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Hey guys. I've been reading these forums for a while but this is my first time posting. I've barebacked with ex boyfriends before and barebacked occasionally during a drunk one night stand or two, but as a lot of you seem to have felt, I've always known that I love barebacking and that the idea of taking loads from strangers or groups is the absolute hottest thing in the world to me. I can't get off to porn with condoms and even thinking about getting in a sling at a bathhouse and taking endless raw dick makes me hard as fuck. But, like a lot of people, I am still scared to just start taking loads left and right like I want to. I feel like this is a pretty normal hesitation and deep down I think eventually I'll turn into a complete cumdump, but it's hard to know when to take the first step. So I was just wondering for those of you who went through a similar process, what was it that finally set you over the edge and made your fantasies start to be realities?
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How do you feel about transgender men in places like bathhouses and male-only swinger’s clubs?
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Hey guys, I've been contemplating beginning service as full time cumdump and making myself more readily available to the men in my area. This looks like being available in my off time and when I can to the men in the community. I'm seriously considering purchasing a burner phone or installing Google phone number generating app to my phone in order to start giving and sharing my contact info (phone number and twitter profile) with guys & giving them consent to share my number around to the community. Does anybody have any advice for me? Or some practical advice? I have a concern such as what to do if I contract an STD. I use Doxy and PreP but would appreciate any insight on any of what I addressed in this post that you whorish lot might have for an aspiring neighborhood thot. Thanks in advance -
Can anyone here reccomend a source for Kamagra or similar? Has anyone used the delivery service advertised at the back of the scene mags (QX etc), (Hand delivered anywhere in London, 52 X Kamagra 100mg for £50 or 100 for £85) seems good compared to finding a reliable online source, but wondered if you guys had better suggestions or referals. PMs welcome if you feel it more appropriate, but public discussion would be good.
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Since we can't go back in time what advice would you give your younger self? Look forward to hearing your words of wisdom Have a great week Carlos 😀 -
Hi All, One of my good friends is looking a decent film editor to edit a short/film any advice on where to look for someone who can wait to a high-standard for streaming platforms Your support and advice is appreciated DM in private if you prefer PS hope this is ok for the moderators Have a great day Carlos 😀
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I had unprotected sex today with a top who was HIV positive since 2003 and he told me he cannot transmit the virus now. He said once he was taking 38 pills but now only takes 1. I said no to him for sex but while foreplay I lost control of my mind and let him fuck me for like 5 strokes. I'm sure he didn't cum but I'm a virgin and know my asshole is a weak sucker for diseases. I'm very stressed. Shall I take PEP? If yes, where can I get it in a Berlin, Germany? I'm new to Germany and don't know German. -
What other sites do you use to check on male/gay topics to read and post comments? prefer nonsexual, life in general, community?
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As a norwegian I live kinda sheltered far from any CumUnion parties or great BB-opporturnities, meaning I would have to travel to attend. There is good info on where and when, but litte on what to expect for a newbee. CumUnions are of course sexparties, but what should one expect when attending? I guess each city and venue is somewhat different, but are there usually many attending? Guys of all ages, shapes and sizes, or only the youngish fit guys? Is it just non stop sex or also some social interaction? The closest parties to me are probably the ones in London, are the CumUnion there any good? Please respect that I do not have the experience as many of you seem to have had, so I'm sincerely looking for good answeres before spending a fortune on traveling. Please enlighten me
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Hello, I would like to first say that I have been a lurker on this site for a while. It has taken me a few months to build up the courage to make an account, and I look forward to chatting with lots of cool and interesting people. Anyhow, I'm posting this because I'm in a bit of a pickle, and could use some advice. Normally I would turn to my best friend, but this time I can't because for the past six months I've been having sex with his straight brother (who has a long term girlfriend). I am just not sure if I should keep doing it, or if I should call it off. And more importantly, should I tell my friend about it? (My friend is gay but we are just friends.) It started about six months ago when I slept over at my friend's house. We were drinking and watching scary movies (I think it was Sinister). Anyhow, we were drinking in his brother's room as he was at his girlfriends place, and that is where the biggest TV is located. I ended up passing out on the bed, while my friend went upstairs to his room. I awoke at 5:00 AM when his brother who came home, and having gone to bed, found me there. I apologized, saying I would go upstairs and sleep on the floor in his brother's room. He said "Whatever. No worries. You can stay here. So I went back to sleep. The next morning when I awoke we were kinda snugged up to each other. I could feel his boner against my leg, I started to move and he woke up, I apologized again for last night and for waking him up. He noticed me looking at his bulge in his underwear, and asked me at what I was looking. I replied "I'm sorry," (now for the third time), adding "I didn't mean to look." He just laughed and went on about morning wood and how its not a big deal and that every guy wakes up hard and horny. I laughed to and jokingly said "Well if you ever want someone to take care of it, just ask," and winked and laughed. "Okay," he replied, and, pulling down his underwear, added "well, suck it!" That's how it all started. So what do I do? Sorry if the story is too long. I just wanted to make sure you had the background so you could help me out. Feel free to ask any questions.
