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If someone giving me a cocktail in their home, and I wake up naked in their bed, then the answer is yes. The sad part about this was that I was naive to what GHB or "roofies" were. This guy was someone who I would see at a bar and I would politely decline his invite to come back to his home for sex. He asked me multiple times, trying to make me feel guilty. Finally he told me he understood I didn't want to have sex with him, but he did want to show me his new home and his invitation was no longer for sex, but merely to have a drink or two. I was in my late 20s at the time, I should have known better. I consider myself to be polite, yet savvy enough to recognize a "red flag" when I see one. Apparently I was wrong. I was really upset with myself. To this day, I won't let anyone just hand me a drink, I watch them either make it or stand next to them while the server pours it. Lesson learned....the hard way.

After multiple messages I agreed to chat with a guy who I met online. He asked if he could please come over wearing a diaper under his jeans? He assured me he didn't have a medical condition it was just a turn on for him. I told him "no" and I looked at his profile and that "fetish" was not mentioned. I understand there may be guys that find that interesting , I am not part of that group. I should have asked if they were Pampers or cloth diapers but I didn't want to give him the thought there may be a chance I would say yes.......Yuck.

Agreed, you were kind enough to give him $10.00. Then he suddenly asks again, after making the remark "Oh, I'm straight. I would think the majority of people would have ignored his plea for the $10, Your feelings that you were generous are spot on. He was trying to "play" you, the fact that he asked for additional cash leaves me at a loss for words. Did he think you were a walking ATM machine? Glad you just drove off.

I have always been curious if the scenario that I have experienced several times would fall under the "incest" category. I may have posted about this previously so if I am repeating myself I do apologize. I only bring it up because I am curious if this qualifies as "incest" because I don't think it is. Or at least, I was not part of it. I had been playing with this guy for a number of years, he was excellent, always on time, appreciative of what I could do for him, the sex was fantastic. He was also someone who was kind to me in other areas of my life, he was indeed a FRIEND with benefits. After becoming comfortable with him, if I was having two guys come over, I would invite him to be the fourth, and he always enjoyed that. Usually those visiting me appreciated him as well, as he is a hung, very talented top who is really experienced and knows what he is doing. One evening I got a message from him, he said he had a surprise for me, and could he come over the next morning. Now I believe I had been playing with him for over five years so I wasn't the least bit concerned. I said sure, he wasn't the kind of guy who kept late hours, we always played during the day time. He was always someone I could relax with, be myself, and enjoy. He always showed up , fucked the hell out of me, spent some time talking about our lives and told me if I ever needed him to drive me to the pharmacy or get me to a doctor, I just needed to call him. You don't find that very often in people, he had a partner, a business, and grown children. This is where the story gets interesting. He showed up as promised, with a guy I suppose was in his mid to late 20s, he introduced me and said this was "Jimmy" and he was his son. At first I thought he was kidding, joking if I could see some I.D. Well, it didn't take long before I was on my knees sucking both their cocks, they were naked together. Now, the "surprise" for me was that his son Jimmy was an even bigger top, I could see the family resemblance, and Jimmy gave me one hell of a fuck. His Dad was still naked, taking pictures of the entire thing. It was not a tag team situation, just me and Jimmy on my bed, I believe I ended up on my head when he finally blew his load inside me. I remember him smiling at me, noticing he still had a retainer in his mouth. But I did get a look at that ID, and he had the same last name as his Dad and was definitely over 21. Now, the fact that they were indeed father and son, both were over 21 and willing to be there, count as "incest"? I don't think so, but when I mentioned it to my BFF he thought I may have crossed a line into something [banned word]. I ended up contacting the son and hooked up with him independent of his Dad, something I felt bad about. But the two of them did come back several more times, and the last time the father asked who was visiting me and was he interested in getting topped by either him or his son It was a resounding success as we paired off. I no longer felt guilty about hooking up with the son with out his Dad as I had introduced him to my BFF who is very attractive and a talented bottom. So what does BZ think, incest or not? I know there have been ads on various sites, mentioning "father and son". Well these two were definitely a father and son duo, but adults, and they had no physical contact with one another. At least that I could see......I think sometimes we hear the term "father and son" and we jump to the conclusion that one of the two will be a minor, and that is not something I would be interested in. Any feedback you guys have is appreciated.....

Nooooooooooooooo....

Agreed, I noticed videos with Antonio Biaggi always zoom in on his balls, which are huge. After he cums, he pulls out and you get to see his "deposit". He does have his own production company, but you can see him working for companies like Eric Videos, T.I.M even Machofucker. He's been around awhile but if you are looking for a guy who goes in "balls deep", Biaggi is your man.

