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I concur. The level of action varies tremendously, depending on where one lives, and therefore the risks of picking up the lesser bugs. The risk is always there, of course, but mitigating them in favor of Breeding Holes seems manageable. Having lived in areas with a heavy concentration of the gay community (meaning, the "pig" quotient) all my adult life, I'm surprised how seldom I pick up a bug, but the risk is always there, which is why I got on PrEP as soon as it became available, and get tested monthly rather than every 3 months. The sooner detected, the sooner it's treated, and it happens a couple of times a year. Then, I just have to take the meds and wait it out. The way I see it, it's merely the price to be paid for fucking raw Holes in the backrooms, fuckjoints, any time my Cock takes a notion to do it. To me, that's a very cheap price indeed for the sense that I've taken every step possible to protect my health, and still maintain, exercise, deepen my Lusts for wet, raw Hole.

I only ran across your post just now, so if you and your buddy hooked up, fucked, and you took the load raw, that first experience is accomplished now. If that's the case, I hope you loved it so much you've already taken more loads off other Cocks by now. I only hope you took the obvious precautions, got on PrEP, and protected your health as much as possible. It's your decision, of course, but depending on how you're defining "young", protecting yourself to the extent possible will only guarantee you decades more of thrilling raw sex. Good luck; we hope to hear more from you.

Sounds like you enjoy Topping most .... for the bottoms, there is one rather crucial (to me, anyway) component, which would involve "planning ahead". Once that ritual has been performed though, every guy is empowered to rawfuck every other guy that wants loads up his gut, and it's one of the most liberating, exciting aspects of our lives !!

Fortunately, I'm pretty healthy, but when I've got a cold, or just not feeling right, I'm not interested in sex at all. Of course, when I'm being medicated for one of the occasional fuck-bugs, I lay low until the doc tells me that it's over. I just don't understand guys that think purposely passing along a cold or flu or whatever is acceptable. Yeeeeeeessss, I know that there seem to be quite a number of guys after one particular illness; I mean just plain old run-of-the-mill stuff like a cold, or whatever. That said, feeling "off" is a fairly rare event for me.

Congrats, Flared. You've come quite a distance from when you first posted above. There are any number of reasons you didn't enjoy the fuck. You're what we call a "novice" as far as sexual acts go, and I'm not at all surprised you didn't find the first fuck thrilling. We're conditioned to associate the ass with unpleasant functions, and that could be part of it. Others (I mean bottoms) on BZ can offer you advice on the prep-work, if that's what was bothering you. Or, maybe it was nothing more than learning how to relax your Hole properly. I'd call it a small issue, soon to be overcome with some practical advise and taking more Cocks up your gut. Generally, I think it's the Top's responsibility to "open" the bottom, and make sure it's ready (after the usual preparations are accomplished). You'll learn fairly quickly, I think, to accommodate the Cock, and thrill to the sexual freedom that's in your future. It could be nothing more than a sense of not knowing what to do, and that wouldn't be a surprise at all. Again, congratulations on your first "natural" fuck. Now, go forth, young man - and experience everything you need/want to experience. Make the years count, in all the richness they offer. Good luck !!!

Perfectly put, Iker80. When there are no "barriers", there simply are no limits to how deeply we're able to "connect", and that's simply the entire reason we Breed each other in the first place. It "felt" liberating because that's exactly what it was. Liberty to act on our Lusts, any time, any place, and become the men we were born to be, even if for only a short while. It's the wanton behavior - the ability to be completely free - in every aspect of our sexual deviancy - that is so liberating. Plus, using PrEP only enhances that sense of freedom to behave as sexual beings first, and ordinary citizens secondly. It's not necessarily the act that's so empowering, it's the Freedom to fuck/connect with any guy, anywhere, anytime, but the the actual performing the mating ritual is co-equal in importance. I don't know what the banned word is, but I bet I'd like it. I see you're a new member, so welcome !!! We hope to hear more from you.

Everyone feels "off" occasionally, and I share your thoughts. I don't use apps, so at least I'm spared that part. I don't have a lot of fuckbuds, but if one calls/texts and I've got a cold or whatever, I merely explain, they know that I mean it, I'm not "up" for it, and that's that. Sounds like the guy who was pressing you is either self-centered beyond reason, or just plain myopic. Hanging up on him (after a brief explanation) is fully justified.

There was a substantial discussion of ways (techniques) to do this some time ago. If you can find it somewhere in the previous posts, there are a number of methods and ways to use/enjoy the fruits of (previous) labors of yourself and whoever else stopped by. This isn't some kind of oddity - it's fairly common.

