for meals and dumps. Circumstances never aligned for it, but I truly believe we could've become lovers.