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I love bareback of course. Ideally I’d do it with everyone but if a top insists I just let them use a condom. When I’m topping it’s a different story because I can’t stay hard with a condom. But I wouldn’t say no to a hot guy using me just because they want to use one. I know taking a load is super hot and probably the best part about sex but it’s still satisfying letting a man use your hole for pleasure. I don’t see the logic of saying no if someone wants to use a condom. Plus you can always save the condom for a treat later. 

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The nice thing about most apps is you can see if the guy wants safe/condoms or not, so you can ignore them or not message them. It gets trickier on apps like Kik where that information isn't there. I find most guys assume bare or will mention upfront they want to cum in your ass or want you to cum in their ass. Some are upfront they want safe and I'll tell them they can pull out to cum or put one on when they get close, or that I'll do the same, but most guys who want it safe stick to it as they're not on prep, have  GF/BF, don't want STDs and I get that. If the guy is really hot I'll let him fuck me with a condom, but honestly it's not appealing or fun for me. I really want the load and feel like I'm getting shortchanged. Admittedly sometimes I just wanna get fucked and don't care if its wrapped or raw. But if I'm topping that's a deal breaker. I only top raw.

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I don’t insist, but I am always quite straightforward that bare is preferred. I stopped carrying condoms with me long ago so that I can honestly say no when asked (very rarely anymore) if I have them. But I’m a service bottom. I was trained that I have a duty to take the cock when requested, and not to resist it. It is the prerogative of the Top to fuck as he pleases. In addition, I would never pressure a Top to play unsafe if he wished to safeguard his health - I applaud anyone who takes responsibility for his own actions.

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I appear to be in the minority so far - if it’s not raw, I don’t take it. I have and will continue to turn down tops with condoms - no matter how hot they are. But to be honest, I haven’t found that many who want to use them anyway. 

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i too state my preference, but won't turn a Top down who wants to use my hole.  i will ask Him to remove the condom after and insert His seed into my hole. i've only ever had to do that a few times, but the Guys i've asked to do that get turned on by the idea and it's sort of like a second fuck. i have yet to find a Top who was not turned on by the idea of seeding a bottom, more a fear of catching an STD to overcome. i of course want Him to shoot His seed directly into me from His cock, but i'll take Him pushing His seed in with His fingers vs nothing at all.

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Having a latex allergy has given me a bias about condoms even if they are not latex. I put up with pain and discomfort for years not realizing the problem. 
     Now I can’t even watch porn if there is a condom involved. I just can’t stop thinking about that sting and the feeling that my guts are going to fall out my ass. Sorry to be so graphic but that’s how a condom in my hole feels. 
     Once I figured out how great bareback feels I got ad-dick-ted to taking loads. I’m all grown up now and can make my own decisions so no condoms for me. Raw is law in my rule book. 

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like @tallslenderguyI am a bareback bottom and those that approach me know that. Occasionally, I'll be approached by someone wanting to fuck me, but wanting to use a condom.  80% of the time, I decline, but about 20% of the time I'll make an exception... IF they pull the loaded condom off and empty it into my hole.  Most guys are turned on by the idea, they're just scared of catching an STD and bringing it home to the wife/gf/boyfriend/husband.  

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I go with the flow. I don't carry condoms anymore, but if they have one I will put it on or let them fuck me with it. I love to fuck and if you want a cock in your ass or want to put yours in mine, I'm going to do everything I can to make it happen.

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I’ll add, this has never really been an issue for me until now. In the UK I found that almost everyone preferred fucking bareback but now I’m Granada in Spain and about 90% of people I’ve fucked have wanted to use condoms. It’s a weird trend and idk why it is. 

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2 hours ago, gingerdaddyG said:

I appear to be in the minority so far - if it’s not raw, I don’t take it. I have and will continue to turn down tops with condoms - no matter how hot they are. But to be honest, I haven’t found that many who want to use them anyway. 

I’m finding it difficult to go back to condoms, and, with the situations I find myself in, the subject doesn’t really come up anymore anyway. 

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