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For me it's really all of the above except Sexcation. I picked Local Bathhouse since that is definitely the top of my list to get multiple cocks and loads, but I doubt it will actually be the first thing I do. I am taking the interim y to have a higher presence on online hookup apps, making contacts with guys with a view to finding new casual fuckbuddies for when this over. If there is a silver lining, I am being more open, tagging guys who might not look like a perfect match, or not worrying too much about whether they might ignore me. I suspect that when this starts to loosen a bit, my first actual contacts are likely to be friends I have made who have also been isolated or only in contact with a small group. If any of you are in Toronto and are in a similar mode, hit me up for when this is over. I am a2malways on most platforms so I am easy to find. I'm an openminded bareback bottom and when it's safe I would gladly bring my ass over to your place and let you pump that pent up load straight up my hole. I stocked up on poppers and 420 so I would be ready to go as soon as the powers that be say it's okay.

44 I have told my story in other threads, but it looks like I hadn't posted in this, given that I had not voted. I guess I am way at the older end of things. I am bi and didn't start having sex with guys until I was 22 or 23 if I recall correctly. Was almost exclusively oral for years. Only got fucked a few times, all with condoms. Was very afraid of STIs and the cleanliness of my own ass, as most attempted fucks were impromptu. I just couldn't relax. Still went to the baths once or twice a week for 15 years or so, probably averaging swallowing 200-300 loads a year. Most I ever had was 12 in my mouth and 2 facials. At age 40 discovered that my local bathhouse had highly efficient douche stations and sold silicone lube which was way better than water based. Started getting fucked a lot, all with condoms. At 41 had my first involuntary 5 second bareback fuck when a guy penetrated me bare from behind while I was sucking a cock. Terrified but turned on. 42 when I first voluntarily took a bare cock. A hot Dom daddy top had been throat fucking me laid me down and ate my ass and then pressed the thick uncut head of his 9.5 inch cock against my bare hole and took me. I didn't complain as it was one of the best feelings of my life. He didn't cum in me, but... 44 condom breaks. I get pozzed. A few months later I decide to start taking loads. Went to the baths met a young black guy who said I reminded him of his ex who dumped him. Took a hard fuck from his very hard 8 inches. A twisted loving brutal revenge fuck interspersed with lots of ass to mouth that I could now fully enjoy bare. Took his big load. Wish I had pics of that. Went back to my room and about 40 minutes later was approached by a tall black guy with a big uncut cock who fucked my used hole and bred me again. I do have pics of that.

Shoot it in my ass, then stick your cum and ass juice covered cock in my mouth I will lick it clean. The next guy who fucks me will get his cock covered in the previous guy's cum, and I will take him ass to mouth at least two or three times before he shoots, each time tasting more of the previous guy's cum. Rinse (with cum) and repeat.

UpIt's kind of a fact of life for those of us who primarily have sex in baths. No matter how much a guy is enjoying fucking your ass, if he just got there but planned on staying and fucking for hours longer, he just may not give you his load. I have a few responses. First I just assume that if I am lucky I will get he load from maybe 40% of the serious fucks I have at the baths. You can't get hung up on each one. Second, I try to get a load or two early. Look for guys who have been there for a while or might need to leave soon. Or relax your standards, if you have any. It takes the edge off and you can enjoy licking those loads off the cocks of subsequent guys even if they don't breed you. If you are in a long fuck and start worrying about the load, ask yourself "What if I just write off getting the load right now? Would I still want to continue the fuck?" Go with that. If it's not a great fuck, or he doesn't push your particular buttons, even if he keeps promising you the load, just politely say you need a break. Since what you are experiencing is an attribute of all the options guys have at the baths, use that as a strength. What other ways can you expand your options to take cock and cum? One of the things I have started to do especially if things lull, is offer myself as a fluffers to other guys fucking. Just kneel quietly next to the bottom getting fucked on the bench and make it clear that you are happy to suck cocks before, after or during their fucking. This kind of blatant pigginess will often inspire tops or onlookers to fuck you. Happy hunting. And I understand, but, relax. The loads will cum.

Sex party 2 - 5 typically. Bathhouse more than 5. Usually quite a bit more. Not all of those would actually breed me though.

The second guy who ever bred me agreed to film part of it. I had two or three minutes of video and a half dozen pictures of him fucking my ass from his POV behind me doggy style. I also took a video after of his cum leaking out of my freshly fucked ass. I lost them with corrupted Memory card on a phone. But later found some edited clips I posted on websites. I rarely ask guys to film me as I find a lot of them don't want to break the mood. But I love it when they do. Last month a guy started filming me on his phone while fucking. I told him I was totally into it and gave him my email to send me a copy or link but I never did. Recently a guy started filming while I sucked his cock. I am a little less enthusiastic about that as I don't want my face shown but I just kept the angle so that you either saw the top of my head or just his cock going in my mouth. Really like to be filmed though.

