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We don't have to resort to extremes here - i.e., no sex vs fucking everything with a pulse. I take loads from three guys regularly. To my best knowledge, two of them are married and one is in my estimation fucking a lot of guys. I'm thinking of cutting off the third guy until he gets vaccinated. Scenario planning and taking calculated risks are important factors to consider. The worst case scenario for me would be awful facial lesions and lesions in my ass and having to isolate for three weeks. What about you? I'm not advocating abstinence per se but let's be realistic. There are some very high risk activities right now and I'm not willing to play monkeypox roulette.

My HIV doctor brought up monkeypox during my visit last week. He showed me a chart that illustrated the exponential rise in infections worldwide. He didn't push too hard for me to get vaccinated because the vaccine isn't widely available yet. He also said there are risks to taking the vaccine as there are reports (rare) of people dying from it. He did say to skip those saunas and sex parties in places like Berlin and New York. His other useful tip was to have sex in daylight so I can inspect my partner's body better. I feel my risk is low at the moment. I am only playing with 3 guys regularly so should be easy to discuss with them to see what we can do to keep ourselves healthy.

Took two nice loads today and the day is not over. The first fuck was from one of my regular fuckbuds. He had been blowing up my phone the past couple of days because his wife is on her cycle. I finally had time to meet up this afternoon. I waited in pitch black darkness with my hole already lubed. He came in, stripped, and then smacked my ass cheeks a few times before diving in. I had put a huge pillow underneath my abdomen, which led to him bumping my prostate a lot during the fuck. I tried to be quiet, but the way he fucking me caused me to grunt loudly. He too let out a sound I've never heard him make before when he orgasmed. This guy normally shoots big loads, but this one was over the top. Cum was everywhere. My balls were even soaked. I texted him afterwards to ask why was his load so huge. He said he hadn't cum in 5 days. I curled up with a snack thinking my pussy had earned a well-deserved break when another fuckbud called me. He was in the area and needed a hole. He has a partner at home as well but, as I've learned, this matters little. I wondered if I should tell him I was preloaded, but decided not to because I wasn't sure of what his reaction would be. I don't believe in pushing out good cum for no reason. When he arrived, he too was rock hard. I sucked him good and rimmed him before he mounted me doggy style. He then flipped me on my back and fucked me like a bitch until he was ready to shoot. Luckily I had put a towel down. After he added his load to the one I already had in there, let's just say my cup had runneth over. I'm on track to reach my load goals for 2022. Life is good.

I'm a verse bottom and I hate to be forced to suck dick. I think it's humiliating if a top holds the back of my head while he throat fucks me. I guess I'm a pussy cunt? I only like to be fucked doggy so I don't have to face the top. I need to be fucked and bred so I don't "get too big for my britches". However, I will top guys who are smaller and younger than me if they are waiting doggy and I don't have to face them. They can't present themselves as my equal or I will not fuck them. OK, so let me find a sex therapist because I should not be allowed to roam free being this fucked up in the head 😂.

I've stayed there and liked it. Yes you can have guests easily, but don't give out the code for the front door because it's the same as the one that opens the door to your room. Easy way to get robbed unfortunately.

I say I'm versatile bottom to signal to bottoms online that the chances of me topping them are low. But I am not a total bottom. Never have been. In certain settings (such as a sauna) I am versatile. But I don't fuck bottoms in public spaces at a sauna because then I'd damage my chances of bottoming because most guys look at me and assume I only top.🤷‍♂️

A red flag for me is when the guy tries to schedule the hook-up more than 2-3 hours into the future, especially in an area with many gay men. I also think having one's notifications on constantly contributes to flaking. Assume you find a guy. He remains accessible to others and finds someone else. You end up losing out. I don't sit online unless I'm actually intending to hook up because I believe in the law of scarcity. If what we desire “appears” to be in limited supply, the perception of its value increases significantly.

I hope you're not talking about F56 in Vienna. That place was so much fun when I visited. I'm in Berlin at the moment visiting. The guys are fucking here lol. At one sex cinema though, I did see some guys wearing a mask. I respect the decision, but, I think it kills the mood. I can wrap my brain around the idea of wanting sex but not wanting to get sick - so I guess a mask and a condom serve similar purposes. Has corona changed us? I think the biggest risk takers never stopped fucking. The most risk averse individuals took a break. Maybe what we're seeing now is that some of the guys who were in the middle are still being more careful. And I respect that. The pandemic isn't over. It's just not being covered as much. I'd like to think I'm taking calculated risks. It's not like I'm visiting a darkroom taking raw dick every night lol.

