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  1. It's been one of those frustrating weekends.  My syphilis symptoms are gone and therefore I've been looking to fuck, but of course that paradox occurs where you can't find anything when you're wanting it the worst.  I've been subject to almost all of the usual online problems this weekend:  good chatting and lead-up to sex and then they just stop responding, guys saying that they'll come over and then they don't, just being ignored no matter how I message them (polite or more direct).  I don't want this to come off as a whine/complaint, because I know this happens all the time, but it's just more frustrating than usual this weekend.

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    2. piglooking4pigs

      piglooking4pigs

      Gotcha.  Both at the same time.  Interesting.

    3. mjkuhl

      mjkuhl

      You just need to visit Chicago.  Sex without end.

    4. barecubtop

      barecubtop

      @mjkuhl Yeah, I haven't been up to Steamworks since PRIDE weekend - a buddy and I went to the bear event that Saturday and I was able to get into a few hot holes.  I'll have to look at my calendar and see when I can take Amtrak up there for an overnight sometime soon.

  2. Diagnosed with syphilis today.  Don't know from who or when, of course.  Got my shots and doc said to wait 2 weeks before any sexual contact.  Is that what others have been told?  Usually it's a week for most infections.

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    2. scott0882

      scott0882

      I tested positive for syphilis and feel lucky that has been only I received from topping or bottoming. Syphilis was topping which I do more often. I'm not on PrEP and asked about it. Doctors have told me just practice safe sex. 

    3. barecubtop

      barecubtop

      I looked around online and most sites say "abstain while the sores/chancres are still present", which they say could be 1 or 2 weeks.  My doc said the severity (titer test) of my infection was fairly low, so I'm hoping it clears out sooner than later.  I've been really horny lately too, go figure.  LOL

    4. scott0882

      scott0882

      I was told to wait a few months before having sex. I only waited 2 weeks after starting meds from being very horny. 

  3. July is almost over, where has the summer gone?!?!?

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    2. NLbear

      NLbear

      LOL. Lots of new meat on the street then for you ;)  Maybe some who don't know yet they will become a cum dump within the next year!

    3. barecubtop

      barecubtop

      As a buddy of mine said last week, "I'm seeing all these blank profiles for 18 year olds on Grindr...they're here for orientation and will be wanting to play when they come back in August."  Unfortunately not many cum dumps on campus that I know about, and I'll have to be a little more cautious since I'm a teaching assistant this semester.  But I'm sure I'll still find some fun eventually.

  4. Weekend plans settled.  I'm about to hop in the car to drive down to Louisville, KY to go to the Vapor bathhouse there tonight and spend the night at a hotel, then on Saturday I'll drive back up into Indiana and stop in Indianapolis at Club Indy bathhouse that afternoon/evening, then head home after that.  If anyone is in either city and wanting to play, let me know!

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    2. Guest

      Guest

      HELL YES! I wish I were!

    3. barecubtop

      barecubtop

      Unfortunately the trip down to Louisville was a little bit of a waste of time and money, at least for the bathhouse.  It was dead and I only played with 2 guys over the course of 4 hours.  I did have a nice threeway in my hotel though...a muscle daddy bear and a twink that we tag teamed and bred.

      Club Indy on Saturday was good, though.  It was probably the first time I've ever spent close to the full 8 hours of my rental.  Slid into 4 asses, including a married couple that watched me breed the other.

  5. Got the email today that my recent PrEP testing came back with no issues (no STDs, blood/liver levels are good).  I'm a little surprised, as I thought for sure I had picked something up recently, but happy with the good news.  Now it just makes me want to go to a bathhouse on this holiday Monday and get some ass!

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    2. leatherpunk16

      leatherpunk16

      Do you know, I would have the same issue. I would get my test results, they'd be fine, and my first instinct was to go and invalidate them as quickly as possible. WTF man?

    3. barecubtop

      barecubtop

      Yeah, proof that we are irrational beings.  FWIW, I did not go to a bathhouse or do any fucking today.  :-/

    4. latinocumwhore1

      latinocumwhore1

      I really want you to fuck me again and again

  6. I go away for 4.5 days and have 71 notifications on here...guess I'll spend some time tonight going through those and catching up.  :-)  Hope there's some good stuff, too...since I didn't get much on my trip.

    1. phukhole

      phukhole

      Sorry to hear you didn't leave a wake of wrecked holes on your trip.  You're welcum in MY hole anytime!

    2. SmoothATLVers

      SmoothATLVers

      Gorgeous cock you have.  Originally from IN, up there 3-4x/yr.

