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First, loads off previous Cocks. Second, plenty of saliva. Third, "pre-cum", aka Cock-drool.
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When, in the places men cruise/fuck, some guy displays political clothing, regalia, of some persuasion or another, then it is that guy who has included his mental capacities into the "mating dance". Most of us don't do that, since we're interested in matters of the flesh, not matters of the mind. Given the numbers, years, I am certain that I have fucked many men whom I would disagree with on other matters. The point is, we're not fucking each other's political perceptions, we're fucking their Holes. It's only when others purposefully display their political persuasions, un-invited to do so - and thus intentionally force that view into the "Breeding-Equation", that we ourselves are also faced with decisions irrelevant to fucking the guy. Most of us - including you, given your obvious intelligence - have "standards" in all manner of aspects in our lives. Those non-related-to-sex standards are to be left at home, not carried with us to the fuckjoints. They are irrelevant to sexual interaction. When political views (or any other, for that matter) are forced upon us (as in the original post), any man with a brain will react one way or another. It is wholly inappropriate to introduce extraneous issues into sating our Lusts, since any man of any political view can be burning hot or repellently cold. That quotient exists in the mind, alongside other perceptions such as political ones, and should stay there when the owner of that mind is cruising for sex. Thank you.
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I agree. It's as though in some guys minds, there's nothing else to a man of color but his Cock/Hole. And that's the real tragedy - if we don't want to be objectified, the we should know better than to do it to others.
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Well, I don't know about other parts of the country, but around here, there isn't any accepted/not accepted etiquette, other than the usual base-line. Prepped Hole, all of that. I think you should do/behave in whatever way makes you feel best - At Cumunion, (3rd Sat of the month) guys just wander around, stop for some action, continue to make the circuit, jump into a pile, peel off to one of the rooms, whatever. All that's really needed is to project confidence in yourself, your Lust, your commitment to your calling. Don't feel embarrassed to let your inner Pig shine. Men like me need men like you.
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While not a deal-breaker, I much prefer HAIRY to smooth, and the more the merrier. It looks better, it feels better, it tastes better. I suppose we all like that which we aren't.
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From what I've read in your reports, I think this man is heavily conflicted about a number of issues, and whether you can help or harm is - as I understand your reports - an open question. One thing I doubt though, is you're the first guy he's ever fantasized about, or felt an attraction to. You may well be the first that he's found so attractive that he's actually devoting some intellectual/emotional attention to his own issues. That said, only he can actually do that. Perhaps you can help in some way, but when it comes down to brass tacks, it's only he himself that can make potentially life-altering decisions. Maybe you should consider backing off a bit - maintaining non-personal contact - i.e. texts, whatever, and when he asks you why you seem to be backing off, tell him in as kind a way as you're able. We still haven't heard how you deal with your own current relationship regarding "outside" sex, and that would impact him, however indirectly. You've referred a number of times to this man's professional accomplishments, his apparent financial stability, etc. These seem to be ancillary to your main focus, as I understand it. It would be helpful if you took some time and outlined what your goals are regarding this man. I mean, list them. Write them down. 1st goal, 2nd goal, 3rd, etc. Discard all the projections onto him, and concentrate only on your goals. This would be most helpful. Best wishes ...
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Nothing is better than Sperm off previous Cocks already soaking the Hole. If there aren't any yet, then spit is next-best. Obviously, some guy has to be first-of-the-night to Breed the Hole. I'd just prefer it isn't me, but if it is, so be it.
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Thanks for the tips, skinster. I did so the drive-down to KW once, and that was more than enough. Another time, caught a tiny "commuter" plane, where you climb up this little ladder in the tail of the plane to find a seat. Turned out that when it was time to take off, the pilot pulled aside that dirty rag pretending to be a divider between the cabin and the cockpit, looked around, and made a fat lady change seats, since she wasn't sitting directly over the wings. That was the last time I did that !!! Once they built that big hotel at the end of Duval St, things started to go down hill in my mind, but I did have a lot of diiiiiiirty fun whenever we went.
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Congrats, bud !!! We'll all be waiting for you in a couple of months !!! And don't forget that the Cumunion parties are held at Clubhouse II over on Oakland Park Blvd once a month.
