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That's one of the things I like about pulling a train. On the weekend I went to Spa Excess here in Toronto and got gang fucked on the fuck bench. Took seven cocks and five loads one after another. As soon as one guy finished the next one slid in. Didn't need to add any lube. Most of the guys I only saw when they pulled their dripping cocks out of my ass and slid them down my throat while the next guy churned up the multiple loads in my ass. Only downside is that a lot of the cum ends up dripping on the floor instead of in my hole.

Followup. I am at Steamworks tonight. Just spent almost 90 minuted getting clean. With specialized douche stations. It takes time. And water. Lost of water!

Dude, 50 ml at a time is not going to much more than rinse out your rectum and possibly trigger a bowel movement. For our American friends reference, 50 ml is less than two ounces. Ideally you want a real douche tap with a controlled flow of water. Where I am most bathhouses have this. Others have referenced a shower shot, which is an auxiliary fixture you can install at home. If that isn't possible, then an enema bag with hose from a medical supply store is a functional option. The capacity of these things will be measured in litres, not millilitres. Even then you will require multiple fills. Worst case scenario: multiple manual rinses with a 500ml water bottle with a narrow neck. With this you are maybe going to push 350ml up your ass at a time. When I have to resort to this it generally means at least 20 rinses spread out over maybe 90 minutes. Ten rinses or so. Wait 20 minutes. Rinse another 6 or 7 times. Hope things are pretty clean at thos point. Wait a half hour and rinse 3 or 4 times. Whatever you do, you aren't finished until the water is clear AND doesn't smell bad. Even if things look clean, if the water coming out of your ass smells like stale shit, it's a sign something is imminently going to fuck up your fuck. I was a complete newbie only a few years ago but figure I have had about 2000 cocks up my ass in the last 5 years. Probably over 90% have gone straight from my ass to my mouth, so I both want it clean and would notice if it were not.

Is Canada particularly bad for this? Here in Toronto there seem to be at least three times as many tops as bottoms.

I am working on it. Hope not to disappoint! If any one is in the Toronto village and wants a housecall later to take that load, let me know.

This is funny because I see this thread all the time and it never really hit me. I am at Steamworks baths in Toronto right now. For my second load of the night I just took someone who didn't seem to speak a word of English. The only phrase he seemed to understand was "knock me up" because he came immediately after I started repeating that.

Do they still sell Poppers at Folsom Gulch? I will be visiting SF soon, and last time I was there I bought poppers in the front and got bred in the back arcade by a 9.5 inch cock. Are there other places in that neighborhood I could get fucked? I will be staying nearby and should have some time free, but not enough to travel too far.

Most loads swallowed orally? It was a Pride Saturday at Spa Excess here in Toronto a few years ago. The day before the parade. I don't think I had even been to the baths during the actual pride weekend, thinking there would be waiting lists all around. I went early. There were no rooms but I got a locker. Which meant two things. One: Most of my sex would have to be in public areas. Two: It was fucking packed. I lost count of how many cocks I sucked. But in about an hour and a half I swallowed 12 loads and took another two facials. My one regret. On the way out I was stopped by an older bearded dude who had gone back and forth in my throat with his partner earlier. I had sucked his enormous fat ten incher probably longer than any other cock that day, but hadn't got his load. He said to me "If I knew you were leaving, I would have cum in you" Made a great feeling feel even greater. Happy Pride

Hope to see you there. If you are who I think you are you have fucked my ass at several of the Fukd parties and at steam works. As more of a pure bottom I like to be really clean. My default would be to douche as fully as you can before leaving home, eat light at dinner and if you can find a discreet washroom and a bottle of water do a quick touch up before going to Fukd. I avoid immodium as it can be really dehydrating. But a bit of pepto bismol early in the day can help for later. I had to attend a BBQ this week where it would have seemed weird if I wasn't eating. I did a light clean before leaving, ate a hamburger and one beer and then did a full cleaning later at steam works. Ended up taking one of the biggest cocks to ever fuck me with no problems! Good hunting!

