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Maybe I'm looking at this all wrong, but it seems to me that if you can reopen a gym, you can reopen a bathhouse. I think a fair way to do it is to say that based on the square footage (or metres), you can have a maximum of this number of occupants at one time. It will be up to the bathhouse how to make that work financially. Maybe it is a 4 hour time limit? Higher entry fees? You might have to provide personal information for contact tracing, which might scare off the married guys. It's impossible to police everyone and every establishment to guarantee that people are social distancing, so why bother? Just ensure that it's possible to social distance and leave it up to the adults to decide if they are willing to risk catching the virus to be in that establishment, whether it is a gym, bar, restaurant, bathhouse etc.
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Changing Thoughts on BB Because of Covid-19?
bbzh replied to BlindRawFucker1's topic in General Discussion
Like the poster above said, barebacking is not the issue. I don't want to engage in sexual conduct of any kind, with a random guy or even someone I know who is very slutty, if there is a chance I could catch the virus right now. While there are guys out here playing russian roulette, I bet even they would agree that no ass or dick is worth being on a ventilator or potentially dying. And I'm quite sure that if they do get sick, they would conceal their sexual activity out of fear of being judged. I do hope all this ends soon because I see some potentially sinister developments on the horizon if this endures. You can completely stifle gay life with no venues, stay at home orders, cell phone tracking etc. If you tank the economy, the poor and eventually the middle class will become dependent on the state. Life already sucks with no sports, no entertainment, no restaurants etc. I just hope we can avoid international conflict. -
What is the 1 thing that can make you not want to hook up?
bbzh replied to Bluepsyclone's topic in General Discussion
Not revealing right away that he is into something like drugs or piss or scat...tell me what your deal breakers are up front so I can save us both some time. Don't wait until it's time to close the deal and hit me with the request to indulge you in your fetish. -
Anti-depressants & "sexual side effects"
bbzh replied to calrockxxx's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I don't notice any side effects from trazodone. -
I am being tempted and pressured by three tops. Two of them I know fairly well, and both are multi-cummers. They want ass and they want it now. 😩 I said we are supposed to be social distancing. One of them replied "Can I spend the night too?" 🤔 SIR.
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For those who are not yet socially distancing from others, there are confirmed reports of several governments (eg South Korea, Switzerland) using cellphone metadata to see if people are following the order. So imagine hearing a knock at the door and it's someone telling you they have evidence...and are issuing you a fine.
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Another perspective here on sex and the coronavirus from a gay publication... [think before following links] https://www.advocate.com/health/2020/3/21/heres-what-you-need-know-about-sex-and-covid-19
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I nearly didn't start this thread two weeks ago because I didn't think it would be of interest to others. I thank everyone for the input. It feels a bit like group therapy and a place where we can vent. Soon enough, we will all be back to fucking and breeding. We will make up for lost time. Hopefully, we will never again take it for granted.
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Any tops out there with a hazmat suit? Asking for myself. 😂
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Let's not overlook the fact that we have all been annoyed at some point by potential suitors horndogs. 😂
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In the end, the "hot" guys are trying to get the guys they find undesirable or less attractive to opt out of contacting them. Yes, BIYOL lacks tact. I think we pretty much all agree on that. But on some level, I can understand how it can be downright annoying to the "hot" guys who are constantly being approached. On BBRT, many "hot" guys turn off their oinks. Let's say 90 out of every 100 guys who approach us are not what we're looking for. How many of us - be honest now - want to send out 90 rejections and try our best to make the guy on the other end not feel like we're assholes. On another thread, we've had spirited debates on whether everyone who approaches deserves a gentle "no" or if ignoring unwanted advances is the way to go. To get potential suitors to opt out of approaching you, the wording is key. Something along the lines of "I'm most attracted to white guys, 30-45 years old, height weight proportional" or "Black/mixed race guys to the front of the line" gets the point across quite well. There are probably much better formulations than that. To use another example, quite a few bottoms tend to have this "ugh" reaction when another bottom or versatile bottom approaches them. So with that, I am hesitant to condemn people who aren't likely to be interested in me giving me clear signals not to waste my time by approaching them. Let's not overlook the fact that we have all been annoyed at some point by potential suitors. Now imagine having that happen every single time you are online.