And on the actual substance of the question, I am very much in the "Both" club. It is hard for me to pick. But some of this may depend on context. Most of my sex is at bathhouses where the possibility of multiple cocks and loads is always there. If I am meeting up with a single guy at his place and we have a nice fuck but he doesn't cum, it doesn't ruin the night, but generally I expect to get bred if it's one on one. At the baths I don't expect every cock that enters me to breed me. On average I would say that maybe a bit under 40% of guys who fuck me at the baths cum in me. That may seem like an alarmingly low number for guys used to 1on 1 hookups, but it makes sense at the baths. Most tops will fuck multiple asses over a period of hours before unloading. It is extraordinarily rare for me not to get multiple cocks at the baths. But it is not uncommon to get 7 cocks and 0 loads. Or 10 cocks and 1 load. So if you asked me "Are you more commonly frustrated by lack of cock or lack of cum?" It is definitely the latter. But that doesn't mean the cum is more important than the cock. So I wouldn't really be able to pick one. There are also other factors important to me. I love uncut cocks. I love big cocks. I love ass to mouth. I love big loads. There are certain scenarios that I find insanely stimulating. Having a bunch of those factors in play is more important than a single metric like numbert of loads. I went to Steamworks last week and got fucked 8 times and took three loads. Four of the cocks were legitimately huge. As in 8.5 to 10 inches and very thick. 99th percentile thickness. An extremely fortunate statistical distribution. Two of them were very large. Two were on the small side of average. I think 6 of the 8 were uncut. I don't think I added any lube after the second fuck. It was just whatever cum was inside me and whatever spit I slobbered on these monster cocks before they opened me up. The three biggest guys delivered brutally hard fucks. Like pushing an enormous cockhead against my ass without any extra lube then immediately pounding full length strokes. All but one repeatedly went ass to mouth and I could taste earlier loads on their cocks. And psychologically important, the last three cocks to fuck me were the biggest, and the last guy to fuck me was one of the most punishing fucks and shot a huge poz load in me and kept his twitching cock in me long after, then lay back to let me lick him clean. How a night ends can influence whether you feel satisfied regardless of numbers Would I have liked 8 loads? Sure, but I would rather have those cocks and 3 loads than 8 uninspiring but cummy fucks. Would I have preferred 30 cocks? Sure, but not if I got 0 loads. Balance.

What I find strange is the number of tops who do the reverse: show no signs of cumming, don't say anything, just stop fucking and walk away without showing any reaction or letting me lick their dick clean. And then I find a big load leaking out of me. I'm happy, but dudes, you don't need to stealth me. I have noticed this more recently, often when I am on a fuck bench in a bathhouse, and usually earlier in the night before I have a few loads in my ass that might make it harder to tell. In the last month I had a couple of scenarios. One where I got fucked by four or five guys on a bench and didn't think any of them came in me, but when I got up my ass was leaking and there was a pool of cum on the floor that wasn't there before. At least three loads worth. Another night I got fucked by a guy who finished and just walked away. About an hour or two later he was fucking me again and I was begging him "I really need your cum in me" and he responded "Again?". I think he thought I didn't recognize him from earlier, but it was just that I didn't know he had cum in me before. This is most common when I have taken a decent amount of cock and maybe a load or two. A lot of the cum has ended up in my mouth from licking the Cum off the cocks who fucked me, even if it is just cum from previous cocks. It's hard for me to judge if I have one load or three in my ass when half a dozen cocks have been pistoning in and out. But I am starting to think I may be undercounting loads!

My two cents re CumUnion in Toronto. It is different than some other cities because it takes place at a bathhouse, Steamworks. They don't treat it like a different night. There is almost nothing in the way of signs. No one at the front desk mentions CumUnion. If you didn't already know it was a CumUnion night I would think only a small minority would figure it out while standing in line. They have CumUnion events on the second Monday and t he fourth Friday of each month. Friday is already the second busiest night of the week. I don't think CumUnion affects attendance that much. It's mainly a normal Friday night crowd, which means busy, but a little too much posing and not enough fucking, at least until the late crowd streams in from the bars and people finally feel like giving up their loads. It's not bad, just that probably only 20% or so are there for CumUnion. Most of the others will bareback, but are not giving up early loads. Monday CumUnion, on the other hand can be considerably busier than a normal Monday, which is normally dead. My favorite night is Thursday when they have lights out from 4pm on. It's probably the third busiest night of the week, most sex is bareback but people aren't holding out to 4am to dump a load.