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A friend texted me yesterday and wants me to teach him how to bottom. He's never done anything with a guy before aside from kissing and mutual j/o. He's getting a hotel room this weekend and wants me to teach him how to ride a dildo and techniques for getting the most pleasure. I'm also going to be eating his ass off and on while we're alone. I've never really done anything like this before, and since I'm a total bottom, I'm worried that he's coming to the wrong guy. He's not going to be able to suck any dick unless he gets someone else to come through and he's definitely not getting any dick in his ass if I'm the only one he's coming to. Have any other experienced bottoms helped someone ease into it? What kind of advice should I give him for his first time with a top? He only started fingering himself last week and I'm worried about ruining this for him. -
Hi, I'm 19 and been looking to try fisting and anal play with bigger/longer toys. What are some pieces of advice on cleaning up before having any deep anal play? I might also be looking to ruin my hole and make it prolapsed 🤤.
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Hey All, As some of you may know (if you read my previous post) i was looking for the best destinations for a family holiday - by best i mean the place that has a lot of gay sex going on (e.g. Berlin). I was browsing the BBRT of a few countries and stumbled upon a profile for a Top in Canada and he is perfect - Black, 6'2", 190LBS (Muscle), 9.5 Inch Uncut Cock but one problem, He is Poz and NEVER uses a condom. Don't get me wrong i have nothing against Poz people but i'm not looking to get HIV any time soon. I was thinking about getting onto PrEP before i visit Canada but was wondering if it is effective enough for me not to catch anything. I will be taking a lot more than 1 Load - i'll be taking loads until he starts having dry orgasms (his words - not mine), and he also is into piss play (urinating in my ass - what would the HIV risk be from this?). I'd like to hear your opinions on if it is worth the risk and also some advice if you have any. Thanks, Dylan x
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Hello! I just joined this website and I want to ask any of you guys in the Orlando Fl area any advice on the best places to look for sex in this area. I've been to the bathhouse here a couple of times but I would like to explore more of the scene, So I felt like here is a good place to ask about this subject. And idk if you can message on here like on other forums but if any bottoms on here in the area want to connect in any way I wouldn't mind tbh.
