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@KylerIsTrash Been there... the only relationship I had where we had moved in together ended when the desire ended quickly. I had a yearly check-up and talked to my doc about it. I even had a testosterone level check. The results were fine and that's when I realized that it was that I just wasn't into it anymore. For now, my bf and I have are own places where we can go to be on our own if we want though most nights we're together. I've also been the one that has played with couples. The one that I enjoyed the most ended when I ended up seeing one on the side without the other. The side one kept it a secret from his husband but it eventually came out when he started to notice how side and I were when the three of us were together. The three of us also would play with a few others at times. The last time I saw them, we had met another guy and the four of us went back to their place. The side fucked the other guy while the other fucked me. After fucking me, he basically said that it was getting late and they needed to cut the session short. The side was surprised but... what could he say? That was the last time I got together with them.
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Thanks for your perspective @versmetropig. It's interests me to hear different thoughts on this. My bf and I do have an open relationship and have from the start. I'm 100% bottom and he's vers. Sometimes, he definitely craves a cock in his cunt which I can't oblige.... it's just not in me to do it but enjoy knowing and at times watching him experience it. It makes me actually more attracted to him as I enjoy servicing other subs/bottoms. I've had many FWB, so I know the difference between sex for sex's sake and sex with an emotional attachment. It was a journey though. As I've posted before, we're only two years into this and hopefully, we'll have the opportunity to see where ours leads us. It's ours to develop and make work for us. It's the relationships where a couple seems to be stuck (no sex/we're only together because of mixed finances; the only way I get these days is by my hand, etc.) that discouraged me and prompted me to just put this out there.
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@BootmanLA Thanks for this... I'm interested in the range of thoughts on relationships that move towards no sex. My post may definitely appear jaded but that is my thought on this. Perhaps it will change. After all, it’s only been two years. Rereading my post, I should have stated that my response about splitting finances was something I've said in the past but, as in today's conversation, I just listened without a response which got me thinking about different views.
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@barebackbro If it seems to be that I didn't add an emotional element to my post. It's because I equate those emotions as being a de facto part of the relationship... without the emotional element, there would simply be a sexual relationship which I have been in too.
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@BootmanLA I guess I misrepresented my current relationship. Everything is fine in mine and we were (and have in the past) discussed this topic. It's just the fact that I was speaking with a friend today and it came out that hasn't had sex with his husband for a long time... we're talking years. I had another tell me it had been seven at the time in the past. I just find it hard to imagine that part being nonexistent. Thus, I'm ok with being single if I can't have that. As you said: gay relationships are already somewhat transgressive and don't have to stick with the same rules as other people's.
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I thought I'd get some perspectives on long-term relationships and sex. I've been in a great relationship for a couple of years now... actually the longest I've ever been in. One thing that I've experienced is talking with guys who have been in long-term relationships (10+ years) and most of the guys end up saying they are no longer sexually intimate with their husbands, partners, etc. My bf and I have begun to talk about this fact. As I've said to my friends in the past, I can't imagine being in a relationship that does not include sex and don't see myself ever changing that. I'm wondering what others might think about coming to terms with no sex relationships. Would you continue in it and find your needs somewhere else or end it? Quite a few times, I've been the one that has been sought out by the one who still needed sex. I would ask them why they continue on in the relationship. I get the "cause our finances are mixed" and such to which my response has always been "Split the finances and get out. Why settle? I don't need a roommate."
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Sneakers, socks, sport gears, sweat fetish
badjujuboy replied to DirtyFckr's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
Mixed with scent of a sweaty crotch and I’d be totally in his control. -
“ I'vehad my share of a lot of pussy, and my occupation has me in charge of people and things... It's almost like I want to remove myself from that world temporarily and completely submit to cock..“ The above is a big tell. There is the trope of those in power seeking to relinquish their power and ultimately be the sexually submissive one… It’s what you’re looking for: “remove myself from that world temporarily.” I can relate to a certain extent. At work, I’m in charge and call the shots but in the “bedroom” I’m the opposite. As others have said… sexuality is a spectrum and you seem to have moved along it. You need to examine your feelings and work through them.
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My ultimate… getting the boots off a motorcycle cop after he fucks me.
