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Went to Steamworks in Chicago on Saturday afternoon for their "bear party". It was also the weekend of Chicago's pride parade. Within the first 30 minutes I was there I slid into 2-3 asses and gave them all a good fuck. In total, I felched 3-4 holes that already had loads, fucked 7-8 hot holes, and bred 3-4 of them. There was: the cub in the leather harness in his sling room, the beefy daddy ass-up in his room, the Asian twink that claimed he already had 15 loads in him, the other beefy daddy that was wearing the sexy briefs in his room until I came in and he slid them off and presented his ass, the guy on the fuck bench in his black jockstrap, the stocky guy that came into my room while I was jacking and ended up with my cock and load in his ass...and one or two others that I'm forgetting right now (it was a couple days ago at this point). Had a couple extra guys feel me up and suck me for awhile in between fucks. Surprisingly, I didn't get any loads down my throat...didn't do much sucking at all, actually. I usually do. I was tuckered out after that, so no other action in my hotel that night (which was my original plan). My buddy and I did some other touristy stuff on Sunday before our train trip back down to Indiana (we got a free upgrade to business class on the ride back, I think the conductor was gay...). Chicago is always a good time, though. Hope to get back up there again soon.

When did you get to Steamworks that night? My buddy and I were there from about 2:30 to 7pm for the "bear party" that afternoon. It was a busy afternoon as well...if I hadn't gotten a little tired and hungry I would've stayed later into the evening, or come back.

Yes, that's exactly what we did. The doctor noticed the high levels and asked me to come back a month later to re-test. The re-test levels were back to normal.

1) I'd say that I'm definitely more slutty, but not necessarily out of control. I'm still a little picky about who/where I fuck, but not as picky as I used to be. For instance, in terms of hookups that I've arranged on websites and apps, I've played with guys that were poz and undetectable, but I haven't knowingly played with anyone that was poz and not on meds (but I can't claim that I've never done that because of anonymous bathhouse fucks I've done where status wasn't discussed at all). 2) Like @drscorpio commented, I haven't noticed any increase. I've had chlamydia about 3-4 times now, and it's been about half before I was on PrEP and half after. 3) You don't "know" that it's working. When I first got on it, I was told that it would take 10-14 days (about two weeks) to "build up" in my system for complete effectiveness. 4) I haven't stopped taking it and don't plan to stop unless I have a damn good reason (eg. if it causes other health problems like liver issues, or if I met someone and decided to be monogamous or something). Also, like @drscorpio said, it has made me less worried, and I've also been on it for over two years with no problems. There was one period where my blood tests showed high liver function levels, but they ended up to be caused by some antibiotics I was on for some stomach issues, not the Truvada itself.

Awesome, let me know when exactly you're going (private message is fine if you want). I may be able to head up also and meet you there...I haven't made it to a CumUnion yet either. And I get the crazy feeling...as a grad student, I always have an internal debate about whether I should go up to Chicago for some fun...it involves train tickets, a hotel overnight, food, bathhouse entry, CTA (public transit) fares, etc.... but I've always enjoyed the little trips I make up there. There was one time when things didn't go very smoothly...some sickness while I was up there and such, but otherwise all good. (I'm writing this as I wait for my train up to Chicago actually...the Amtrak from NYC is currently 3.5 hours late to my station...I should be halfway up there by now! Grrr)

I've been to Steamworks quite a few times (and planning on going this weekend), but I've never experienced any security. Perhaps this weekend will be different, as it's the pride parade weekend. If so, I'll let you know.

Are you doing a step program for drugs or sex addiction? I tried going to a few for sex addiction at one point, and then a therapist....the therapist helped me out more (essentially got me to realize the extent of my loneliness and how that was triggering me...).

