Spitting into another man’s mouth

[ErosWired]

I’ve only had this done to me once (and didn’t like it even remotely) but I see it every once in a while in porn, and keep coming across text references to it. I’m not talking about sharing a mouthful of cum, but just straight-up spitting directly into the other guy’s - usually the bottom’s - mouth. I guess I can understand a general pigginess about it, but really, what’s the appeal? What do you get out of it?

 I used to take cock from a Lakota guy who would spit on me when he hate-fucked me (I wasn’t wild about that either) but he never spat in me...

[Pozlover1]

It can be done lovingly as well

[jamie6369]

I do like some spit - it's odd, it tends to vary in taste.

I love to see the wicked glint in the eye and grin after a guy has spit in my mouth for the first time (their first time spitting), its like they have discovered something new, and it's something new that they like doing. 

[shinelover]

I haven't been lucky enough to experience this -yet. But I do want to! There is something extra piggy about having my top spit on me or in me. And there is the dominance of it that really appeals.

[ErosWired]

I’m starting to realize that I actually dislike more things about oral than I like. I love to wrap my lips around a cock. I love the way cock tastes. I just can’t throat one, to my shame. For someone to spit (anything) into my mouth revolts me. I can’t imagine trying to snowball a mouthful of cum with someone - I honestly get a little queasy just thinking about it. And for some unknown reason, most guys’ precum, especially if there’s any volume to it, causes me to gag slightly. Drinking urine is a non-starter.

 I am not proud of this. It is a significant weakness in my skills as a service submissive. My Master was not himself interested in oral service, so largely omitted it from my training, otherwise I’m quite sure my gag reflex would be long gone now, and the spitting thing wouldn’t be an issue.

(There’s also the possibility that my aversion to certain types of fluids introduced orally may be autism-related. Not sure.)

[Qban]

For me spitting in a guy’s mouth/having a guy spit in my mouth is a total turn-on and part of the rough sex I enjoy - shoving/being shoved, slapping/being slapped, biting/being bitten, skullfucking/deepthroating, fucking etc. - all mutual and done with equal force by both guys.  It’s incredibly hot when you’re well matched and both really into it.  Not every guy is into this sort of thing, but if you are you’ll totally understand what I’m talking about.

Edited July 24, 2019 by Qban

[tallslenderguy]

Great question/topic.

2 hours ago, ErosWired said:

I’m starting to realize that I actually dislike more things about oral than I like. I love to wrap my lips around a cock. I love the way cock tastes. I just can’t throat one, to my shame. For someone to spit (anything) into my mouth revolts me. I can’t imagine trying to snowball a mouthful of cum with someone - I honestly get a little queasy just thinking about it. And for some unknown reason, most guys’ precum, especially if there’s any volume to it, causes me to gag slightly. Drinking urine is a non-starter.

For me, there's stuff that is deeply entrenched in my mental and emotional identity, other things that are boarder line, and other things on the other side of the line. 

Spitting in the mouth is one of those things on the other side of the line for me. I.e.,  it's hard for me to imagine liking or wanting it.  i was at a gay resort a few months ago and a guy hit on me pretty hard.  i was sucking Him and He said He wanted to spit in my mouth... i demurred. i can count on one hand the number of times i've said "no" to a Top in my life.  He did ask though. Something that turns me off completely is a bully, and while He had a sort edginess to Him, He wasn't a forceful bully... which has the effect of opening me up and so the seduction can happen. For some reason, He wanted me to take His spit into my mouth and i could see the want in His eyes, which always turns me on.  i never see a Dom/Top's need or want as 'weak', just the opposite, i see their willingness to be vulnerable as courageous and strong.  So, i'm seeing this look in His eyes as i am looking up while sucking Him and He tries a second approach... He withdraws His cock from my mouth and spits on His cock. Not in a forceful way, just sort of like asking again, and i took it.  "Training?"  it would seem.  

Same with throating a large, thick cock. i used to have an aversion, but encountered a Dom who "trained" me, not by force, but by encouragement and praise. He was insistent and persistent. i don't think there was any question in His mind that i'd take His cock exactly as He wanted, but the way He went about it opened me up.  i was gagging (i hate to gag), my eyes were tearing (and He kept having me look in His eyes) and my nose was running from it, yet He kept telling me how well i was doing and how proud of me He was and switching it over to how much i enjoyed it and how proud of myself i was. By the time He was done, i adored Him and since then pretty much threat every cock i get now.  

i'm guessing, if done by a skilled Top, they can use my sub side to get whatever they want, but some things are harder to get to than others for me.

[ErosWired]

7 hours ago, Qban said:

For me spitting in a guy’s mouth/having a guy spit in my mouth is a total turn-on and part of the rough sex I enjoy - shoving/being shoved, slapping/being slapped, biting/being bitten, skullfucking/deepthroating, fucking etc. - all mutual and done with equal force by both guys.  It’s incredibly hot when you’re well matched and both really into it.  Not every guy is into this sort of thing, but if you are you’ll totally understand what I’m talking about.

I do understand that, and that’s the thing that makes this odd for me - I love rough, aggressive handling, and I give plenty of sport for such Tops - I don’t encounter them nearly often enough - but certain elements of that kind of play squick me out in ways I can’t explain.

[ErosWired]

6 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

So, i'm seeing this look in His eyes as i am looking up while sucking Him and He tries a second approach... He withdraws His cock from my mouth and spits on His cock. Not in a forceful way, just sort of like asking again, and i took it.  "Training?"  it would seem.  