Note: I don't shit in the shower or tub. 🥴

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This married bi guy with kids who I've been messing around with for over a year texted me yesterday wanting some ass. I replied, dude, it's the day after Valentine's Day. You didn't fuck your wife? He explained that she's on her period and that he needed to cum, as if he couldn't fuck her mouth or ass 😂. An hour later, his dick is in my mouth and he is rubbing my back and ass. He climbs on top and fucks me harder than he ever has. I was tempted to ask him to slow down and take it easy on my hole, but then I realized this man needs to release his pent up energy. He screwed me into submission and then dropped his load. After he showered and left, it dawned on me that he hadn't said 5 words to me the entire time he was here. And he doesn't live near me either. Yet, he makes the effort to drive over here to get into this big thick bubble butt and breed it.

Maybe it's perhaps not the best analogy, but I kind of see quickies as microwaved junk food and longer sessions as slow-cooked meals full of flavor. For me, the longer the foreplay, the stronger my orgasm is. But reading this thread, I totally understand why some guys write in their profiles that foreplay is a must. Looking at this from the top's perspective, why should he make the effort to come to my place if I'm pushing him out the door minutes after he arrives? He's coming to enjoy a nice steak and I'm serving McDonalds burgers? Yikes. 🥴

I do not like being fingered mainly because of fingernails. I really don't like for guys to stick in two fingers and have been known to protest. But here's the thing, I am very guilty of inserting a finger in a bottom's ass before I top him to make sure there's no shit. Seems to me that more often than not, the finger comes out smelling not so nice. Not sticking my cock in a dirty hole. When tops do that to me, I don't care for it but I totally get it.

Today I was being completely wishy washy about hooking up with this guy who hit me up on the apps. He asked me to come at 3, but I had just finished my workout and needed to eat. Because I was worried about how tricky it would be to clean out, I wasn't really giving him a straight answer about the hookup. I asked him to check with me around 6pm. 6pm rolls around. I've douched and have been working my hole open. I was getting horny. Luckily he was still horny and wanted to fuck. I get there and he's a little chunkier than his photos, but the most pleasant part was that his dick was way thicker than it appeared on the photo. I dropped to my knees and began servicing him. As he moaned, he kept saying, "You know your work", which caused me to grin because these big soft lips have been wrapped about the shafts of many penises over the years sir. I was having such a good time that I wasn't really ready to offer him my ass. Through his moans, he asked if he could fuck my ass so I spun around and presented it to him. Boy did I struggle with his girth at first. He pulled his cock out a couple of times, which is something I really don't like when I've worked hard to open up for a thick cock. I hit the poppers and managed to open up fully for him. I told him to fuck me hard and that he did. I was in the zone when he started grunting and unloaded in my hole. After he pulled out and went to clean up, I stood up and stepped in a huge puddle of cum on the floor. As I was leaving, he told me it's really hard to hook up on the apps and that he hadn't had sex in a while. I was pretty surprised to hear that because I just assumed tops only needed to wave their dicks at bottoms and they line up 😂. Well, I was almost a flake myself, but look at me now, all smug, with a nice little early Christmas present in my guts for my efforts. One of my regulars has already asked for pussy tomorrow (Christmas Eve) and another is coming on Christmas Day. So...hoe hoe hoe and may your holes be overflowing with cum this holiday season too. Merry Christmas sluts!!!😁🎅

I thought the slap only meant "I want you to know I bred you" and "I enjoyed your hole". I find that this happens mostly in anonymous settings. If it's a repeat fuck, I don't need the slap because the fact that he came back for more says it all.

I came out of the closet in my early 20s to friends and family. I had to come out of the closet a second time (about 20 years later) in my career. It took having a flamboyant boyfriend to make me realize that as long as I was hiding in the shadows, I was actually allowing people to use my queerness as a weapon against me. You can't be made to feel less than or scared when you walk in your truth and are proud of who you are. People will respect you more when you are living your truth. I once heard at a workshop on being queer in the workplace that: "People don't trust people who don't talk about their personal lives at work." I wanted to disagree so much with that notion until I thought about it. It's pretty darn true. Even if you are trying to be low-key, people will just gossip behind your back and fill in the blanks themselves. And if you are a single male over 40, most people have pegged you anyway. Nowadays, having kids isn't even enough to throw people off (my flamboyant ex had two adult kids when we started dating). Coming out is a highly personal decision and I would never out someone or tell them to come out, but trust me, you are only fooling yourself if you think nobody knows. And I wish more closeted men knew that coming out doesn't have to be this huge declaration where you say "I'm gay." A casual sentence such as, "I went to that restaurant with my ex a few years back. He loved it." And just like that, you're out. Dropped casually, but definitely noted. End of story. And to your surprise, most people won't bat an eyelash or give a fuck. Life is too short to be held prisoner over your sexuality. Live life. Be free.

