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The many great features of well frequented bathhouses already mentioned. The fact that at their heart is the “bath” or realistically the shower means that guys are clean, something harder to guarantee in other cruising settings. For me this helps to overcome my usual reluctance to rim. I really enjoy rimming a guy, licking his asshole and pushing my tongue as deep within him as I can, and I find I’m more likely to initiate rimming with a freshly laundered ass.

No to mile high club etc. but I did once fuck a uniformed airline staffer at a South American airport who was manning the gate alone for a flight that had 40 minutes before boarding and passengers were slowly arriving or sitting about. We had connected on Grindr and he messaged me to come to the gate which was not my flight and he would slip away when he could and we’d go to the disabled toilet cubicle. After a couple of false starts we did and it was hot. Took me back to cruising public toilets with the thrill and fear of being exposed. Didn’t have a lot of time for the usual niceties and I probably shoved my fairly thick cock in a little roughly as I recall some blood but he didn’t complain. Had to run to my own flight which was now being called.

It’s all good from the anticipation and the initial entry (especially on a big cock) onwards but one special thing I like is when the top gets close to coming and you feel him speed up or thrust deeper or start breathing hard or whatever and you’re doing your best as bottom to give him the pleasure or release by squeezing or bending or calling encouragement.

Great, thanks for the encouragement! I’m enjoying fucking around from Barcelona to Berlin.

I’m currently barebacking across Europe at @traveller_gay

Just had a total waste of an evening at the same sauna as I went to with some success yesterday. All sorts of things annoyed me today although it wasn’t the fault of the bathhouse but the clientele. It got me thinking that one of the things I value about a bathhouse is reliably or consistency. The things that pissed me off tonight included: - getting into a room with a guy, right to the point of lubing up in front of him, sitting on top and having his cock at the opening of my ass, and he asks ‘where is the condom?’ (Well actually what he said was ‘preservative?’, I think he was French). This has happened to me twice in the last two weeks once as a top and once as a bottom. Now I don’t use condoms, and I prefer raw, but a fucks a fuck and I’ll respect the choice of partners to use condoms. But, hey, bring the rubbers with you especially if you’re going to top as you may want a particular size (I use a large condom if I am compelled to use one). If you don’t have a condom and need to ask the partner do so in plenty of time. - guys coming into the steam room holding the door open while trying to check out the guys and losing heat while doing so. - guy’s watching the porn on screen to the exclusion of the potential live action around them. Example tonight was a guy jerking off to a Tv screen porn, I go up to him and find he has a lovely hard cock and bend down and suck it. He clearly likes this but remains as much engaged with the tv as me. I motion for him to fuck me standing there and he starts fingering my ass. It is only after 4 or 5 minutes, including when I waved off an admirer, that I realised he had no intention of fucking me he was interested only in the screen. - when you start a scene with a guy, someone will turn up and try to get in the middle, often in the process scaring off the first guy. This can be annoying- I contrast it with guys watching when you’re having sex in public areas. I don’t even mind the odd bit of groping when you’re fully in action, it’s the interference at the outset that is disruptive. - finally, and this didn’t annoy me merely puzzle me, a guy brought his smartphone into the steam room, simply apologising about the light it initially emitted. Sorry to be negative but my experience has left me frustrated this evening. I usually have fewer gripes about behaviour in cruise clubs.

Went to 2 sex venues in Prague today. Early evening I went to sauna Babylonia, after midnight I went to Factory club. Eight fucks in all, 4 tops, 4 bottoms. One big load was taken and in another case the guy used a condom which I took, once used, and emptied it into my ass. One guy was interesting at factory cruise club as he had a technique that while I fucked him he would clench his anal muscles several times a second. Quite a cool trick. However, my favourite sessions were at the sauna. The first was an Indian guy with a grey beard and probably in his 60s. I got him to start fucking me in the steam room. However he was determined that I also fuck him so we flipped 3 or 4 times. He then led me out of the sauna and down to a room where he did some serious fucking of me in several positions. He came in me in copious quantities. The other guy was was very cute and I noticed him at the bar as I came in. In the steam room the old Indian guy, who had obvious regained his erection pretty fast, was competing for the young guy’s attention at the same time I was as we sat on either side. Ultimately he went for me perhaps because I was younger or perhaps because I was more subtle in caressing him and nibbling his nipples whereas the Indian jumped the gun and attempted to sit on the guy’s cock without asking. The young guy went into the sauna and I followed and I sucked and rimmed him fully winning him over. It turned out he was from Lebanon which may have explained his good looks. Like me he was versatile so we agreed to each fuck the other. He insisted on condoms which was a disappointment. I rimmed him again and fucked him first with his legs over his shoulders. It was very intimate. He then fucked me doggy style and came in his condom which I smoothly secreted away under my towel. Afterwards I emptied the cum from the condom into my asshole.

