hntnhole

What annoys me most, is when a Top pulls out and shoots his load everywhere but where it belongs !!! Attn: Porn Producers / Directors / Videographers / Editors: I can understand how the first jet of Sperm might be needed to go on the Hole - thus proving to the viewers that the Cock actually shot it's load. That's an understandable, business-related issue. But the second volley, and every subsequent eruption of Sperm belongs inside the Hole, and no where else.

and no, that's not a turkey baster ..... that's a PORK baster ...

Some time ago there was a thread about saving Sperm for later use, and I offered a more comprehensive response there. Glad to know you have plans for reusing the load ... Sperm is precious ... shouldn't be wasted 😋

I concur. Generally, men who have to announce or display their Dominance in some way - either directly or less overtly - often do have an insecure impression of their own leadership capabilities. It's as though the harder they try to insure their "obvious" qualities of Dominance, the less they actually accomplish in that effort. This is why I urge "newbies'" to the submissive life to ask the bartenders at their local Leatherbars about the man they're considering. An insecure-yet-demanding Alpha can wreck what could have been a wonderful sub to another, more confident, knowledgeable, able man.

I'm not really sure what the boundaries of Schoneberg are, but there is/was an abandoned, somewhat crumbling building - maybe 5,6 stories high (as I recall) not too far away from Schoneberg (I heard someone say that it was an abandoned cigarette factory - no idea if that's true or not), and at night (of course, there's no power inside) it's a fantastic playground. I remember we had to take a taxi to get there, but it wasn't a long ride. The upper stories are closed off, but the first floor - a large open manufacturing area (all the machinery/equipment is long gone, of course) surrounded by what must have been offices arcing around the main floor area is completely dark. Some of those former offices are empty - some are full of rutting men - and occasionally some guy will light a cigarette - and for an instant you can see men is every conceivable sexual act steeping in their Lusts .... then, back to the complete, utter blackness. accompanied by the grunts, groans, sighs of ecstasy, guttural expressions of pure pleasure. Mere words fail to describe the thrill ....

Scoop it up and put it in a pony-glass. Cover with plastic wrap to seal, put it in the freezer for further use another time. The shape of the frozen "cum-cube" will be perfectly shaped for use again. That's a great load in your photo - would be a shame to waste it.

I'm what some might call "well-traveled", and Berlin stands alone at the apex of BreedTowns, imho. Plus, for a world-class city, there are many beautiful (non-sexual) attractions too. It's not just a sexual playland, it's so much more as well ...... in Berlin, there's just something very special in the air. Dietrich sang a lovely paeon to that magical place, often recorded in the key of C, but the best recording of her singing "Berlin, Berlin" is in A flat - which suited that husky voice perfectly.

Jake Nicola. One of the most beautiful bottoms in the porn world, at least to my eyes. He's a bit verse-ish too, for you bottoms to salivate after 😉

This ^. Those that lived through it know how indescribably terrible it was; those that came of sexual age when treatments had finally become available simply don't, and cannot be expected to. I think there's a residual sadness that will never completely go away, no matter how heavily we paper-over the wounds. That remembered horror is a part of the life-stories of those of us that went through it and survived. One neighbor we knew laid down in our driveway and died. Guys who didn't live through it can't possibly be expected to fully comprehend - thank Whatever.

Went over to RR last night, but it was the monthly "Pig Party" event; I wouldn't have bothered if I'd remembered. Not that it isn't fun - it is - but the place is so crammed full of guys that it's not as much "fun" as normal nights. The pool table was off limits to the Breeding crowd, so I just went back to pig alley (they'd already run out of my favorite beer) and found a place to watch the parade. Close by, there was a group of friends going on about this or that, and one of them was loudly talking about how he "lived" at Slammer, knew the owners, blah blah blah. I tapped him on the shoulder and asked if maybe he could ask the owners to enlarge the darkroom. There are two gh cubicles next to the darkroom which are hardly every used, since they're "off the beaten path" and we could really use more space in the darkroom. He said he would .... we'll see. There was another guy who was standing against the wall opposite me dressed in a "pup-hood" and what appeared to be a multi-colored kilt - which he pulled down so his Cock was hanging out. That's all the crowd needed, and a number of men blocked the entire passageway sucking it, licking his chest, etc, etc. Unfortunately, his Cock never did get hard though, and he finally wandered away. A barback had to get some ice for the cooler in the backbar, but couldn't get through, so he threw some ice at the jammed up crowd ahead of him .... that was entertaining for a few minutes, but pretty thin gruel, so I finished my beer and went over to the other pig alley (behind the building next door - a used-furniture store), It was full of guys fucking each other, and waited in line for my turn on the sweetest, beautiful Nubian Prince I'd seen in a while. Completely naked, brilliant smile, beautiful body, and he turned around to suck the remnants of loads off the Cock that had just bred him, thanking the guy for his load. While the rest of his body was hairless, his Hole wasn't, and it was a total pleasure to put my mouth on/tongue in it. I've made it no secret that I love cumdumps, and this one was spectacular, in that it didn't take me long to add my load to the sweet mix. So that was it for Saturday night, and while the "count" wasn't what it usually is, I have no complaints whatsoever.