    3. barecubtop

      barecubtop

      Thanks, SmoothATL...where do you come visit?

  7. Thanks for the recent reputation and thoughtful posts on a topic or two.  Do you ever get over to the US to visit?

    1. NLbear

      NLbear

      You're welcum. Good luck with your love/fuck interest! Would love to know how that develops.

      Not likely I will be in the US any time soon unfortunately. Wish I would!

    2. NLbear

      NLbear

      If I do I'd love to make a detour to Lafayette to take a load :P

    3. barecubtop

      barecubtop

      I'd probably give that hot ass more than just one ;-)

  8. I was just over in Bloomington, IL over the 4th of July holiday.  My family lives there.  We'll have to keep in touch so I can get into that ass sometime.

    1. SpfldPowerBottom

      SpfldPowerBottom

      Springfield, Missouri here. I little further away. But I'd let you have my velvet hole.

    2. barecubtop
  9. A little late, but Happy Halloween for those of us in the US

    1. NLbear

      NLbear

      Did you get a lot of tricks and were any of them treats?

    2. barecubtop

      barecubtop

      I worked on stuff for school.  :-(  I had apps/sites open but no tricks or treats.

  10. Damn, fucking hot!

    1. RawSmokePerv

      RawSmokePerv

      Thanks buddy, too bad you aren't close so you can give me that nut

    2. barecubtop

      barecubtop

      Yeah man.  If you ever get up to Chicago, I could meet you up there sometime. 

  11. It's finally starting to feel like fall here in the Midwest.  Who wants to get a pumpkin spice latte and go for a walk in the woods to marvel at the changing colors, then come home to fuck, watch a Halloween movie, fuck again, get some sleep, then fuck again, more sleep, another fuck, breakfast....etc....etc....??

    1. NLbear

      NLbear

      Sounds like a great day. I do assume the same routine after breakfast? :grin:

    2. RawBearBR

      RawBearBR

      This would be perfect, and keep going on this routing.  

      A hot lot, or hot loads, as part of breakfast would be great too.

  12. Having one of those weekends where I am horny as fuck and wanting a good fuck session or two, yet nothing is working out.  GRRRR!

    1. mjkuhl

      mjkuhl

      If I were there, we'd change that from not working out to worn out.

    2. barecubtop

      barecubtop

      Got into a hot 3-way on Sunday night that made up for the entire weekend, actually.  But after getting home from that, I also started a nasty sickness that I'm still not sure of what it is, even after a visit to the ER.

  13. CL annoyance of the day:

    (several emails have been exchanged, I've given out the address of my apt complex but not my apt door number, and I've asked him for his ETA)

    him:  I should be there about 2:30 what do you feel like doing?

    me: Just suck you off.

    him: Oh I thought you were going to rim and fuck me too

    me: You replied to my ad looking for daddy cock to suck, and in your first reply you said you wanted your cock sucked.  If that's not the case, then good luck but don't come over.

    him: Sorry for the misunderstanding.

    1. Read1

      Read1

      It's kinda like ppl suddenly cutting across your lane hoping to get across three lanes of traffic to make a left turn! Preparation and clear communication are needed beforehand on the other ppl's part too! You are/were clear to me!

    2. NLbear

      NLbear

      It's annoying when they suddenly change their expectations. But, he at least backed off. Better than having him in your apartment and suddenly pushing his ass in your face and you have to tell him to leave. No?

      Its like me having a date with someone to fuck me and once over he tells me he changed his mind and just wants a blowjob. Not that I won't give him one but it's not what I expected to get and wanted.

  14. I don't know if it's good or bad that the medical lab staff at the campus health center know me and refer to me by my first name or not....lol. 

    1. Ranger Rick

      Ranger Rick

      It's not something I would mention on a first date

    2. barecubtop

      barecubtop

      LOL....maybe not.

  15. Another local Grindr guy is about to be blocked.  Tag teamed him with another top last week, chatted with him a couple times this week and this afternoon he makes it seem (to me at least) that he would be open to another tag team if we found another top or two, so I started asking around and found a couple.  He eventually responds and says, "my plans with friends were moved earlier"...but I happen to find out that he's actually over at one of the other top's place getting fucked.  I called him out on it, and then I get a lecture that I shouldn't have done that.  Sorry, it's a small town, and you led me on, I'm not going to just say "oh that's great, enjoy your fuck and I'll just jack off".  GGRRRRR

    1. PopperMeUp79

      PopperMeUp79

      I would do the same as you. If he's going to play games, there are consequences when he gets caught.