I think it's quite healthy for gay men to have close platonic friendships with straight men. I have such a situation. I am attracted to him. He knows I'm gay. He's married (to a woman) who knows about me. I do think he may be closeted, but that's for him to sort out. He's a good friend. That's all that counts. Do yourself a huge favor and get some dick/ass elsewhere. And don't fuck this co-worker or any future ones either. You think you're feeling conflicted now? Just imagine how you'll feel if you start fucking him and things turn sour. Run all the scenarios in your head, not just the positive ones. Why is it that when some of us form a deep emotional attachment to someone, we think the final frontier is to be sexual? Enjoy what you have. Don't mess it up trying to make it into what you want it to be. Why not concentrate on meeting and building something with a gay man? Your options may be limited where you live so maybe it might be someone in another location. That will be healthier for you in the long run than longing for this co-worker. He sees you as a friend. He may even be sexually curious about you, but not every fantasy needs to become a reality. You come across as a warm, caring and very sensitive guy who is lonely. Protect your heart. Find a therapist to talk this out, even if it's online. Take a vacation someplace warm and get laid, ok?

I agree with the point made by @AirmaxUK that the focus should be more on cruising in person. I have been keeping track of the sex I have had the last 5 years and most of the encounters have occurred when I actually ventured into public spaces where guys are looking for sex. During the height of the pandemic, however, I focused on my fuck buddies. I think seeing a guy in person trumps any online exchange. First of all, those photos, profile texts and stats that so many of us rely on to make decisions become irrelevant in person. Do I care if he is 6 ft or 5'9" if he's hot? Do I ask him to step on a scale? Once his dick is hard, do I say sorry I was looking for 8 inches? Online cruising creates this illusion (by way of the search function) that you can have what you want, but the truth is your options are quite limited. You have got to establish mutual attraction and agree on sexual practices and roles. You've got to agree on a time and someone has to travel. In person, you can determine in seconds if you're down to fuck. I travel and support bars, sex clubs and saunas because I know by going there I'll be busy sucking and fucking instead of sitting at home typing and hoping.

Once they deleted the clips that I had bookmarked, the site was pretty much dead to me anyway so I'm not that upset to see it go. However, as pointed out by others, I understand why these steps were taken but am not 100% in agreement. That being said, I remember fucking a guy at MAL years ago that I'm pretty sure had hidden cameras set up. It is comforting to know that video may soon not be floating around anywhere.

Sounds like you two could use some time apart. Why not take a solo trip to have your fun and then report back in real time or when you get back home?

Double Scorpio poppers aren't cheap but they are the only poppers I use. I'm a fan of the gold. No headaches and I love the scent. Some tops don't like bottoms to use poppers because of how strong they smell. No such issues with DS. If you keep them in the freezer between uses, they last quite a long time.

For hygienic reasons, I have never been that drawn to slings. I've encountered many that don't even have any paper towels or disinfectant nearby so ewww 🤮. As for competing for tops, I have less of a problem with that. It's not like you are forcing the tops to choose you. However, if you are going over to other bottoms and intentionally cock-blocking or cock stealing - for example, you see a less attractive bottom sucking a top and then you swoop in and get the top to fuck you - then I'm wishing STDs and diarrhea for you. A good rule of thumb: do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Your looks will fade. I've never been a greedy bottom. I know from experience that the tenth cock doesn't feel as good - at least to me - as the first few.

I'm slightly above average when it comes to height, so the height of the top usually determines the position we will fuck in. If I'm more than 4 inches taller than him, then it's better if I'm on my stomach. If he's around the same height or taller than me, it's usually doggy, which is my preferred position. Missionary is reserved for guys bigger and taller than me. If the guy is hung, we of course have even more options.

I was in a relationship with a conventionally attractive guy who could get pretty much any guy he wanted. When we went to sex parties, he would go out of his way not to fuck the young cumdumps. I asked him why. He said the young cumdumps were likelier to have STDs. He went for the average looking, older or overweight guys. (Ok they could have diseases too, but interesting bit of calculus on his part.)

Most tops aim too high and I have to help them. I actually don't mind helping them find my hole since that seems to lead to fewer anal tears. But that being said, I have had sex with tops who actually get mad when you help. I've had guys smack my hand away. That's rare though. I admit that the best is when I've lubed up well and worked my hole open with a toy. Tops seem to love being able to sink into a wet, open hole and go to work.