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Same chapter, same page, same sentence, same phrase within that sentence. You "get" it ....

For some guys, a "kink" implies some particular act (or set of acts) that they find satisfying (B/d, S/m, piss, on and on). I don't think the sense of wanting to become poz is a "kink", I think it's the result of a behavioral urges, i.e. a guy wanting to feel "free" to have as much sex as he wants/needs, and not think any further than that. What a lot of guys seem to do is focus on their being drawn to pigsex, without doing the intellectual work beforehand. It's not like PrEP is such a big bother, a pill a day isn't all that tough to manage, for the protection it affords against serious illness, and a sense of freedom to fuck any guy, any time, any place - whether they actually do that or not. PrEP allows a guy to minimize his chances of paying a costly price and live out his most wanton sexual desires. Why a guy wouldn't do that is beyond me.

I think that's a small price to pay for the chance to have *real* sex together. Sounds like a "keeper" to me ..... once a guy's head is in the right place, the rest will follow of it's own accord for his own Lust for quality Hole. When he fucks you with a barrier, it's probably out of physical need: when he fucks you raw, it's exponentially more fulfilling (no pun intended) for both of you in all kinds of ways. I hope he's Breeding you right now !!!

Maybe - but from a Top's perspective, and one who loves that "connection" I sometimes go on about, there are only so many bottoms that understand that possibility of connection. For many (both T & b), it's the wanton behavior that's so compelling, and that's perfectly ok. For some, it's the wanton behavior and the chance of "connection" that's so compelling.

There's something to be said in favor of living someplace where guys are always fucking each other 24/7. Not every guy can just pull up roots and move to a city full of raw pigs, but when you can, it's worth considering. Sure, there are always trade-off's - it only depends on what's most important to each individual guy. Easy to say, I know ... it's a lot more difficult to decide. So far, I'm pleased with my decision.

Hmmmm .... if anyone knows how these creatures communicate, maybe we should start a little "whispering campaign" in alligator-ese or crocodile-ese, peddling just how delicious R flesh is, and how bitter D flesh is ..... Very sorry about the dog though ... I know every creature needs to eat, but dogs outrank almost every other critter on Earth.

1. Yes, the weather is nice year-round (temperature-wise). It's 90 and quite humid today, but a cool-down into the '50's (quite temporary) is expected early next week. If you enjoy hot, humid weather, you'll get plenty of that here. Afternoon showers, and once the sun goes down it cools off. There are, of course, irregularities, but on the whole, it's perfect. 2. Plenty to do: that depends on what (other than taking loads) you like to do. Culturally, there's precious little here. There are plenty of "festival-type" events, given the rich, melting-pot group of inhabitants. If you mean the arts - there's rather little. The Florida Grand Opera really inflates their middle name, but it's at least something. There's a symphony orchestra in Miami that appears downtown in the Performing Arts center, and they're good at avoiding works the conductor knows they can't handle. What passes for legitimate theatre is hardly worth mentioning. 3. Yes, there are plenty of men of every kind and description, and they all love to fuck - morning, noon & night. There are bathhouses, bars, fuck joints, and I've never seen a condom in any of those I go to. There are R neighborhoods over by the coast that you may not feel comfortable in, but on the whole, Ft. L. is about as "gay" as a fairly large city can get. Also, Miami isn't so far away, and lots that those guys make a run up to Ft. L. to hit the fuckjoints on the weekends, or locals make a run down to Miami for some fresh meat. 4. Yes, housing prices are outrageously overpriced. Most of the new buyers are from the Northern States, and all they want is a warm place to escape the winters, then fly back home in the Springtime. One "plus" is, we have no State income tax. There is also a contrivance called the "homestead exemption", via which you can save thousands off your property taxes, if you actually live in that particular home. It doesn't apply to income properties. 5. Homeowner's insurance costs are outrageous. If our simple-minded Governor would lift one fat finger, he could do something about it, but he's to busy with his "woke" bullshit to bother, and we have a 2-term limit for the Governorship, so we'll be rid of him at the end of this term (unless he gets his R legislature to ditch that 2-term limit). Interestingly, many think the current run-up in housing prices seem to think that bubble is close to bursting. Even in my (working-class) neighborhood, there are 3/4 million dollar listings of homes (completely renovated) that aren't selling like they were a few months ago. Real estate pricing run-up's always wind up with a collapse in prices too, if you have the patience to wait for it to happen. 6. Now that the Earth is starting to fight back, after getting fucked over all these years, there is that consideration too. Fort Lauderdale has been lucky for many years, but one day we'll get TBO* here too. Some say that one tip of the Bermuda Triangle points directly at Ft.L., which by some crazed mental process means that while ships and airplanes are sucked down into the sea, we're magically spared the hurricanes. I guess it depends mostly one what weight you assign to your interests. If all you really want is a lot of raw sex, we can give that and more to you. But, business is business too. In any case, wait for the real estate prices to come down; they will. Good luck with your relocation plans !! *The Big One

Yikes !!! I wouldn't want one in my back yard !!! The iguana's are more than enough for me, and they run when I open the door to the back yard.