Just been to a sauna in Prague that cost €15. Sauna Babylonia had some features that made good value starting with cheap beer. For me the two steam rooms was great, one very dark, the other moderately dark with a maze. Also had wifi, funnily enough as I was leaving I checked Grindr and found that a guy that had messaged me hours be&ore was the very guy I’d just hooked up with and we has flip fucked. The main downside was the lack of a pass out system. Had there been one I’d have returned in the evening.

A couple of weeks ago this happened to me and the hookup from either Grindr or BBRTS suggested some woods near his home.

I started fucking guys in 1985, after a couple of years sucking and being sucked at public toilets, actually the first fuck resulted from a note written on toilet paper passed under the stall (it said meet me outside).He gave me a phone number and we met up at his apartment some days later when I turned up with a condom which I wore fucking him. I recall he was a bit surprised at the condom, obviously he wouldn’t have provided one. So I’d used condoms from the very start. The following year I was in New York on my first trip abroad and had been picked up by a guy who spotted me alone leaving a gay dance. He got me to uplift my bag from the hostel I was staying at and sleep the night with him in his apartment (despite condom use the signs were there that I would become a slut). He explained that his strategy for avoiding AIDS was to only pick up young guys arriving from the country at Port Authority! Although we slept together, the guy was a perfect gentleman and we didn’t fuck, but instead the next day he took me to his ‘rap group’ at a gay community centre. All very New York and very 1980s. I was a shy 25 year old and was invited to speak during this session of about 15 guys. As well as explaining that I was travelling to London to come out to my family, which elicited a lot of advice which made me even more nervous that I hadn’t thought things through, I was somehow asked about my sexual practices. I made the statement that I always had used condoms and thus did not miss raw fucking I.e. what you don’t know you can’t miss. This caused quite a lively discussion, the gist of it mainly being “oh dear boy, you don’t know what you’re missing” mixed in with “good boy, keep up the good work, it’s too late for us”. I haven’t thought about that session from 30 years ago for a long time but I was glad that they let me into their meeting and opened up. They were nice men and I imagine many of them will have died of AIDS, I think effective treatments were not available for some time later. Enough of the rambling, the short answer is I don’t think I ever imagined wanting or actually barebacking. The introduction of high quality treatment of HIV infection in recent years would not have changed my mind really although it did mean I lapsed into raw sex occasionally, and then more frequently, without undue concern but a little guilt. The game changer for me was PrEP and, alongside that an understanding of U=U, and that has turned me into a full time barebacker comparatively suddenly about 4 years ago.

Its good to keep score, it keeps you on the ball and aiming to do better. So I looked at my current totals and those I reported previously and am pleased to observe the improvement. in the last 10 weeks I’ve increased the rate of fucks I’ve been having from 4.1 per week to 4.8. As importantly the rate of loads taken or given has tripled from 0.5 to 1.5 per week. i also noted the number of fucks I’ve had this year (since February when I started counting) is 95. So I hope to reach 100 soon, maybe tonight...

I’ve just been to Kaiserbrundl sauna in Vienna a veritable institution amongst European bathhouses. It cost €22 or about US$25 which included a pair of rubber “slippers”. It’s a large bathhouse with all the facilities you’d expect and a few that may surprise (such as a restaurant). It’s spread out over at least 3 floors but probably 4 - it’s so large and such a labyrinth that I’m never quite sure where I am. One facility it doesn’t seem to provide is condoms and it charges 50 cents for a small sachet of lube. I am a bit critical of that since most of us need lube and charging seems penny pinching at that entry price (I always take my own supply for topping and I prelube with oil-based cream for bottoming which usually lasts a few hours so it didn’t affect me.) in relation to condoms I don’t use them as Im on PrEP but for other guys it is their choice and I think sex-on-site owners and managers have a responsibility to support those choices. As it happens I doubt many condoms would be needed as all the guys I hooked up with or saw went bareback without discussion.