Neg on PrEP, and staying on it.

piggiest things at a bathhouse... 1) walking into a guy's room where his ass was up, feeling it up a little to see if he was ok with it, then sliding in and fucking my load in - no words exchanged (maybe a thanks on the way out) 2) finding a guy bent over a fuck bench in the public area, sliding into him and fucking a load in while other people watch 3) having guys come into my private room and start sucking me, then fucking him 4) ***piggiest part*** for all three of the above, asking (or just feeling) whether they have any loads in them already, and felching their ass for a few before I fuck them

Taking the train up Saturday morning, arriving around 10-11am. Train home leaves on Sunday evening around 5:30. Looking for a weekend of sex in between. .'m thinking Steamworks for the bear event on Saturday afternoon and maybe again that evening for lights out if I get a nap in. lol. Open to finding someone to host on Sunday afternoon during the Pride parade (right? where is that route btw?). Open to groups if anyone knows any that are happening, 1on1 fucks, and maybe even a dinner or drink meetup on Saturday. Let me know, pigs!

Heading up again this weekend, boys. Let me know what your plans are...I'm thinking Steamworks for the bear event on Saturday afternoon and maybe again that evening for lights out if I get a nap in. lol. Open to finding someone to host on Sunday afternoon.

I'm on PrEP now, and I would not have any concerns about dating or being in a relationship with someone who is HIV+. PrEP is a great innovation, and as a believer in science and research, there can only be improvements to be made from here on out...it would be great if there were a cure found in my lifetime! The only issue I can think of would be if studies/trials found that there were significant long-term side effects of Truvada that would cause harm to my body. Then things might get dicey...but even then if I'm in a good, trusting, lasting relationship with a HIV+ man, we'd make it work.

Follow up to my post a few up from this one... Went down to Indianapolis on Saturday afternoon...was chatting with a guy that I'd been messaging on and off (on BBRTS and A4A) for awhile and he said to stop by for a pump and dump, so I got his address and went straight there on my way into town. He had just as nice of an ass as I expected and I gave him a good pounding as he bent over his bed, but as hard as my dick was it wasn't gonna cum lol...probably worn out from the 5 guys I fucked earlier in the week. At one point where we changed positions, I was sucking his cock and he blew his load in my mouth to swallow. So that was ass number (1). After leaving his place and agreeing that we should fuck again sometime, I headed to the bathhouse, and checked in behind a group of three bearish guys all of whom I would've bent over but one that I knew was a bottom (from seeing him take it at a sex party a couple years earlier). Did the usual browse around for a few minutes and then settled into my room with the door open since the wet area was about to be closed for cleaning and I figured guys would be wandering around. Checked in on Grindr and that bottom cub was on and hit me up...he asked for a dick pic and whether I gave it bare or not, I said yeah and he asked which room. A couple minutes later he stopped by...I got his ass in my face to rim and then bent him over and gave it to him (2). He asked whether I'd give him another later and I said sure (but it didn't work out). Little later I walked around and saw some action in a suite with the door open - guy on all fours on the bed sucking two guys at the end of the bed. I was waved in to join them. As I was getting my cock sucked, one of the other guys moved up on the bed to start fucking the guy. After a bit, I also moved back there to play with the tops nips and the third guy that was getting sucked blew his load in the bottom's mouth and left. I took a turn in the bottom for a few, and the other top and I were making out and feeling each other up. He asked if I wanted to go fuck him in another room. I said sure, told the bottom guy I'd be back later, and took him to my room and fucked his daddy bear ass (3). Saw a husky guy laying in his room jacking off, went in and sucked him...got into a 69 for a bit but that just doesn't do anything for me usually. He was getting close and asked if I wanted it down my throat so I let up just enough to say yes, and within a few seconds he gave me a nice one to swallow. A guy had messaged me on BBRTS on my way down and said he was in a room, but whenever I walked by the door was closed. Finally walked by and it was open a crack so I went it and made sure it was the same guy...we played around a bit, I had a difficult time getting hard to get inside him, and after I finally did get in (4), it just wasn't working out...told him I'd try to come back later, but never did. It was a nice ass and all, but it just wasn't the right chemistry. Eventually went back to the suite where I had been fucking the bottom in the threeway and then left with the other daddy bear. Started fucking the suite bottom guy again and eventually had a couple more guys come in, the daddy bear from before and another daddy type. The three of us took turns on his hole and I felt an orgasm but I'm pretty sure it was dry lol (5). At this point I had been there for 5 hours and I hadn't eaten, so I did a couple last rounds of the rooms, hot tub, and pool area and then headed out to get some food and head home. I'm pretty sure I could've gotten a couple more asses had I stuck around some more. It wasn't a huge crowd that evening by any means, but it was definitely a BB friendly crowd and guys that are my type. 5 asses to fuck and 2 loads down my throat isn't bad at all, for that place and time. ;-)

