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I'm sure you won't have any problems finding tops to breed your hole. You are young and with a nice body so it's just a matter of "marketing" yourself in something like Grindr, which is particularly good for guys new to a neighborhood. Enjoy!

Most of the talk has been about it feels to bottoms. And it's true that there is a huge difference. But I think that in comparison raw fucking makes much more of a difference to tops. Not to mention the moment of the breeding and feeling the hard cock free inside instead of restricted by the condom. The couple of times I've fucked with a condom, my orgasm is spoiled by it because as uncut my head gets too sensitive and feeling the condom becomes unpleasant.

Your doctor is just being responsible. After all, taking medication is never good because they all have side effects. He's also right about increase of other STDs. Your doctor gains nothing warning you other than doing his job. Gilead Sciences, on the other hand, is making a fortune.

The first Cumunion party will be in Montreal on May 16th, 2016 at the sauna GI-Joe. Sauna GI-Joe is a hot sauna in Montreal and always some action in one of it's 4 floors. Anyone planning on going?

I have a gloryhole and a portable sling

"I'm getting close"

You need to relax your hole.goes in with no problem. I don't do poppers but I think those may help. Many times it's all mental and if you are able to relax it

Thanks constructionguy. But I'm unclear of what makes CumUnion special because I now see bareback almost everywhere. The decision to bareback is basically up to the bottom and any young hot bottom can count on getting bred either at the sling or fuck bench and in private. My experience tells me that providing very dark areas promote barebacking. What about the "Lights Out" event at Steamworks? I think it's on Thursdays. Anybody's been to Lights Out?

The verbal, in Spanish, is so hot. First there's some watersports. At 8:00, "I"m going to breed you", and then just as the top is ready to shoot, he asks the bottom "How many of my babies do you want?" Then, at 9:15 as the top pulls out says "Squeeze because I don't want my babies to leak out". Author: lijadordf Title: "How many babies do you want ? / Cuantos hijos quieres ?" http://www.xtube.com/video-watch/How-many-babies-do-you-want-Cuantos-hijos-quieres-28181471

I don't think that "hangup" is the right term to use in this context. When I was under 40 I much preferred guys my age or younger, and older guys were usually a big turn-off. I was often frustrated in cruising places because most guys were over 40, much like today at the baths or in the outdoor cruising spots. Young guys who like guys their own age are now lucky with the online Apps where they can easily screen and find sexual partners that meet their requirements. I'm not one to make up stories and try to convince myself that in my 60's I'm as "hot" as I was in my 20's and 30's and that "age is just a number". Especially when in the man-to-man sex age plays such a crucial role. Aging is something that all men better accept especially those of us who are lucky to live past our youthful 20's and 30's.

The aroma that this thread is talking about is a very particular smell of a load that has been kept overnight. I have never smelled this in any other circumstances. I was already getting fucked bareback but wasn't doing it at the baths.Back then hardly anybody took anon loads and neither did I. I as at the bath and in a dark area I started fooling around with a guy who ended up fucking me bare but he wasn't supposed to cum.All of a sudden he starts to leave which to me indicted he had bred my hole. As the guy was leaving I asked him "Did you cum?" and he said "Non" and left. Shortly after that I went home and went to sleep. The next morning when I went for a shit, I smelled an aro0ma that I had never smelled before, and it was then when I realized that he had bred my hole the night before. It's a very distinct smell... I think MrSync is talking about a different smell

This is true in my case and it manifests itself as only wanting anon sex, even being a bottom. But to me this is only a problem with sex with women. I would have trouble getting into sex "women style", dinners, blah, blah, etc. In order to claim that one is suffering from Erectile Dysfunction first one has to imagine possible hot scenarios that may be a turn on. Not sure what this scenario would be for poptronic. Many guys get really turned-on by being a top in a gang-bang, with multiple breeders. Even bottoms are sometimes turned-on by a sloppy hole. Poptronic, would you get a hard-on in this circumstances? In your case a gang-bang may not be your cup of tea. If I did top I may identify with poptronic. But I'm certain that I don't have ED because with some good porn or some hot anon action I have no erectile problems.

