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What I find interesting in his "coming out" story is that he has never said anything about being gay or bi or anything. In my opinion, a man's sexual life should be a journey from the inner, and outwards: (1) First, masturbation, exploring his body and sex with himself (2) Then, sex with other men, exploring other male bodies and sex with them. Be able to compare cock size. (3) And then, optionally, sex with women if the man feels the need for it or if he wants to have children. But the belief in the concept of Sexual Orientation forces men to have sex with women in order to qualify as "normal". So then women have to fulfil needs that should have been fulfilled in step 2 by contact with other men: Is my cock big compared to other men? How far can I shoot my cum compared to other men? Rather than thinking of men as gay, bi or straight I see some men as having the guts to explore sex with other men and others as too ashamed to even try it. I would not describe Tom Daley as gay but rather as a man who has the guts to defy society and try step 2, which is exploring and having sex with other men. Too bad he first skipped step 2 and tried step 3 first. He may have never had sex with any of his female dates, who knows. But whether he did have sex with his female dates or not, he's still young and will be able to repair the damage of having had skipped this very fundamental step in a man's sexual life: the encounter of the self projected onto another man's body. What's traditionally called "gay sex". I accept being gay, straight, or bisexual, but only as a self identity. Anybody has the right to self identify as gay but nobody has the right to impose any self identity on anybody. In this case, to say that Tom Daley is gay (or bi) makes no sense because he hasn't said it. Because we live in a world that explains all sexual behavior using "Sexual Orientation", many men who are going through Step 2 feel forced to take on the gay identity, after in this case, the Media starts talking about his as being gay.

I don't like screaming bottoms because they sound like women. Men talk dirty.

From the point of view of the 3rd top, who "only knew how to fuck hard", you may have failed as a bottom. He maybe wanted to fuck you for half an hour before he shot his load, and nothing wrong with that. I"m sure many bottoms would enjoy a top who likes to "fuck hard" and fuck for a long time.

Some guys may consider themselves "tops" because they have no interest in being fucked and even not interest in sucking a cock. But that doesn't make them Superman. If a guy can't get a hard-on I can always suck his cock and maybe then he'll get it hard, or just enjoy sucking him. No need to get angry.

I don't like bottoms who moan or scream too much. As a bottom I prefer to talk dirty to the guy fucking me. I find that any moaning or screaming coming from the top is so much hotter than anything coming from the bottom, so in my porn screaming bottoms irritate me because I can't clearly hear the top.

My fantasies never include poz cum so after reading some of the latest posts on the thread "Poz guys - Any Regrets?" I've been thinking more about a fantasy I have. I would like to be part of a group of men, call it a club, where each member is committed to only having sex with other members of this club. Members are monitored by trained counsellors and medical staff. Therefore, when participating in events like gang-bangs or sex parties the members can be sure that everyone in the event has been appropriately tested for all STIs. Obviously, it would cost quite a lot of money to be part of such club because active members would have to be continuously monitored by professionals.

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I'm a total bottom but because I have a nice cock and I'm masculine many men assume I'm a top. Which turns out to be OK because I find that guys like fucking masculine men. I have never enjoyed the couple of times I've topped. For some reason I really enjoy getting fucked by other "bottoms" who get horny enough that they decide to fuck and breed a hole.

I don't know if you are referring to: I agree with NHSoccerjock if the fuck takes place at a sauna or another anonymous sex place where everything goes.

If I'm at a gloryhole (my own or at a sauna/sex club) I'm happy just sucking an swallowing loads and I don't feel the need to get fucked/bred. Obviously, if someone asks me to turn around I do because I enjoy getting fucked at a gloryhole too. But if it's not at a gloryhole I prefer to just suck if the top requests it, but the load I like it up my hole.

I don't let anyone fuck me with a condom...I just don't enjoy it and I prefer not to get fucked. But nowadays most guys don't insist on wearing a condom. I once met at the sauna a guy with whom I've had work meetings as we both worked for the same Agency. I was on the sling, he recognized me and he wanted to fuck me, but with a condom. I told him that I don't get fucked with condoms, but after having left my room, he came back, fucked me bareback on the sling, gave me his load and left the room. Many tops, even if they say they only fuck safe, fuck bareback.

A cum sloppy hole is what sometimes takes for some 100% bottoms to turn into tops for that one time.

I personally don't like the idea of a "tight hole". When I'm getting fucked I use my ass muscles but just occasionally and that way I explore what the tops enjoys most. Some tops prefer a looser hole and that way thy an last longer. Tighter is not always better. And once I notice that the top is ready to shoot his load I don't like to "milk his cock" and instead I prefer to open up my hole and let the top dig in deeper if he wants more friction.

Me too. But I'm also aware that men have a lot of different erotic/sexual needs and fetishes that can only be experienced in places like a sauna. A guy may have the need to walk around amongst other men naked showing his big hard-on with absolutely no interest in another guy touching or sucking his cock. His "trip" may just be to be able to show his big cock to other men, something he cannot do anywhere else without being judged. In a sauna I can reach over an touch another man's cock without being accused of assault, a freedom I don't have anywhere else. Basically, we have no choice but to accept that not everyone is into our sexual scenarios, which is true also when it comes to barebacking.