I've had a good slutty week. First, I was on a weeklong family vacation last week...was with family almost the entire time, but I had a bear stop by my hotel room on the drive down to the coast (made out quite a bit, sucked each other, he swallowed my load) and while on the barrier island we were staying on I was able to meet up with a married guy behind a vacant house for some mutual oral and j/o...I swallowed his load but just shot mine on the ground. Tried to find some fun in my hotel on the way back home, but no luck. Got home on a Sunday, family left me at my apt, and within an hour I was heading into town to breed a slim white guy in a ghetto apt that I met on GrindR...loaded him up and left. Was still fucking horny after that but couldn't find anything else despite staying up most of the night. Monday night a married daddy jock stopped by from a CL ad and I fucked my load into him and he left. Tuesday morning I got hit up on BBRTS from a younger hispanic cub/jock guy that was going to be traveling through, he almost flaked out but I convinced him to stop when he got closer to me on the interstate - we were totally into each other and fucked around for 1.5 hours at which point he had to get back on the road (staying in touch with him for later for sure), shot mine in his ass and licked his up after he shot on his stomach. Tuesday night I got another younger mixed local from a CL ad - big ass but took a good hard fuck and my load. Wednesday, I had some actual non-sexual things to do and didn't get any more cock or ass. Thursday morning I got a latino jock to stop by my apt and take my load...hardly spoke English, but hot ass to breed. It's now Friday and I'm open to more if anything pops up. I'll probably head down to Indianapolis for the bathhouse this weekend.

Anyone ever been in any daddy/son sex parties? A bunch of dad types tag teaming and gangbanging younger son types?

I'll be on a family vacation next week, June 3-June 10, on Kiawah Island near Charleston, SC. Would be great if there were other guys to fuck around with on Kiawah itself, as I can get out for a walk or bike ride whenever I want. Getting off the island on my own may be a challenge, but not impossible if you can host and want to fuck around. Let me know.

I'm visiting the Charleston, SC area next week, but with family :-/

Woof! I love a man in a suit...and I'd love to help you out of yours, NLbear! I wear underwear, boxer briefs, every day. I have what I call "sexy underwear", but I rarely wear it...maybe if I'm going up to Chicago for a weekend or something I'll wear one of my nastypig briefs or the camo jock to a hookup or something. I do like to see others in undies, for a couple minutes at least before they strip down and get to business. I like to fuck bottoms with their jockstraps on. So, the idea of having a pair of raunchy undies to cum and piss in is sorta hot...but doesn't it start to reek eventually? How do you store it? Do you wash it every so often?

That's probably what I'll end up doing sometime also...letting loose when I'm out of town sometime. Sounds hot!

A buddy of mine moved down to FTL this spring and I'd like to go visit him sometime this summer and get my dick in some hot holes while I"m down there (and probably swallow some hot loads too). Looking for suggestions on three things, and anything else you might want to share. 1) Any better times than others to come down there? Any events like pride, bear runs, etc....? 2) Where are the good (read: safe) areas to look for hotel rooms? 3) When I'm there, where are the best places to run into you guys? Which bathhouses are best to visit and what times (i.e. are some better than others during the week or on certain days)? Thanks!

