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I first heard about bareback mid 90's in, I think, a Yahoo Group that showed a hole leaking cum.

endowed wrote: To avoid the ambiguity for the top, to breed or not to breed my hole, once I realize the top is getting ready to climax, I tell him "Go deep when you shoot" or something like "When you start shooting I'll open up my hole for you to go deep to deliver your load." Saying that makes it clear where I want his load but also it's such a turn-on for many tops picturing shooting deep inside that they start nutting once I say it.

When a group of tops tag teams a bottom is really hot for the bottom, the tops, and the guys watching. After edging for a while and sharing the bottom, once one of the tops starts creaming the hole is just a matter of seconds before they all want to deposit and mix their load.

Saunas were so much popular 20 years ago. Not as popular because internet hook-ups are free, the sauna environment still pretty hot. What I like the most about saunas is that there is no need to discuss stats. Someone is either a turn-on or not, in which case you move to the next one. Spontaneous group action is also so hot. Some differences? Canadian saunas are pretty good and you have the choice of a room or a locker. No such thing in some countries in South America. You get a locker and the key is managed by a staff member. I think to avoid thefts. One can rent sort of a roomette by the hour but with restrictions on what you can bring to the room. I hate that because in Canada I'm used to going directly to my room and have all what I need, like poppers, lube, fetish clothing, masks, etc. Canadian saunas have good play areas with gloryholes, slings, slurp ramps, etc. In South America I haven't found a sauna with good play areas. Lots of uncut cock which I love.

You can take a trip to Montreal where you can find a few saunas.

Never been fucked by a cock with a PA. The idea of my hole being hurt turns me off.

Gloryholes are like Crop Circles: nobody's seen one in the making. I you have been involved in the making of a washroom gloryhole, I'd like to know.

My cruising outfit, saunas and parks, always includes some kind of a short or underwear with a hole as a way of indicating that I like bottoming. I also have signs with different slutty phrases in a couple of languages such as "Cream my Hole" or "Cumdump". These are great in the sauna because I made them with glow-in-the-dark white paint on black background. I also paint around the hole in the short or underwear with the same paint so they'll glow at night at the sauna. Two weeks ago I took a trip to Montreal, to the leather sauna GI-Joe. Rented one of the sling rooms on the 3rd floor, the busiest. A used the French version for the signs "Crème mon Trou" and took a few French loads.

Sex in dark places is so hot for so many men and I can't understand why saunas and sex clubs don't provide more dark spaces. A sauna in Santiago (Chile) comes to mind. All the action takes place in the darkest parts of a hallway because they don't provide adequate dark spaces. I find the same thing happening in saunas in Montreal (Canada). At GI-Joe, sort of a leather sauna in Montreal, there are several public slings but none of them in a dark enough place for the more anon action. I wish some of the larger saunas offered rooms in both lighted and dark areas. I would like to see a public sling in a very dark room, so anonymous bottoms could get bred by totally anonymous horny tops.

I agree with Jamesbgck, that it isn't the taboo part or feeling slutty that is the best for me. Similarly, as Jamesbgck says "All I am thinking about is squirting my load into a hole" for me being that hole. Throattopman seems to agree when he says "...I get off being a top with guys who see themselves as nothing but holes for men's loads." This is powerful because I've even seen bottoms who, when they once in a while they top, it is usually anon, just looking for a hole to shoot their loads.

NOTE: I know that for many guys anon sex is not their thing so this thread may not resonate with guys who are repulsed by or dislike anonymous sex. I've tried loving sex, with both men and women. I've tried a lot of anonymous sex and it is definitely the only type of sex I now like. I'm not interested in having sex with anyone unless it's anonymous in saunas, sex clubs, darkrooms, gloryholes. I like "loving relationships" but where sex is not part of the equation. I have a gloryhole in my apartment that I haven't used lately but I did for many years. The sex in the gloryhole was amazing. There was one guy who I saw for many years and we never met face to face. I would suck him, he would then fuck me, breed my hole and then leave. We never saw each other. Always a hot experience. The same at the sauna, the best sex is in a darkroom or on a sling in dark corner. Anonymous breeding are so fucking hot, the best. Being on all fours in my room at the sauna, and having someone walk in and from behind, fuck me, breed my hole and leave. Without saying a word unless it's slutty talk. My question is why is it anon sex so fucking hot and we never seem to get tired of it? Sometimes therapists say that is "fear of intimacy" but I don't buy that because I love intimacy but without sex.

