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Tangential to this point, I think it's helpful to move around frequently to other areas. I've waited too long in one area only to go to another and catch the tail end of a feverish orgy. Too much walking around can be detrimental too (to me it says either he's too picky or no one is interested in him.) And let's not forget another factor: some tops do not like preloaded holes.

For the bottoms that voted for anonymous, I wonder how much really good dick they've had. I get the excitement over fresh meat but there's one top in my rotation that has been fucking me for 4 years. All I have to do is think of his dick and I get instantly hard. So if asked to choose between his dick and anonymous dick for the next 12 months, I know which one I would choose. And my assessment is somewhat scientific - I have list of every guy who has fucked me the last 6 years in my phone. When I browse through that list, most of the dick was not memorable or I simply don't have to have it again, so I know what I would be missing out on - and trust me it's not much.

Being the clean freak I am, I'm just as upset by the request for a dirty hole in the original post. I've had guys not reveal they are into 💩poop until it's just about time to close the deal. When I say no, they then try to talk to me as if I'm some sort of prude. I've fucked 1000+ guys. I've got enough data points to know when you are an outlier, sir. I've also noticed that very few of these guys will share face pics, which I require before meeting.

I "manhandled" a top yesterday that I'm usually submissive to. I typically lie on the bed on my stomach and wait for him to mount me, but yesterday as soon as he undressed, I grabbed him, pulled him to me and sucked his dick until he got hard. As soon as he started taking control and face fucking me, I spun around on all fours, impaled myself on his dick and thrust my ass back on him. After he got comfortable with that and started smacking my ass cheeks and grabbing my tits from the back, I spread out on the bed and let him mount me the way he usually does. Then, after he started humping my ass, I let him get close to orgasm and then I started bucking like a bronco until he shot his load. I don't think he was quite ready to cum but I wanted to make him lose control a bit. When he got up to take a shower, I could tell from his reaction that he was stunned, but in a good way. Kind of as if to say did I use this bitch's hole or did he use my dick? Here lately, I've been switching it up on these tops. I have another top who usually fucks me doggy and last time, I climbed on top, sat down, and rode him to completion. Look at me being sassy lol.

I have been to Berlin already twice this year. Highly recommend it too. Even know several tops who breed my ass regularly there. I didn't suggest Berlin earlier because the OP seemed to solicit ideas in the Americas. But if Europe is an option, do you know where I was recently bred a lot? Budapest. Who knew? Guys are asking when I'm coming back!!!

I can vouch for Fort Lauderdale even as a bottom. As a top, you would be in a sea of white, black, and Latinx pussies.

Fully agree. When you look at it through this lens, there may not be a shortage of tops. Some of the tops may simply be choosing to monetize their asset. While I can still attract men with my looks, I have nothing against doing what's needed to get to the front of the line. My time is valuable too. I can invest money to travel to new (free) dick in other cities, waste time trying to score local (free) dick that may flake on me or get a guaranteed hot fuck and huge load from a big dicked top who wants a "tip".

It is. I wish I could read the posts to the "straight top " who inspired all this while we had a couple of beers. I'd explain to him that order simply cannot be restored until he refers to himself as a bi or gay top because some gay dudes, many of whom would not refuse his load if offered, are highly upset about the labels he chooses. 🫠

Whatever he labels himself as trumps any label that anyone else tries to put on him. A not too deep dive into research done on MSM (men who have sex with men) will show that there is a subset of guys who will nut in you no problem and still see themselves as straight. A carnivore that eats a vegetarian meal from time to time is still a carnivore. If a carnivore is starving (horny), he is probably not going to turn down a vegetarian meal (any hole will do). If a top is non-reciprocating (ie doesn't suck, touch or even look at your dick, or kiss or show any type of affection) and is focused only on getting off, then I can totally wrap my head around the idea that he sees himself as straight. Is a blindfolded horny man who is tricked into thinking he's fucking a woman but just came in a man's ass now gay? Let's lose the labels. People are gonna do what they wanna do no matter what we call it🙃.

