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Tops becoming always more agressive and rough
hntnhole replied to IntoBBvisitor's topic in General Discussion
Agreed. But, there are measures to be taken to remove the source of the ever-increasing meanness. One substantial measure comes up in just a few months ....... -
Tops becoming always more agressive and rough
hntnhole replied to IntoBBvisitor's topic in General Discussion
I've noticed that the line between aggression and Dominant skill in Tops has become more blurred as well. For my money, there are too many men that enjoy Topping, but simply haven't learned their craft, and too many bottoms that will accept that deficiency. I blame - at least partially - or dependance on the ether to communicate, rather than in-person cruising (which can give each guy the opportunity to at least get some kind of idea what type of man the other is). While compu-cruising, or the fuckapps is easy, convenient, all of that, it's no match for in-the-flesh meeting, and a brief exchange can go miles farther than trying to get a feel for a guy via the electronic means. That way, there's no hiding behind some make-believe persona some guy has cooked up (or worse, convinced himself he's actually become the imaginary guy). Sometimes, "convenience" isn't all it's cracked up to be. -
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First, welcome, DanMac - we're glad you've joined up. To the quote above: That may be the case, but bear in mind that 1 in 12 males have some version of color vision deficiency, so depending on color(s) may not be all that reliable. For instance, I'm red/green, and had to learn to look for which light on a traffic light was actually lit up, rather than what color it was. I could always see the yellow one though. And, I can't recall seeing polka dots at all - regardless of preferred sexual depravity or position. Maybe it's a special "Aussie" thing? Most things about Aussie's are rather special anyway .....
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
hntnhole replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Same fuckjoint as usual .... so far, it's never been a disappointment 😉 -
Outercourse Another New Term For Non-penetrative Sex
hntnhole replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Do you mean that guys carry different colored glow sticks to indicate what they're prowling for? I hope things haven't sunk to that - please please please say NO ..... -
I can't remember being asked at all. Not sure why; I think I look like any other guy in the fuckjoints - even back in Chgo I don't recall being asked, and around here, I'd be stunned if a guy would ask. It wouldn't surprise me if there were more poz guys than not at Slammer.
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Outercourse Another New Term For Non-penetrative Sex
hntnhole replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Best wishes for a fan-fuckin-tastic time in PS. I'll go out to the (very private) back yard and perform the Ancient Rtualized Breeding Dance to hopefully help bring you good fuckluck !!! That dance can be dangerous though - just don't slip in all the loads it might bring you 😇 -
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Interesting point: If you're referencing some hiring practice instituted by some governmental entity, I rather doubt that many entrepreneurs would do that (at least in the world of "small business"). Implicit in the quoted statement is a perception (on the part of the would-be employer) that an "underrepresented condition" equals an under-qualified potential employee. That may be the case, in about the same measure as it might exist in the general population, which demonstrates that inclination to be invalid. Talent can does exist across the spectrum of candidates, and despite perceived lack of professional training. I rather doubt that a small business owner (or, large one, for that matter) would employ a less-than qualified person solely for the reason of cultural identity. Talent, ability to do the job, references to that effect, would all trump (and do pardon the usage) any affinity or inclination to hire someone solely because of an underrepresented quality they may possess. I don't believe any business other than a huge conglomerate (with the financial ability to employ under-talented folks for reasons other than their business-model would dictate). It's not at all difficult to employ persons of ability, regardless of ethnicity, which is why the governmental suggestions in this area of concern are not difficult to satisfy - at all. "Underrepresentation" does not equate with inability to do the job, (with the caveat of assuming equal educational opportunities in the pool of potential employees).
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What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for
hntnhole replied to Spider54's topic in General Discussion
Could have been, I suppose. For me though, the "challenge" has to be unmistakable - not a vague, kinda-sorta, wishy-washy comment. The kind of "challenge" that makes a cock even harder ... -
Welcome, new guys - we hope to hear from each of you in the various "threads" (conversations).