    2. Ranger Rick

      Ranger Rick

      I cut a 20 year old fuckbud loose for similar reasons.

  16. Had two 1on1s and a threeway in the last 24 hours...and during each encounter, everyone got off except me.  I don't know whether to be mad or laugh at it. 

    (In the first 1on1, the kid came when I was fucking him and later asked me to stop when it became painful for him.  In the others, they were all bi guys who apparently were more concerned about getting off themselves than doing anything for their host.)

    1. justsexnowatl

      justsexnowatl

      Those bottoms are short-sighted - not a good way to get invited back for repeats!!!  I used to make the mistake of cumming when I bottomed and "make the top stop", but that changed quite a while ago and learned to keep my hands off my cock while I'm getting fucked.  I can usually cum on demand when I bottom, so I can time it to cum exactly when the top does - if it's a false alarm and I happen to cum first, I NEVER stop him from finishing even if it takes quite a while :)  Congrats on 3 hookups though - just find a lucky 4th for that built up load!!

    2. rawloadstaken

      rawloadstaken

      I used to be like that, but over the last few years, I've learned to enjoy the combination of pleasure and discomfort, and a couple of times when the top pulled out to add more lube, I slicked him up with my own load and guided him back in.

  17. Incredibly horned up after a weekend with family, yet no dick or ass willing to meet up.  *sigh*

    1. Hairybttmcub43

      Hairybttmcub43

      Come to kcmo you can breed my ass all weekend 

  18. Hey guys, I'll be in Vegas from December 2nd (Sat) through December 6 (Wed) for an academic conference.  The conference starts on Sunday afternoon, so I'll be up for some fun Saturday night when I arrive and possibly in the evenings after 8pm.  Send me a note if you're out in Vegas (or will be visiting at the same time) and might be interested in chatting. 

    1. mjkuhl

      mjkuhl

      I only wish I were going to be there

  19. Hope everyone (in the USA at least) has a nice 4th of July holiday! I'm on a sex break while visiting family but will look forward to hearing/reading some of your adventures!

  20. Haven't been on much this summer, but I'm still around.  Hope you're all doing well and having some hot fun!

    1. TommyDean4

      TommyDean4

      Still really want to come to Indy to get bred by you, life has just gotten in the way so much. Hope you’re doing well also

  21. First week of the semester is over, other than a dinner I'm about to go to.  Good to see all the students back on campus...especially the ones in tank tops and basketball shorts...or anything that shows off their shoulders and ass.  MMMMmmm.

  22. Heading up to Chicago today (Labor Day), but unfortunately with a non-sexual buddy.  Will still be nice to take in the city eye candy while I'm up there, though.

    1. bjbottom

      bjbottom

      Dump your non-sexual buddy.   I am only 45 minutes away from Chicago and would gladly give up my ass to a barecubtop!

  23. Coming up to Chicago on Oct. 5th for the Blackhawks game with a friend.  I will definitely be staying overnight that night (will have a hotel room to myself, likely in the loop).  I'm still debating on whether I will stay additional nights as well.  If not, I'll be looking to play during the day on Thursday Oct 5th and during the day on Friday Oct 6th before my train back to Indiana.  Obviously if I stay more nights, then I'll have more time to fuck around as well....

    1. barecubtop

      barecubtop

      Update:  staying in a hotel near the Hancock Tower Thursday and Friday nights.  Only plans so far are the Blackhawks game Thurs night, the symphony concert on Friday afternoon (1:30pm start). Nothing else until the train home on Saturday evening. 

  24. Grindr annoyance of the day.

    him: i could go to suck someone off right about now

    (grammar much?)

    me: Pics? (his profile is completely blank other than his age - 21)

    him: yours gets mine

    me: My profile shows me very clearly.  You have nothing showing. (I have a selfie of me chest up, showing my face)

    him: okay well have a nice night

    (*shaking my head*)

    1. RawBearBR

      RawBearBR

      LOL, Just like guys down here.

  25. I'm turning 35 in a few days.  Anyone have any sage advice/wisdom/warnings for this mini-milestone?  I've heard from several hookups over the past few months that I look like I'm in my late 20's, so I guess that's a good thing.  But there are certainly times when I feel like I'm older as well. 

    1. rawloadstaken

      rawloadstaken

      Trust me, I understand all too well.

      As to advice and wisdom, all I can offer is this: never let anyone else define you. As trite as it may sound, your age does not define you, it's only one element of who you are.

      With that age comes experience: you know how to live, you know how to lust, and you know how to love.

      And happy early birthday. I hope it's at least twice as wonderful as you want it to be.

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