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  1. I think I recall that this is your first IML? In any event, enjoy every minute of it - your special creation will indeed be an eyecatcher. Best wishes for a most memorable event !!!
  2. Absolutely. Why would something as tiny-in-importance as a racial component make one piss's worth of difference? The only thing that counts in my book, is compatibility, the potential for a deep spiritual/emotional/mutual respect/sexual kinship. I'm not in the market for that kind of relationship, since I'm not sure I wouldn't unconsciously compare it to what I shared with my life-partner, and that would be the very last thing from fair. Even in the fuckjoints, I'd rather conjoin with men that don't look like me. That's not to say I don't/won't fuck white guys; that wouldn't be fair either. It's just that RBOC make my Cock harder quicker. Anyone figure out what RBOC means yet? 😉 I think I invented a new one?
  3. As always, thanks for the scientific back-up, fskn. You've probably forgotten more than some us will ever know about the medical aspects particular to our lives. That said, now go Breed some hot young thing ...... (and since you probably already have this morning, do it again)
  4. There are. And they're wonderful. Far smaller ships, navigating famous, colorful rivers like the Rhine, other's. While they're aimed at the "carriage-trade", and not advertised in major media as "sexual" in any way, these cruises do attract some of the older gay clientele. It's entirely common to berth in front of some ancient castle, get bussed up to the place for lunch, a tour, all of that. One would probably need an appreciation for the historical import, and in that regard they can be a wonderful experience. Probably not the preferred way to enjoy a "Fuck-cation", but most enriching for the other aspects of life one might appreciate.
  5. Only home-made stuff. Years ago I had a fb who would come over, set up these little cameras around, and broadcast lovely carryings-on to (apparently) the surrounding x number of blocks. Then, his phone would start buzzing, and there would be guys wanting to come over. I don't know what site he was broadcasting to, or how it all worked, but it was kinda fun.
  6. Just look up Atlantis cruises on the googler ... there may be other lines that have "all gay" cruises too - I don't know for sure though. And, when those cruises are within a few days of setting sail, the town of departure is loaded (ptp*) with eager, horned-up guys just stompin-ready to get started. And you know ....... It's all about Cock/Hole/Sperm *pardon-the-pun
  7. Do they still have that "divider" of old tires hanging up back there?
  8. Neither do I. There were apparently a number of things he fell short on, not you. If he can handle using the apps, he should know the basics about getting fucked too.
  9. It may be that the looped red ribbon has become over-used through the years ... let's come up with something a bit more <<<polite cough>>> blunt 😈
  10. Of course you may ask .... As executor, I found those documents in the lockbox at my folk's bank after both had passed. They had never shared any of that information with me or my sister (I mean, information on her biological parents). So, it wasn't until a few years ago that I had any idea there was information to be had. I will say that our parents were 100% honest with us as kids, never hiding the facts from us. They just neglected to share any information that might lead either of us to make the attempt. I don't blame them at all. We had a great childhood, all of that, and I loved my parents as much as any kid could. By then, I thought it over for some time, and finally arrived at why do it? My life was well established, theirs was too, so what would be gained by upsetting that applecart. I know I have siblings, at least one brother, (maybe two) and at least 2 sisters (maybe 3). These were conceived after the birthparents grew up a bit, married, and had more kids. Since it was a Lutheran placement service - in Sweden - where they presumably grew up and now live - I thought it may well prove a more negative than positive thing. This may sound odd, but ..... the only thing I would have liked was if the younger brother would have been gay too, and I'd have had a "little brother" to .... well ..... get started on, if you receive my meaning. Other than that, far too much water had passed under the dam, to my view. I'm not at all bothered by any of it.
  11. All of the above may be helpful (assuming a lot of guys even know what some of those flags / pins mean), but the best way to attract the notice of other gay men is how you project your "presence". Look a prospect in the eye, hold his gaze a moment, and give him a hint of a smile. Not a big fat smile, just a hint. Break the gaze and do something else, and glance at him again while you're doing whatever - pinching tomato's at the grocery store, pretending to search for a product of some kind on the shelves, whatever. If the guy nods back, or even smiles back, walk up to him with a confident step, and talk to him. Don't be overbearing (at least not at first). Project that which you would respond to in someone else. All the doo-dads are ok, I guess, but nothing will be more productive than self-confidence. Make sure it's a friendly face, with a bit of a smile he sees. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, as the old saying goes. Good luck, bud !!