I am a bottom in Toronto. For me bath house is the way to go followed by formal sex parties like Cumunion where organizers get an actual venue. In Toronto they actually host Cumunion at a bath but there are a couple of other parties like that. Apps like Grindr have several issues mentioned by many others. Everybody is 28 years old looking for the hottest gym bid or prettiest face. I don't post face pics online and while I am in pretty decent shape I am in my late 40s. But perhaps more importantly these phone apps don't allow you to search by things that are meaningful to me. I don't care about your face I care about your cock. I want to know who is a BB top with a big and preferably uncut cock who wants to breed ass. I assume that the Apple store has a problem listing apps that are this transparent. To some extent the baths will always be better for me just due to choice and volume. I don't feel satisfied unless I can get at least three loads so a place with a hundred guys is more likely to satisfy than trying to setup multiple hookups. I don't entertain at home so having a neutral location with shower and douche facilities is also huge to me. While I am too old for a lot of the Grindr crowd I seem to be popular at the baths. But while I have found bareback to be increasingly common I find a lot more guys who will fuck you bare but hold off on giving you the load. So while I get fucked a ton actually getting the loads can be a matter of timing. Guys cum in the ass of the bottom in front of them at the time they decide they are ready. And at the baths they have options. So I do like the idea of meeting with one guy specifically to get that load. So I would still really really love an app that would give me some extra options to match up specifically with big uncut BB tops.

I am lying in bed at home jerking off while cum drips out of my ass. I went to steamWorks in Toronto last night and got 8 loads in my ass and 2 in my mouth. Not a record but I am licking it off my fingers happily.

So to take this in a slightly more generic direction: Mine! I am bi, not out, and a total bottom with a strong preference for large and uncut total tops. I do pretty well when I hit the baths as it is fairly simple to sort through the guys with compatible interests. But I think a lotof guys have abandoned baths, cruising spots, personal ads etc for apps like Grindr. I find those things useless beacause they are so superficial about stats and interests. It seems really face-pic oriented and kind of ageist.The vast majority of users seem to be 25-35 year old hipsters with nothing more than a face pic. I assume that they are trying to stay within content restrictions that might get them knocked off the App Store or Google Play. But it makes it near useless to me. I am not looking for a cute boyfriend, I am looking to get barebacked by the biggest cocks I can find. At least on a site like BBRTS or Squirt I can search for guys who are Large, Uncut, Top, Barebackers. But then people on those sites don't appear to be using them as much for real time hookup searches as much as they do Grindr. I want to be clear about what I want. I don't want to put my face out there, especially if I am advertising myself as a total bottom bareback cumdump. But on Grindr it seems that only your face pic will get you hits. Anyone have any suggestions? It just seems that Grindr has taken over the easy hookup end of things but doesn't deal well with sorting on any variable other than proximity or face pics.

I like really big cocks and silicone lube is a necessity especially for extended or multiple fucks. I don't like the way water based lube dries out However I have found that poppers can really improve my ability to take cock with less lube.

While I have a fair amount of experience at the baths I am still relatively new to barebacking. I am looking for advice in effectively advertising my availability. I always get a room even though I like to play publicly. But getting more into bottoming, I prefer a bed, and like having my lube and poppers handy. Lately I have taken to lying face down on the bed in my room with the door open facing away from the door, ass lubed and poppers at the ready. Before I started barebacking I would also have been afraid that guys would have taken this as an invitation to bareback. Now I am encouraging that, But there are a number of variables of presentation that I would be interested in gettng feedback on. What do tops like? Lighting. How much do you want to see the goods vs "mood" lighting? We are talking about baths so the range only varies from very dim to subdued. It seems to me that I get better results with dimmer lighting. Face visible/ eyes open or turned away and closed. Really a number of variables here, but do tops want to see my face/ make eye contact? I normally face away because it seems as though a lot of guys will take a longer look if they don't think you are simultaneously sizing them up. There also seemto be a lot of guys who get off on the idea of sneaking up on a "sleeping" bottom and exploring his ass. How much of a thing is this and how do I encourage guys without breaking the fantasy and scaring them off by being awake? I am in relatively decent shape and facially appear to be considered good looking, so in general letting guys have a good look at me is to my advantage, but if I sit upright on the bed I inevitably encourage more approaches from fellow bottoms and eye contact seems to scare off a number of tops who get off on "taking advantage" of a passive vulnerable bottom, or even just getting a good long look without the pressure of expectations. Last. is there any way that I can telegraph that I want it bare? I make sure that it is very obvious that there is lube on the bed side table but no condoms.

