Is barebacking hotter because of the feel or the idea of it?

[breedmypiggycunt]

The honest answer is that they’re indivisible.

Part of the reason a bare cock feels better is because, psychologically, you’re aware of the greater intimacy, the naturalness, the sharing of bodies and bodily fluids.

 I was a “straight guy who likes to have sex with other men” for years. As much as I enjoyed sex with women, there was a greater degree of intimacy with men. I worked out very quickly that I was more passionate and affectionate with men, before, during and especially after sex. Whereas I didn’t like post-coital kissing and holding all that much with women, I adored it with guys, even guys that were just pumping and going. I put it down to my role as a bottom; the notion of having a cock inside me was just so...sharing and so intimate.

My first time was bare. Almost all of the fucks of the first few years of my gay sex life were bare (despite it being in the early 90s). In truth, had I started out “safe”, that sense of intimacy might not be tied to the non-interruption of a condom.

Physically, I agree that it’s often difficult to tell the difference in many fucks. There are some fucks where I’m adamant that bare was significantly more sensitive. There have been many occasions when I’ve felt that build up of tension in the head of a man’s cock, the swelling and then the pulsation and explosion against the walls of my hole. And I always can feel the warm flow of cum inside, followed by the soothing effects of that warmth.

The other obvious point where there’s a physical difference in sensation is easily proven: as you rub an erect cock around the hole, the feel of skin v that of latex is very noticeable. Try it sometime with both without looking and I suspect 90% of bottoms will be able to identify which is which with unerring accuracy. 

That first act of immediate penetration is crucial in the experience.

Beyond that, it’s psychological. One of the most important and obvious aspects of the benefits of barebacking is ‘flow’ (not THAT flow 😛). I know that I’ve become more versatile over the years as I’ve just learned to ‘lose myself’ in lovemaking.

These days, it’s absolutely standard for me, having been fucked, to simply roll over and rub my cock against the guy’s hole as a precursor to penetrating him.

It just flows.

There’s no pause; no delay to grab a condom wrapper, let alone unwrap the bloody thing and put it on.

You’re in the moment, so to speak. Following your desires.

It’s obvious but it bears re-stating: you feel, you desire, you act.

That is psychological but when your desires are the entirety of the word in that moment, you’re attuned to feel everything within your combined bodies.

While much of the time, it’s your mind telling you that, the occasions when you CAN feel that skin pressing on that precise spot or that flow of cum against your insides is mind-blowing.

[backtails]

As a top, I'll say that it's hotter because it feels better. The main thing is body heat. BB makes ass feel warm -- more like hot, almost burning -- and, if I'm gonna be honest about it, the heat is the biggest difference between my hand and a man's ass.

I've always thought that BB enhances topping more than bottoming. In fact, I think a lot of men are bottoms because they don't know how good being a BB top really feels.

[evilqueerpig]

I couldn't answer the poll because I have no idea what safe sex feels like....NEVER had a condom on/in me.

[baldwin]

For me bareback just feels so much better, especially when the load is enough I can feel it in me.

[verslut]

I mainly bareback because it feels so much better as a top. I can move freer as a top and fuck better. When I bottom, I want my top to have that same feeling so he'll fuck me better.

But I also enjoy the psychological side. Back when I slept with escorts, barebacking them felt so risky and exploitative.

Edited August 5, 2021 by verslut

[mblad99]

Feel the warmth of another man around my cocktail is heaven.  

[Guest]

Much better BB!

[jagmanaz]

Like many condom irrates hole after a few seconds and hurts enough that never enough lube to make it last nearly as long as raw.  Not much of a top, but never have cum with a condom

 

[Menbendovr]

It's clearly both for me.  First, it feels beyond amazing.  Wearing a condom completely ruins the intimacy and the intensity.  They feel all wrong and once you compare the two experiences you never go back to condoms.  Second, the idea of a condom creating a barrier between you and the man fucking you is repulsive and all wrong.  Intimacy needs to be skin on skin contact where his body is in you and also in direct contact with your body.  The connection then allows for his seed to enter you and for your body to absorb his DNA.  What better connection is there than that?

A condom prevents all that.  So why use one...EVER?

[Kimberley]

Baresex just feels much better, i really can feel the difference when been fucked raw or with condom. warm skin on skin contact, thats missing with a condom. the qlimax of barebacking is the cum inside you. feels great to be loaded up and have his DNA inside my ass.

We all learn to have safesex and protect yourself against the risk of unsafe sex. that makes barebacking even more exciting to do

[Bokkierob]

Physically nothing beats the sensation of  dude's raw asshole stroking my cock, specially when I'm cumming. Psychologically I feel like a fucking stallion when I'm planting my seed in another male's ass. 

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

I have to say it's a combination: the feel of skin against skin, the psychological idea of submitting my body to him so he can "mark his territory" with his cum, the sound of wet fucking when he is cumming and still pounding me, the slutty feeling of his cum leaking out of me...

For me, basically the sensory and psychological build off of each other in a loop. The sounds and feeling heighten the psychological lust, which heightens the feelings, which heightens the lust, etc... In the end, I tend to lapse into a slutty frenzy. I like to say I am submissive, but I sure as hell can't lay there when I am driven into a lust, once he pulls out I practically pounce on his cummy dick trying to get him hard again.

I like sex hot, wet, and messy, and bareback is definitely a big part of it.

Edited August 5, 2021 by YourNoLimitsBottom

[GarrettParker]

Agree--both! The supple heat of a man's ass closing around a penis is an intense, intimate experience that's a combination of and beyond pleasure, intimacy, ecstasy, and connection. I'm happy to deposit my load wherever my bottom asks. If he wants my DNA, I'm happy to plant it! But it's a shared experience, so if he wants it elsewhere, I'm happy to comply. (For example, I *love* facials. The smell and feeling of semen drying on my face is incredible!!!) When I bottom, a covered dick feels slightly more 'dead' than a raw one. A man pounding my p-spot and making my eyes roll back in my head can plant his seed wherever he likes--and I'm happy to take it!

[NBBTTM]

Physically, yes that hot hardness sliding in and out. Stretching you out. Psychologicaly, that physical connection between two men, that hot exchange of dominance and submission.  It gets me hornier, the longer I am bare fucked.  It truly brings out my faggot nature.  

[atlfukbud]

I honestly cannot fuck or get fucked with a condom anymore... the heat and the feeling of bare skin on skin and cum flooding a hole -- I've gotten sensitized to it. I can feel a man unload in me 99% of the time now and prefer it vs. the scratchy, awful barrier of a rubber separating us. Of course, I do love the psychology too -- the idea of barrier free, fluid sharing, breeding is so hot. May we never go back to 'safe sex' again!

Edited August 6, 2021 by atlfukbud