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LOVE it! Mostly a bottom, but a cummy hole always gets me rock hard. Love to eat it and refill it! Love it die to me too. Would love to have been your friend offering you MY hole at the end of a good night!

I love the suggestions provided so far and agree with all of them. Personally, I use trimix, but then I’m primarily a bottom and don’t tip on a regular basis. I am fine with that, but when I do too, I want to be able to perform. Anxiety, body image, blood pressure - all add to my, specific, ED contributors, but trimix eases that and I can perform. Find the things that really turn you on a partner that enjoys that and you should be good to go. It sounds like you’re cockblocking yourself. You need to be your own wingman instead. ❤️

I'll also throw my vote towards Banana VIdeo. Have had some fun upstairs there... If you're fairly mobile, I also like the backroom of Touche, Ram bookstore, Manhandler Saloon (down in Lincoln Park) and Teejay's Adult Books (down in the loop). Shame Bijou closed a few years back, that could be fun as wel.

Slowly bringing my numbers up - 227 total this year. Only 48 in my ass, though. 179 down my throat. This has been a very weird year. Hitting bookstores/theaters only so far - no play parties and no big events yet. Doing Horsemarket party in LA over CLAW. That should jumpstart my return to true sluttiness!

[think before following links] https://horsemarketsf.com/laagreement/ [think before following links] https://www.clawinfo.org/ ALSO a WARNING: DO NOT MENTION Horsemarket on BBRT. They will cancel your account. I had mine cancelled because i was "Promoting a commercial party". I updated my profile to read "Where are the stallions? I need to practice for Horsemarket next month." He apparently doesn't like the horsemarket party and is so petty that he will cancel your account for mentioning it. I think references to CLAW are ok, though.

I've aways loved assplay and toys. It was a natural progression for me to slide my hand into a gaping hole... Still working on getting mine there regularly, but it'll happen!

You will see every body type and every level of fitness. There will be men who eat, breathe and sleep leather and those that just put on their first piece. There will be alphas and uber-alphas all trying to out peacock each other and you will see omegas trying to catch their attention. You will see the preeners and the average, the hairy and the smooth, the pups and the cubs and the bears and the otters and the wolves and every other archetype you can imagine. You will see leather ...and rubber and pups and furries and sports gear and everything that turns people on. Be yourself. Be confident. (Confidence is sexy.) Take my tips above and enjoy. It CAN be overwhelming. There is nothing wrong with withdrawing and chilling for a bit. Remember it's a marathon. Don't peak too early. 🙂

chatted with a dude on one of the apps and he was SUPER horned up. Said he was housesitting over by where i live (we'd exchanged what part of town we lived in already). He asked if I wanted to get fucked and I said yes. Showed up to this house and parked and he was on the side of the house and waved me over. I walked over and he dropped his pants. Not one for formalities, I dropped down and sucked him a bit. He grew to about 7 inches and had a lot of foreskin. Yummy! He pulled me up and grabbed my ass and I knew he wanted to fuck. I pulled down my gym shorts and started to pull down my jockstrap , but he wanted to fuck me in it He fuck and fucked and shot a big load inside me. He pulled out with a plop as some of his load leaked out. He fingered it and fed it to me. then he pulled his pants up and I did the same. Turns out it was a vacant house and he wasn't watching it for anyone. Best driveway sex I've had in years!

Sniffies - logged in and posted that I was looking for some lunchtimes fun. Got a few hits, nothing serious, but one guy I had chatted with before. He asked when I was free and we made a plan for me to cum by his place and get bred Yay! Got close and he said he had a call and it'd be a 1/2 hour later. Was that still okay. Still worked for me, but I was thinking maybe he's gonna flake. We'll see. Time came and I showed up. He buzzed me in and I was pleased with the tent he was already pitching. We got down to it. I dropped down and sucked a bit before he pulled me up and spun me around to fuck me doggy style. He fucked me good and hard and eventually blew his load, but stayed inside me. He said "Damn, I'm still hard." I told him to keep fucking me, then. It feels great. He shot a second load in me and I was on my way. I got to my car and realized I'd left my poppers and lube (hazard of bringing your own.) I texted him on sniffies again, but go no response. He'd mentioned that he had another call immediately after, so I told him to keep them or throw them away. I was about to drive away when another guy hit me up and said "You're really close. Are you taking loads?" I said yep, just got bred and he said want another? I said send your address. He did and t was the building next door to the first guy! I walked in and took a third load. His dick was bigger, but slid in nicely as I was already full of cum! He fucked me hard and furious. Not too long later I was finally driving away with a leaking hole and a smile!