AND the wanton behavior the bottom is broadcasting. It really matters very little what a guy actually looks like, whether handsome, homely or in-between: body by Atlas or the couch. It's the fact that he's bent over, taking raw Cocks up his gut - the behavior - that's so enticing, at least to me.

First, thanks to all you guys for the uncompromising laying bare the facts. Secondly, thanks for sharing your own perspectives, apprehensions, feelings. Only thoughtful, considerate men would be able to do that. So much can depend on the decisions we make as our lives unfold. I remember thinking I was going to move to SanFran many years ago (before hiv), and jump into the pile with both feet. Then, I met my other half, and made a different decision, which almost certainly allowed me to live a much longer life. A fortuitous "chance" decision? Maybe, maybe not. The point is, each of us makes decisions that will impact our lives in the moment, and perhaps far into the future too. We can only do our best to sit our asses down, think through what is, try to conceive of what might be later on, and take our chances. I hear echo's of regret in some of the above responses, which is truly sad. I also hear echo's of hope in some, and I only wish I had the power to make them come true. The fact is, life's a crap-shoot one way or another, and that's a good enough reason to make every day count. I love every one of you - my chosen brothers.

Yeah, but that hairy belly hollers hairy Hole too .... the shorts (whatever their description) will be off shortly, and he'll get down to the real business at hand. Can I be 3rd or 4th in line?

INSIDE. There may be other variations, but nothing satisfies like Breeding balls-deep.

Well said. Just because a guy enjoys Topping more than bottoming, doesn't mean his head is screwed on tightly enough. Every guy should do the intellectual work to figure himself out, what he wants, what he doesn't, and then practice his Lusts until he knows what to do and how to do it.

I very much doubt it, thanks to gentrification. Most of the fuckjoints, bookstores, etc in that area are long gone now. Ask the local Chicago guys though - they'd know for sure.

If I may - add "almost certainly" after the 'those' and before the 'may'.

I bow to your precision: I know there's a difference between the two, but I don't know what it might be. Allow me to rephrase: Realtors around here are like alligators !!! (and yes, I'm a transplant from the northern flatlands, and I'm pretty decent behind the wheel too)

I thoroughly endorse all you pig bottoms savoring each other's well-Bred Holes, but please leave a little bit behind for the rest of us. Lots of us Tops love eating Sperm-Holes too !!!

Well, we were remembering a couple of gh joints from decades ago back in Chicago ... I don't think much remains of anything from those days.

The way I see it, every Hole is different - which requires that it get the personal attention it deserves. Whether it's "hammer" time, "gentle" time, or a mix in-between, it's up to the Top to know what to do and how to do it responsibly.

Well, I don't either ...... If some folks fall for this silly business, then they also need to know that I happen to own a bridge over to Brooklyn, and that I just happen to be taking offers on it ......

That's been the case around here for at least a year. I don't receive mail every day, but on the days I do there are always "come-on's" offering me that much and more. This without any inspections of anything other than a photo taken from the street. And believe me, this is not a swell neighborhood. Every time I get one of those phone calls, I "block" the number, but they keep calling from other numbers. They even stop and take pictures of my house, paste it on a postcard, and send me a postcard with my house pictured. The realtors are like crocodiles around here.

and .... as I recall it was next door (south) of the New Flight (on the corner) - which I only went to once. Far too many silly twinks for my taste, but we all start somewhere, right?

Ahhhhh .... of course. I remember that one well too. It was an easy stop on the way home from work downtown. The joint I described was on the West side of Clark, just North of the Clark St. bridge over the river - kiddie corner from the Gold Coast. It was one of Renslow's joints, but I just don't remember the name. Maybe we know each other better than we think ..... 😁 Thanks !!

I haven't heard guys talking about Buford, SC, but thanks for mentioning it. Interestingly, Asheville North Carolina is being talked about by guys here in Ft. L. that know the writing is on the wall, weather-wise. One gay guy on the next block moved up there, and I know secondhand of several others (friends of friends) that have moved there recently. I just don't want to start all over again somewhere else, but who knows what Mother Earth is going to do - after all the rapacious behavior we've visited upon her?

Of course. That would logically extend to the "down-ballot" races (State or local positions), not just the Presidential/Veep, Senate/House nominees. My apologies for not being more clear in the first response.