Yes when his huge cock first enters my tight hole. Yes when I feel him tense and unload his cum deep inside me. But most of all when he pulls his cum ccovered cock out of my dripping ass and I take it into my mouth and lick it clean. Ass to mouth, baby

I am very big on anon sex and love darkrooms. I am a size queen and do like to suck a guy first and gauge his size and check that his dick is not covered with sores but other than that am pretty much open to anything. I have had a couple of scenes in darkrooms taking on hugely hung guys who must have been pushing 80. My start in gay sex was giving glory hole blowjobs in video stores. I cared a lot about the cock that came through the hole - plus marks for size, foreskin and men of colour- but not much about the men they were connected to.

check out my screen name yes, that's right I find about 30% of tops expect it, About 60% are surprised but delighted and maybe 10% are not interested

Most of my sex is at baths, where douches, showers, beds and multiple partners are all accessible, and this is all important to me in finding the partner and circumstances most likely to align in common interest. While I am a total bottom, want to be a hole for his use, never play with myself and rarely get hard while being fucked, I am not one of these "It is all about the top and what he wants" bottoms. What I want matters too. I don't expect a top to care about getting me off, and cumming is not my goal. I will certainly try and indulge a Top. I really prefer being fucked from behind: doggy, or lying on my stomach, or bent over a bench. But if he wants to mix in another position I am game. But I am not gong to totally toss aside my preferences. I love the fucking. I am pretty simple in my tastes: fucking, sucking, ass to mouth, groups. If a Top wants to take time out from fucking for the occasional gaze at my gaping hole, or to sniff my pits, or suck my toes, I can deal with that in varying forms of enthusiasm. But lets not let that dominate. We are both here for the fucking, right? I love the feeling of a Top trying to force every last fraction of an inch of himself inside me. I love to tell him how much I want him to shoot his load in me and see his reaction, imagining splattering my guts. I want him to feel the previous guy's cum slickening our fuck and looking forward to when his own load is added and he pulls out and slides that wet cock in my mouth while my ass drips. I love just feeling stretched open by an extra thick cock, his hands on my hips as leverage to just bury it. I love long long strokes from a big cock. It is one of the things about being a size queen that makes it hardest for me to understand guys who do not care aboout cock size. I love it if he says how much he loves my ass and how good it feels and how he is going to go get some more Tops so they can enjoy this great ass. I love it even more when he delivers on that. I love love love when he is getting close and he tells me he is going to gift me with his cum. I don't need him to moan or make a show, but the words and ways that Tops have to express their pending release are infinite and deep, and I appreciate it when they share it with me. From the quiet "gonna cum" to the violent "Take my load you dirty whore!" it is all beautiful. Please don't keep it to yourself. And last but not least when he is done with my ass, feed me that slippery cock and let me lick it clean. Open the door and let the guys who were listening have a look, And take their turn.

To me it depends on terms. By "quick" do we mean 3 minutes or 30 seconds? Is "long" 20 minutes or 2 hours? Are we talking about a single experience or a trip to a bath or darkroom? If I met up 1 on 1 with a guy and he came in 30 seconds, I would be disappointed. But I recently had two meetings with a very thick 9 inch top with a lot of experience who intended to fuck me at length, but each time enjoyed my hole so much he just had to cum "quickly". Now I think "quickly" was about 7-8 minutes the first time and 3-4 minutes the second time. Those were great great fucks. On the other hand while I love long fucks if a guy has been fucking me for an hour and shows no signs of cumming it can be frustrating. I hate the feeling of "is he ever going to cum or at some point is he just going to pull out?" Afew months ago I had a 2.5 hour fuck from a top with a very very thick 8 incher. He had cum in another guy a few minutes before we hooked up so didn't really feel pressure to unload. But at a certain point it is not a great feeling to think "is he ever going to give me his cum?" My ideal is to be at a bath or darkroom where there are opportunities for multiple fucks. If that is a the case I like some variety. Start off with a moderately sized cock for a moderately loing fuck to open me up and add my first load of cum lube. Then mix it up a bit. Long fucks, Medium fucks. Quick pump and dumps. If i can get at least 6 or 7 different cocks and loads, then I can be very happy with any fuck whether it is 60 minutes or 60 seconds. As hungry_hole and others have suggested, sometimes its fun to get a lot of quick action from guys about to go home. Here in Toronto where it seems the Bottom to Top ratio is about 5:1 I often get guys who are essentially versatile bottoms, but more on the bottom side of things hit me up to dump a load before leaving. It is kind of funny when you get a guy who might have seemed to be ignoring you earlier and suddenly is into you and you realize "Oh you were just ignoring all other bottoms...until now."

