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Another perspective here on sex and the coronavirus from a gay publication... [think before following links] https://www.advocate.com/health/2020/3/21/heres-what-you-need-know-about-sex-and-covid-19
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I nearly didn't start this thread two weeks ago because I didn't think it would be of interest to others. I thank everyone for the input. It feels a bit like group therapy and a place where we can vent. Soon enough, we will all be back to fucking and breeding. We will make up for lost time. Hopefully, we will never again take it for granted.
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Any tops out there with a hazmat suit? Asking for myself. 😂
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Let's not overlook the fact that we have all been annoyed at some point by potential suitors horndogs. 😂
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In the end, the "hot" guys are trying to get the guys they find undesirable or less attractive to opt out of contacting them. Yes, BIYOL lacks tact. I think we pretty much all agree on that. But on some level, I can understand how it can be downright annoying to the "hot" guys who are constantly being approached. On BBRT, many "hot" guys turn off their oinks. Let's say 90 out of every 100 guys who approach us are not what we're looking for. How many of us - be honest now - want to send out 90 rejections and try our best to make the guy on the other end not feel like we're assholes. On another thread, we've had spirited debates on whether everyone who approaches deserves a gentle "no" or if ignoring unwanted advances is the way to go. To get potential suitors to opt out of approaching you, the wording is key. Something along the lines of "I'm most attracted to white guys, 30-45 years old, height weight proportional" or "Black/mixed race guys to the front of the line" gets the point across quite well. There are probably much better formulations than that. To use another example, quite a few bottoms tend to have this "ugh" reaction when another bottom or versatile bottom approaches them. So with that, I am hesitant to condemn people who aren't likely to be interested in me giving me clear signals not to waste my time by approaching them. Let's not overlook the fact that we have all been annoyed at some point by potential suitors. Now imagine having that happen every single time you are online.
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I just got an email from Leather & Fetish Pride Belgium, a party that I've attended in the past. It recently took place March 4-9 in Antwerp. According to the organisers, roughly 20% of those who had registered before the coronavirus outbreak canceled their participation. However, what really caught my attention is that they said 5 people who had attended the event have now reported that they contracted the coronavirus. They also said these were the cases they know of and that there are probably more cases. I was reading an article in the New York Times that said an infected person can spread the virus 6 feet by simply breathing, talking, coughing or sneezing. So I'm imagining all of the people who could now be carriers from just this one party. Given that the party ended just 6 days ago, that's enough of an incubation period to be showing real signs of illness.
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Someone who is less picky about their sexual partners is probably always going to be upset when they encounter someone they are attracted to, who is extremely picky. The "Bat in Your Own League" comment twists the knife because it's essentially suggests, in a not so subtle manner, that you should only target guys who are close to you in age, weight, height and appearance. It also says "you're not worthy of me" and "I'm out of your league". Why can't the picky person mention the type of guys he is attracted to, instead of using terms like BIYOL or stating something like no fats, no fems, no hairy guys, no blacks, no latinos, no older guys etc. We often underestimate how vulnerable we are when we are putting ourselves out there hoping to find a hookup. Let's not be unnecessarily mean to each other in the process. I just wish more of these apps would offer us a way to make these offensive profiles invisible to us or warn offenders they risk being banned.
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According to this article, gay men should avoid all sex with strangers until the Coronavirus has been contained. Sure, a subset of the gay community is always going to throw caution to the wind and keep on fucking like they normally do. However, "having unprotected sex with an infected person creates a high chance that it will cause you to become the virus’s next host." Some of you in this thread have already said that you will be more careful because you want to avoid exposing your friends, partner, family and colleagues to it. This article addresses barebacking in particular and the science behind virus transmission is explained by openly gay men. I walked away thinking that I am not prepared to stand before you guys and say: I will continue to engage in random anonymous sex with strangers during this outbreak even if: 1) it means I am at a higher risk of contracting the virus, 2) I could contract pneumonia (16% chance if infected), 3) I could sustain permanent lung damage, and 4) as the virus's host, I can live with infecting innocent people I care about. [think before following links] https://udatz.com/gay-sex-and-the-coronavirus/ Now excuse me while I go jerk off to memories of all those loads I have taken in the past.
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when his balls are slapping your taint during doggy
bbzh replied to josh567's topic in General Discussion
It's double the stimulation for your prostate. When his balls are hitting the taint, it's massaging your prostate from one side. The hard dick in your ass is massaging your prostate from the other side. Hence, you are literally seeing stars. 🌟 -
I just saw a tweet that Berghain and the Laboratory have been closed until April 20th (at least) because of the coronavirus outbreak.