I agree with @Cumslut943. Unless you are into the contest, there is no need to buy the full package. They've changed the tickets a bit. I usually get the contest base or dance base tickets (the dance parties ARE a lot of fun and can get quite frisky). Access to the shuttle bus can be helpful too if you plan to hit the bars on the north side of the city. They're a bit far. I highly recommend seeing some of the city, if yo've not been before. If the weather cooperates. Chicago when it's warm is an amazingly fun town and EVERYONE gets out to enjoy the sunshine after being cooped up for the winter. There have been years when I just bought a market pass and wandered the halls. Make sure you check the hotel policy, if you're not staying there. They have limited access to attendees before. If I go I stay at the host hotel (which is a dump), but is FULL of horny men fucking everywhere - stairwells, bathrooms, quiet hallways. LOTS of room parties and open doors al over the hotel. If anon sex is your thing, you can get your fill. It's a great time. Some helpful tips for your trip: Pace yourself. There are so many things going on. You will not be able to do them all. Pick the ones that you HAVE to do and build your day/night around them. Enjoy whatever you're doing while you're there. Don't be too caught up in what's next that you miss out on the stud eyeing you up right now. Be friendly. Everyone is in a good mood. Sometimes that makes people say hello. Reply. It doesn't mean you have to fuck them. I've met many men over the years at IML. Some have become really good friends, but I wouldn't have met them had I not been willing to socialize. ...and lots of times they know about a party that you don't. Don't be afraid to tag along, it might be JUST the gangbang you're looking for! Hydrate. Regardless of what else you drink (or take), drink some water. Be aware of your surroundings. It's still a big city and where there are tourists, there are pickpockets. Keep your valuables secure and only take what you expect to spend. Keep an eye on your drinks. You probably won't have any issues at all, but no reason to tempt fate.

have to agree with @BootmanLA. What I want in MY playroom, may never get used in yours and vice versa. That being said.... if it's a utility room? Does it have a floor drain? They can be handy if you're into water sports (or even just for clean up purposes). A sling, a fuck bench, a St Andrews cross or some other method of bondage - shackles attached to the wall, a cage or stockade, an assortment of paddles and floggers, dildos, buttplugs, vibrators, a milking sleeve, hoods and blindfolds.... Put in the things that you like or want to do. It's your playroom, PLAY. Structurally, keep in mind tile tends to echo and can be cold in the winter. Good airflow/venting can be important if you're using poppers. Lighting is important if you plan to film. Mirrors can be fun, but wreak havok with lighting and cameras. how big is the space will be another factor which will force you to do some prioritizing.

I've been sent pics of myself. I've also been told "that's not you. I've seen that pic on another guy's profile." Turned out that guy was using my pic. It doesn't happen THAT often - as I'm not usually looking for guys who look like me and I'm far from hung and my ass, though nice, is just an ass. It's not super muscular or hairy or anything. It is flattering, but it is also annoying as fuck. Ive also had people use other peoples pics when hooking up then they get to the door or I get to theirs and it's awkward. Sometimes I'll call it out and say, Nope. Other times, I'll call it out and tell them they should have used their own pic, cause they're handsome. Other times I say, those were bad pics of you - you look better in person. It depends on my mood and whether I REALLY need the dick. Why do people do it? I guess they're dealing with their own self-image issues. The person WE see in the mirror doesn't always reflect who everyone else sees. I try to keep that in mind before I get angry. It's my attempt at being a better me.

Nice. Looking forward to all of those parties!

I used to keep track every year (as near as I can tell - some nights you're blindfolded in a sling and think they MAY have cum, but you're not always sure. I'll start keeping track again next year (this year and last year were horrible as far as numbers go), but I've averaged about 500 loads per year pretty consistently. I tend to rack up some impressive numbers at big events - IML, MAL, Decadence, Horsemarket parties, Dore Alley, Markey Days, Leather Pride, Pride, Cummunions, etc.

Fuck yes! I want to work a shift with you two! Love to eat cummy holes too....

Got my mare ticket for CLAW LA. Cum breed me, stallions!

I don't always se poppers, but will if the dick is really big or if I'm in the mood to let go completely and take every cock! They used to give me bad headaches, but they don't s much any more, so I use them more often, but really it's maybe 30% of the time.

Nice! Make sure to check out Underwear Night at the Barracks (on Wednesday). There are a lot of events going on that weekend for Leather Pride - some play-friendly, others not. There's also a very fun private play party going on thrown by a guy on bbrt. msg me for his info. Since I can vouch for your pigginess...

I'm hoping they have one at MAL in DC in January again. That was the last one I went to. It was amazing!

Who's going? I wasn't, but then I found out they're doing a Horsemarketsf party on Friday and Saturday. I went to the one in DC right before al this COVID mess. It was one of the best fuck parties I've ever been to! Anon loads are right up my alley!

It's been a minute since I've been to either one, but the descriptions above seem to mirror my experience - bears, leather and daddies at Chute and gym bunnies and twinks at Flex. That being said, I've been bred well at both, but maybe that's cause I was in the dark room at Flex! LOL

A fuckbuddy is someone I've played with before who knows how to pay without romantic entanglement. There may or may not be an emotional connection (affection, friendship, fondness, love, etc), but there is no expectation of dating or a relationship. We may play regularly, or it may be seldom, but if he's a repeat (that I know how to contact), he's a fuckbuddy.

FYI: MAL 2022 is requiring proof of vaccination to attend. [think before following links] https://www.leatherweekend.com/covid-statement/?fbclid=IwAR0uybgf1VH-r43xlMGb0wVRwErjcCJ7VfcO96Fvq7k76OF7e5be2ib4m1c

That's the link to the original in Berlin (which I've been to as well). The one's here are HorsemarketSF ( [think before following links] http://www.horsemarketsf.com ). They are amazingly fun times. They just had one in NYC. The next one scheduled is in LA over CLAW. If anon sex is your thing, you really should do it! The mares are led in first and then hooded so they can't see. The stallions are let in after and they have their pick of mares to breed. Many sample a lot of them and then go back to their favorites. There are numbers for both stallions and mares and a best in show is chosen based on votes.

How was it? I've ben to CmUnions at CCBC, bt not at All Worlds yet. Let us know how it went!