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Hello guys I'm coming to Atlanta for some days maybe one week or more in Atlanta and would like to have the occasion to meet, know, exchange and have hot bb sex with top black guys sharing my passion for sex. It's my first time in Atlanta and I have read a lot about Cheshire, Manifest, Bulldog's etc.... Will like to have some hints about where I can get some action. I'm slender built 5.75' / 136lbs, buzzed hairy body with shaved ass (Looks like I'm italian but I'm a french/algerian-sephardic mix), usually can handle the big dicks here with pleasure (big in France means 8) and would love to meet guys with 9"/10"/11"/12" (I once knew few 10 and loved the feeling as I know there's room for more) for 1 on 1 sessions or three ways or more, if you want it to be not only for sex, or want to show me the city and share more that's ok too, I have a personality too so it's fine if it doesn't interefere with your desire or intention to enjoy. If you want to help me get better/more sex you're welcome too. I'm not into fisting, guys with thick dicks will find me tight :) I'm like many guys, I have a weakness for beautiful black guys, but I'm not against a little fat or skinny guys or else the beautiful face with almost european features isn't required neither, I prefer darker guys and african features but again it's no dealmaker/breaker, the most important thing is to have someone free in his head and sexually aware who really is into what he does... I enjoy really giving myself (remember George Michael's "Fast Love" that's what I'm into. I will also love to have experience with either small groups or even better with a pair of tops who enjoy fucking the same guy together... So if you have places and tricks to share about where to go and how to behave to have good time or if you feel you fit the drawing and want to make it to me don't hesitate!!! You may find me on adam or bbrts you can hit me up here too, I'm waiting for your words...
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I was talking to a fuckbuddy during lunch today -- a smoking hot black stud with over 10 thick inches of cock. When we met over a decase ago, he was a total top or at least 90% of the time (and I happily rode and got bred by that magnificant cock several times each weeek for years); today, however it's almost the reverse...he prefers to bottom. I asked him if what goes through his head changes depending on whether he is topping or bottoming -- like me, he has a high pressure, high profile job and gets off on the unique feelings associated with "giving up control" in the bedroom...or switching from dominant at work to submissive sexually. He also thinks a lot about the CUM that his top will be depositing inside him and that turns him on in a big way. I tend to think about the awesome physical sensations of sex, whether topping or bottoming. Similarly, my (mostly top) partner gets hard when he feels in-control in bed -- even when he bottoms, he wants to be in charge...and do the riding, control the pace, etc. So, I'm curious to learn about what others think about during the actual act of sex---when fucking and breeding what are you focused on mentally -- what's running through your brain?
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Hey there, thought I saw a thread similar to this a while back but I can't seem to find it... I'm looking for some advice: I've been in a relationship for a little over two years now, and I'm very happy with what I have. However, I've had a few slips which almost ended the relationship - he found out I was planning to meet someone for BB sex once, almost got fucked by a friend, etc. Yet, we're still together through all of that. No matter how much time goes by though, I still jack off to the idea of getting bred by a room full of daddies, or getting spitroasted, etc. Not sometimes, every time - it's the only thing I get off on, and I think about it periodically during the week as well. I think a lot about breaking up so I can go out and do these things, but I'm still in love with this guy. I'm fighting between two things I enjoy, and a part of me feels like the breeding desire is just short term happiness, but at the same time I feel like the thoughts will never go away and I'll likely cheat on him at some point and end it anyways. The constant internal arguing is becoming exhausting and I'm not sure what to do. After the close calls with cheating he's absolutely not interested in opening up the relationship (which I get). Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any thoughts regardless?
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I love my partner but we’re both tops and so we don’t really have much of a sex life. It’s hard because I often fantasie about being with a bottom but I couldn’t bare to cheat. Was just wondering if anyone is in the same boat and what you did that helped with the issue? I feel trapped because I love him but am missing an important part of what I need in a relationship. Any advice is welcome xx
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Hey guys I'm looking to set up my first gangbang but not sure how to do it. I have roommates so I won't be able to host it, so I think I'll get a hotel probably or just go to a bathhouse and post an ad. I tried setting up one once before but everything got too complicated trying to organize it so I thought I'd check with you guys for some tips. If I'm having it at a hotel any tips on how to get a room with some privacy so guys can come in and out easily? I thought about just doing it at a bathhouse to avoid that problem, but I want to get as many tops as possible and I don't know if having to pay to go in the bathhouse might turn some people off. Also I'm in NYC so if you guys have any specific recommendations for places in the city that would also be awesome. Anything is helpful!