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I know that Berlin is a favorite destination among people on this site. I just saw a tweet that Berghain and the Laboratory have been closed until April 20th (at least) because of the outbreak. I have a ticket to go to Berlin later this spring. It was dirt cheap so I won't cancel it just yet. Sure, I could go and just enjoy the city, but if people are gonna be scared to fuck, then it's a lot less attractive as a destination. 😪 By the way, German officials are saying that they expect 40-70% of the German population to be infected at some point. I'm also reading that the US government is thinking about instituting a travel ban for Europe, mainly because of Italy.
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Unless you've been living under a rock, you probably have some thoughts about the coronavirus outbreak. I've gone from thinking it's overblown to thinking we should all be very concerned. In the town where I live, the gay bar abruptly canceled its wildly popular naked sex party last week citing the outbreak as the reason. Now city officials have just come out and said that nightclubs and bars should: 1) refuse entry to people who show signs of a cold, 2) collect personal information from patrons and 3) ask patrons if they've traveled recently to countries with outbreaks. I am not big on group sex these days anyway, but now I'm unsure about visiting the sauna. I'm not sure I want to risk being quarantined for 2 weeks just to suck some random dicks or get fucked there. I've also canceled some upcoming trips because of it. Do I really want to be in the darkroom of a seedy bar taking loads from complete strangers who might be virus carriers right now? Has your sex life been affected? I'm not referring to people in relationships, but more to the single guys out here who have multiple sex partners.
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I seldom block people. But I will block you if: 1) you harass me because I don't reply to you or turn you down, 2) you visit my profile repeatedly (that just weirds me out), 3) you are a no-show, 4) you refer to barebackers as nasty, disease-ridden sluts.
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Years ago when I was living in Washington, DC, I hooked up a couple of times with this very senior official who served at the White House under a couple of presidents. He would invite me to his office during the day (not at the White House!), chat a bit and start sucking my cock. I then fucked him on the floor of his lavish office. I asked him multiple times if he was scared that his secretary would come in. He said no. To this day, I still don't know how he managed this. He didn't have to worry about me ever saying anything because I remain convinced to this day that he had the power to have me silenced for good. I just googled him and he's still on TV giving interviews and such. By the way, he is married with a couple of adult children.
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In anonymous encounters, I've learned not to even ask if a guy came. More often than not, the guy will have deposited a load, but will almost reflexively answer "no" when asked - unless it's obvious as the OP mentioned. I don't know if the top says no because the question itself turns the encounter into a not-so-anonymous one. Maybe the top doesn't want to have to deal with a paranoid bottom asking health-related questions. You might not be sure you got the load sometimes, but later you often find evidence of it. Don't obsess over it. Just enjoy the raw fuck. Let's not turn this into a "I'm only interestied in taking your dick IF I am guaranteed a load". 😂 Let's give the tops a break here. They already are under enough pressure to satisfy the never-ending supply of hungry bottoms. By the way, when I do top, I cum very quietly and walk off.
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I stayed at Basement Studios some years back. It was a very horny atmosphere and I had a sling in my room. Took some nice loads there. I would go as a day visitor again, but never as an overnight guest. Why? First, you have to make sure your room is locked at night. I had someone try to open my door at 5 am. It was very very hot that night and I thought about leaving the door open to let some air in. Even though the compound requires a code to enter, people can get in without too much effort. Second, I never unpacked my clothes while there. I had a feeling something was off. On the day I was leaving, I opened a drawer and one of the BIGGEST roaches I have ever seen in my life jumped out. Now I'm not all that squeamish about bugs, but the idea of bugs laying eggs in my clothes still has me shaken to the core.
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I believe that most of the time when a top - who doesn't know you - asks how many loads you have, it is to fuck with you mentally. Maybe they genuinely are trying to screen you out, but if a top is horny, finds you attractive and really wants to fuck at that moment, he's unlikely to ask. (Side note: I don't think bottoms cruising online for 1-1 hookups should surprise unsuspecting tops with a cummy hole. Either push out the loads you have or reveal you are preloaded before the hookup. If you're out cruising, different rules may apply. 🙂) Now if you are posting ads stating no loads refused, you are setting yourself up to be toyed with in this way. If I was asked the question, I'd probably answer a question with a question such as "does that turn you on?" to coax him into revealing why he's asking. Even if he's into preloaded holes, that still doesn't mean he is going to fuck you. This is why I don't particularly care for online hookups. It's too easy to let people who have zero intentions of fucking you get in your head.