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I just got an email from Leather & Fetish Pride Belgium, a party that I've attended in the past. It recently took place March 4-9 in Antwerp. According to the organisers, roughly 20% of those who had registered before the coronavirus outbreak canceled their participation. However, what really caught my attention is that they said 5 people who had attended the event have now reported that they contracted the coronavirus. They also said these were the cases they know of and that there are probably more cases. I was reading an article in the New York Times that said an infected person can spread the virus 6 feet by simply breathing, talking, coughing or sneezing. So I'm imagining all of the people who could now be carriers from just this one party. Given that the party ended just 6 days ago, that's enough of an incubation period to be showing real signs of illness.
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Someone who is less picky about their sexual partners is probably always going to be upset when they encounter someone they are attracted to, who is extremely picky. The "Bat in Your Own League" comment twists the knife because it's essentially suggests, in a not so subtle manner, that you should only target guys who are close to you in age, weight, height and appearance. It also says "you're not worthy of me" and "I'm out of your league". Why can't the picky person mention the type of guys he is attracted to, instead of using terms like BIYOL or stating something like no fats, no fems, no hairy guys, no blacks, no latinos, no older guys etc. We often underestimate how vulnerable we are when we are putting ourselves out there hoping to find a hookup. Let's not be unnecessarily mean to each other in the process. I just wish more of these apps would offer us a way to make these offensive profiles invisible to us or warn offenders they risk being banned.
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According to this article, gay men should avoid all sex with strangers until the Coronavirus has been contained. Sure, a subset of the gay community is always going to throw caution to the wind and keep on fucking like they normally do. However, "having unprotected sex with an infected person creates a high chance that it will cause you to become the virus’s next host." Some of you in this thread have already said that you will be more careful because you want to avoid exposing your friends, partner, family and colleagues to it. This article addresses barebacking in particular and the science behind virus transmission is explained by openly gay men. I walked away thinking that I am not prepared to stand before you guys and say: I will continue to engage in random anonymous sex with strangers during this outbreak even if: 1) it means I am at a higher risk of contracting the virus, 2) I could contract pneumonia (16% chance if infected), 3) I could sustain permanent lung damage, and 4) as the virus's host, I can live with infecting innocent people I care about. [think before following links] https://udatz.com/gay-sex-and-the-coronavirus/ Now excuse me while I go jerk off to memories of all those loads I have taken in the past.
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when his balls are slapping your taint during doggy
bbzh replied to josh567's topic in General Discussion
It's double the stimulation for your prostate. When his balls are hitting the taint, it's massaging your prostate from one side. The hard dick in your ass is massaging your prostate from the other side. Hence, you are literally seeing stars. 🌟 -
I just saw a tweet that Berghain and the Laboratory have been closed until April 20th (at least) because of the coronavirus outbreak.
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I know that Berlin is a favorite destination among people on this site. I just saw a tweet that Berghain and the Laboratory have been closed until April 20th (at least) because of the outbreak. I have a ticket to go to Berlin later this spring. It was dirt cheap so I won't cancel it just yet. Sure, I could go and just enjoy the city, but if people are gonna be scared to fuck, then it's a lot less attractive as a destination. 😪 By the way, German officials are saying that they expect 40-70% of the German population to be infected at some point. I'm also reading that the US government is thinking about instituting a travel ban for Europe, mainly because of Italy.
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Unless you've been living under a rock, you probably have some thoughts about the coronavirus outbreak. I've gone from thinking it's overblown to thinking we should all be very concerned. In the town where I live, the gay bar abruptly canceled its wildly popular naked sex party last week citing the outbreak as the reason. Now city officials have just come out and said that nightclubs and bars should: 1) refuse entry to people who show signs of a cold, 2) collect personal information from patrons and 3) ask patrons if they've traveled recently to countries with outbreaks. I am not big on group sex these days anyway, but now I'm unsure about visiting the sauna. I'm not sure I want to risk being quarantined for 2 weeks just to suck some random dicks or get fucked there. I've also canceled some upcoming trips because of it. Do I really want to be in the darkroom of a seedy bar taking loads from complete strangers who might be virus carriers right now? Has your sex life been affected? I'm not referring to people in relationships, but more to the single guys out here who have multiple sex partners.