This is something I only had to deal with recently as I have not been barebacking long. One of the things that most surprised me about barebacking was how much better it felt as a bottom. The lack of friction from rubber means I can more easily take bigger cocks with less warm up, less lube and for longer time. I seriously have an easier time taking a bare 10 incher than a rubbered up 7 incher. I too have started keeoing no condoms in my room at the baths. This seems to take care of most of the tops who will use a condom just because they think it is expected. But many will insist for perfectly legitimate health concerns. I don't want to pressure anyone but I have started to say the plain truth: I prefer to bareback and experience significant discomfort from condoms, even though I use lots of high quality silicone lube. I leave the decision to them. In the last month or so I have turned down some fantastic huge thick cocks because of it. I have also got several guys to agree to fuck me bare. This is a bigger deal for me because I am a size queen. Normally I am looking to get fucked by very large cocks, so the issue is real. I had a guy last week who had one of the thickest cocks I had ever seen. He tried to put it in me with a condom and it hurt like hell, but when I persuaded him to take it off, magic. Initially I had suked him for a long time before asking him if he wanted to fuck me. I imeediately made it clear I wanted bareback but he put on a condom. After some intial pain I just reached back and rolled the condom off and guided his cock to my hole. He pushed in. I don't like to put a lot of pressure on so you have to be prepared to lose out on some fucks. I met a guy with a very thick 9 incher who admitted to me that his deal with his boyfriend was that they barebacked each other and could fuck around as long as they used condoms. He was really hemming and hawing. I am pretty sure that if I worked on him I could have gotten him bare, but I didn't want to do that when he was so clear about why he was reluctant. My advice - particularly if he has a big cock, or maybe just make him feel that way - is explain that the rubber causes friction which makes it painful to you. It gives him permission to go bare just to help you out.

Bi, 44, total BB bottom in downtown Toronto. No reciprocation required or desired, just use my holes. Go back and forth ass to mouth and then shoot your load deep in my guts, after which I will slavishly lick your cock clean. I am 6ft tall, about 170 pounds with 7 inches cut (not that it matters because my cock is irrelevant to whoring my holes for your pleasure)

