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HA, fun topic! This is a mixed one for me. i've been propositioned a lot... especially prior to online when there were cruising locales. But that prolly doesn't count as "out in public?" i have to be careful in public because i'm full of wishful thinking and can easily mistake friendliness from another Guy as "flirting." At the gym, where i work (in a teaching hospital full of hot resident doctors, among others). It would be so much easier if They'd just pin me to a wall and kiss me while groping me... but, that only happens in movies in my experience. This is kinda me:
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Couple of thoughts that may (or may not) be encouraging. One of the long time medical interventions for enlarged prostate (prior to meds like tamsulosin) is "prostate massage." i promise this is not just a gay fantasy cum true, it's a real thing. Though there is debate about it's medical efficacy amongst professionals: "The longstanding theory behind a prostate massage is that it helps express stagnant fluid and relieve symptoms of erectile dysfunction, painful ejaculation, prostatitis and pain in your pelvic region. But there needs to be more research into these areas, as there isn’t yet enough evidence to support these claims beyond small, anecdotal cases." [think before following links] https://health.clevelandclinic.org/prostate-massage Then there's this: "Anal sex can cause prostatitis if not done properly. Anal sex is truly an art, with many intricacies that can complicate the act. The prostate gland is walnut-shaped and fills with fluid to help your sperm during ejaculation. The more stimulation, the more fluid (or prostatic juice) that’s created. But there is a fine balance. Direct, constant penetration–angled to the front of the anal canal, about 4-7cm internally–can lead to diffuse swelling and significant inflammation. It’s literally a pain in the ass, or more so the pelvis. You need a full understanding of your anatomy and its functions in order to make sure you treat your very sensitive (and temperamental) prostate in such a way that it gives you pleasure and not pain." [think before following links] https://bespokesurgical.com/2020/11/13/does-anal-sex-cause-prostatitis/
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Btms you prefer older or younger tops
tallslenderguy replied to mnbare's topic in General Discussion
"Stretching" is good, it;s one of the signatures you leave on a bottom 😉 -
Btms you prefer older or younger tops
tallslenderguy replied to mnbare's topic in General Discussion
i love mid fuck too. -
Btms you prefer older or younger tops
tallslenderguy replied to mnbare's topic in General Discussion
It's kinda cool to re-read these and see where some change or not over time, see if i have changed. i answered this one four years ago and my answer if pretty much the same. For me, it's still about the Guy i'm with being engaged. i connect with His desire... even deeper if He's open enough to express need. For me, that connects to my own lust and need in an almost magical way and makes for the best sex. i've had that with younger and older, not an age thing. i currently have a FB Who's in HIs 20's and has been breeding me a couple times a week for going on four years now. And it's never routine. Not sure how we got so lucky, but both of us really connect. Otherwise, we have very little in common, but there's this openness that has never gone away and we always have smiles on our faces and feel awesome after. -
i'd copy and paste something similar to what you wrote above and ask the guy you are speaking with which He wants to see. To me, the point of the exchange you are having is to determine compatibility, and this is one more piece of the puzzle. Ask Him what He wants to see, what turns Him on, because that's individual. i run into the same questions. For instance, i can be hairy or smooth, and i find Tops are about 50/50 when it comes to what turns them on, so i ask before i send a pic, which they prefer. Same goes for sloppy or clean, open or tight, etc..
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This gets discussed a lot on BZ. i love smooth on myself, but also think it's sexy on a Top. i'm naturally hairy, so it takes some work... shaving doesn't work, gotta use something like Nair. That said, it's not an identity challenge with me, i like to be however turns the Top on the most when it comes to hair. Sex for me is largely about the lust/desire driving it, so if hair feeds His desire to fuck, i'm all in. i have a Top FB Who's hairy all over, even has a beard... and i normally do not find hairy sexy. And i guess i still don't, but i am very into Him and my mouth and hands are all over Him and His hairiness is not the least bit off-putting for me. He likes smooth, so i currently have a smooth ass, butt can be either.