LOL .... pretty sure you're right !!!!!!!!!

I can't even remember when I last bought something - there are chests-full of gear that haven't been used in ages. I suppose one of these days I'll need to have a "yard" sale ... which will really set the neighborhood wags tonguing - or is that tongues wagging ..... 😛

I'm not sure if this is applicable to the "discovery" issue, but ...... Can a guy get the mail-order services to send the kits/medications to a P.O. Box? If that's possible, it would at least mitigate the risks of the missus finding out. Keeping all that material at a different location than at home would at least be some added protection of privacy. I'm not commenting on the moral issue; that's no one's business but the OP's. But it may take some of the risk of discovery out of the picture. (btw .... "OP" means the composer of the Original Post), right ???)

Most (hopefully) Tops understand that putting their mouths on well-fucked Holes can lead to more infections from the various bugs, probably exponentially more so. Assuming that the initial "sniff-test" has obviated any incomplete biological preparations, that removes - at least partially - an obvious risk. But there are plenty of other risks that a "clean-as-a-whistle" Hole can pass via the Sperm already fucked up the gut. One answer to mitigate that risk is to get tested more often for the 'lesser' bugs than the suggested 3-month regimen. I get tested monthly for the standard palette of std infections, on the premise that the earlier they're detected and treated, the better. So, sure - I have some risky Lusts, and the price to be paid for exercising them is monthly testing. I pick up stuff once in a while, and get them treated early. Every guy (at least around here) picks up unwelcome bugs occasionally. The point is, be proactive about your sexual health, figure out the best way for you to minimize the inevitable, Each of us needs to figure out what we don't want to live without, and then figure out the best way to deal with the results most effectively. If we don't do at least that much for ourselves, then we almost certainly won't do it for our cumdumps either. That's not just being self centered, it's pretty close to being anti-social as well. We need to take care of each other too - not just ourselves.

You and me both !!! Watching a hot, hungry-holed bottom get pumped full of loads by other Cocks only pours gas on the fire for me. Tastes all the better too.

We barebackers are a fascinating lot, right? What turns one guy into a veritable breeding machine turns the next guy into a disinterested "no thanks". And the best part is, we can be mannerly and caring about whether or not our particular interests are stroked or not. There's room for every guy to get fuck/get fucked just how he needs to, and no guy needs to feel "less-than" about his particular needs. The really cool thing is, there's exactly the right "other half" for all of us out there, maybe not every time, but enough times to make it well worthwhile. All we need to do is show up.

Welcome, cumaddict619 Here's a sincere reply: You don't mention whether or not you've taken the necessary preventative steps to avoid serious illness. Since you've been exercising your Lusts for 10 years, it's difficult to believe that you haven't taken loads off "u+" guys, and plenty of them. In the event you're not on PReP, by all means get on it. You can get it through the mail, if that's important to you. Get tested for the other, marginally less-serious bugs out there, and do that regularly. Most of the suppliers require a 3-month regimen, but monthly testing can catch bugs earlier, get them treated, which is all for the better. Since you're in San Diego, I'm guessing that a rich banquet of Seafaring Rawfuckers will be a large and steady portion of your sexual diet. Keep us apprised of your adventures !!!