I'd say you answered your own question in the first sentence of your post. For the sake of discussion, let's reduce that to 95%, which leaves a paltry 5% for everything else. There are many, many men that love to eat Hole, and do it often. Generally a precursor to Breeding, but not necessarily, as you (and others) point out. I think you're just following your Lusts; doing what you're driven to do. If that's "piggy", great. If it's not, also great. The point is, you're doing what you need to, in order to satisfy your Lusts, and in a considerate way for your partners. In a nutshell, it's just you being you.

Interesting perspectives re: this issue. In the end, business is business - we wouldn't invest our time, money in a business unless we were fairly certain of a decent return. That applies across the board, and it seems that one "industry" is fading in the face of another in the m4m sex marketplace. Nothing is surprising about that; it's merely identifying an underserved market, and figuring out how to service it, while charging what the market will bear. Commerce has been around for millennia, and probably will be until one day when we finally blow ourselves to smithereens, and every market dries up in an eyeblink.

When I started fucking, everyone fucked raw; hiv had not yet arrived. There were a handful of guys that had fetishized using rubbers, but they were few and far between. Everyone fucked everyone else - it was totally commonplace, it was just the next step after shaking hands, saying 'hi, let's fuck' ...... and it was all raw.

That's for sure .... since they got women's health-care canceled, thus enraging millions of women, they'd surely vote to hang us all without a second thought.

There may be one more: the advent of the hook-up apps? Around here, there are guys getting run down almost weekly because they're staring at their (presumably Grinder) apps, paying not whit's worth of attention to what's around them. It must be similar to the much-decried "addiction" that teens across the bored (!) have to their telephones. Recently I had to buy a new telephone, and I still get every kind of ad, offer, "come-on", every day. I've deleted as many as I can find, but they still keep coming. And, who ever anointed some people as "influencers" anyway? I wish there were still those old, black Bakelite telephones on a stand in the corner - when it rang, you picked it up and hollered "hello". If you weren't home, too damn bad - whoever it was would just have to try again.

So do I ..... but you can have my share of the Krispy Kreme's .....

That would not surprise me. Years ago (well, make that decades ago), she was a bit on the fleshy side, She married Ed McCaskey during WWII, and the Bears Lockeroom talk referenced some of the players playing with her. There was gossip about visits to the plastic surgeons, all of that, while her husband was away fighting in the war, but who knows? That was all well before I was even born. It could very well be that her soul died long ago, and her carcass lives on - but in the world of the rich and famous, that's fairly common, particularly these day.

Not everywhere. She brought her dog & pony show to Chicago once, which was to be held at huge old Masonic Temple on the Near North side. I was working downtown - one "el" stop south of there - and people started calling each other to show up for a demonstration. Interestingly, this was before cellphones had come into wide use; these were land-line calls. My boss (also gay) said "go". I jumped on the el (at that point the subway, but still called the "el" for "elevated") and got there pronto. Every bus, every train, every time a subway train stopped, hundreds and hundreds of guys poured out, and congregated in front of that building. By the time she showed up, no vehicles could even approach the venue. We hollered, we chanted, we stomped and hooted. Finally, the bitch was driven away. Another example: Remember when Matthew Shepard was murdered in cold blood by that ridiculous excuse of a "pastor", whose only "congregation" were members of his family? He had the balls to come to Chicago to protest something or other - I don't remember exactly what - but the same thing happened. This time in Boystown, right on Broadway, of all places. Literally thousands of men showed up to the protest, many of the buildings were one-storey, guys got up on the flat-roofs of the buildings throwing rocks, beer bottles, anything at hand at the hatemonger, because they couldn't get near the location (a dry-cleaners) where pastor shit-for-brains and 4 or 5 of his "congregation" were holed up behind a cordon of cops that had to hold each others wrists to keep back the surging crowd of very angry men. I'd never seen the Chicago cops so afraid of being overcome. The cops couldn't get hold of the owner of the dry cleaners (this must have been a Sunday) to come unlock the doors so the cops could evacuate the miserable wretches out the back door. Finally they got someone to come open the back door (from the alley), then unlock the front door, and unfortunately the miscreants got into their ratty p.o.s. van and got away, with a police escort to the Eisenhower expressway, headed out of town. Those were heady days. Back then, Chicago really rocked. I hope it still does.

Whichever you choose, we'll be waiting to hear your viewpoint !!

While I'm not ashamed of my sexual equipment at all, I think my filthy mind is probably the best sexual attribute. Without that, the rest wouldn't get nearly as much action.

