Why Did You Start Barebacking?

[hungry_hole]

On 7/30/2025 at 1:31 PM, Alexpdx said:

I started bottoming again in the early 2000s, but only with condoms. I started experimenting a bit with raw sex around that time and realized it was “the way” but was still terrified (this was pre-prep).

The early 2000 and until PrEP and Meds appeared, was actually the best time to bottom bareback because most bottoms were terrified of taking anon loads. 

I decided to stop using condoms after I had joined a Bareback Yahoo group and was stealth at the sauna. A guy started fucking me in my room wearing a condom, but he managed to take it off. Before leaving my room, he said: "I left a present for you". I understood when I felt his cum leaking out of my hole. I knew something felt different but I never stopped the guy from fucking. 

At the local sauna I was known to bottom bareback, in the days when saunas were the sure place for anon action.

Some would ask me for my phone number and they became even long-term fuck buddies. In gay.com I would advertise as bottom bareback and met many guys who would stop by my place to unload in a hole. 

I remember one night at the local sauna I took 12 loads when three of those were from one guy. I was probably the only hole willing to take loads. That one guy stopped by my room, fucked me and unloaded 3 times. I still remember that. 

I re-started barebacking because I became tired of condoms and had an experience of stealthing that made me want to take anon loads.

[Rawonly06]

Most of my sexual life was bareback with a four or five years safe (but not completely safe) period while AIDS was at its maximum. Then condoms were not natural for me and i quickly came back to unsafe, anon, random sex.

 

[xxbjn2]

After playing with a regular FB, he teased my hole until I caved, I was trying so hard to be good and responsible, but the feeling was just so so good.  Each time we fucked after that it was raw, and then it moved onto being bred.  Other hook ups were a bit of a tease before wrapping up, until it moved onto zero sorting and eventually giving in more and more.  I was taking risk after risk and then Prep became available. If prep hadn't come along, I'd probably be poz now. Once you start going raw, you can't stop and NOTHING is better than having guys breed my hole.

[Sebi23]

Why?  Using condoms you lose sensation.  Condomless sex is only natural, whether you’re gay or straight.  I want that intimacy depending whom I’m with or if I just want a pump and dump, that’s okay too.  When the top gets that primal urge to bury his seed deep into me, violating me, owning my ass.  As a bottom, knowing  that I'm pleasuring his most sensitive and treasured body part while his cum is dripping down my legs.