  12. There are a number of gay cruises on ships out of Ft. Lauderdale & Miami. As far as I know, they're still running. I don't know anything about them other than hearsay, since I've never taken one. I do hear that any kind of food-born illnesses can spread like wildfire though, and during covid, the cruises were either stopped or diverted from this area. Never heard of a specifically bareback cruise though. Even during the height of the covid scare, guys would fuck with N95 masks on, but I never ever saw a rubber ...
  13. Since you're presumably discussing biological families, I'll never know. We were adopted kids, but when my folks passed, I did find some documentation in their lockbox at the bank relating to the birth parents. Apparently, I was a "love-child" of two horny teenagers who later on got married and raised a family. I'll never know if any biological siblings turned out to be sluts - or even gay. That fact did make it easier for my adoptive family, since all the relatives knew that I wasn't actually "their" blood. Frankly, I'm just as happy knowing I'm not of their blood too. I never hear from any of them anymore, which is fine with me. Life is what we - as separate, individuals - make it. So far, I haven't wasted much of mine.
  14. I don't know how to do that. It was the opening subject on John King's noon broadcast (EST) on CNN yesterday. Maybe the people who make the links at the CDC hadn't done it yet? A little later, one of the talking heads specifically mentioned Ft. Lauderdale/Miami.
  15. In the places I like to Breed, almost everyone's a <polite cough> slut. Tops, bottoms, and in-betweens. But that's what makes it fun and worthwhile to go there.
  16. Thanks for the kind words, quackquack. I haven't read fiction for ages, and have never bothered to try writing it. The truth is often sordid enough !!! Per Javier though, I haven't heard from him. I suspect that the bf either deleted my # from Javier's phone, or cowed the young man into doing what the bf told him to. I have no idea of other circumstances - i.e. financial arrangements, housing arrangements, all of that - so maybe I'll hear from him - maybe I'll run into him again at the bar - who knows. If I do, I'll mention it. Thanks again !!
  17. About 30 minutes ago, the CDC released a statement advising that the LGBT+ Community is at greatest risk of contracting monkey pox. Apparently, someone can be infections before the actual pustules develop, which will eventually form "crusts", at which time the individual is no longer contagious. Also apparently, there are relatively minor symptoms (similar to the common cold) before any of the pox form on the skin. By all means, guys - check out the information on the CDC website for yourselves.
  18. I agree. He's no doubt faced quite a number of bottoms that take a look and wonder how the fuck they're gonna take it. Since you're already friends, I'm sure he'll soothe your concerns with whatever it is you need, and you can be damn proud of yourself when he's finished. Good advice from the previous responders too.
  19. Get in contact from some of the guys from Berlin .... they're experts at this kind of scene !!!
  20. I get the competitive thing - but what is the part about "being the best baby-daddy"?
  21. When I saw this post, I sniffed around a bit too. In my area, both were heavily dependent on public parks/spaces, most of which I'd never heard of because I never go to them. There were some of the infamous local bars/fuckclubs, which I already know about. I don't imagine I'll bother with either of these. It makes me wonder who's behind these. In the fuckjoints, either they're there to fuck or get fucked, with none of the potential risk of arrest. I know some guys find that risk exciting somehow, but I've never been arrested for fucking in public, and I reckon I'll keep it that way.
  22. ^ is simply a different, and very well conceived way of saying the same thing I've gone on about - calling it "the connection" achieved occasionally. It's very real, and every guy can participate if he opens his mind to it. Somebody in Germany ROCKS !!!
  23. Well, why not get the various inoculations, get on PReP, and protect yourself as best you can? Sure, some bugs will find their way to you, and those are mostly treatable. Might as well stay as healthy as you can, and still be the man you were born to be.
  24. Thanks, BlackDude for this reply. The more I read, the more deeply I understand. One thing I don't understand though, is why would some Black men ........ would want to place themselves in the situation where the old ways are reinforced? Why would any Black man put up with the racist crap, let alone seek it out? Why would any Black man put up with the same old racist garbage? While I don't endorse the perverse notion of White Privilege, I can at least comprehend how desperately some white folks are clinging to it so desperately. For many, there's not much else to them in the first place. To be blunt, there are far too many white men that don't deserve any honor at all in this context, and think that merely an accident of their birth constitutes Privilege. The tragedy in Minneapolis served to awaken millions of clueless Caucasians to the perversion of humanity we call racism. That is, at least, the thinnest of silver (no, not even silver - how about tin) linings to that truly evil event. If these Black men are looking for validation, looking to centuries of oppression by white men would be - I would think - be the very last place they'd look. Validation from their oppressors? I just don't get that part. They should look to the gargantuan amount of perseverance their own ancestors created and have maintained, handed down through generations.
  25. LOL ..... lets let our Boots get together and have a little chat together, take notes, then tell it ALL !!!!
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