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"(Reuters) -Republican mega-donor Bernie Marcus said on Tuesday he would likely still give money to Donald Trump's 2024 presidential bid if the former president was convicted of a crime - but the billionaire does not plan to be one of his biggest financial backers. Marcus, a co-founder of home improvement retailer the Home Depot, announced earlier this month that he was supporting Trump, the runaway frontrunner for the 2024 Republican nomination contest that kicks off on Jan. 15 in Iowa." [think before following links] https://news.yahoo.com/home-depot-billionaire-says-hed-200914677.html?.tsrc=daily_mail&uh_test=0_00
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i've been to ABS with pretty good sized "theaters." Dark, with sofa and overstuffed chairs and lots of sex going on. ABS have alway been open to everyone. i'm not put off by men and women having sex at ABS, they don't seem put off by me getting fucked by other men. i've seen trans people, cross dressers, pretty much anything goes. i don't have to go with anyone i don't want to, i don't feel it violates my freedom of expression, i don't want to violate someone else's freedom of expression either. i agree. To me, excluding a transman is like saying "i do not see you as you see yourself." They identify as men who want to be with other men, i support that as a gay guy lol. i lived for a large part of my life conditioned by a culture that told me there is no such thing as me naturally being attracted to men... i knew i was. Who am i to tell someone they are not who they perceive their self to be?
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I think this is the kind of reason and eloquence we need in the White House.
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i don't know that i see it as "burn out," (that terms seems too permanent to me lol), but i appreciate the point. i think we can swing far in one direction, almost as part of self discovery (self preserving?). We are often socially/culturally conditioned against our sexuality, and i think going the other direction and 'whoring' can be a reaction against that conditioning. How much is too much? i think that's individual, and fluid. i think it's easy to make rules and habits that don't always fit the reality of where we are at at a given time. my experience is like others have expressed, sort of the tide coming in and the tide going out when it comes to my sex drive.
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"After quoting from the Bible, the Democratic lawmaker said, “A religion that has to force people to put up a poster to prove its legitimacy is a dead religion, and it’s not one I want to be a part of. It’s not one I am a part of.” Talarico then brings up that this bill seems to go against Republicans’ desire to get parental consent for everything. “Every time on this committee that we try to teach students values like empathy or kindness, we’re told we can’t because that’s the parent’s role,” he said. “Every time on this committee that we try to teach basic sex education to keep our kids safe, we’re told that’s the parent’s role, but now you’re putting religious commandments — literalcommandments — in our classroom, and you’re saying that’s the state’s role. Why is that not the parent’s role?”" [think before following links] https://news.yahoo.com/watch-texas-democrat-leave-republicans-161826585.html?.tsrc=daily_mail&uh_test=0_00
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
tallslenderguy replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Just left... He went black Friday shopping today and is going to the casino tonight, but said He was horny. Said he was thinking of jacking off, but decided to call me. Told Him i'm glad He didn't waste it, that He has a place to put it. i'm so fucking cum sloppy. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
tallslenderguy replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Just left about 30 minutes ago... still floating though. He bred me Wednesday and wanted to yesterday, but i was feasting and we all know eating and bottoming don't go together. It was a tough call, but the food was already in. Lately, our routine involves me sucking Him and doing a lot of kissing an licking of His thighs, balls, crotch, and of course His Cock. Then He turns over and presents His ass. He's the only Guy i will rim, but He so obviously gets into it and is so vocal, it puts me in the zone and keeps me there... so He's found a way. He's really hairy, and i like smooth, but again... i'm so into Him, even His hair is hot to me? He's Latino, so unlike my hair, His is short and curly. His skin is golden brown and absolutely flawless, just thinking about Him makes me salivate. Funny how chemistry can get one liking what i wouldn't normally. He always finishes breeding me, which is probably key to our longevity. He's bred me hundreds of times and definitely has built and taken possession of a space inside of me, which He fills and maintains on a regular basis. Loving life right now. -
Any Guys Into Drinking Piss?