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I seldom block people. But I will block you if: 1) you harass me because I don't reply to you or turn you down, 2) you visit my profile repeatedly (that just weirds me out), 3) you are a no-show, 4) you refer to barebackers as nasty, disease-ridden sluts.
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Years ago when I was living in Washington, DC, I hooked up a couple of times with this very senior official who served at the White House under a couple of presidents. He would invite me to his office during the day (not at the White House!), chat a bit and start sucking my cock. I then fucked him on the floor of his lavish office. I asked him multiple times if he was scared that his secretary would come in. He said no. To this day, I still don't know how he managed this. He didn't have to worry about me ever saying anything because I remain convinced to this day that he had the power to have me silenced for good. I just googled him and he's still on TV giving interviews and such. By the way, he is married with a couple of adult children.
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In anonymous encounters, I've learned not to even ask if a guy came. More often than not, the guy will have deposited a load, but will almost reflexively answer "no" when asked - unless it's obvious as the OP mentioned. I don't know if the top says no because the question itself turns the encounter into a not-so-anonymous one. Maybe the top doesn't want to have to deal with a paranoid bottom asking health-related questions. You might not be sure you got the load sometimes, but later you often find evidence of it. Don't obsess over it. Just enjoy the raw fuck. Let's not turn this into a "I'm only interestied in taking your dick IF I am guaranteed a load". 😂 Let's give the tops a break here. They already are under enough pressure to satisfy the never-ending supply of hungry bottoms. By the way, when I do top, I cum very quietly and walk off.
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I stayed at Basement Studios some years back. It was a very horny atmosphere and I had a sling in my room. Took some nice loads there. I would go as a day visitor again, but never as an overnight guest. Why? First, you have to make sure your room is locked at night. I had someone try to open my door at 5 am. It was very very hot that night and I thought about leaving the door open to let some air in. Even though the compound requires a code to enter, people can get in without too much effort. Second, I never unpacked my clothes while there. I had a feeling something was off. On the day I was leaving, I opened a drawer and one of the BIGGEST roaches I have ever seen in my life jumped out. Now I'm not all that squeamish about bugs, but the idea of bugs laying eggs in my clothes still has me shaken to the core.
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I believe that most of the time when a top - who doesn't know you - asks how many loads you have, it is to fuck with you mentally. Maybe they genuinely are trying to screen you out, but if a top is horny, finds you attractive and really wants to fuck at that moment, he's unlikely to ask. (Side note: I don't think bottoms cruising online for 1-1 hookups should surprise unsuspecting tops with a cummy hole. Either push out the loads you have or reveal you are preloaded before the hookup. If you're out cruising, different rules may apply. 🙂) Now if you are posting ads stating no loads refused, you are setting yourself up to be toyed with in this way. If I was asked the question, I'd probably answer a question with a question such as "does that turn you on?" to coax him into revealing why he's asking. Even if he's into preloaded holes, that still doesn't mean he is going to fuck you. This is why I don't particularly care for online hookups. It's too easy to let people who have zero intentions of fucking you get in your head.
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You all do realize there is such a thing as cum lube which is sold. So you could literally open yourself up with a dildo and fill your hole with that lube. Yes, you would technically be fibbing if you said you had a load in you, but let's be honest here - you're not trying to enter the kingdom of heaven, you're trying to get a real load in you. Some of these tops out here are adding inches to their dick size, so... 🤣
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I'm probably going to be in the minority for saying this but - every once in a while - I push back and fuck myself on a top's cock if he has a very big cock and I find myself running away from him. It's how I force myself to accept that I must take his big cock. Usually after some backwards thrusts, my hole is totally open and then I fully surrender to the cock and load.