This is a shame. I would have thought Seattle would be better than many areas. I guess it is somewhat better here in Toronto, at least in terms of outright prejudice. I have to admit I am surprised when I hear some of the racial bias in some places. I have a ton of privilege, so not my place to compare oppression but among the only blanket negative I get (as I get older) is ageism. Generally people seem to think I am younger than I am, and I find that I am actually having more sex with guys under 35 than I did when I was under 35. But still I am on the wrong side of an arbitrary line like "No one over 40 please." In general I am pretty laid back and just think "Everybody has their thing" and you cannot fight that. But there is a difference between having a preference and being a complete dick about it. My own struggle with race is with avoiding fetishization - or at least the appearance of fetishization. All things being equal I prefer black guys but I am sometimes reluctant to say so lest it appear as fetishization. Partially it is just the appearance of dark skin which makes bodies look tighter. But the main point is just that attributes that I look for are somewhat more common among black men, so when you are cruising a bathhouse, it is convenient shorthand. There is, if you will a "dark side" to fetishization. As a bisexual man I cruise a lot of amateur straight porn, and the whole "wives being fucked by BBC" genre is hot but sitting barely on top of a nasty legacy of racial fears. While I won't pretend that racism does not exist in Canada, it doesn't have the same formal legal structural history as in the US. The black guy who fucked me last night was from the Caribbean. I don't pretend that the past was a golden era of harmony, but it is not like my great grandfather owned his great grandfather as chattel (and raped his great grandmother). At the risk of being misinterpreted, black men in my area anyhow are somewhat more likely to: - have larger cocks. (I know I know. I am not saying all black guys have huge dicks, but the distribution curve is not exactly the same among all populations and I am a total size queen) - be uncut (and one of my strongest preferences is for uncut) - be tops (it seems like 80% of all guys here are bottoms and much more even distribution among black guys) - On the Down Low or non scene (which really just makes the NSA quickie, pump and dump more of an option) - likely to bareback So the majority of what appeals to me about black guys generally as sexual partners is just the greater distribution of attributes I prefer. I don't have any creepy fear/fetishization dynamic of the danger of "Thug" culture or a transgressive thrill of breaking some kind of line, although I definitely recognize those attitudes exist (again much less commonly in Canada I think). But I am still applying some type of generic assumption. It may not be as bad as "ooooh it feels so dangerous to hookup with this Thug" bullshit but it is filtering individuals through a lens of reductionist commonality. Just last night I ran into a guy at the baths. He is an acquaintance (we hooked up once and I have seen him at this bath 4 or 5 times) and we would typically exchange a friendly greeting. He is a versatile bottom - with the emphasis on bottom. At one point last night he approached me chuckling and said "I topped earlier and now I want to bottom, no one will fuck me!" He is a decent looking guy, about 40, maybe 6' 1", 180 pounds and in fit but not ripped shape. Most guys look at him and immediately pigeonhole him as a dominant top. We are actually attracted to each other but only hooked up the once because he really does prefer to bottom. He usually wears a jock at the baths just to hide his cock, to try and let guys know that is not the body part he wants them to concentrate on. It is very rare for a white guy to have the experience of being the "other" but about 10 years ago I went to the Mount Morris bath house in Harlem. I was the only White guy there and I could not get so much as a second look. It was a weekday and not very busy, but I was relatively young (early 30s) and conventionally decent looking. But for the largely older black crowd it was as though I did not exist. At the time I was pretty much oral only. I think I had been fucked three times in my life and never barebacked, but I probably would have given it up just for someone to give me the time of day. So, even if some of the overt nastiness isn't there, still people's perceptions of race (whether factual or just bigoted) exist everywhere. I wish I could just say "come here to toronto and it will all be better" but I guess the best I can do is to acknowledge your experience is real (and suggest come here to Toronto and at the very least I would eat the many loads out of your ass that you would undoubtedly get). If you are close enough to try Vancouver, you might have a different experience. There definitely are some bareback friendly places there where I think guys would be falling over each other to tap that ass.

I picked "Only go for my ideal types" but it is a little more complicated than that. I don't really have an ideal type of man. I don't care much whether you are 27 with the physique of a god or 67 with 40 extra pounds. However I do very much care how big your cock is and have a preference for uncut. I don't think this makes me an asshole because there generally are enough guys who would love to fuck small dicked 20 something gym bodies, and the less than perfect men with big cocks seem to appreciate my attentions most of the time. I am very much a "we all have our preferences, nothing wrong with that" guy. I find it odd when I get a look of "why would someone like me fuck someone like you?" when lots of guys f all descriptions have enough in common with me that we have hot sex.

As a new convert to barebacking, one of the biggest motivators was ass to mouth. I love sucking a cock that has been pulled straight from my ass. But I can say one of the great, somewhat unanticipated thrills of barebacking is the absence of negotiation. The moment comes after I have been sucking a guy for a while and he reaches down to feel my ass and finds it already lubed and we wordlessly engage. I position myself, offering my ass and he gets behind me and enters. No talk, no condoms, no equivocation. Just raw fucking.

Fetish? Not sure if this qualifies but... Ass to mouth. One of the main reasons I started to bareback was to satisfy the irresistable urge to suck a cock that had just been pulled from my ass. Most tops seem to like it and I have had it drive some into a frenzy. I just find it such a piggy thing to do and it is a great way to demonstrate that I have few limits. I don't like scat, and my ass must be scrupulously clean to get fucked, but there is something so hot about looking a top in the eye as you take his dirty cock in your mouth. I have only done ass to mouth from another bottom's ass a few times, but I was in frenzied heat. Other things? I don't really think of these as fetishes in the proper sense but I have a strong preference for uncut cocks, big cocks and and men of colour. But themore of those elements are combined the sluttier I will get.