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Still can remember my first time… the top grabbed my face and squeezed. I knew what was coming and I instinctively opened up and accepted the gob. I didn’t think twice…
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Is anal orgasm a realistic goal for the top?
badjujuboy replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
This pretty much… the most explosive hands free was my first …although not anal… the top was fucking me while on my back and I was rubbing my spread sweat and lubed slicked thighs the whole time while keeping my hands off my cock. Suddenly, I felt the most intense feeling and came while still semi-hard. -
Totally into getting rimmed. My most memorable experience was meeting a guy upstairs in a bar. He saw me and spread his legs and showed me his cock. I dropped to my knees and began sucking him off. Next thing I know he turns me around and unbuckles my jeans. Now at this point I’m leaning over the railing looking down expecting to be fucked. Next thing I know I’m feeling his tongue working my cunt and I’m going crazy as I’m trying to act like I’m just looking over the crowd downstairs drinking a beer. After about 20 minutes of him eating me out, he stands up and starts fingering me and tells me I’m ready and it’s time we go to his place. It was a fuck I never forgot.
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Do what I do… raise your hands up in front of you… palms facing out and stick your thumbs out. Your left hand makes an “L” 😀
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I would take stuff like this with a grain of salt. The media seems to over exaggerate things like this… for instance there is a story out about the FDA warning about cooking chicken with NyQuil. WTF?!! Though, I can imagine them handing out eggplant and peach stickers as you’re getting on the ship for a gay cruise.
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I had one Daddy that never fucked me. It was always me between his thighs sucking his cock. TBH, I never really thought about him fucking me. It was always about me servicing his cock and that it was how he wanted things to be. Now if he had suddenly stopped or severely limited the fucking, I would be confused. Though I wouldn’t have known how to react to that.
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What is the strangest thing you put in your arse
badjujuboy replied to Pleasefuckmyarse2's topic in General Discussion
I have to admit I’ve only had the basic dildos and metal balls in my cunt. I did hook up with a guy who ended up babbling about how he missed his top and … to make him shut up…I shoved a cucumber in him since I’m a bottom and didn’t realize he was also until I was at his place. Though, a nice piece of thick linked chain always made me want to try it. -
How many of you are in relationships?
badjujuboy replied to Barebackpiggy's topic in General Discussion
I’ve always wondered why two people who aren’t completely happy in their relationship… monogamous or otherwise… stay together… some to the point of not having sex for years. I’ve had guys who I’ve had sex with tell me they remain in the relationship because all their finances are tied together. BTW, I’ve heard this from straight couples too. For me, I’d rather be alone if it comes to that. When it comes down to me or someone else’s happiness, mine comes first. -
Right-handed here but will sometimes switch hands at times mid-j/o. It would also depend if I’m with someone and we both are stroking: if he’s on my left, will use my right hand… if he’s on my right, will use my left. TBH, now I have think about what I’d do if I was in the middle of two guys. 😀
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I used to frequent a bar close to my place. The bartender was straight but was always cool with the gays. One night we started talking and cock size came up after a few drinks. It was obvious that I had checked out his bulge… not very much… he laughed and said “I’m a grower, not a shower.” Later that night I got a text from him asking if I wanted to come back to the bar while he closed up for a few drinks. I was there in a few and let me in. He went behind the bar and dropped his pants and underwear and started stroking as I had a drink. Damn if he was right… a nice thick 8 inches that I sucked off regularly until the got married and moved away.
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I’m going to give you my truth and it applies only to me. I’ve done those others things you mentioned as well. I enjoy T but have been able to keep it as something that doesn’t dominate my life. Yet, I do have my limits as well in what I am willing to try. You need to decide where you draw the line. The rush is incredible and it allowed me to explore the cuntboy I was while allowing me to reduce the inhibitions I had. But again, that was my experience and I don’t pretend that would be another’s experience.
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Definitely. At one point years ago when I went in to have a physical, I spoke with my doc about my lack of sex drive with my bf. My testosterone levels were normal. That’s when I realized it wasn’t me and I ended it with him. My issue was fixed.
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Does anyone have a Fetish for older men/ incest RP
badjujuboy replied to dendnadrop's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
Some of my best experiences were with older men. I went through a period in my early 20s when I exclusively played with men in their late 40s/50s/60s. They taught me a lot about sex and helped bring out the cuntboy in me. -
Love loads of cum filling my cunt but definitely enjoy drinking piss and then being able to recycle it back by either drinking it again or letting my bf drink his piss after it’s gone through me.
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A conversation is definitely in order. As @ellentonboy said, there are warning signs. You need to figure out what is acceptable for you in a relationship and prioritize that. I have seen many couples where one of them has “settled.” To me, I refuse to settle.
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The FFDaddy that introduced me to fisting always insisted his boys be completely smooth.