tallslenderguy replied to VersatileBreeder's topic in Watersports Discussion
When it comes to piss, it seems piss drinkers fall into (roughly) two categories: Those into piss, and those into the pisser (and then there's always "versatile" guys lol). i'm strictly "into the pisser." i don't relate to drinking piss from a glass or bottle, or in any way detached from a Mans Cock. For me, the piss itself is the lesser reason for the act of receiving. i'm still working on getting past the taste of piss, has no appeal at all for me. For me, it's all about receiving a Mans desire,, lust, release, pleasure. If a Man agreed to piss in my mouth, just because i wanted it, it wouldn't work for me. For me, it's about connecting mutual desire. i'm the same with force or bullying. A man who would try to force or bully me into taking his piss would be totally missing the point (for me, i know this is not universal). A big part of the mind fuck and power dynamic for me is Him realizing the power and control He already has. Force or bullying comes off as compensatory, him not realizing his position with me. For me, there is nothing hotter than a Man Who shows His desire and asks if i will hold His cock in my mouth so He can piss. There's courage in the act of asking because it risks rejection... but He also realizes His full power when He is pretty confident i will say "yes" and He obtains my submission through my need/desire. That is missing when a person uses force. He may get capitulation, but that is different from desire/need based submission. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
tallslenderguy replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
If You were my roommate, You could have slid into my ass and unloaded, even if i was asleep. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
tallslenderguy replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
just left, haven't written about my FB in awhile... don't wanna be boring, just cause He never gets old for me, doesn't mean the same FB repeatedly seeding me isn't boring to read about? idk. For me, He's kinda like a drug and i'm addicted to Him, Him breeding me is like a fix. Butt better. my holes so sloppy when He leaves. Normally i wanna keep all a Mans seed in deep and absorb it, but He keeps fucking and shoots a couple of times, so the outside of my hole is cum sloppy too and i end up fingering and tasting Him from inside me after He pulls out. He wants to sleep over, hang out, watch movies together and eat together and fuck a lot. i've tried to explain about bottoms and eating, but He doesn't really seem to get it lol. idk, it's sweet and hot. Told Him if He wants to sleep over just to give me warning and i'll leave my back door open and He can come in and crawl in bed with me and slide on in. 🙂 -
MJ's wife runs a counseling business. i would not be surprised to learn that MJ is a repressed gay and his wife is his ally in his fight against being homosexual. Yes, i'm speculating, but many would be surprised at how common this is in fundamentalist circles. They do not believe there is such a thing as being gay, in their counseling against gays they frequently equate it to alcoholism (not kidding here). 'HuffPost reports that Kelly Johnson, the spouse of the newly elected Speaker, runs a counseling business that in its operating documents compares being gay to, among other things, having sex with a family member or animal. Specifically, Onward Christian Counseling Services’ 2017 operating agreement states: “We believe and the Bible teaches that any form of sexual immorality, such as adultery, fornication, homosexuality, bisexual conduct, bestiality, incest, pornography or any attempt to change one’s sex, or disagreement with one’s biological sex, is sinful and offensive to God.” The Speaker, who previously practiced law, notarized the document, and his signature appears on the last page. The company’s website is no longer accessible online" [think before following links] https://www.vanityfair.com/news/2023/10/mike-johnson-kelly-johnson-onward-christian-counseling-services
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"The Mike Johnson hits keep on coming — in early October, the soon-to-be speaker of the U.S. House of Representatives took part in a “prayer call” in which he said American culture was “dark and depraved,” partly because so many young people identify as “something other than straight.” The call took place October 3, just hours before Rep. Kevin McCarthy was ousted as speaker and three weeks before Johnson, a Republican from Louisiana, was elected to succeed him. It was first reported this week by Rolling Stone and has been picked up by other media outlets. It was hosted by Jim Garlow, cofounder of the World Prayer Network and founder and CEO of Well Versed, a Christian right organization. “The culture is so dark and depraved that it almost seems irredeemable at this point,” Johnson said on the call, which was posted on the Well Versed websitethe following day. Among the signs of this are that church attendance has dropped below 50 percent and that “one in four high school students identified as something other than straight,” he said, putting air quotes around “straight.” “We’re losing the country,” he added. He said he believes God will lead the U.S. through what he considers a crisis, even though the situation merit's God's wrath" [think before following links] https://news.yahoo.com/mike-johnson-u-dark-depraved-204710159.html?.tsrc=daily_mail&uh_test=0_00 Stay tuned. In another recent comment MJ noted how Americas leaders placed in leadership by "God," (a common fundamentalist belief). They believe they are in position to do 'God's work,' not represent the people. Many of these would not hesitate to be 'the instrument of' "God's wrath."