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You all do realize there is such a thing as cum lube which is sold. So you could literally open yourself up with a dildo and fill your hole with that lube. Yes, you would technically be fibbing if you said you had a load in you, but let's be honest here - you're not trying to enter the kingdom of heaven, you're trying to get a real load in you. Some of these tops out here are adding inches to their dick size, so... 🤣
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I'm probably going to be in the minority for saying this but - every once in a while - I push back and fuck myself on a top's cock if he has a very big cock and I find myself running away from him. It's how I force myself to accept that I must take his big cock. Usually after some backwards thrusts, my hole is totally open and then I fully surrender to the cock and load.
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I occasionally go through my phone where I run across names/numbers and I truly have no recollection of hooking up with the person (I only save numbers of people I am about meet). The funniest though is having a flashback and thinking oh yeah I did take that guy's load. What a slut I am. 😂
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What makes you choose a particular bottom at a venue?
bbzh replied to JustCruizin71's topic in General Discussion
For me, success in sexually charged settings is more about subtlety, constantly monitoring the environment for clues and, to some extent, luck. Of course you can present your ass for anyone who wants it, but there will be guys who will pass on it because maybe they like the challenge of the hunt or they don't want to fuck in public. If I am in a bottoming mood, I will first try to identify the other bottoms and then I look at how (the guys I think are) tops respond to them. I usually offer blow jobs in public to signal that I will bottom. If a bottom is being too aggressive with me, I will let them play with my cock, but will not allow myself to get hard. That way, they lose interest and focus on another target. I'm doing pretty much the same thing when I want to top. While it's nice to know who the cumdumps are, other factors will determine if I fuck you (level of attraction to you, age, height, weight, etc). I probably enjoy myself most when I'm in a versatile mood. I feel like a kid in a candy store. It's always funny to me to see the looks on guys' faces when they see me topping after they've bred me or another bottom I've fucked sees me getting plowed. I guess we all have a "strategy" of sorts when we are seeking sex, but sticking to a particular strategy is always going to be somewhat hit or miss. It's all a gamble - but what I'm discovering is that we are not nearly as much in control of what happens as we THINK we are. Your strategy tonight might get you 10 loads. Same strategy, different day, different crowd = no loads. -
I was in Hamburg over the weekend and can confirm this. Great place to take loads from big-dicked German hunks.
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Bottoms - Are you a cumslut or a cockslut?
bbzh replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
There may be a very simple way to determine if you're a cumslut or a cockslut. Think back to a really hot fuck you got from a guy who you were really into. If at the end of the excellent fucking you got, you turned and asked "did you cum?" and he says NO - but you would let him fuck you again without hesitation, you're probably a cockslut. This site is heavily skewed to loads given and taken, which isn't a bad thing, but I'd trade in some of the loads I got last year for higher quality fucking from the types of dicks I prefer. In other words, keep your load in your balls if your dick and stroke game are weak. Note to tops serving cumsluts: lie to every single bottom you fuck and say you came in them even if you didn't. You instantly become a hero in their minds if they think they got your load.😂 -
I've had an unusually fast start to 2020, taking multiple loads in the first 5 days of this year. My favorite hookup was with this guy yesterday at my place. He mentioned already a couple of days ago that he wanted to come over. This made me suspicious because it's been my experience that most guys flake when they book that far ahead. Anyway, he turned up and was way hotter than his pictures. Because he traveled more than an hour to get here, I didn't want to just toss him immediately up on the bed. We sat over a drink and talked for about 30 minutes. He was impressed by how well I speak German. I then asked if he wanted to play. He said YES. Once he was fully erect he tried to mount me. We had a little trouble at first as he is a little shorter than me. So I asked him to stand by the side of the bed and I lowered my ass for him. Then what happened totally shocked me. He kept me in that position for 30 minutes or so and pumped three loads into me. He needed very little recovery time after each load. He was felching me out in between. I felt like an animal that was being held down and inseminated repeatedly. I remember how with each load my ass felt fuller and fuller. Wow, I found one of the unicorns, guys! A bareback top with a big dick that can shoot multiple loads! Now I've over here fantasizing about how to become part of his rotation or maybe even dating him. 😂
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So many interesting points of view about sling expectations. I don't see the sling as the place to hang out and hope, but that's just me. Pretty much every time I've been fucked in one, the top led me to it or vice versa. And while I totally get wanting to advertise that you're a bottom ready to take cock, I think one has to be very strategic about this. Stay in the sling too long and it seems (at least to me), the chances of getting fucked fall sharply - and that might affect your chances with other guys throughout the entire venue, not just the sling. Suddenly you're that guy that was in the sling that absolutely nobody wanted to fuck. My sometimes very delicate ego won't allow me to place myself in such a vulnerable position, essentially begging for cock, only for men to reject me. That's soul crushing to me. This is why I'm actually kind of intrigued by sling lizards. It's like they're very confident but also defiant. Or maybe it's simply them deciding "well if I'm not getting fucked in the sling, then nobody else is either".