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Beautifully put. Of all the sexual Lusts that exist to be enjoyed, this - and permutations of it - are some of my very best memories of my life-partner. It drove me absolutely nuts with Lust watching him suck off Cocks, take loads up that beautiful ass ... I was so damn proud of him - such a sweet, beautiful man - and I miss him every day. Sometimes in the backrooms I pretend he's there with me - think to myself "hey, babe - how about that hot Cock? You'd love it up your sweet Hole" - all kinds of fun stuff. I know he would have loved this site.
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What sort of guys did you hookup with before you turned 18?
hntnhole replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
None. All it consisted of was sneaking out of the H.S. gym through an unused door, standing around talking about which girls put out, which girls we'd fucked, blah blah blah, smoking cigarettes, pretending we were all sooooo cool, so worldly. At that time, only fucked girls (wellllll, I didn't know any better .... gimme a break ....). Too full of the O.R*. garbage, cultural bs, and just learning to question / challenge those disgustments. I didn't have sex with another guy until I went away to school, and then it was off to the races .... *Organized Religion -
In the places I go, I haven't even seen a condom in ages ... R.i.L.
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Thanks so much for the reply, Leather69 Turns out that there just may be an extenuating situation that would set off the alarms, other than just the CockSteel. I had no idea of that possiblity. Given that these incidents happened years ago, it may well be the cause. Many thanks !!!
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??? Do you mean there's some other way to fuck ??? 😈
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It's not easy to explain, but there are occasions when I'll allow a guy to fuck me. The prerequisites though, are what I call a serious "connection" to the man, which happens rather scarcely. I don't like getting fucked, but if the guy really wants to, and the ineffable "connection" is there, well .... ok, and don't dawdle. I can't imagine any guy wanting to Breed in my ass anyway - there are millions of far-better asses out there than mine. It's entirely dependent on the "connection".
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Friday & Saturday nights are a good bet .... just slurpin ...errrr ... I mean just sayin ...
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Your thoughts are well put, and deserve the poster's serious consideration. What was perhaps overlooked, is substituting the term "concern" for the word "fault". Of course the poster is concerned about the family issue - who wouldn't be? But it's not his fault that the professor is apparently drawn to him. As previously mentioned, serious introspection is in order here, on a range of issues. It's not any man's "fault" if some other men is drawn to him, only subsequent actions (by either party) can be faulted. I agree that there are a number of perils attached to this young man's dilemma, but I don't feel I'm in a position to judge his decisions. That's for him to sift through, and he's been encouraged to do that. The poster is not able to decide for the professor, only the professor can do that. After experiencing 30+ years of a truly wonderful, loving relationship with another man, I know how transformative it can be in anyone's life. The only encouragement this poster has received, is to consider his actions very carefully. The replies have reflected information that was subsequently added by the poster, which can alter what he gets in return from us. None of us knows his situation more deeply than what information he has provided, and the contrivance of devils / angel on his shoulders is unfortunate. Never the less, thanks for your excellent input. It's always appreciated.
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PUBLIC Forum and personal information (ICYMI)
hntnhole replied to viking8x6's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
So this begs another question: are the private messages available to the bots? Or are they actually private ..... who (or what), other than the moderators, can access them? -
How did you guys get away with it? Did you cover the steel with something non-ferrous while catching your plane?
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This reminds me of one of my buddies from a few years ago. He was the "baby" of the family, with 4 older sisters. Time and time and time again, he'd get a new bf, and then turn into one of his sisters !!! I had met 3 of these sisters, and it was painfully obvious that he learned how to be in a relationship from watching his sisters deal with their various boyfriends. Nine out of ten gay men will put up with that crap for about one minute !!! I tried to explain it - help him - but every damn time he reverted to acting like the 5th youngest sister.
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Ok. New rule. No more of this "it's my fault" that he might cheat on his wife. That's not your issue, it's his. Since you have a bf whom you're apparently not cheating on, and since you wouldn't like being cheated on, only you can answer if it's too much to ask that the man "make room for you". It seems the closeness you and he have developed (lots of texts, meeting up for lunch, spending time together) is not sufficient for either of you. Therefore, what will be sufficient? Either "cheating" is ok, or it isn't* - across the board - and only according to how you choose to live your life. Your first sentence above is important. You don't want him to feel badly, you don't want to feel badly, and that's understandable. I think figuring out exactly, precisely what you mean by "make room" for you needs some thoughtful reflection. Above, you ask "why am I doing this ...". Answer yourself, and be truthful with yourself. Take your time to figure it out. What does "make some time for me" really mean? How will it impact your current relationship? There's an old saying I've found helpful in many different areas of concern: If X is true, then why is it true. One last thing: If you think there is corruption in your country, quadruple that when you consider corruption in other countries. But that's a whole 'nother kettle of fish, as the old saying goes. Best wishes .... *I know some men find the act of "cheating" enticing, exciting, and almost a fetish. It's not for anyone to judge anyone else on their sexual proclivities, and if the notion is a sexual thrill for you, then it just is; accept that part of you and move forward.