I've got a couple of decades to donate to the "age-bank" and still remain comfortably within the requirements .... just sayin ....

Welcome, RawCountryGuy69. We're glad you're here, and interested in sharing your thoughts (as well as your Lusts, of course) with the rest of us. We look forward to hearing more from you !!

Welllllllllll ......... I don't know how I missed that. I must be watching the wrong news channel. If I ever watched Fix channel, maybe I would have seen it, but I had my tv altered so it would never go to - oh - Fox - unless there was a good game on Sunday. Yeeeeessss, I like NFL football. My particular team (locally, here in FL) is doing really well these days, while my "homeboys" The Chicago Bears, have sunk ever deeper into the NFL toilet, but there's an excuse: George Halas, founded the Bears in 1920, one of two Charter members of the NFL (along with the AZ Cardinals) and when he passed his daughter, Virginia inherited the Bears, and now she's 100 years old, so skinny she could walk through a harp. Rumors have it though, that she only partially passed away years ago, and is buried in a casket deep below Soldier Field. On game days, they dig her up, administer some more preservative, and she comes to life again. The Bears have been paying for her formaldehyde transfusions for decades now, No wonder they can't afford to hire more talented players. As to Madame Bobert, she and that Marjorie Trailer Greene (go ahead, fill in the missing word) generally cause me to head to the head whenever they're on tv, disgracing themselves all over again. It appears that theo8 (above) channeled the descriptor before I even had the chance ....

It only took 6 words to encapsulate the whole reason we do what we do. Perfectly, simply, completely. Kudos, jXsluT.

Do you mean that some nutcase guy actually let THAT wretched creature touch him ???? Nauseating .........

First, welcome suboutwest. I hope you find this amazing site as inspirational as the rest of us, and we're looking forward to hearing more from you. To the reference of an "online" Master, have you ever met him? If all contact between you and he have been online, how much do you know about him, other than what he's told you? In the Bd/Sm world, personal (I mean, in-the-flesh) communication is the foundation upon which any Master/slave, Daddy/boy, Dom/sub relationship is built. I encourage you to set up some reason/excuse to go visit him, and at least become familiar with him in person, and sooner rather than later. This seems to be rather a serious step to take for an "online" Master, particularly since your already married (to a woman, I'm assuming). There are all kinds of sexual situations that we might find "extremely arousing", because they fire up the imagination, the Lusts, the kind of sexual license that stirs our in-born need for sex with others like us. The issue should scare you. What appears to entice you - as I understand it - is the prospect of being used as a sexual object by men like me, the behavior (or freedom) to express our in-born sexuality freely, without cultural/emotional encumbrances, whenever we like. That's expressing a need for honesty within yourself, and only you can do that. It's the wanton behavior that may entice you, or the prospect of submission to another man, or any number of behavior-related acts. Human sexuality is a richly laid-out banquet table, with all kinds of delicious depravities, some of which we find most tasty, some of which we don't. Of course, the sense of taste can only be achieved in person - not over the ether. You're correct in sensing that sexual freedom is something lacking in your life, and you very much want that. More, you should have it - once you've really thought through what you really want out of life. Some of us thrive, are enriched by living life with the freedom to fuck anywhere, anytime, with anyone that makes our Cocks hard, and that's a choice we've made. I'm not saying you should or shouldn't; I'm saying take the steps to protect yourself from life-long health problems first, before acting in some irreversible way. Get on PrEP - it's the best chance to protect your health in the future, regardless of what ever else you wind up doing. Get tested regularly for the other, lesser bugs that you will certainly get at some point. All of us get the lesser infections occasionally, get them treated, and then continue our life's journey. No, you're not. You may be bisexual, but you're not "straight". You may be trying to "pass" as straight, but you're only trying to convince yourself (or worse, others), which is intrinsically inaccurate at the very least. Take some time to figure out what you really want out of life, take as long as it takes. There is no gun-to-your-head deadline, some guys take months, some guys take years. The point is to figure out what will make you a whole, complete man. You don't mention what the relationship to your wife is, and I'm not asking, but that will be an issue at some point; seems it always is. All I'm asking you do to is figure out how you want to get the most out of your life, and protect your health until you know yourself more deeply. Know what you want, know the potential price to be paid for your freedom, make a clear-headed decision, and then have a fantastically fulfilling Life. My best wishes to you, whatever you decide.

Ahhhhh !!! Thanks so much, rawTOP. I love Berlin, but apparently now I can move back "home" !!!