Well that is a sobering post. Quest is the only lab I can use based on my insurance, so I guess I might inquire with my doctor since he reordered my viral load test. I'm being accused of not taking my medication because of a viral load of 111, the nurse made me feel like a criminal on the phone when she said the doctor asked I retake the test before my next appointment. YIKES!

I did respond sort of "tongue in cheek" but I understand what you are saying. Ass and dick are readily available, and for free. If a top really wants to find a bottom, he doesn't need to pay. How many threads have we seen from thirsty bottoms looking for that elusive top, some of these bottoms are indeed very attractive. Granted, geography comes into play. I understand we don't all live in large metro areas, and I know some guys have to drive hours to make themselves available. That is a shame. But it's 2024, and the need for "rent boys" I believe is on the decline. Many guys have adopted the attitude that "size over quality", or "quantity over quality" is key, I don't share that view, and I wouldn't pay for a bottom or a top. I'm not saying the "world's oldest profession" will end anytime soon, many guys who are in relationships or have jobs that might be unhappy with their orientation, have found ways to work around their predicament and find opportunities to get laid. They still have no need to open their wallets. You only have to look at Twitter or "X" as it is now called, and you see all the guys selling their "content". It's a "buyers" market right now, you have to be in the exceptional 1 percent or have porn credits before posting pics and ads saying you are available for companionship. This is not 1991 anymore, guys need to wake up and face reality. As you said "ass surrounded by a glut of free ass". So true.....

Yes and it's active and up and running, at least behind my VPN that is.

Post a profile on Silver Daddies (hope that's right) and mention specifically you are not looking for cash, but love and companionship. At least I hope that is what you are looking for because if it something else (like financial gain) don't ask for that directly - you never know who you are messaging and a "solicitation for the purposes of Prostituiton" is not something you want on your resume.

The "reading" itself could have been off. I had my labs drawn the last week of December, and came back with a viral load of 111. My doctor's office called me and reordered the test, asking if I had been taking the medication as I had been undetectable (or less than 50) for quite some time. They wanted to make sure I was taking the medication as they have zero tolerance for non-compliance. They reordered just the viral load test from Quest and we agreed I will see them the beginning of February. Also, I recently began a medication that has proven to decrease the proficiency of my Prezcobix. Before I even started taking the additional medication my pharmacist called me and told me they had information that the two meds didn't mix well, but for me, both are medically necessary. Have you added any new medications recently? Don't panic, it could just be a false reading. A good doctor knows these numbers can fluctuate. What has been stressed to me is that the viral load is the important issue, T cells not as much. Good luck!

I think there is a difference between "breaking the rules" and just making a mistake, plain and simple. I've posted in the wrong areas, and didn't take the time to find out "what post goes where". As far as my opinion on certain subjects, I've been told this is a "safe place" to discuss certain subjects. I've tried to contain myself and just remained quiet when I am repulsed by something, but then again some of my activities I posted aren't accepted or appreciated either. I'm still learning, it's a process....

I was always under the impression that a top preferred a perfectly clean ass. No previous sexual encounter should be visible. It's tough enough to be perfectly clean, we all know that real life sex is not like sex in porn, but we strive to reach that quality. I live in fear of being "dirty", of being a turn off to a guy. I guess I missed the email that tops might be turned on with a pre-loaded ass. But frankly, to find that group of guys is just another hurdle. I'll stick to the current regimine of trying to be clean as possible, I don't want to risk ruining an opportunity to establish a continuing FWB because I didn't meet the "hygiene" requirement. Maybe I am just a little jealous that some guys are not held to that rule, and they can walk around with various DNA in their hole. I just know the guys I play with would not be pleased.

I had no issue, and actually the VPN wasn't even turned on.

I don't understand the need for "venues". Simply get a hotel room in a decent area, and sign on to any number of sites. Use your web cam, promote yourself. There is enough dick in San Fran to go around, even post covid. You can check into your hotel, have food delivered to your room, and order dick as well. I don't understand the issue really, just confirm the hotel's guest policy and they may limit allowing people access to your room after a certain hour. The establishment I use just requires I come down to the lobby and let my trick in. I read these posts about how bad it has become, and yes I see that, THE DAY I CHECK INTO MY ROOM. I am not there to site-see, I saw everything I needed to see in 2007. I go there to fuck, plain and simple. So some homeless person asks you for a dollar, so what.? Move along, use your judgment, you'll be fine.

Just give in, buy yourself a VPN and set your location as NYC. I did that for another Forum, owned by the company VerticalScope, who have hundreds of forums. Most are sports forums, but I had an incident where I used a VPN I purchased for my MacBook Air and I was able to get around their security. It wasn't the crime of the century, but I was able to get around my "ban" for the entire six months. I think VPNs are a good thing, in general. I believe they add an extra layer of security. Now I know the friendly management at Barebackrt.com won't let you sign on if they detect a VPN, but that is a different story entirely.