It doesn’t bother me one iota when a man uses his spit for lube to fuck my ass. I don’t like a guy to spit on my body while fucking me, but I can tolerate it if I have to to ensure the Top gets the experience he wants and deserves from me and my ass. But spit in the mouth, no.

So the lack of a consistent response to spit leaves me wondering if the spit - as a substance - is the problem at all. When guys spit on my body, my dislike of it doesn’t have anything to do with the actual feeling of the liquid on my skin. It’s more a reaction to the fact that the guy would openly express such contempt for me as a human being. (I mean, I’m a cumdump bottom anybody can fuck at will, so I get it, but at least I try to be really good at it...)

Yet in the mouth is totally about the spit itself. And weirdly, I don’t mind a lot of tongue in kissing (for some reason a lot of Tops seem to want to put their entire tongue in my mouth and wallow it around) and those heavy-heavy kissing sessions absolutely swap spit, no question. But to just launch it in there - nope.

 I wonder if there’s some deep-seated revulsion in me that comes from having grown up in tobacco country when men in the family still worked tobacco and chewed plugs of it from twists they’d made themselves. They were always spitting - God, the constant spitting - sometimes out the window of the pickup, sometimes into a paper cup, sometimes just into the floorboard. For stationary use common folks might have a coffee can by their chair in the living room, but older gentlemen of the more ‘genteel’ variety still occasionally had a brass spittoon. I remember the brass spittoon my great-grandfather spat into in his old house, always half-full of ambeer collected from days and days of spitting. I don’t know if any of that plays into my reaction now; psychology is strange that way. Sort of like the way I have a sexual mindset very similar to that found in men who were raped as children, yet no one ever laid a finger on me.

[Cumjunky215]

I don't like a top spitting in my mouth.  I had a couple that spit on me while fucking me or I sucked them, spit on my face or body--that was hot with their cocky attitude and dom name-calling.  Once had a top come onto me, nice pleasant, then he started fucking.  As it continued he got more dom and nasty.  Toward the end he was hatefucking, calling me things I never heard, slapping my face and spitting and cumin.  He left his dick in me and was still for awhile and I started pulling away.  Before his dick left me he pulled me back said "I'll let you know when I'm done with you" with a look of disgust.  I started wondering what I got into.  Started fucking me more name calling and spit.  He came again balls deep pushing hard I think only to hurt me.  Pulled out, grabbed my head to clean his dick off, then pushed me off his bed with his foot and said to get the fuck out.  I started dressing and left. Never saw him again but damn it was hot.

[tallslenderguy]

21 hours ago, Qban said:

For me spitting in a guy’s mouth/having a guy spit in my mouth is a total turn-on and part of the rough sex I enjoy - shoving/being shoved, slapping/being slapped, biting/being bitten, skullfucking/deepthroating, fucking etc. - all mutual and done with equal force by both guys.  It’s incredibly hot when you’re well matched and both really into it.  Not every guy is into this sort of thing, but if you are you’ll totally understand what I’m talking about.

i understand what you are talking about, but i don't relate. For me, the mental part of dominance supersedes the physical in power.  If the physical has any sort of bullying flavor to it, i shut down (not give in, but become closed, inaccessible) or outright rebel.  But i do get the wrestling, sparring flavor of what you are describing, it's just transferred to the emotional/mental for me.  

13 hours ago, ErosWired said:

 

So the lack of a consistent response to spit leaves me wondering if the spit - as a substance - is the problem at all. When guys spit on my body, my dislike of it doesn’t have anything to do with the actual feeling of the liquid on my skin. It’s more a reaction to the fact that the guy would openly express such contempt for me as a human being. (I mean, I’m a cumdump bottom anybody can fuck at will, so I get it, but at least I try to be really good at it...)

 

The word "contempt" hits the nail on the head for me, except i don't "get it."  i understand, but i don't get (read: "accept")  anyones contempt for me or how i am.  For that matter, i don't accept anyones contempt for another.  To me, contempt is a delusional hiding place and it prevents connection. i want/need to connect with guys, particularly in a D/s, Top/bottom chemistry.  It seems to me that showing contempt for the guy you are using for gratification is a deep expression of self contempt and a rejection of the very thing that draws us together.  

So, i'm inclined to think that it's not so much the spit but the attitude behind the act that has the effect of turning me off.  It's a fascinating line, because i am totally collared by some forms of what i deem "affectionate humiliation."   The key for me is the "affectionate" part.  i think the affection is the Dom's or Top's way of acknowledging His own need and desire, so the connection happens.

[Guest]

It's just a little saliva.  It's more about what it signifies.  If an Alpha Top spits in my mouth, he is exerting his dominance over me.  That's what I am in this for, so I love it.

[hornybrownbottom]

As a bottom I feel like it is my job to allow all my holes for a top's use. 90% of tops like to spit in my mouth as they breed me. I love it. Hot as hell.

[truepig]

My PIG Brother and I are always spitting on each other and each others mouths. We are both into rough play and just the general nastiness of it turns us both on. When he's fucking my on my back, while he's plowing my fuck hole he's also spitting on me an slapping my face. Sometimes, if I catch his load in my mouth, I'll spit it out on his chest, his face, or his very ripe stinking pit. Then shove my face in his cummy stinky pit, licking up his load. Then we snowball.

[Guygonebad]

I allow Alpha tops to do what they want once they are using me. Hot as hell if they are fucking me on my back, legs up, and they demand I open my mouth and they spit inside! Just fully asserts their dominance over me!