I am more focused on getting fucked by as many random strangers as possible than on pure anon. It doesn't bother me if I see a guy's face or whatever. But the only extra thing I get out of knowing who the guy is is if he is a really good fuck then maybe we can find each other again. But pure anon fucking has one great benefit. It gets you away from any hangups or preferences you have. One of the things that surprises me about hookup apps is how oriented towards face pics or showing your six pack abs. I really couldn't give a fuck. But everyone has there own preferences. I like big cocks and uncut cocks, so if I am choosing from an array of visible options I will gravitate to those things. When I used condoms, I was much pickier, but now even if a cock is underwhelming, at least there is the prospect of a load. When I am taking anon cock the only time I get identifying info is maybe when I put my hand back to make sure there is no condom, I might feel how big the cock is. Or when I suck the cum covered cock freshly pulled from my ass I might see his body or face. It doesn't ruin anything for me, but I don't care who the guy is. So I am fine with knowing my fuck, but also happy to just bend over a bench in a darkroom and take whatever is offered. I don't intentionally look. If you are worried that guy's face isn't cute, or his cock is too small, or his body isn't hot, or he has full blown AIDS, well you are missing out on a lot of good fucking.

I am a Toronto bottom who craves as much cum as possible. Will top once I get four or five loads in my ass. Very eager to join in. Love poppers. Often smoke a little 420, but that's not necessary if a deal breaker.

In the last two weeks I have had two guys breed me three times. The first was a more extended scene, at this guys place over the course of a couple of hours, where I just kept sucking him back to hardness after each fuck. The second was at Steamworks in my room and more like a single extended fuck where he came in my ass three times over the course of about a half an hour. By the third load, there isn't a ton of cum, but its still a fantastic feeling.

I'm a Toronto bottom and I prefer Steamworks too. Recently once I get four or five loads in me I feel the urge to top. The most common receptacle is a great poz bottom with a fantastic hole. He is often there on nights I am and I look for him to unload. Probably about ten times now. He has returned the favour at least three times, most recently last Thursday, where he was load number eight of an eventual nine in my ass. Like me he doesn't usually get hard while being fucked but has a fantastic thick uncut cock when he wants to breed.

Can't remember if I already posted on this thread but I am a2malways just about every where. BBRTS Scruff Grindr Squirt Etc Easy to find. Easy to fuck. Easy to breed.

It's definitely different. Some areas seem to have more PAs. Last time I was in SanFrancisco, 3 of the 18 guys who bred me over 4 nights at Steamworks had PAs. While piercings are pretty common here in Toronto, it could take 4 months to get 3 breedings from pierced cocks. Here, I find a lot of pierced guys like to "stealth" fuck with PAs, like hide it from you until it has been pounded deep inside your ass. My favorite thing is if I have a couple of loads in me and I take a pierced cock, when he pulls out mid fuck and I take his cock ass to mouth, the PA traps strands of previous guys cum from my ass, and i get to lick up the strings dripping from the PA

Douche thoroughly. You want to be able to lick his cock clean afterwards and eat the loads dripping out of your hole. If you don't already have one go buy an enema bag and clean out before meeting him. If you are going to discuss status only ask him if he is poz or neg when he is about to cum inside you and its too late to pull out.

Okay so my last trip to Steamworks in Toronto was a bit atypical. Got fucked by 6 guys including one fuck of well over an hour, but none of them came in me. Before I left I found a bottom in his room, ass up, asking to get fucked. I ate his ass out and could taste the cum. After slipping my seven inches in his anal sheath I could feel the churn of previous deposits. I pulled my cock out and it was covered in cum. Bending down I began to eat his ass again and he started pushing loads out into my mouth. "How many loads have you got?" I asked. "Six" he replied. "Would you like seven?" I asked, before plunging back in and pounding my seed deep in his ass. It was the first time I have bred an ass without first getting bred myself.

I too view any load that doesn't go in an ass or mouth as wasted, so I am trying. I'm decently sized a little on the slim side but longer than average and with a big mushroom head. I usually don't get hard while getting fucked but when I do, I often get a request to flip. In the last year or so I have started occasionally to top. Once I get about four loads in me I get the urge. I don't always do it and more often now I avoid jerking off and just save my load until next time. Recently I went without cumming for over a month, then took five loads in one night, fucked four other bottoms and bred a guy who told me he hadn't been fucked in six months. But a couple of things hold me back. I am way more afraid of picking up STDs as a top. I know it is irrational, but I never worry when bottoming, or at least I just accept the possibility. Second, I feel required to disclose my status. I am not bothered by the 5% or so who freak out. That's why I give them the opportunity. But the most common reaction I get is guys just not wanting to hear or talk about it. I am not expecting everyone to beg for a poz load although that is hot, but i am surprised at how many guys are perfectly happy to take any load, but are turned off by any discussion of status. I'm not talking about a conversation, or extended poz talk. Just "I'm poz. Is that okay?" Maybe its just that with so much barebacking, fewer guys are discussing status. I would guess that less than 20% of tops tell me or ask me, but I am happy to say "breed me" whatever. And if they don't want to talk about it its fine with me. Trying to do my part.