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Had a good time at Vienna’s classic Kaiserbrundl sauna last night. I started surprisingly by causing a Japanese guy to cum down my leg by an extended session of my nibbling his nipples while standing in an open nude cruising area. Later I got a guy to cum just with some caressing, kissing and frottage. While I was starting to think I had unknown erotic skills I was a bit worried as I was there for the fucking and I hadn’t yet gotten any. I needn’t have worried as I got saguaro in the steam room hard and then to fuck me. When I got back to my hotel room 3 hours later found he’d deposited a nice load. However, the highlight(s) for my evening were in one of the dark huge communal beds that are one of the Kaiserbrundl’s nice features for both resting and action. I was lying in there hoping to get fucked. A tallish guy lay down on his front next to me so he clearly was a bottom wasn’t going to fuck me. However, he reached over to feel my cock and although only semi-hard he seemed to like what he felt. So I took this as my invitation and reached over and stroked his ass. All this was in semi-darkness so you can’t see faces etc. He had a nice ass, slightly hairy, and I gave it a quick lick before pushing my cock in, just pausing and pulling out to apply some oil-based lube. I gave him a good pounding before depositing my load in him. That seemed like a good night’s work completed so I stopped by the small bistro within the sauna, one of the best I’ve seen in a sex venue, and had a light meal and beer. After that I returned to the dark communal beds still hoping to be fucked. After a while the same guy reappeared (I could tell by feeling the hair on his head which was slightly spiky - as I was leaving I recognised a tall muscular Chinese guy as almost certainly being the bottom I’d now fucked twice). I didn’t need to be asked and once again mounted the guy and started fucking him. As I’d already come by now I knew from experience I could stay hard indefinitely while topping - except if I took a whiff of poppers. The bottom had been using poppers and kindly shared with me which entitled him to a free second load. Satisfied with a well-spent evening I headed off into the night.

I recently fisted a guy for the first time which I thought would raise my score, but I’m still only 117.

In New Zealand, if you’re eligible (as young guys fucking around bareback will be) PrEP is paid for in the public health system so the drug is free although you pay a $5 dispensing fee for a 3 month supply. You also have to see a doctor every three months and get the necessary laboratory tests. A doctor costs about $40 and the lab tests are free. Actually you can dispense with some of these small costs if you use a pharmacy that does not charge the dispensing fee and if the doctor is willing, with the lab results, to write a repeat prescription without a further consultation (a repeat prescription alone would be about $15). These are NZ$, US$1 v NZ1.6 or so. If the guy is not at high risk the drug is not free but the arrangement is still reasonably affordable, about $100 a month locally for a months supply or less if self-import on the internet (which is legal) with a NZ prescription.

I take it as compliment and feel pleased that as the bottom I’ve given pleasure to someone else.

I’m barebacking through Europe for the next few weeks and in my last two nights in Lyon I went to LeTrou cruise club. About 1/10the size of the club I’d attended before (1er Sou-Sol) but way more guys. Good layout for a relatively cramped club with several mazes, dark corners and a mix of small and large booths. Several raw and several condoned fucks top and bottom. But the highlight for me was with a hot looking young guy who was just clearing out of a large booth with a bed after a session with another guy who caught my eye, looked me up and down, and asked “Actif?” That’s a French word I know and I nodded vigorously and mumbled something about my versatility. Back in the room we start with the sucking, then he rimmed me, and I started fucking him raw doggy style. After a while he stopped me, cleaned me up with some more sucking and got me to lie on my back. At first it wasn’t obvious what he was going to do and my high school French wasn’t thorough when it came to describing sexual positions and practices. Eventually he did sit on my cock but rather than fast, deep and furious he instead went for fairly gentle slow edging in and out on my cock. He was very skilled and it felt great. After a while I couldn’t hold back and was able to inject a good load up his ass.

A few days ago I went to 1er Sou-Sol a gay cruise club in Lyon but 10 times bigger than any cruise club I’ve been in. Huge. Over two levels with the basement having the atmosphere of a church crypt or wine cellar with rough hewn stone walls and brick arches etc. and dark, very dark, I’d be surprised if there haven’t been the odd injury from falling down steps, hitting head on rock walls or low ceilings, etc. great place. The downside is that being so large it can feel empty even with quite a few guys. Only there weren’t a lot of guys when I was there, only about 4 or 5 and a little later maybe 7 or 8. It was only after a couple of extra guys arrived that I got any action. I saw a new guy go around a corner into a maze area (much of the place was a huge maze I was still baffled after 2 hours) and not come out so I followed him in. I found him seated and so I crouched down and once he undid his pants I started sucking him to make him hard. Once he was hard h3 turned out to be quite big, and I was keen to get his cock in me. He started fucking me raw for a few minutes when one of the original guys who’d been at pains to avoid me bustled into our little possie. I was astonished to find that while we were actually fucking the interloper saw to it to steal the guy away from me - no attempt to wait till we tired, or to create a threesome, no he was just going to take him. And as he was much younger, with a harder body and spoke French he succeeded. I stayed around although not touching and the guy had the audacity to actually attempt to push me away - I took his hand and shook it as if that was what he had intended. I was disappointed given that I think I would soon have taken his load, how quiet the place was and the fact I wouldn’t score again that night, I felt he had crossed a line and had acted rudely but I suppose all’s fair in love and cruising. And I must acknowledge the sex between the two guys was electric and more energetic than I would have managed with a fair amount of rimming, kissing and sustained fucking.

