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Cool .... which one?
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Well for Heavens Sake !!! I can hardly believe that !!! 😂
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Darkroom bareback - best way to get it?
hntnhole replied to VersGuyAnon's topic in General Discussion
Well said. Here's one way to accomplish it: The position should allow your Hole to draw the eye of Tops first - the rest of you secondly, if at all. 1. If it's on a plane surface, put your shoulders down on the fuckbench/whatever, turn your head to the right or left, whichever is most comfortable. Your arms can be anywhere they're comfortable, stretched over your head, bent at the elbow cradling your head, whatever. 2. Spread your knees as far apart as is comfortable. Then, bend your spine (only as much as is comfortable, of course) concavely, thus elevating your Hole higher than the rest of your body. That will not only enhance your Hole's attractiveness / availability to Tops, it will allow the rest of your body to slightly "fade' away from the principal target, which is your hungry Hole. Even in the darkest of darkrooms (i.e. when only "feeliing" his way), any Top will encounter your Hole first - and the rest only if he wants to - but the prominence of your Hole should be apparent and obvious to every guy. 3. If in a sling, the same principle applies: Hole juuuuust over the edge of the sling, legs as far back towards your head as possible, and spread as widely as possible. -
Which area did you find the most productive? It's <<polite cough>> about time you altered your screen name a little bit 😉 Don't be. Worrying is counter-productive. You will catch one of the lesser bugs occasionally. If you're not on PrEP, then get on it asap. That'll reduce your chances of serious illness substantially. Simply get tested regularly, to catch the inevitable bugs early, get them treated. Then, get your load-counter strapped on your arm and keep on doing what you know you simply need to do.
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and one of these fine days, you will 😉
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I had to learn that lesson the hard way ... got my knuckles rapped several times, so now I just scroll up to make sure before I click "submit". Often, the threads drift away from the Original Post, and that's understandable (to me, anyway). It's like a conversation progressing, gradually drifting off course - I doubt any guy actually intends to reply poorly to the OP, but winds up replying to something that has already drifted off course. It's much appreciated when one of the moderators slips a warning into the body of the thread before handing out demerits. Just the other day I deleted a reply (of mine) that was apropos to the conversation, but well off the OP.
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It seems that the likelihood of a serious blunder is taking shape in the Middle East, with increasing likelihood on an hourly basis. The age-old game of tit-for-tat between Iran and Israel is getting to the point of really serious trouble breaking out, dragging the US (by virtue of our tight diplomatic ties to Israel) with substantial attacks on each other's sovereign territory. The heat has been building, gradually, and nothing good can come of this mess at all. While I've made no secret of my view on troubles in the Levant, this time it seems that Iran is stirring the pot more than Israel, despite the attack on Iranian leaders a few days ago. What would seem to me to be a better course of action, would be to assuage the hellish nightmare of serial starvation, gradual, systematic denial of the most basic needs to survive to the unfortunate innocents in/around Rafah, rather than more and more military attacks. If /when a general war breaks out, I can already hear the screaming for US military involvement echoing through the halls of Congress. And, that might sink Mr. Biden's hopes, as well as the hopes and prayers of millions of decent-minded American citizens. Not to mention, of course, the hopes and prayers of the Ukrainians. Meanwhile, the boy-blunder ran a quick side-trip to the architectural disgrace known as MagaBlargo to kiss something completely unmentionable - even here on BZ !! I hope some of you guys that don't give a hoot can explain to others how to learn not to give a hoot. It's exhausting. But, for a smile: I saw a demonstration by very angry women somewhere on tv. One woman had a sign saying "Women (and their friends): Remember in Roevember". I think it would make a good t-shirt too. First phrase on the front, last phrase on the back. Short, slightly humorous, and right to the point.
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You do realize that you're the ideal kind of guy, don'tcha .....
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Thanks for the opportunity to clarify. I used the word 'boy' in an affectionate way, usually preceded with another word - for instance, hotboy, hornyboy, goodboy, sweetboy, dirrrrrtyboy, fuckboy, etc. The relationship lasted around 3 years, he was/is naturally submissive - me, not so much. It only ended because he couldn't leave the drugs alone*, and I finally had enough of all the associated bad behavior that comes right along with that mess. That said, I still see him quite often, and we're good friends, but I don't fuck him anymore, since he's not "mine". He comes over frequently, I go over there frequently. He still asks me about decisions he needs to make (i.e. financial, business), things like that - and we respect each other. He's living with another man now (who I'm also good friends with), and that's fine with me. I also call him by his name quite often. Come to think of it, he almost never calls me by name though. So, I don't view it as role play at all. It's just who each of are naturally; hope that makes it more clear. It's all good now. *my life-partner and I never hung around with drug-guys; I didn't really have much knowledge of how radically that serious stuff affects/alters a guy's behavior, until one of my best buddies ruined his life completely, totally through drug addiction. An occasional toke of weed here and there was about it. When he passed though, so did the dope.
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Assuming there are only two guys: Spit. The more the Top eats the Hole, the more saliva he will generate, and the more thick and slippery it will become. Win - win for both guys. Obviously the very best lube is other guy's loads, but plenty of spit is second-best in my book. I must have 10 bottles/tubes of different brands of commercial lube - and hardly ever use them.
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I can understand there may be a fetish for condoms that are 'doctored' so they break easily. That implies that both/all guys are "in" on the fetish, and know the score. What I don't quite get though, are guys that don't disclose that the condom may break (particularly when they're certain it will).
