barecubtop

Been visiting family the last several days and got back to my place yesterday...and feeling incredibly horny. Sucked off a craigslist guy that evening, he wasn't a looker but came quick. Then today another craigslist guy came over, a guy I've sucked off before once or twice...hot straight/married construction type, gave me a nice load down my throat. Hoping to find some ass to breed tonight...and definitely this weekend.

Yeah, I know. :-/ Yep. Adulting sucks. LOL. @drscorpio, @NLbear, @tallslenderguy, I appreciate your suggestions/comments. I have texted with this guy since I posted and it seems as though we're both interested in another sexual encounter and possibly more. We've left it so far at letting each other know when we are free next.

Disclaimer: I haven't dated very much, I don't have a "gay" social circle or community that I'm involved in, and I typically do "one and done" hookups or bathhouse sex. I'm also a romantic that would like to date and be in a relationship. So, disclaimer in mind, I drove to a nearby city for a BBRT hookup this week, thinking I'd fuck this guy then go to the bathhouse there in town for the rest of the evening. Well, the guy was hot, and instead of a 30-minute fuck and go, it turned into a 2-hour thing with at least 30-40 minutes of it just cuddling and making out and looking into each other's eyes. So, obviously, my romantic side just lit up and went into overdrive. I bred him, and within a couple minutes of my pulling out he got up and started washing himself up and by the time I got up and cleaned off he was dressed and ready to escort me out to my car. He got into his car as well, saying he was off to get some groceries or something. I was feeling pretty good, and spent, so I didn't go to the bathhouse and just got some food and drove home. I texted him a little while later, commenting that I looked at myself in my rear-view mirror and realized how not-so-great I looked with messed up hair and such and said "no wonder you were trying to usher me out after" (meaning it as a joke, I think I added a smiley or something) and he responded "that was not my intention, my fat ass was hungry". Anyways, other than 1 or 2 other text messages we exchanged the next day, we haven't communicated any more. I'm unsure about how to proceed. And I feel like I've been in this situation before and it's always hurt me to think there is something more but that it was really just a fuck. What's the mature way (as opposed to the teenage drama queen way) to see if he'd be interested in seeing me again? Do I hold off and wait for him (like every other gay man waits for Mr. Right)? Do I just ask him outright (and risk him thinking, "oh God, another one of these guys")? Is there a way to ask without being weird? LOL Comments, thoughts, suggestions would be appreciated!

Hard to say, as we all have different ways of interpreting body language and such. It's easier said than done, but I'd just try to move on and sort of put it behind you for now. If the top guy is interested in trying to get with you again or have you over for another group thing, then so be it. If he doesn't contact you again, then that's fine too...and maybe a good thing, since (as the others mentioned above) communication seemed off. I often get caught up in over-analyzing after a particularly good experience myself...in fact this week I had a great time with a guy and I'm in the middle of the whole "do I play it cool, or do I ask him out, or was it just a hookup" kind of thing. It sucks. lol

Yep, if I'm fucking a hot ass and I take a deep hit of good poppers, it makes me go crazy on his hole... I also love taking a hit before I rim a hole...makes me so hungry to lick/eat it! In fact, I probably use poppers more for this than when I'm actually inside a guy. Usually use Amsterdam, English Royale, or JJ Platinum here....the JJ Black Label gave me bad headaches when I tried them once.

Buddy and I went up to Chicago on Friday and Saturday this past weekend. Friday afternoon I sucked off a lawyer in my hotel room...he came over from his office down the block. That evening my buddy and I went to Steamworks and split off to go have some fun. I slid into about 3-4 asses that were either ass up face down in their rooms or on a fuckbench or the hot one that came into my room and serviced me. Two of them already had loads inside and I happily felched them for a few before I slid in. Only bred a couple of them, though. Left around midnight due to being tired, which was unfortunate since some hot guys were starting to show up. Next time I'll have to take an afternoon nap so I can go later into the night ;-)

As i mentioned on another old post about dating...it's been awhile since this thread has been active. Any updates from the original poster/commenters? Any changes in thinking with PrEP and such?

It's been awhile since this topic was active. Does anyone have anything new to contribute? I, for one, am interested in dating also...I get lonely and I want someone to connect with for more than just getting off. But, as the posts above suggest, gay men seem to either be afraid of connection, or the effort, or taking the risk of connecting. That's sorta sad.

Sounds like you've been lucky to find someone to have both the piggy and romantic sides with. I'd love to find the same kind of relationship - openness to being slutty and such, but devoted/loving/romantic with each other.

I resonate with this. I don't feel as though I'm depressed to the point where I need to see a doctor, and I DO have activities that I do when I can (concerts, shows, dinners with friends, reading, etc...) that make me happy. My thing is loneliness....I've lived alone for over 10 years now, with limited dating, etc.. and the loneliness can make me want to go find hookups and do the BB fucking and such, for connection.

I'm getting into felching, I've eaten some asses at a bathhouse that were obviously loaded, and I've eaten a couple loads out of an ass that I was sharing with another top. Like someone said above, I prefer if everything's clean - no shit or blood or anything. And I prefer to eat other people's cum out of an ass, not necessarily my own.

Club Indianapolis (bathhouse) has a small dark room, recently renovated and made larger than it used to be. There are a couple dim lights, mostly to help you avoid running into the walls/railings, but they're near the floor and could probably be blocked out by putting a towel over them or kneeling/standing in front of them.