I haven't topped in a while but I've seen in Xtube a lot of videos where the bottom vigorously moves his ass as the top unloads. The bottom begins to fuck the cock trying to squeeze every drop. I can identify with some bottoms' enthusiasm of wanting every drop of the top's load, fuck, me too, that's why I want! But, is that a pleasant experience for tops? In many cases when a top starts to shoot, his cock gets extremely sensitive to the point where may want to stop all friction for a few seconds, before he continues pumping his load. I had a fuck buddy who every time he started to cum he'd ask me to stay still, not even touch him. Once he felt comfortable again, he would continue the pumping and finish delivering his load.

I don't top but I know from a bottom's perspective that tops, after pounding ass, like to just let of their juices inside the bottom's hole. There's something powerful for the top about the idea of inseminating an anonymous hole, a hole that's there for his pleasure. Pulling out goes against this strong feeling. As DaysofSodom said, "Why would anybody want you to pull out?" Asking to pull out was more common when condom fatigue was first starting. I remember once in my room at a sauna a guy was fucking me bare and ask me to cum inside. At first I said no, but then he said, "But I'm safe." So I let him finish the job and planted his load in my hole. Now that I welcome any cock and load, when I notice the top getting close, before he even asks anything, I make it clear to him that the place for his load is in my ass by whispering things like "Make sure to go deep when you shoot". This alone sometimes brings the top over the edge but now he knows where to deposit his load.

AT first I thought BBC in this thread meant Big Black Cock...

From a bottom's perspective, when a top who's fucking me tells me "I'm close", a fresh load in my hole is only a few seconds away. Sure, a top can pull out for a few seconds to continue edging, but once a top says "I'm close", in my experience, there's no pulling out and sometimes just a soft tightening of my hole is enough for the top to go over the edge and start moaning and groaning before and while he unloads. But not all tops announce when there about to go over the edge.

I think that it is a mistake for men to consider sex the barometer of their relationship. For me sex is a personal aspect of oneself, too personal as to give away one's sexuality to others. If sex is the main part of a relationship between two men then soon that will wither and the relationship will be over.

Many bottoms have the idea that married guys, and straight guys in general, are more of a top, just from fucking women. But I think that many guys who fuck women like to bottom with men.

It doesn't surprise me to hear that married guys also look for sex with men. I think it has less to do with whether a guy likes men or women and more with the kind of sex men can get with other men. For a man to experience a walk-in dump and go situation with a woman is almost impossible. If a married guy wants an anonymous sexual experience it really has to be with another man because the game of sex between men has different rules than the hetero game.

This one is a year old but I find it very hot. I like it because you see how the top's face as he groans and moans while he dumps his load deep in the bottom's hole, but you also se the bottom's expression of pure heaven as he receives the load. http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=fzRO0-G786-#.VPSBbuEYF2A

not_sure_bb wrote: "How do the places police the top/bottom ? all the bottoms would say they were a top to get in free." I thought that I described the design that would make it work. First, it wouldn't be free just because a guy at the entrances says he's a top. Of course not. The place I envision has a regular entrance to access the rooms, showers, play area, darkroom, etc. There would another entrance, probably in the back close to the darkroom, gloryholes, etc. This entrance would lead to small partitions that once they are locked, the guy can only stand. No room to kneel down and try sucking cock. The holes from this back entry would probably be elevated, only for getting sucked, like a slurp ramp. There may be some same-level holes in case the guys using the back door want to fuck ass. The guy at the cash would have a buzzer to open the door after looking at the guy coming in for free. Once the guy enters he must follow the strict rules of going into a cubicle right away and no folling around amongst the guys would be allowed. Everything is monitored electronically and audio system to impose the rules, all these systems nowadays readily available and cheap. Anyone breaking the rules is banned from the free place. The rules are (1) Walk to assigned cubicle and lock it. (2) No attempting to kneedl down once in the cubicle (3) No talking or interacting with other guys in the free area, (4) Limits on time, that way these horny guys will deliver a load. It's important to strategically position the entrances, ideally one in the front and another in the back. I'll explain the idea again. Twenty years ago saunas were popular places to meet for sex and even if all a guy wanted was a quick blow-job, he had to pay to get in. Nowadays, with hook-up tools like Grindr if all a guy wants is a blow-job, why pay for the sauna? But sometimes even something like Grindr is not anonymous enough like the action you get in a sauna. When using the Interent guys have to exchange "stats" and that alone makes the interaction less anonymous. In a sauna, park, etc, no need to exchange stats. There is either chemistry or there's none, so time to move on. By implementing my idea guys who all they want is to get anonymously sucked or to fuck a nice anonymous ass, can now do it for free. Imagine a constant stream of guys who wanna get sucked or looking to fuck would do to bring in the paid crowds. A guy pays, walks to the back near the play area and looks for the cock he wants to suck or get fucked by. Ideally, the website should have the information of how many cubicles are being currently used. Because really, who cares how many paid guys are inside the sauna if there are five cocks waiting to get serviced? Actually, when the place is packed (paid guys) the back gloryholes would be pretty busy and you may have to wait for your turn. If anyone owns a sex club/sauna, contact me. One of my fantasies in life is to collaborate on a good sex club. I'm an Interior Decorator kind of guy but I would love to "decorate" sunas a sex clubs.