A poz friend of mine who's on Meds told me that in his last visit to the doctor his VL was zero (0). According to his doctor a VL of zero is not common.

Don't owners and/or managers of sex-clubs and bathouses realize the value that darkrooms and dark areas add to these places? I've had countless suggestions and discussions with owners and manager about the lighting and how bright some areas are. A local baths has a Blackout event once a month and the place is packed at lunch time. It's true that many guys get turned off by the idea of sex in the dark and not being able to see the other guy. But for many sex in darkrooms is very hot. Any mid-size and biger bathouses should have some hallways and rooms area at different lighting levels so everybody can find what they want. I once went to a bathouse in South America that had a sling in a fairly dark area, which I found really hot. But I would like to find a sling in a completely dark room where tops can't see the bottoms and vice-versa. A truly anon sling breeding fest in the dark, which would be so hot to hear the anonymous moans and groans. I wonder if it has something to do with insurance policies.

This definitely clarifies it for me because being on Meds does not necessarily mean "undetectable".

I like using Grindr when visiting a new city. New meat always catches guys' attention and I usually end up hooking up. But I would never use Grindr while at home.

I'm sure that you like the idea of not finding any teeth in a butthole, which is smooth, wet and totally adaptable to the cock by tightening or loosening the hole.

From what I've noticed many undetectable guys have their HIV status as "Positive". Maybe some forget to change it after they start takings meds.

For me this story is a clear evidence that stealthing in anon places, whether is lying about status, tampering with condom or turning used condom around, is a totally acceptable behavior. First, in the same way Bbreedmebb doesn't publicly bareback, many wanna-be sluts and cumdumps also don't want to completely accept being complete sluts. In my case I was stealthed and then started barebacking and taking loads. Second, from the story it's also clear that anon stealthing requires a careless bottom who just wants to be "a hole" where guys can make a deposit. What makes anon encounters hot is that the top wants an anon hole to fuck, breed, and then just leave. On the other hand, a bottom wants an anon cock to fuck his hole, dump his load, and leave. How can one expect honesty, trust, morality to play any role in these kinds of sexual encounters? I can't even see the law getting involved in a conflict between a cock and a hole.

It's inevitable that as one ages, the older the man the less desired he feels. I can easily come to terms with "being less desired" by simply remembering that in my youth older men were either invisible to me or sometimes repulsive and annoying. I used to enjoy cruising in parks and I was frustrated by the high number of older men (over 40). I wanted a place with men my age in their 20's and 30's. Looking back I now realize that I was being too closed minded and probably lost some good experiences with older men. But at the time that is what I needed. Part of the appeal for "young slutty bottoms" is that they are scarce. Many young guys fantasize about it but don't have the guts. Any time a 18-22-year twink take-all-loads bottom gets on a public sling at the baths will probably take load after load, even from so-called total bottoms and from guys who don't even like twinks. In contrast, a 60-year old bottom can expect to lie on the same sling for hours without anyone paying any attention. When I go to the baths, which I don't very often go now, I use things to stand apart from other bottoms. I don't use public slings because the age thing. But I rent a room with a sling because I know that some guys would fuck me but need some privacy. I also "decorate" my room with strategic signs that glow in the dark. These signs have really worked well for me.