It occurs that there are a couple of "types" of drag: the so-called "skag-drag" with clown-like makeup, enormous balloon-tits, loud clashing colors, silly wigs, all of that. There is nothing inherently "sexual" at all about this type of drag (excluding, perhaps, the potty-mouthed jokes). There is also a type of drag wherein the performer actually emulates a real woman, which takes an enormous amount of dedication and hard work. I recall sitting in The Baton drag bar down on Clark St* in Chicago, which featured both types. When the second type of performer - impersonating a real woman - was onstage, surprisingly often it was simply impossible to see anything but a real woman. I knew it was a boy physiologically, but the male presence onstage was completely gone, and only the "female" present. Graceful, elegant, beautifully dressed, all the feminine mannerisms were perfect. In the case of these professional female impersonators, I might understand how "dangerous" straights might find these people. In that sense, the second type - often billed not as "drag performers", but as "female impersonators" - can easily be an affront to the straights, in that a talented f.i. might be able to fool a straight man. Imagine a straight man's rage if his Cock got hard for a female impersonator !! The clown-like first type of drag can't possibly threaten anyone, but the second "female impersonator" type might. * interestingly, directly across the street from the famous Leatherbar ... The Gold Coast. I know that there are some who consider wearing the hides merely another type of drag, however mistaken that may be.

This is an interesting and complex issue, isn't it? All of us that have sex with other gay men regularly understand that taking precautions are the responsibility of the individual. We also know that some guys don't recognize that as an important issue, which means each of us that do take health issues seriously have decisions to make, issues to come to terms with. What it comes down to is, each guy has to decide for himself what level of risk he's willing to take, and regulate his sexual behavior accordingly. While interesting, this thread raises the issue of exactly whose responsibility it is to share information. I have no idea what the bareback action is in your area, but where I live, we fuck guys without knowing or caring what their name is, and then move on to the next one. How much information is a trick entitled to? That can only be answered by the individual guy, given the inclination to do so. Frankly, I think it's asking a bit much of his potential partners, if he asks to see official proof of this or that, but then I don't know the lay of the land re; gay hookups) where he lives either. Topics like this are the reason I enjoy BZ so much, and thanks to all you guys that have been sharing your thoughts.

Then, each guy goes his separate way. Each guy can ask whatever he wants to ask. I'm guessing though, that kind of question - asking to see the piece of paper from the medical testing facility proving nothing more that on x date prior, the guy tested negative - would be considered intrusive by the questioned guy. Point: if it's ok for a guy to ask another for personal information, and prove it, it's just as ok for the questioned guy to simply ignore the questioner and walk away.

I've noticed this too. It seems that every few decades, the instinct to destroy "the other" surfaces in the general populations everywhere. While centuries ago, the actual damage to humanity was limited to small areas, these days there are weapons that can wipe out entire continents in an eyeblink, rendering huge swaths of the globe a smoldering, infertile cinder for a thousand years. It's unsettling.

Neither have I. The very notion of carrying a folded up report in my back pocket when I'm out in the backrooms/fuckjoints, proving that at some certain moment prior, I had tested negative is nuts. Just because earlier that month I had tested negative for the lesser infections doesn't mean that I didn't pick up some bug in the preceding few nights. Protection, at whatever level an individual guy deems appropriate, is that guy's business, which applies to every other guy equally.

I agree. While asking someone to get tested prior to meeting up, the implication of that question is a bit much. What seems to me to most effective would be making sure you've taken all the precautions yourself. Asking another guy to get tested may not be illegal or immoral, but it definitely puts him on the defensive, rather than an equal footing with you. Once you've taken all the precautions yourself, and can offer proof of negative tests for the lesser, treatable infections, you'd at least be able to answer the other guy's equally-reasoned request for your own "proof". What you don't mention, is whether the guy is a prospective boyfriend/husband/buddy (implying some kind of ongoing relationship) or a hook-up that you may never see again. I agree that asking that question is neither illegal or immoral, but it does seem to be a bit pushy. Good luck.

Mr. Bootman, Aside from the uplifting commentary - with which I agree completely - I simply must mention that your exceptional gift for satire, use of alliteration, composition of nick-names is a gift that keeps on giving. I laugh throughout the day, doing chores, whatever, as snippets of your phraseology pass through my mind again. Thanks for your magnificent observations, doled out in such a winning way.

Agreed ... this one's pretty good .... most of the guys hadn't been fooling with razors, nicely built, but not musclegods, some "eyecandy ink", Every guy just doing what cums naturally.