I'm as atheist as you can get, but I still find religions interesting. In Christianity cum is never mentioned but in Islam the rules on how to treat it are out there. The following question/answer can be found at: https://library.islamweb.net/emainpage/index.php?page=showfatwa&Option=FatwaId&Id=85710 Question What is the rule of semen? And how should we clean it if it falls on a carpet? Answer Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the Worlds; and may His blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon all his Family and Companions. The semen is pure according to the preponderent opinion of Muslim scholars. The evidence is the Hadith reported by Muslim that a person stayed in the house of Aisha (RAA) and in the morning began to wash his garment. Aisha (RAA) said: "In case you saw it (i.e. drop of semen), it would have served the purpose (of purifying the garment) if you had simply washed that spot; and in case you did not see it, it would have been enough to sprinkle water around it, for when I saw that on the garment of the Messenger of Allah ( sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention )), I simply scraped it off and he offered prayer, while putting that on" . So, if the semen was impure chafing it would not have been sufficient, it would have been obligatory to clean it with water like the blood the urine and the pre-seminal charges and secretions. In fact, scrubbing sperm is not obligatory as it is not impure. So, when it falls on the carpet it does not tarnish it. But if some urine or some sexual charges (not sperm) fall on the carpet, it should be removed and cleaned thoroughly with water. It takes the rule of the soil and is cleaned in the same way. al-Bukhari reported from Abu Hurairah (RAA) that "A Bedouin urinated in the mosque, and the people rushed to beat him. Allah's Apostle ordered them to leave him and pour a bucket or a tumbler (full) of water over the place where he has passed urine. The Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam) then said, "You have been sent to make things easy (for the people) and you have not been sent to make things difficult for them" . Originally the floor of the bathroom is pure unless some impurities fall on it. So, unless one is certain that some impurities have fallen on the floor of the bathroom, he should consider the bathroom floor pure. And, as long as, this servant cleans the bathroom then walks on the carpet then the carpet does not become impure unless she ascertains to have walked on same impurities. Then only the place of the impurity is cleaned. Allah knows best.

I'm a bit confused by "My Status" in BBrt. Does a Positive status mean Detectable? Or sometimes Undetectable guys put Positive in their status?

In terms of choosing a Motel, are those rooms with direct street access better for anonymous breeding? Can someone explain how does it work in hotels? Guys just walk up to the room or need to check with clerk? Do they first call the room before the guy walks up?

In general I prefer a verbal top, hear his breathing, moaning and finally the groaning. I do like to know when the top tells me he's going to shoot so I usually whisper to the top "Make sure you go deep when you shoot your load" But experiences with silent tops can be very hot too, especially in saunas and darkrooms. I find it so hot when I'm on a sling or fuck-bench at a sauna, and a guy starts fucking me and all of a sudden he pulls out and leaves without saying a word. I then check and I feel the cum dripping out of my hole. Big turn-on and in that case silent breeding is fine.

For me it starts with the top's noises: heavy breathing, moaning and sometimes dirty talk just before he shoots ("I'm close and getting ready to breed your hole"). Then the groans as he shoots inside and I feel the wetness in my hole as he keeps pumping it full of cum. For me feeling the top's cum is the icing on the cake.