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Confessions of a Blindfolded BTM
hntnhole replied to KylerIsTrash's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
Well, thanks for the most interesting replie(s). I've read subsequent responses, and must admit I am simply not familiar with these (obviously sincere) observances. I try to keep an open mind, but in my experience, a cumdump in a sling only draws longer lines. There is one exception, that being when one bottom who, for various reasons, is not likely to gather much attention (I'm being as polite as possible here), and just lies in said sling preventing any other guy from taking advantage of it. That's peculiar to the tubs, fuckclubs, of course. This is one of the reasons I like BZ so much - so many ways of considering any give situation that can be completely new to me. The only possible answer that comes to mind is, a Top may be somewhat intimidated not by the equipment, but by the clear demonstration that the bottom is a cumdump - gladly accepting any/all loads up his Hole. I would put that down to a Top uncomfortable in his own skin, not confident in his Lusts, maybe even still carrying cultural baggage not yet tossed on the garbage heap. So. Next time I see a bottom lying unattended in a sling for more than 10, 15 minutes, I'll make it a point to step up and do my duty - even if he's not quite the slutcandy I generally gravitate to. Thanks for all the replies. -
As usual, our Tall Slim Gentleboy out West has some excellent suggestions. I think you're a bit ahead of your Professor/cum/friend in understanding, perceptions, and I applaud your concern re seeming too pressing. This man - from what I've read - is clearly attracted to you, and it is anything but clear in his own mind. He's made decisions he may be questioning, he may be going through a bit of a catharsis, and literally afraid to show his hand for fear of your interest waning. The fact that you're "just a physician" ("just"? That's a wonderful thing !!) and he's head of some other department is not really germane to the issue. What is germane, is that two men, perhaps burdened with some measure of hesitation, are attracted to each other in a substantial way. The age-difference is - in a rather small way, I think - potentially germane, but not crucial to the issue at hand. What is the crux of the issue, as I understand it, is that two men feel a deep connection on an emotional level, perhaps even deeper, and both are trying their best to encourage growth and acceptance within themselves and each other, without causing hurt to the other. It sounds like there's the kind of "connection" developing, that I often reference as one of the most beautiful events two men can experience together. Give him time. Continue to be as supportive, patient, generous-of-heart as you can possibly be. From what I've absorbed in this thread so far, you may be one of the luckier men around. I think this complexity will begin to unravel, and in your favor, in the coming weeks. As the old saying goes: Rome wasn't built in a day, and it took a thousand years for Rome to fall. Kindness, gentleness will most likely pay off enormous dividends, if neither of you allows the other to feel awkward, pressed too hard, all of that. Good luck !!!
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Confessions of a Blindfolded BTM
hntnhole replied to KylerIsTrash's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
Allow me to disagree? #1. No Top I've ever fucked bottoms with is anywhere close to intimidated by the simple mechanics of a sling. #2. Why would a Top be "worried" about anything? All he cares is that your Hole is hot, and he's rutting in it. I doubt a Top would give a rats ass whether you (or anyone else) saw him or didn't see him. #3. That can happen, of course, in which case the Top will ameliorate the positioning without giving it another thought. Usually, the Top will notice variations in stature, etc, and get the equipment in it's most useful state before the scene even starts. To the rest, that is completely unfamiliar to me. Standing is the "default" position of fucking in a backroom, fuckjoint, etc. Thanks for your input. -
Yes, I do know, and yes, they will. This will present you with a delicious opportunity when the security folks come to feel you up. Once, I started to unbutton the jeans as I asked them if they wanted to see for themselves .... one of them certainly did, and two of them definitely did not !!! This was at O'Hare, tons of people everywhere, and even the passers-by enjoyed the spectacle. The security people stopped me before I could get it out - but it was fun anyway.