Yeah if you are seeing white little dots on your tongue or on any part of your mouth, an antibiotic wash might help.....to an extent. If it gets to the point where you are in pain and you can't swallow whole food, call your doctor. Granted this is a bad time of the year to try to get ahold of anyone who supplies you medical care, but there should be an "on-call" doctor. I wouldn't jump the gun and call it thrush, unless you are poz already or have full blown AIDS.

Better from what? Being gay? Using "enhancements" Bug chasing? I am just curious as to why you would mention a therapist but not describe the ailment that the poster needs to be made better????

Make sure someone knows where you are, what room number you are in, and when you plan on starting and finishing. This should be someone who has no plans to attend, but rather a buddy or roommate who will look out for you to make sure you arrive home safely. Even if you don't, it might not be bad to mention in the ad that you have a friend nearby, though he will not be in the room with you. If you plant the idea in a person's mind that hey, his best friend might be next door if things go haywire, it might make a criminal think twice before hurting or robbing you. Remember, this is fantasy. So why not create the fantasy that your screams will be heard by a friend. Think about that......

I just don't see the purpose of Cumunion anymore as I am not aware of any parties, or groups, or bathhouses where condoms are used. Because of prep many people has just dropped the notion of using rubbers all together. I'm not condoning it, I'm just saying I really don't see them is use any longer. Pre-covid I know the bathhouse in my area (now closed) would give you ONE with your key and towel, most were odd colors and way too small. They were a joke...

Philadelphia. Bathhouse as well as bars, 'after hour bars', large concentration of gays in downtown and south Philly. But here is the added feature, it's not too far from NYC, and easily accessible by train. Granted this time of the year is not ideal with the weather but from April to late October it's ideal. I must admit I have gone twice in January (I know, freezing) once to stay with my BFF and the other time for a circuit event - there was dick everywhere, I may be prejudiced cause it's my home town but Philadelphia has alot of options.

Oh he's attended several years, twice a year. My bad, for not clarifying. It just seems he heads to CumUnion and I don't know of a time he has NOT come back with something. I know he has tried to mix it up, by going to different locations but he has gone on consecutive years. It's not like he's done the Ottawa-Toronto run every time. I know he's come to Florida as well for events. The guy has awful luck - it may be he's just sickly. I know in addition to STIs he's gotten the flu, but he lives in Canada and it seems every time we Face Time or Skype he's in bed - and alone!

Wait - the OP's original question was something like "Do you fantasize about becoming pregnant - like a woman? Do I have that correct. Because that would be a resounding NO - all those years in the gym, and lose my boyish figure, are you kidding me???????? Childbirth? No give me the drugs and a C-Section if the Immaculate Conception occurs, but there better be someone with a cigarette available and a bar nearby once that kid is born. Now - do I want to make a woman pregnant. Again - NO! I call it the "21 year mistake" and have had conversations with young guys about the financial commitment they are obligated to once that paternity test shows they are the father. One of the advantages of being a gay male is not having to pay for private schools, music lessons, sports lessons and the senseless crying that would keep me awake at night. I am much too selfish for all of that crap. Now if a guy wants to have children, thinks it's a good fit for them, go ahead, be my guest. Just please don't call me to babysit when you want to have "date night" with your baby momma cause it's not happening with me.

Oh the diapers give me the creeps. When I first got online a guy showed up at my apartment, neatly dressed, a nice looking guy. When he dropped his pants he had on these cloth diapers with the safety pins on each side. I didn't know if I should laugh or scream, but the expression on my face must have been enough for him because he quickly got dressed and bolted from my place. To this day I have PTSD when I see commercials for Pampers. I prefer boxer briefs, the over priced kind you see on cable television and then regret you spent so much money on. If you have seen them on cable tv, chances are I have purchased them. There is an online company, "Freshpair", I swear I have kept that company in business. They usually arrive in individual plastic packaging. If I open the box I leave them in their individual packaging, and if I think they will make me look ridiculous (and many do) I give them away to tricks, sort of as a thank you gift for coming over to play. I wish I had the cash back for the cost of the underwear I have given away to total (almost total) strangers. Don't get me started on jock straps, I hand wash them in cold water and dry them on various pieces of furniture throughout my place. I even have a special drawer in my dresser just for jockstraps. " Nastykinkpigs" is my current fav, I wore out my "Addicted" collection". I'm relieved both my parents have now passed away, and my sisters have left the state. I would never want them to find my jockstrap drawer. Let the apartment complex deal with it.......