Not as a bottom. I feel energized getting bred. The more and sluttier the better. But after I cum, I feel a post orgasmic lull, and yes I guess you could say "guilt". Really just that after cumming I go from insatiable to satiated. Generally I like to get bred as much as possible and then go home and jerk off.

Yes, every 30 second breeding I can remember taking was from a guy watching another guy fuck me, usually on a fuck bench in the middle of a crowd. Usually it prompted another. While four in a row is fairly rare for me, the pattern of taking three loads back to back with the middle one being really quick is pretty common.

Hit me up next time you are in Toronto. Recently I have taken to topping after I get about four loads in my ass. Normally I just go home and jack off while scooping cum out of my ass but I find a growing urge to top. Need those loads first though.

My response is situational. The great majority of my sex is at the baths. I love getting multiple cocks and loads, but just because a top is fucking you does not mean he will cum in you. He might have just got there and wants to sample a few asses before he cums. So there is always a sense of fear with a long fuck that he won't give you his load. So, while I love a good love long fuck, I don't get upset with a quick cum. Appreciate it, lick it clean. Get another cock up your ass. On the other hand, a guy who fucks you for two hours and doesn't give you his load? That is frustrating. It is different one on one where you have a reasonable expectation that he is going to breed you. In those situations I generally find that the top cums before he planned, but I am generally still delighted to get the load. If I had to pick an ideal length of fuck, I would probably say about 20 minutes, but really I love a night where I can get a few quick fucks, a fee medium fucks and one or two extended fucks. A week or so ago I had a trip to a bath, was only there for two hours but got my first load in a thirty minute fuck with lots of ass to mouth, then took three loads in ten minutes, one immediately after the other. Then one final load after a twenty minute fuck from.a top who had been edging in various bottoms asses for hours. Heaven.

I didn't bottom much until the last decade and have only been barebacking for five years, but today, bare is generally the assumption. I don't think it was that way 15 years ago. Here in Toronto I would say 60-70% tops assume bare. A large number would wrap if the bottom wanted it, but that is never a conversation I have. Of the rest, I would say maybe half assume a condom but could be flexible, and about half are adamant. Some of those are the "deal with the boyfriend" and I respect that. But an astonishing number are angry assholes who act like you are the only barebacker on earth. I just move on. And yes, what they say in profiles about safe sex practices is bullshit. Some of that is getting better as more sites have more nuanced choices. But I have to admit it is fucking weird when younger contacted by a guy whose profile not only says "Safe Sex only" as the pulldown choice, but whose comments also include "always play safe", when your own profile is titled " Bareback bottom looking for loads".

In my mid 40s. At a bathhouse. I had been sucking cock for years and had started bottoming with rubbers, but this night I went in search of my first load. There was a black guy in his early thirties who had been giving me funny looks in the hallway. I generally interpret any uncertainty as "stay away" but eventually he invited me to his room. With an explanation. He said I looked exactly like his ex, who had dumped him. At first he thought I might actually be him. I closed the door and dropped to my knees. He told me the story as I sucked his cock to rock hardness, a thick seven and a half inches, and I begged him to give me the revenge fuck his ex deserved. He went to put on a condom and I stopped him, explaining that I needed to be used as his cum dump. That cock went back and forth between my mouth and ass until he held me down and pumped his load deep into me. He stayed in me for a good five minutes after, and I licked him clean. Nice to get some closure for him and a first load for me.

I have recently had a number of experiences bottoming for guys with PAs. Most have been in darkroom/fuckbench situations. In most cases, the tops avoided letting me touch or suck their cocks prior to fucking me which led me to wonder. Are they concerned that if I feel the piercing that I won't let them fuck me? Do they just get off on "stealth" inserting a big piece of metal in my ass? It is something that a few years ago would have worried me. Would it hurt? Would I bleed? But now it just excites me. And no, it doesn't seem to cause bleeding. One thing that has been delightful is ass to mouth in the middle of a fuck. If I already have a couple of loads in my ass I find it clings to the PA in ropey strands that I lick up. Most of the pireced cocks I have had have been big cocks with big, heavy guage piercings, so it is rounded, deep, and I am way opened up. I actually wonder if it would be more painful or damaging to have a smaller cock and piercing which might do damage to my opening.