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What is "guaranteed" to make me cum ...... interesting question ... Well, any number of things, I suppose. I enjoy aural encouragement from other guys waiting in line, or lined up next to me on another Hole. Also, the bottom's sounds of satisfaction, or other bottoms taking loads nearby; i.e. the 'music' of group breeding. I enjoy mentally replaying some of the particularly thrilling Holes I've fucked. I enjoy when other guys shoot their loads onto my Cock while I'm still rutting in a Hole. While it doesn't happen often, when another guy is felching cumdump's Holes close by, and then snowballs the loads to another guy, that'll do it every time, particularly if it's me ... Probably the most important 'one thing' though, is a really intense 'connection' with the other guy. When I know that I'm not just Breeding his ass, but also his mind, his soul, his innermost needs, it's always the most satisfying for me too.
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I miss the Cubby Hole too - used to stop in there fairly often for a bite of lunch (and dessert around the end of the bar- or the john). I guess there's only one thing that's guaranteed in life .... which is that everything changes over the years. I've been to the Eagle a few times, but it's just not steeped in the moral rot that's soaked into every inch of RR. I guess we better get busy up there at the Eagle, but it's almost summer (mid-80's today), and wearing much gear is downright uncomfortably hot. But, so far there's always Slammer 😉 oh - latest rumor is RR will close in June. I still think that we should buy Decades, get rid of all that furniture, board up the windows, and turn it into a "Slammer-ette" ....
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Specula are an interesting and commonly used tool in the Leather/BDSM world, They aren't particularly dangerous, when used properly, and can intensify the bottom's focus on the importance of his Hole. Most bottom's already know their Hole is their most attractive physical item, and gently stretching a particularly tight Hole can make the fuck better for both (or all) guys. The only real danger is gaping too much too soon. They're best used gradually, accompanied by plenty of praise / encouragement from the Top, and only gradually increasing the width over time. Given the "original" purpose of a Hole, it naturally contracts to keep in that which shouldn't be excused during sex. Once the prepwork is done though, the bottom can gradually re-train his mind (with guidance from the Top) that a Hole (properly prepped) can be do wonders for his sexual life. As always with BD/SM tools, it takes plenty of time to build that sense of confidence in the bottom's mind. Experience counts.
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I understand fisting as another form of Domination, reserved for men who have already established a "connection". It's that connection that forms the foundation for deeper ways of "connecting" than Cock to Hole. It can be dangerous, if the Top doesn't know what he's doing, and for guys just trying taking fist for the first time, it might be productive for that scene to take place in a group setting. The bottom has to really trust the Top, and the Top must be willing to accept that trust and take care not to violate it. Fisting is dependent on the mental/emotional connection being established first, especially for those who aren't habitual fister's / fistee's. Fisting is an advanced skill-set, it's more of a spiritual/emotional fuck between the two men than Cock-in-Hole fucking is. Done right, it can be a fantastic experience for both guys.
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All it took was once. From that day to this, I've known what I needed. And, (other than the dark years) I've had more than any one guy probably should. So far, it's been a First Class ride !!!
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Well said. Thanks.
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Anybody into having sex in the nature?
hntnhole replied to Asianbottomfor's topic in General Discussion
Excellent !!! I had no idea - but I know where to go to try it !!! -
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"Weird" is a rather generous offering. I hope you got a decent fuck out of him .... sounds like that's about all he has to offer. 🙄
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When I kept that cumdump a few years ago, he always called me "Daddy" - still does, for that matter. But I never called him merely "boy", which, to me, seems de-humanizing in some way. I just called him by his name. Sometimes it would be a conjunction of two words, ending in "boy", but never just "boy". I didn't need to reinforce my power over him in that way.
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Why would you want to diminish your record? Be PROUD it's a 6 !!!
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All kinds of filthy talk can escape my mouth while rutting, but never anything that could be interpreted as demeaning. I much prefer to build a boy up to his potential, rather than consider him as something less than, and to me, the word "bitch" carries a demeaning connotation. I try never to reinforce anything that could be considered negative behavior. A bottom reveling in his Lusts for raw Cock up his gut, taking loads, one after another after another deserves reinforcement, maybe even praise, if the bottom is particularly craven. To me, language matters.
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Turns out you're right. So, there's a tall hurricane fence with a banner on it describing what's taking place. There are shipping containers across the property, (N/S) from the closest to the back property line as possible to about 12, 15" south of the RR building. They have vertical portions of the walls removed, which will become floor-to-ceiling windows (apparently). Between the shipping containers and the RR building, there is space enough left to construct a two storey entry-hall, apparently all glass (I'm assuming there's a bit of artistic license involved). In front of this conglomeration is a parking area. The entire project appears to take up all of the empty lot in between RR and Decades, the used-furniture store on the corner. Currently, RR is back to it's old ways, in celebration of the storied years of business catering to some of the finest men on Earth. However, it's only the postlude to the final hurrah, which may take place in June. Went over for a beer, as I sometimes do before heading over to Slammer. Last night it was like the old nights of debauchery - I never did get to Slammer. So, all you guys that can, get over there for a couple of last nights: as someone once said: "everything changes at some point". The prelude to the Requiem is already wafting through the evening breezes. There are a lot of guys who bought homes in the area over the years, for exactly the same reason: proximity to RamRod. I just hope that not all of them ditch too. Housing prices have been through the roof around here, but the retrenchment has already begun. Not much selling above 5.50 K anymore, and most right around 5.
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So did I ... oddly, there's a dearth of gh joints - old-fashioned ABS's - around here. Some of the guest houses have that staple of gaydom available, but plain old adult "libraries" are few and far between, and I'm not driving all the way to Miami to get to some decent ones. For those who are unaware: I(nterstate) 95, which is the main artery for vehicular traffic on the E coast of South Florida, has been renamed (with considerable reason) DIE 95. I don't know how much driver's licenses cost around here, but they must be really cheap .....