Went to the bathhouse in Indianapolis last night. Got there around 8pm, left a little after 1am. The crowd size was decent, but a little more on the older side (like white haired) for most of the evening. In the first hour or so there were a couple bottoms that were either getting fucked in the public areas or ass up in their rooms, but I didn't manage to get into either of them (I was on my way to the one who was ass up in his room but another guy beat me in there and closed the door!, then later the ass up guy was gone). I managed to suck one slightly older guy off in the steamroom, and was rewarded with a nice big load. Then, finally, around 11:30 or so a younger jock-ish latino guy came right up to me in the hallway, asked if I was a top or bottom, I responded that I was a top, and he led me down the hallway to his room, told me to shut the door, and he was up on the bed on all fours, probably all within 30 seconds. I ate him out a little, then slid in and started fucking....this kid knew how to work his ass muscles, OMG...I didn't last very long (probably due to all the edging I had been doing all evening thus far, in addition to his ass muscles clenching and unclenching on my cock), and I think I gave him a second follow-up mini-load as I kept fucking him after blowing the main load. He said to come find him later, and I probably should've. Around 1am, I saw a guy ass up in his room, so I went in and started fingering him, and a latino guy that had been sucking me in my room earlier let himself into the room and closed the door also. The ass up guy had a Indy 500 cap on (the city and track has activities all month long, and this weekend is pole day and such, so all the hardcore fans are already coming into town - he seemed the type, although we didn't say anything to each other). While I mounted and started fucking the guy, the latino guy stuck his cock in the bottom's mouth. I unloaded and pulled out and told the latino he should take my place, but he seemed content to be getting blown. When I left the room, the latino also left and we went our separate ways. That's not the first time something like that has happened, I guess that's a thing for some guys (watching someone else fuck a bottom, but not doing it yourself). After that fuck, I was surprisingly still pretty awake and such, but my buddy I had driven down with was ready to head back (and we had an hour drive), so we left. It always seems that as I'm leaving a bathhouse, I see all these guys I want to fuck that seem to have just arrived lol, and last night was no exception...there were a couple hot twinks that walking around as I was walking down to check-out that I would've loved to have fucked and bred. Oh well.

I just recently got back on Squirt, but as a free member and only to check out the cruising listings (adult bookstores, etc...). I wouldn't pay for it where I live.

I think this perfectly sums up a lot of my feelings as well. The love/hate relationship with the internet and apps, the occasional hot and sleazy hookups that keep me coming back for more, the hours wasted while browsing, the funks and frustration, the ghosting, and rejection. I am in a similar situation, moving from a bigger city to a smaller one an hour away for a graduate program. You'd think being in a college town in the US would provide more opportunities and a variety of good sex, but it seems the younger guys (and I'm saying this as a 34-year old) are getting meaner and meaner in terms of their hiding behind the anonymity of the internet and being able to get away with saying whatever they want. I sometimes wish I could track them down and just give them a good hard slap across the face with a, "did your parents/guardians teach you anything about manners?" or "karma is a bitch and she's gonna knock you on your ass later". LOL That being said, I've always been one to use the internet as I was never much into drinking or the bar scene, so I can't reminisce about the "old days" of bar or park cruising like some on here. Fortunately, I am only an hour away from that bigger city I used to live in, and I can get down there for some hookups and some bathhouse fun occasionally. I'm also about a 2-hour drive or train ride from Chicago, which is always a nice fun escape (Steamworks...so much fun). So, yes, the internet can be frustrating at times, and great at times also. As for the big city/small city thing...I think we'll run into the same thing everywhere we go. The benefits of a bigger city, for those of us on a site like this, is that it will have bathhouses, sex clubs/groups, more special interest groups (piss play, leather, etc...) and perhaps more men that are actively looking for raw sex and are willing to state it on their profiles. But the "always looking for the next best dick/ass" thing is universal, no matter what city size. I've run into it here in the small city I'm living in now...the guys I fucked the first year I lived here don't even chat with me anymore, but they're on the sites/apps looking for guys "new to them". To the original poster, don't throw in the towel yet. If the local scene isn't doing much for you, maybe try to plan to get out of town for a weekend and have some fun (if scheduling and finances allow). Or mix up your profile pics to get people to look at it with new eyes. Or try to form your own regular bb play party with guys that you have been with before.

What were some of your first experiences with WS like? Was it planned? Spontaneous? Had you been considering it or was it brand new to you? What did you do or get done to you?