To be told by the guy who just fucked you and bred you: "If I had a hole like yours, that can open up and get fucked for long times, I would then be more versatile."

I prefer to use lube when getting fucked, especially when I'm in a darkroom. I like to have a slippery hole when guys going by touch my hole. Dry holes are hard to enter. Which kind of lube? I like stuff like Boy Butter because I can then know that the stuff that's leaking out of my hole is cum. If I use the clear lubes I an really tell the cum from the lube. Boy Butter sticks to the skin and the cum just leaks out.

My way of saying this is that men like sex in its pure form as women need to enhance the experience with love and other forms of emotional connection. They fuck it up!

I'm visiting Santiago (Chile) and one of the saunas has a great darkroom, very dark one, with lots of action going on. I get on the edge of big mattress, on my fours, wearing a black t-shirt with glow-in-the-dark letters saying "Your cum, my hole", also black tights with a hole in the right place. It feels so great when in the darkness someone starts fucking me without me having a clue of who he is or how he looks like, to then feel him cum inside, and leaving without any exchange.

On Tuesday a horny 20 year-old dropped by my apartment for a pump & dump. He left without saying a word which is fine with me. Next day he contacted me again for another pump & dump. I found that a big compliment when there are so many holes around for breeding.

As advertised on my sex profiles I much prefer anon action. This morning a guy (about 40) wanted to drop by so I got all ready and waited for him. The drill is, I leave the door of the apartment ajar and as he walked in he saw me in position to get fucked. This guy wanted me to first suck him until he got hard, then he fucked me, bred my hole and left. As I was getting ready to write this "Last Load Story" a 20 year-old who came by about 3 nights ago wanted to drop by but for me not to clean my hole. He wanted to fuck my sloppy hole. Within 20 minutes I had taken 2 loads.

I'm now in Santiago, Chile. Sauna Metro here in the city has an awesome darkroom and I've been able to take lots of loads without knowing from whom. The only problem with this darkroom is the LOUD music, s loud as in a disco so you can't hear the guys' moaning and groaning.

If you think Sexual Orientation exists, and that men and women have an "orientation" in term of their sexual choices, then yes, I may be joking. But I don't believe that there is such thing as Sexual Orientation that determines who we enjoy having sex with. Saying that straight men are really gay or that gay men are really straight are statements that don't make sense to me because I don't think that men are either gay, straight, or in-between (borrowed from John Money's title of one of his books) If there were three genders, gender A, B, and C, then I may be willing to accept that gender A may have an "orientation" for gender B or C, or that gender B may be "oriented" towards A or C, etc. But it makes no sense to talk about "Sexual Orientation" when there are only two genders because male bodies have a special emotional significance to men that female bodies don't. That is why I believe him when a man tells me that a body of a woman does nothing for him but I won't believe when a man tells me that he's not interested in men's bodies. I know my views are different to most people when it comes to Sexual Orientation but I'm not willing to accept concepts that are flawed. Going back to the original topic, having sex with men is hotter because male bodies have more emotional significance to men than women's bodies. Men with other men can compare cocks sizes and shapes, can compare cum-shots, can symbolically suck their cock by sucking another man's cock. There much more this. If I were responsible for a healthy society I would make sure that first men have sex with men and play all kinds of sex games amongst men. After resolving all sex-related issues with men, only then men would be ready for sex with women, if they want. Now men do the opposite. They are socially forced to have sex with women which but then later in life they realize that they've missed something and "come out." If the need that men have for other men was not as strong as it is there wouldn't be any need to legislate against it, such as they have recently done in Russia.

We are going off topic talking about dogs. My point is that yes, sex with men is much hotter that sex with women and that men accept and settle for less because they want children and also need to follow norms imposed by society an their family. Sex with men can be mild to wild, to wilder, something women don't offer. Sex is like sports which is more fun when played amongst men who have the same level of aggressiveness and competetiveness. My question to so-called straight men is how come they enjoy so much the company of men but not sex without even trying it? I know that many self-identified gay men think that straight men enjoy sex with women as much as gay men enjoy sex with men. But that's not true and most men who only have sex with women are very frustrated with their sexuality and they force women to satisfy their needs that only men can.

I've come to the conclusion that men are divided into those who want to have children and those who don't. Those who want to have children have to put up with all the regulations and restrictions imposed by women in their sexual relationships. Those who don't want children are free to choose and when it comes to satisfying fetishes they will eventually choose men for sex because of the variety of sexual encounters they can have with men. I'm one of those few people who don't believe that Sexual Orientation is real and that's why we don't understand it. How can you understand something that doesn't exist?

Manhunt is a must here in Chile if you wanna hook up. Everyone is in Manhunt. I joined just for my trip to Chile.