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I would have thought that would be enough of a statement too - it always has before. It's usually in the '90's here this time of year, and everyone wears shorts (I don't mean underwear, I mean street-clothes shorts). How that guy even saw me is beyond me. That darkroom is pitch-black, and one navigates with hands out - sliding their feet along the floor - feeling their way. Life is wonderful - full of surprises of all kinds.

At my usual fuckjoint. One thing happened, though, that was unusual. I was rutting in a hole in the darkroom, and some guy somewhere behind me, didn't just feel up my ass (inside the shorts I was wearing), he reached around and tried to unbuckle my belt. Since I almost never bottom, and then only with that one buddy I got through covid with (rather modest cock). Thus, I do not engage in any of what I'll call a thorough, 'prep' regimen. Just a plain old shower. This guy - sight unseen - seemed determined he was going to fuck me, and I had to hang onto my belt buckle to make sure he didn't. There's almost never any kind of situation in the dark room - at least that I know of. Besides - I was busy fucking a hole in the first place. Lots of guys in the porn vids have a "fuck-train", and that's just fine when it's what each guy enjoys. Apparently, that guy simply assumed that every guy is versatile, which is assuming a bit too much. And, my ass isn't anything to look at in the first place. Never did get a look at the guy - but he eventually gave up and left the darkroom. Just because a guy is fucking another guy, doesn't mean he wants to get his own hole fucked.

Apparently it did. In my book, it remains the case that when I catch a bug, I won't go out breeding holes all night until it's over with. That happens occasionally, and at least my conscience is clear. I wouldn't knowingly share an std with anyone either.

Hopefully it will stay that way, too. Would you want to be known as a guy that willfully spreads disease? Or would you want to be known for your care and concern for your fellow-cumdumps - even if you've never met them? "Ethics" - or some shred of them - would suggest that you refrain from willfully exposing your brothers-in-the-life from exposure. It's not forever, after all, and in a matter of days you'll be clear and set to go.

I'd be surprised if that were the case. In fact, I haven't noticed an increase in cocksuckers (as opposed to load-takers) in the fuckjoints around here. I think that when dictionaries are imported into this area, the word "forbidden" is removed from those dictionaries.

It's the experience, their skills, learned over decades of fucking that make the older guys attractive, either T or b.

Well said. Neither position guarantees any measure of good manners. Chances are better that well-seasoned men have outgrown the childish behavior, but no guarantee.

I think most of us get that already ..... even if we're a thousand miles away.

It appears that President Plump has either ignored the desperate situation in Gaza, or consumed with fresh outrages to peddle. The Israeli's are bombing, preparing their conquest with armed units gathered to begin their assault. It seems a number of countries elsewhere in the world are preparing to officially recognize Gaza as an independent country, as world-wide condemnation of Netanyahoo's misadventure looms closer. If any of us can, please consider a donation to the Gazan relief efforts, This tragedy is inhumane at best.

Slammer Ft. L is open from 7pm to 2am, except on Friday & Saturday nights, when it's open until 3am. The busiest nights are Fri and Sat, of course, when it's jammed with men exercising their Lusts. There are many booths w/ gh's, a fairly large orgy room, two elevated cocksucker's galleries, and there are a few lockers for guy that want to strip down. One of my favorites is the Dark Room, and it definitely is that. You can't see your hand in front of your face, you can only navigate (very carefully) by sense of touch. There could be guys breeding within an inch of you, but you can't see them. You can't actually walk - you have to slide your feet along the floor so you don't step on other guys. Unseen hands will feel up your cock, your hole, as you feel up theirs. It's located at 321 W Sunrise Blvd - a busy E/W throughfare-cum-racetrack, and Slammer (often referred to by it's address) is on the North side of the street. If you're driving, once you pass Andrews Ave (zero-hundred EW), be sure to be in the right-hand lane, since there's only one sign bearing a large '321' and nothing else,. Given that in that area, Sunrise is a racetrack, better to be prepared to turn in quickly. On the other hand, I doubt there's an uber driver in town that doesn't know it. The first Wed of any month is CumUnion, and that's fun, but the real pigs go on Fri & Sat nights. If you're going to overnight it, I would recommend Inn Leather, a smallish "resort" down near the airport. Lots of locals go down there during the weekdays, buy a day-pass, and you can breed/get bred anywhere on the property. All the rooms have slings, and easily viewed by passers-by on the paths surrounding the buildings. Leave your door slightly open, and guys will just walk in with a hard cock to add another load. Apparently, it used to have more of a "Leather" flavor, but any guy - in The Life or not - is welcome. Hope you find it as rewarding as all the rest of us do !!!

Our collective best wishes to you !!! Those of us that have been to that fantastic event will never forget it - particularly the PIG party. There are just not enough words to describe that event ...(well really descriptive words, anyway).

There are other ways to access these meds; the Mistr (not misspelled) program, for instance. Everything is done via mail-order, including the doctors visits. If you have the proper insurance, there's zero cost. You do have to complete a monthly test, however, which is also delivered to your door. The doctor's visits are via zoom or somesuch, the tests are easy to accomplish, and you just mail them back. Check it out.

In the event you travel to South Florida, Ft. Lauderdale in particular, Slammer is as wide-open as it gets. There's also a Slammer in LA, if you ever travel there. They're open from Wed through Sunday, and open (I think) at 7 pm until the last load is pumped up the last hole. Google it.

I don't believe that to be true. Being a "cumdump" only requires the mindset of a man that requires - via his own self-identification - a real need for the acts he loves so dearly. As I see it, becoming a cumdump is more an emotional requirement than a physical addiction. A real cumdump will abandon other plans when the chance to take a load or three arises. He puts that thrill above all else - and often asks others to include him in cumdump scenes. He actively wants - needs - to be used for other men's sexual pleasures. In that sense, anonymity is a cumdump's enemy; a cumdump actively wants, needs to be known as such, which, in his mind, will only widen his pool of potential raw cocks. In a cumdump's mind, the more breeders that know of him, the better.

There's not one thing wrong, and everything right about that kind of scene. "Pretend" "rape" (with the obviously obligatory pre-scene negotiation) can leave every guy panting in a puddle of sweat. If "pretend-rape" needs a better name, CNC is as good as any other; I'd just not heard of it before The moniker isn't what's important, it's the unforgivable actual "rape" that is. Language, in any form, is always refining itself; old terms fading away, newer terms for the same thing emerging. There's nothing wrong with that at all.

Agreed, but with one caveat: Within the context of a B/d, S/m scene, any acts that may injure the bottom in some way need to be specified. The entire purpose of the requisite "negotiation", is so each man can speak honestly and freely before the scene takes place - and preferably well before the scene takes place. I mean this to apply to any B/d, S/m scene, or similar. This quantifies what can, and what cannot happen within the Scene.