@rawfuckr thanks for the info...are the venues still checking people to see if they have poppers on them? i've got a big ass so maybe i could keep them between my ass cheeks? 🤣

Is this smartphone out at the sex club a younger generation thing? My guess is that it's the under 30s. Maybe they don't think we'll ever go back to the days of being repressed (eg no venues) or maybe they don't care because they have the internet and potential hook-ups in their pockets? I had a guy record me during a hookup a couple of weeks ago. I only caught on to what was happening by accident. When I asked for the clip, he said he needed to edit out the part where his face was showing. Oh now, that's interesting....So maybe what's happening here is some are ok with exposing others as long as it's not THEM.

Isn't what people really want to ask is: 1) when was the last time you were tested for STDs? and 2) how many people have you had unprotected sex with since then? We all know it only takes one encounter to catch something, but still we run the numbers and assess risk that way. A fuckbud that I've had since 2003 (not a typo) was here a couple of days ago. Right before we were about to fuck, he asks if I have anything and do I have any symptoms. I was caught off guard so I said I was fine, even though I been passing this pussy out a lot since the start of the year. He should have asked this when he texted me to hook up. I would have given a more complete answer because he isn't an anonymous hookup. According to him, he got a STD recently and was spreading it around, even giving it to his long-term partner. I felt bad for him, but if he wants to have his dick in various cunts, then that can happen. It comes with the territory. He seeded my cunt like he always does and left.

I'm visiting Fort Lauderdale at the moment and just met a guy on Sniffles. He is DL and wanted to breed anonymously. I thought he had flaked, but then the doorbell rang. He was about 6 ft tall and built like a linebacker. As he stripped down, he was already rock hard. I sucked him good as I hit the poppers and then proceeded to get on all fours. His cock was thick but I adjusted quickly. He found his rhythm and was banging me good. I didn't realize he was recording until he asked if he could record "undershots". After he got his video, he settled down and pumped me full of cum. After he cleaned up, he called an Uber. Although the car was two minutes away, he begged me for some more ass but this time he wanted it missionary. He was looking out the door waiting for the car while fucking me. The car pulls up, he pulls out of me, cock covered in cum, and rushes out the door. I told him I'll be here until Sunday. I have a feeling he'll be back. FUNNY UPDATE: the guy who bred me was not the guy I thought I had a date with! The first guy flaked and I only figured this out when I went back on Sniffles. They both have anonymous profiles. I am such a hoe 🤷‍♂️. LOL.

I also find it hot. I feel even more submissive when this happens. And I feel like it enhances the power differential. At one of the bars I go to in Berlin, one of the guys on the staff breeds me every time I go to a naked party there. I ended up getting his number and now he takes care of my hole every time I'm visiting.

Speaking for myself of course, I have been guilty of relying too much on poppers to open me up instead of prepping my hole in other ways. I find that using a lube injector and then putting a bit of Vaseline around the anus before using a toy is much better at relaxing me than just relying on the poppers. I love poppers - don't get me wrong. If I've done the other "pre-work", the poppers are the icing on the cake and I can take very large dicks with no effort. Hung tops usually appreciate that they can just start fucking right away, as no additional lube is needed. I splurge on the Double Scorpio brand because they smell wonderful and I don't get a headache from using them.

Great thread. My strategy is simple: stay in my condo in Western Europe. When winter rolls around, head to Fort Lauderdale and Palm Springs. I am currently on a 11 week tour that started in Berlin, where I got lots of cock. I just spent time in Fort Lauderdale, where the men were also very generous with their cum. Now headed to Palm Springs for 3 weeks followed by another 3 weeks in Fort Lauderdale. Gran Canaria would be closer, but having been there a couple of times, it hasn't really appealed to me. I will give it one more chance though, maybe staying someplace a bit more removed from the gay scene. There is a lot of cock to be had from local guys who are closeted and don't want to be caught dead anywhere near the gay scene.

You mentioned living in a rural area. That for me instantly rules out hosting unless it's 1-1 and even then I'd think twice. Potential no-gooders can scope out your place and rob you later. I vote hotel. There's cameras for one. It's neutral as @backtails pointed out. You will never be able to discourage flaking, so look out for your own comfort and safety before trying to accommodate those who don't have your best interests in mind.