Last Friday was the last day of classes for the semester, and I wanted to get some ass to celebrate being done. I got a couple... 1) Earlier in the week a cute cub guy messaged me on BBRTS, turned out he was back to visit after moving away a couple years ago. We had never fucked before he moved, but we wanted to. He was setting up a hotel party on Friday to be a cumdump for anyone he could get to stop by. I stopped by as two guys were finishing up with him...then slid in and fucked him for awhile before I added my load to the 5-6 already inside him. His hole was still nice and tight for having taken a handful of cocks before mine. 2) To go fuck the cumdump described in (1) above, I had to drive to the nearest major city (about an hour) and figured I might as well hit up the bathhouse down there after the hotel fuck. Before I left to get on the road I was chatting with some guys online to see what they were up to that evening. One bear guy that I knew from another tag team (he and I fucked a guy) said he was also going to the bathhouse and wouldn't mind taking my load. So, I kept in touch on my drive down and when I was done at the hotel, and he was still at the bathhouse when I got there...I got my room, showered, and we eventually found each other and took him back to my room where I loaded him up. Unfortunately, the rest of the evening at the bathhouse was a dud...not the greatest crowd both in terms of numbers or my types of guys. Hot tub was nice, though. Next weekend I'm heading to Chicago and plan on a night at Steamworks up there, so I'm sure I'll get a few asses to breed and maybe some loads to swallow too.

A buddy and I are coming up to Chicago this Friday (May 5th) for an overnight. We have separate hotel rooms...just in case lol, but we plan on going to Steamworks on Friday night for the evening. Anyone else going? Anyone interested in playing around Friday during the afternoon or Saturday morning/afternoon?

That sounds hot. Is that the one with the back porch area or something like that? I haven't done the bars up in Chicago; I usually just do touristy stuff or browsing/shopping during the day and then hit up Steamworks in the evening when I'm up there for an overnight. Wouldn't mind finding some buddies up there to introduce me to places like Manhandler, the Hole, etc...and have some fun with, of course. I'm coming up with a buddy this coming Friday (May 5th) for an overnight. We have separate hotel rooms, but plan to hit up Steamworks on Friday evening.

I'm hoping to make it up to Chicago a few times this summer...would like to meet up with some daddy/boy couples, or daddies that know some boys we could tag team, or boys that know some daddies that I can fuck him with. Open to dinner/hanging out too....but the whole older top/younger bottom scene is my ultimate turnon. Prefer daddy bears and skinny twinks ideally. Anyone know of any regular groups/parties that have guys with this dynamic?

Gonna be up there Monday around noon until Tuesday evening around 6. Have a room at a hotel near Merch. Mart. Tentatively planning to go to CumUnion Monday night, but open to other fun during both days. Anyone free during work hours or planning on going to CumUnion?

The gonorrhea in my throat was masked by a cold I had at the same time, so I don't know if I had symptoms or not. I have had some extra phlegm in my throat lately, so I'm wondering if the antibiotics really worked or not...or it could just be the midwestern winter weather...we went from 20 degrees F on Thursday to 60+ degrees on Saturday, so...could be due to allergies or something also. I've had chlamydia a couple times...and I never had the burning sensation or anything with it, was always surprised when the doc said I had it actually. So, the symptomless stuff is definitely possible.

love sucking married cock and swallowing their cum at an ABS. The local store is about to close to move to a new location down the street...the old location had a nice setup with maybe 24 booths...hoping the new location is just as big and discrete enough for the married guys to keep coming.

My goal is to find a bottom to call my own, and whore him out in gangbangs and at bathhouses and such...I haven't done clean up on cocks after they fuck a hole, but I have felched a freshly fucked hole and ate the cum out of it...fucking loved it! So, if I find that bottom partner and whore him out, I'd want to clean up his hole after every couple loads he takes.

I'm a top when it comes to anal, but I LOVE to suck and swallow married cock and cum! I have a few "daddy" regulars that I've met through CL ads. Three of them do the whole daddy/boy roleplay with me...one tells me that "mom is home" when he can't get out, a couple others talk to me with "does daddy's cock taste good, son?" while I suck them off. It's funny how I enjoy both roles like that - dominant when I top, submissive with sucking married men. Anyone else like that?

Agreed. The straight/bi guys that are married or that don't get if often are the most appreciative and willing to come back on a regular basis. I have at least 2-3 daddies that I suck off every week or two.

I've only really gotten into sucking and swallowing in the past year or so...and at my last PrEP check-up in early January I had gonorrhea in my throat. A shot and antibiotics cleared it up.

It's Friday night in a midwestern university town.... On Wednesday, I had been on campus pretty late and went to a talk about homosexuality and religion - it angered me that one of the panelists essentially was pushing conversion therapy (pray the gay away)...ugh. So, on my way home, I hit up a guy I had been chatting with for over a year on a4a and he finally said to come on over. He quickly showered while I drove to his place...it was a dump, and he wasn't a model by any means, but he had a nice tight hole that I fucked with spit...after I bred him, he admitted that we should've been fucking a long time before that night. Thursday and Friday were also long days on campus and I was horny to suck and swallow some loads. No luck on Thursday (again...rural town in Indiana)...but Friday I hit up a guy that was visiting on GrindR and he stopped by on his way out of town. We did my usual scene...he let himself into my apt where I was waiting on my knees in front of my recliner. He dropped his pants and sat down and I went to work. He ended up being more attractive than I thought he might be, and I really got into sucking him, with a couple of popper hits. He shot a HUGE load into my mouth, and it was damn tasty! He said it was about a week's worth. I told him to let me know when he would be back in town so I could get some more. It's only 9pm on Friday evening at this point and I'm still hungry for more...hoping to get a couple late night loads before they go home to their wives/boyfriends...