I used to visit NYC around that time. One night I was desperately trying to find The Minshaft but could never find it. In the process I ran into the club "Glory Hole". It was $10 membership and then another $10 to get in. It was a maze full of partitions and gloryholes but I remember there being lots of light. One could clearly see a guy getting fucked or sucking a cock. I was in my early 20's then and it ended up being a bit too much for me so I didn't stay too long. The memories of sex in NYC in the 1970's were triggered by last night's episode of SNL. (April 2, 2016). One of the skits is staged in an elegant restaurant that used to be a sexclub in the 1970's. The skit shows a gloryhole that was supposedly kept from the old sexclub in the Meatpacking area of NYC (Mineshaft?). It was funny, especially to us who are familiar with sex in those days. My first encounter with men was in the West Side YMCA (5 W 63rd St) in one of my visits to NYC in the late 70's. Without knowing what to expect my first time at the YMCA was an amazing experience from the sex point of view. The building had 10-12 floors and the top 3 floors were being rented by the day, let's say floors 10,11,12. The rooms were small and sort of dirty and smelly, but I didn't mind. The first time I stayed at the West Side YMCA I just watched and didn't have the guts to do anything. Mostly young guys because the YMCA was kind of a Hostel for cheap accommodation for young guys visiting NYC. The experience was an eye-opener to my view that I had of sexuality and freedom. There was a slutty bottom staying right across the hall and I would hear how guys would be coming into his room all night. This whole experience became the foundations of a recurring dream I have of a certain place for sex, and it is clearly the YMCA in NYC in the 1970's. I went many times to NYC and I always stayed at the YMCA, but now I knew what to expect and couldn't wait to get there. Each floor had a bathroom where guys would hang around shaving, showering. But it was fun to know that many of the young men were also new to the scene. And some were even a bit homophobic. At night things would change and the sexual tension would rise. Guys walking around in all the men's floors. By my second visit I had already been fucked in a visit to a sauna in Toronto. So this time I would leave the door of my room open and had many guys come in and have sex. I would also visit the bar Eagle NYC which had a back room and was a lot of fun. Many times I would meet guys there and go to their apartments nearby. It was so much fun. Anyone has any experiences in the YMCA in the late 1970's?

Whether it's at the baths, at a sex club or sex party, most of the times there are more bottoms than tops. This makes it very competitive for bottoms and in general bottoms in their 20's and 30's end up getting most of the attention from the tops. This is what I observe now and it's what I've experienced in my life. When I was a young bottom the attention was sometimes excessive and even annoying if too persistent. I have also noticed that top guys are kept busy by eager bottoms with a hungry hole no matter the age of the top. At the baths there will always be some hole that will be happy to take the load of a 70 or even 80 year old guy, as long as he can get it hard and shoot a load. As you pass your 50's, although it could be earlier, (1) If are able to top, is it easier for you to get more action by being a top as you get older? (2) If you have been a bottom, have you lost appeal as you get older? I'll start by answering them: (1) Not much into topping but I know that if I decide to start topping I can always find a willing hole. (2) I personally didn't noticed much difference in getting attention from tops until my late 50's. In my 40's and 50's, although I was old by some standards, I didn't notice any real changes and I was getting all the sex I wanted. I kept myself in very good shape and was very masculine so I had no trouble hooking up with guys at the baths or online. I had tons of sex from mid 40's to my late 50's.

Bingo! This is exactly the situation I was initially describing: a horny bottom with a sloppy hole who needs to relieve himself before going home or back to work. Otherwise, bottoms will keep taking loads and stay at the baths longer than the available time. What do other bottoms do before going home if topping is not your thing? (1) Getting sucked (2) Jerk-off alone before going home (3) Jerk-off at home before going to sleep (4) Never shoot my load

I've been to Steamworks-Toronto and find it pretty good. But I've never been to a Cumunion event. What happens differently during those events? It's never been clear to me what it means Cumunion at Steamworks because I always play bareback there anyways.

I like staying at Spa Excess when I go to Toronto. Rooms are large enough to fit a smaller suitcase under the bed. My only problem is that once I'm inside I don't want to leave and end up spending most of my time inside the sauna and having sex. I once had to go to Toronto for a wedding so I had to leave. Got there by noon, had sex all afternoon, changed into formal dress and left for the wedding well bred. When I came back at around 3am the place was packed and I had to find my way into my room dressed in formal ware. I hardly slept that night and it was about 10am when I took my last load and went to sleep. I like staying at Spa Excess because I also go to Steamworks 2 blocks away.