Cumming from fucking vs cumming from jerking off

[NLbear]

I wonder if some of you guys feel the same.

I love to be fucked and I love to cum. No better wat to cum than cumming from being fucked. Great orgasms when one of my fuckbuddies plows my hole.

But...you can't always get cock when you need it. or, in case you are a top find ass when you need it. You're horny and jerk off. What I find is that when I jerk off I cum but there is no real satisfaction. I don't feel an orgasm. My dick shoots a load but there is no real orgasm and leaves me disappointed. Lost the load and the urge to have sex but no satisfaction at all.

Anyone else have that? 

[tallslenderguy]

Yes. For me, the bigger part of sex is psychological (which is not to imply the physical isn't a big deal, it is, just that the mind fuck is bigger for me). 

i often will go a week to ten days without cumming. Not because i can't or don't want to, but my ideal is to cum from being fucked by a Top guy who wants to be in control of His and my pleasure.  i will edge for hours and not cum because i want to be and stay horny for my Top. i actually feel disappointed if i cum on my own, and really the only fulfilling way is if i cum from a Top fucking me with His mind or intent engaged in the process. i love the Dom/sub dynamic and feel like i've sort of cheated that dynamic when i masturbate. Of course, with out a steady Top or Dom person in my life who is wired similarly, i end up disappointed a lot lol.

[blackrobe]

22 minutes ago, tallslenderguy said:

Yes. For me, the bigger part of sex is psychological (which is not to imply the physical isn't a big deal, it is, just that the mind fuck is bigger for me). 

i often will go a week to ten days without cumming. Not because i can't or don't want to, but my ideal is to cum from being fucked by a Top guy who wants to be in control of His and my pleasure.  i will edge for hours and not cum because i want to be and stay horny for my Top. i actually feel disappointed if i cum on my own, and really the only fulfilling way is if i cum from a Top fucking me with His mind or intent engaged in the process. i love the Dom/sub dynamic and feel like i've sort of cheated that dynamic when i masturbate. Of course, with out a steady Top or Dom person in my life who is wired similarly, i end up disappointed a lot lol.

This. 100% this.

[atlfukbud]

I read somewhere that orgasm from masturbation is 70% as fulfilling as orgasm during sex -- I would agree with that sentiment. Even if I'm jerking off while being fucked vs. breeding a hole myself -- it's definitely 30% better!

[DirtyLoadBear]

3 hours ago, atlfukbud said:

I read somewhere that orgasm from masturbation is 70% as fulfilling as orgasm during sex -- I would agree with that sentiment. Even if I'm jerking off while being fucked vs. breeding a hole myself -- it's definitely 30% better!

I absolutely agree!

[Pozlover1]

Yes the transfer of DNA is important. 

[travelingbi]

You're right. When I'm being fucked, I experience not only cumming, but I'll also have "internal" orgasms that are intense. And those internal orgasms are normally multiple and can go on for several minutes. I don't have those types of orgasms when I jack off. 

[downtownswallow]

Self service works fine, but it’s not as fulfilling.  I’m 100% Bottom and relish feeling a hard cock moving inside of me. I usually cum before My Top because of the sensations AND it’s better to feel my hole throbbing around a rock hard dick than one that’s half-hard, deflated or no longer interested.  After I’ve cum, My Top plows away and (if he’s smart and wants more of my cunt) cums hard and deep. 

[LetsPOZBreed]

There's definitely a difference from me.  My masturbation orgasms are alright; does the trick in a pinch.  My sex orgasms, though, are on a whole other level.  As a bottom, I find it best to have my top breed me first...then finger my hole with his load inside; that's the best way to get me cumming quite intensely.  In that case, it's not about the volume (mine is inconsistent when bottoming; never know how thick it will come out).  When I top, there's a marked increase in intensity blasting inside my bottom.  I'm told that I'm quite easily felt unloading; I chalk that up to larger cum volume plus the fact that I thrust all the way in and shoot in place.

[punaman]

when I cum from fucking, it's the most intense orgasm ever, whether its in his mouth or in his ass. When I jack off after he cums in my hole, I need to smell his sweaty armpits and lick them clean until I cum. I love the sensory experience but the orgasm is not as intense 

[bbzh]

I think the orgasm from masturbation can be quite satisfying if there has been a long build-up to cumming. But oftentimes, I will decide oh I want to cum right now and finish up as quickly as I can. Big mistake I feel.

I've never had the pleasure of cumming while being fucked but I know that my orgasms are very intense if a nice sized dick has massaged my prostate for a while before I get seeded. The very best feeling is when I continue to leak pre-cum hours after I have been fucked. I could even pass up cumming if I have been milked properly. 

[Guest]

I am not allowed to jerk off, but I never have a problem cumming while getting fucked, and I do it every day.  No need to jerk off.

[alwaysready]

well...as someone who doesn't 'get it' often, I am very glad to have my left hand as a special pal. I find if I come, then wait an hour or so and have a second acme, that is more powerful than the first. watching porn helps me get my testosterone level soaring.

[AnonPerv]

I use my hand most of the time, as I don’t “get around” as much. But nonetheless, my hand feels so good around my dick and when I cum it makes me stroke it off again!

[hornybrownbottom]

On 6/14/2019 at 2:46 AM, punaman said:

when I cum from fucking, it's the most intense orgasm ever, whether its in his mouth or in his ass. When I jack off after he cums in my hole, I need to smell his sweaty armpits and lick them clean until I cum. I love the sensory experience but the orgasm is not as intense 

Im the opposite. As I bottom I can get to enjoy his armpits at the same time as I am getting pounded. Nothing gets me going as natural pheromones on a hairy man (Ive recently come to realize that the hairier the better and man scent is slowly becoming a must for me to orgasm. If it isnt there I am just a hole for loading). But when I smell a man in his prime, my hole spasms and the resulting flooding of my guts with the real man's sperm is the best reward in the world and thats what actually makes me orgasm like theres no tomorrow.