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idk. Reading through this thread, i begin to wonder if "side" is yet another piece to the sexual culture evolution puzzle? There's nothing like a new term to evoke our staid feelings of what is (or what should be?). For those old enough to remember, imagine the responses before transpeople became more visible? i have to agree (though i think we can do without the moral superiority) that we need to treat each individual with respect, even if they are not what we want or need. To me, as society becomes more and more digital, hookup sites are the gay bars of yesterday. It doesn't feel right to me to hang a sign on the door that says: "we don't serve your kind here?" To me, "side" is yet another descriptor to add to the list along with Top, bottom, versatile. Why not? i don't approach other bottoms (no matter how much i may love them) because we do not want the same thing. If someone identifies as "side" and i don't wanna cuddle, but wanna get fucked, i simply won't approach them.
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Did you ever write your advert for sex on a toilet wall
tallslenderguy replied to gingerballs's topic in General Discussion
OMG, as a repressed gay teen, i spent hours in restroom reading the messages on stall walls, just sitting there and being amongst my people lol. No, seriously, i did. Those who did not grow up in an era of repression, where being gay and fucking could get you arrested and charged with a felony, may think it weird that we had sex in restrooms (read: "in hiding"). -
Fundamentalism is truly a mind fuck (not the good kind), it's the essence of cults. It took me 35 years to process out of it cleanly. i quip: "being gay saved me from 'God.'" That rankles fundamentalists, but if there is a "God," then that God knows what we went through to try to do it the fundamentalist way. What saved me was trying for 35 years to be what i was conditioned to believe "God" wanted, and it didn't work. There was no changing the way i am. I.e., the reality of who and how i am could not be changed by the fundamentalist ideas of what i 'should' be.
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Editorial excerpt written by Amanda Marcotte in Salon "I suspect Johnson dodged a government shutdown because he really is, as Gaetz put it, "MAGA Mike." The endless and mostly fruitless battles to force Democrats into budget cuts aren't Johnson's motivation for getting out of bed in the morning. Sure, he claims to want the same spending cuts that Republicans always want. But his heart's not in it, and he's happier dragging the topic back to his personal priority: forcing his rigid religious beliefs on everyone else. He has actually argued, for instance, that a national abortion ban would soon produce enough "able-bodied workers" to "cover the bases of Social Security and Medicare and Medicaid." "It's not that Republicans have entirely given up on slashing taxes and spending. If they regain control over the Senate and the White House next year, we can certainly expect more tax cuts for the rich and further slashing of social programs ordinary people rely on. But by electing a House speaker who is a culture warrior first and a "small government" ideologue second (if at all), Republicans have signaled an important shift in priorities. They're not much interested in investing political capital in widely unpopular government shutdowns. Their energies are shifting towards the cultural preoccupations of the MAGA base: Banning abortion, gutting LGBTQ rights, undermining racial equality, and generally seeking revenge against disadvantaged groups, liberals and people who went to college. The switch from McCarthy to Johnson was never about the budget fight. It was about MAGA's final conquest of the Republican Party." [think before following links] https://news.yahoo.com/much-small-government-budget-fight-110001807.html?.tsrc=daily_mail&uh_test=0_00
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These guys live in a different world from the non fundamentalist population. Most of us, almost instinctively, understand that a father does not make himself sexually accountable to his 17 year old kid. But that is exactly what Mike Johnson is doing. Having been raised in this BS, i know it well. Here's a sample of what MJ means when he says: "...go pick up a Bible off your shelf and read it. That’s my worldview." Spoken like a true ethno/ego centric. His presumption is that anyone reading the bible will come away with the same 'worldview,' despite the plethora evidence of denominations with all their different interpretations of the bible. I.e., there is no standard "worldview" derived from reading the bible. MJ is fundamentalist. That approach to religion is, in my opinion, what makes him and his ilk so very dangerous. Views like the above "War on Technology" and "accountability software" are prime examples of MJ's views that he would impose on the "world" if given the power to do so. MJ thinks we all need "accountability" to his notions of "God."
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Surprised no one has mentioned this yet... but as a bottom, the best way for me to cum is from getting fucked/bred. Only happened a few times for me, but when it has, it's the best orgasm ever.