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Pro-Bono Pro-Boner Professions (Including Advice/support)
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So this is a very specialist website, where we express our deepest desires and darkest interests, fetishes and needs. Now it might be difficult for us to explore these options through normal channels, procedures, businesses, professionals, avenues, requests etc. Here's an example, it's an extreme one but you get the point. For example; I was reading another post earlier where a user stated that he wanted to have all his teeth removed so he can give even better head HOWEVER all the dentists he's spoken to said they wouldn't do it. Is someone in that profession here and would be willing to help him out? or What if someone wanted a "just pozzed" tattoo or something similar. They might not feel comfortable with a straight tattoo artist doing this or the tattooist may even refuse, be over judgemental and so on. So I was thinking wouldn't it be good if other users listed the type of profession they were in. So that if anyone needed anything from help/advice to carrying out an unconventional specialist task/procedure/request then they have a contact for it. Whether they charge for it or its pro bono. Now Im not suggesting anyone do anything illegal. I'm just hoping to put like minded users in touch with professionals that can help fulfil their needs and wants that couldn't be done in a usual way. Other examples might be; Someone who can print derogatory or humiliating items (photos/t-shirt/sign) Hotel owner/worker who can allow guys to hook up in empty rooms discreetly for free Legal professional that can help draw up official Master/Slave contracts for those seriously wanted to be owned Dog walker/Kennel owner who has access to dogs Courier/trucker could help transport large fetish gear such as slings or slaves between owners Property owners/management could let guys or companies film porn or hold orgies Uniformed professions could help guys increase their fetish gear collection with genuine uniform pieces or act out a fantasy like in a police car Sleazy gay tattooists that are happy to create humiliating/degrading tattoos Manufacturer who will make fetish gear/furniture or adaptions to household items Medical professional who can remove that item stuck in the anus or advise what to do Shelter worker who knows which homeless guys will fuck for a few bucks or chems The sperm clinic worker who has access to spunk or someone who has access to used condoms Again, you kind of get the idea! Thoughts? My Profession; Gym staff Example; Could sneak you in after gym closes and fuck on the gym floor, film realistic porn etc -
So what tips & tricks of the trade do you use to intensify the pleasure? Whether its for oral, anal, J/O, massage etc. I mean the slightly unusual things such as blowing a guy with a mouth full of champagne... The bubbles and the contrast of temperatures enhancing the sensation on his dick. Anything particular you do that sets you apart? Have guys commented on something specific that you do?
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Hey BB brothers - my apologies first to the moderators if this is in the wrong section... I need some advice. It seems that every time I do poppers now - my nose burns where the bottle touches....I try everything (not to touch the bottle to my nose), wipe before every good sniff, etc - but I keep getting burns. Any advice from other popper pigs on how to avoid this? And I've tried the water bottle with a cotton ball soaked in poppers at the bottom - which obviously works - but an empty crinkly water bottle is so unsexy - not like that little brown one! Thanks in advance!
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Hey guys. I was on BBRT today looking for cock and saw someone I knew from an old job who called himself a raw pig top. When I knew him. I had no idea he would be into breeding piggy guys like me and as soon as I saw his face I got hard thinking about giving up my hole to him. The raunchy side of my sex life has always been separate from the rest of my life but its such a turn on to think about getting fucked by him and outing myself as a total bottom slut. Has this happened to any of you guys? Did you act on it?
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Just getting into the bathhouse scene (I'm in the midwest) and so far only been fucked twice two separate times. Any experienced bottoms out there who can give some advice about how to get the most (loads) out of a bathhouse trip? Any tops want to share tips on what you look for when you go? Definitely want to leave well used.
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I've been barebacking more and more - taking all the jizz I can in my ass - many of which I know are from POZ guys. I last tested negative 18 months ago. At this point I assume I'm POZ - and accepting that. I got a little sick last spring, might have been the fuck flu, but it wasn't as harsh as what I read about on here. At what point should I get tested? I really like the freedom of fucking and getting fucked without it even being discussed. I'm leery of going on meds too soon because I want to seed other guys. Advice? Thoughts? Thanks guys!