I have learned over the years to prepare my hole for anal sex and to avoid guys who are penetrating with force. If you slam into my hole, the fuck is immediately over and you need to fear for your personal safety. This hole is not for his enjoyment alone but for our enjoyment. I present a hole that is pristine clean, prelubed and preheated (thanks to a steel dildo). All the top has to bring is a hard penis and gentle penetration to start. Once my hole is fully open, he can fuck it as hard as he needs to in order to reach his climax. I have let guys who have hurt my hole continue on fucking in the past and guess who ended up with fissures and expensive medical bills? Me. He was on to the next hole. So, tear me up at your own peril. I guarantee you that you will catch these hands.

The online reviews of All World Resorts are quite terrible on Trip Advisor. Does anyone have experiences at other places?

I'm wondering what will happen if they start charging to post or access the porn.

I wonder if we as a society define the words "friend" and "friendly" correctly. By definition, a friend is a person with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically one exclusive of sexual or family relations. Friendly simply means "kind and pleasant". I'm friendly to a lot of people who I am not friends with. If I only meet someone for sex, I don't consider them a friend, but a casual acquaintance. I would say about half of my gay friendships were initiated through sex. I wish I had more gay friends. But it's tough because we as gays tend to screen people out based on their preferred sexual position and our perception of their overall level of attractiveness. I've probably missed out on many deep, life changing experiences because of how I perceived someone's photos and how they presented themselves 🤔. Kinda sad.

I'm firmly in the "give up trying to count" camp. If a heavy cummer breeds you first, especially in a public setting, you are probably overestimating the number of loads subsequent fuckers have given you. When I'm topping in a public setting, I fuck holes I don't cum in all the time. If we start obsessing over this, then tops might start faking orgasms. And I agree with the earlier comment that most guys deny breeding your hole if you ask, especially if he fears any subsequent questions. Let's not start conducting interviews after you just took my raw dick.

I am lucky enough to have a few tops who have bred me for years, but was rather unlucky the other day because two of them asked for some ass at pretty much the exact same time that evening. For those wondering, why not do a threesome? I don't like threesomes because it's rare that everyone is happy with the outcome. Also, I didn't want either of them to know about the other as I didn't want any questions. The only threesome I've had that worked well was when one of the tops chose the second top, but I digress. The first top who reached out said he planned to arrive at 7:45 pm. He is always punctual because he has a wife at home and must plan the breedings meticulously. The other top is one I hear from less frequently, but has been breeding me for at least a decade. He asked if he could come at 7 pm. Now that was cutting it too close for me, so to give myself a little wiggle room, I asked the first top to come at 8 pm. Then, the 7 pm scheduled top ran into a huge traffic jam and only arrived at 7:45 pm. FUCK. I texted my 8 pm top that a "friend" was dropping by unexpectedly and wouldn't be staying long. I asked if he minded waiting in the car. He said he could only wait until 8:20 pm. I told him that I'd rush the "friend" to leave by telling him that I had ordered food that I needed to pick up. So the late arriving top and I got right down to business. I sucked him, rimmed him, licked his balls and then assumed the doggy position on the edge of the bed. When his dick entered my hole, the clock read 7:55 pm. He fucked his load into me, had washed up and was ready to go by 8:10 pm. I then opened the window to air out the bedroom and did a quick hole check. All good. At 8:16 pm, I texted the waiting top that I was ready. I like this top in particular because I don't even have to suck his dick. I wait ass up on the bed and he has a boner as soon as he rubs his dick on my ass. I think my cummy hole turned him on because the next thing I know he was grunting loudly and had added his own cum to the mix. He shoots big loads that often soak my balls after he is done. By 8:30 pm, I was laid up with a wet, gaping hole that was making squishy noises when I rubbed my ass cheeks together. It's nice having dick just drop by like this. But I gotta space 'em out better next time 😂 .

Such a system might work better for a top (with a very high sex drive) who wants to schedule bottoms throughout the day, but I think it's going to be pretty close to impossible for a bottom to pull this off without becoming really frustrated. To the point raised by ErosWired, it takes a lot of negotiating really fine details to get someone to commit to fucking these days. You need to respond quickly and be ready to seize opportunities. And many of us bottoms, if we're being honest, are kind of picky too. We've all been known to prioritize one top over another and we know for sure that tops do this with bottoms. I'd say to focus on quality, then on quantity. Lean into the spontaneity of it. And remember, all fucks are not created equal.

Clean freak here. When a top finishes with me and I finger my hole, I want to smell cum, not shit mixed with cum.