I learn so much useful stuff from this site that I was never taught at school.

I only started counting in February when I noticed this topic and when I read that you could download an app to keep score, which I have (kountr). So far by 6 June I’ve taken 11 loads and deposited 4 loads. That’s from a total of 74 fucks (32 bottom, 42 top).

Last night I went to a sauna in Montpellier, France. Think we’re slow and so in the steam room (hammam is a common name used in France) I touched the ass of an older French guy of perhaps 60 or 65 as he was leaving. He responded well and without delay I was fucking him raw standing in the steam, which was pretty mild. So far, so good, well within my comfort zone and expertise. However after 5 minutes fucking he reached back over his shoulder and ganded me a rubber glove. Clearly he wanted me to fist him. I had never done this before and, honestly, it had not been something I’d ever wanted to do. However, having had the opportunity presented I was happy to oblige. I knew enough to form my fingers into a pointy formation. Beyond that I knew little. And the bottom guy didn’t speak English to give @ny explicit instructions. So I gently eased in my fingers and then my whole hand and the up to my wrist. The guy clearly wanted more and he tugged on my arm to go deeper, ever deeper. Eventually I was in up to my elbow which I though was pretty good for a novice. My question is what else should I do? I wiggled my fingers a bit. I though afterwards that maybe I should have made a fist within him. i don’t think I’ll get another chance to fist but if I do I’d like to do a good job. any tips to share?

My partner knows I bareback other guys as I’ve involved him every step of the way in my getting PrEP, first on the internet when it was a very new thing, later on a clinical trial, now just regular prescription through my doctor. I explained to my partner, who knew I was going to bathhouses at home and overseas on business, that guys were using condoms less and that you couldn’t trust them not to take them off during sex. My partner actually parcels out my Truvada into a pillbox for the week and brings me my pill with a cup of tea each morning. He also knows - I tell him - when I get STIs and have to have injections, a pill or courses of pills. On the other hand my partner doesn’t know the extent of my raw fucking. When I first went on PrEP I naively thought I would continue using condoms. My partner probably thinks I still do, perhaps. He doesn’t know what a cum slut I have become or the extent of my barebacking.

In the last few days I went to a sauna in sitges Spain for €15 (approx. $11) and one in Montpellier France for €11. The standard of facilities couldn’t explain the 25% difference. Rather I think that because Sitges is a party town attracting a lot of gay men they can charge a premium.

I’m in Sitges Spain and I’ve been to a bar (the XXL) with a backroom for the past two nights. I got bred on both occasions. The first was by a good looking guy who may have been a light skinned Moroccan, very sexy. It was a frustrating cruise area with some narrow dark areas and a quite well lit large room with a circular bed and sling. For about an 2 hours (this was now 2am) guys had been circulating around or just standing and no action - I had done my best to pep things up by taking off my pants and just wearing a jock but most guys remained fully clothed. I had left in disgust for 30 minutes to try cruising the dark beach but had been warned off by a cop. I returned to the backroom and about 20 other guys just stood around the large room. I caught the Arab guy’s eye and we moved to the bed and I sucked his night hard uncut cock. He then fucked me bending over the bed in front of the other guys and deposited a huge load in me. On the 2nd night I concentrated on the narrow dark areas. Eventually I was rewarded with a hot session in a tightly packed narrow space standing up. Despite the confines we kissed and both sucked watch other before he started to enter me. He had a very long cock and it hurt quite a bit on the first thrust. I had to manoeuvre to try to wriggle down and get some lube from my pants pocket on the floor but managed to lube him and we were back fucking. Although we were standing I could feel the exquisite pain of him reaching my 2nd ring. Suddenly he stopped and squeezed by other guys and left. I assumed he had come and a big load in me confirmed this later. On both occasions I held the loads in as I walked 15 minutes back to my holiday rental apartment. I then tried videoing the cum coming out on both my iPad and phone. If you’d like to see the videos they’re on my twitter account at @traveller_gay. It turned out the first load was so large it gushed out and flooded the lens on my iPad which went murky. I licked and swallowed that cum and filmed the rest coming out but with my phone had got a photo of the gusher by chance.