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Outercourse Another New Term For Non-penetrative Sex
hntnhole replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Well. Thanks for that explanation. Apparently, at least there is some measure of allowance in certain joints, at certain times, for guys to actually fuck. I can understand the position of management of these places; business is business, and they need to provide space for whatever their customers need (within the usuals, of course). I just hope that whatever's in the water out there doesn't migrate to the water here ....... -
My apologies - sometimes I don't have a chance to get to BZ for a day or two .... What I meant is a reference to the amount of melanin in the skin. Caucasians have rather little, particularly compared to descendants of immigrants (or, as pointed out prior) the actual Native Americans. If we accept that differing groups of immigrants (to this continent) tend to "stick together" in areas of the continent that most resemble their land of origin, we are able to understand that those folks are actually attempting to duplicate the climate where they immigrated from - thus making their new home feel more "homelike". For example, the Northern States are mostly populated with folks from (or descended from) Northern Europeans. By the same token, more southern areas of the US generally became home to those immigrants from areas closer to the equator, thus simulating what they're most familiar with. The entire point would be that unless one has Native American blood in one's veins, everyone of any racial group is an immigrant, or the descendant of immigrants. In other words, barring Native American ancestry, we're all immigrants, or the descendants of immigrants, and none of us are any better or worse than any others based merely on bloodlines. As it happens, I'm a first generation immigrant; both my parents came from a European nation, and I'm not one bit different from every other emigree of any generation. Again, apologies for the delay, and thanks for the question. I hope I managed to make that more clear.
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Outercourse Another New Term For Non-penetrative Sex
hntnhole replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
NWUSHorny, I'm so sorry it's come to this state of affairs in your area. I wonder how it happened .... What, exactly, defines "a Spa" in your area? Sounds kinda like what we called the baths/tubs. (I mean, where guys went to actually fuck) ... is there any difference ? -
What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for
hntnhole replied to Spider54's topic in General Discussion
Years ago, but I still remember .... three words: "it's too thick". I know it's on the thick side, but never (other than that time) has it been "too thick" for a hungry hole to gobble up. -
One of my chief irritations. Mostly the latter ... I simply won't accept that. Seldom experience this, but rather able to deal with it if/when ....
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I wonder if your husband is the issue; Carnival in Rio is infamous for wide-open sexual expression. Is it possible that he's behind the non-action? We went (it was years ago now) once, and it was as though every tubs/bookstore/fuckjoint in the Northern Hemisphere had temporarily relocated to Rio. Brazil is loaded with stunningly beautiful men, and surely they're fucking each other someplace ...
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Outercourse Another New Term For Non-penetrative Sex
hntnhole replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I wonder if I'd bother to even go to those places again .... How about this: invent some drrrrrrty-sounding name for a new club/organization for gay men that actually need to fukkin breed, and find a place to hold the event. Be sure to mention that NO bullshit will be acceptable; only guys who actually want to fuck/take loads are invited, and work with what actually does turn up. I would think that a local fuckjoint, or someone wanting to crank up the action at an existing one would be interested in co-sponsoring. Spell out clearly that this event is for actually having sex, not coming up with new and tiresome ways to not actually fuck. -
at the very least ... frankly, Bokkierob must be a more gracious man than many.
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Outercourse Another New Term For Non-penetrative Sex
hntnhole replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
In my case, yes - and in his case, a suck. He loved sucking off cocks, and he was really good at it. By chance, however, we both were "finished" at about the same time: both of us wound up in the showers, then the locker room at about the same. For some reason I had a pocket full of change (and no, it wasn't from that), and the change spilled out of my pocket, onto the floor. He smiled, I blushed (so he later told me), and we decided to grab a beer at the Eagle next door. And that, my friend, was how it all came to be. I don't know if the location is crucial though; I suppose it can happen anywhere, but in the locker room of a pigpen is as good as any. -
And, to hone the point a bit finer, unless one is a Native American, or of Native American ancestry, whose ancestors lived on this continent for millennia, we are all immigrants, or the descendants of immigrants, whether by choice or by force. Americans of African ancestry are, obviously, closer to being "real" Americans than those of us with nothing but pale, Caucasian blood in our veins. The false contrivance that "racism" depends on - the notion that only Caucasians are "real" Americans - therefore implies that there were zero "Americans" living on this continent prior to the arrival of the Europeans. One wonders if the apologists can possibly finagle the contrivances even more obtusely.
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