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I always intrigued to hear about the goings-on in ‘legitimate’ saunas across the US: it sounds hot! I’ve NEVER come across anything remotely sexual happening in any such sauna or steam room anywhere in the UK, or even in the changing rooms/showers. I just can’t imagine how it would even get started. It doesn’t help that most saunas like that seem to be mixed. I’m not sure if it’s just me and my prudish ways: I’d be interested to hear from other Brits about their experiences.
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Good advice on how to get there from NY, MuscleAss- but still like the idea of taking the train. I love long train trips, and have done part of the route before: it’s very scenic. Apart from anything, I don’t think I could handle US airport immigration twice in one trip lol- hopefully it’s less painful on the train!
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Thanks for your replies, guys- some useful tips. I’ll definitely have to check out the dates for any Montreal Cumunion parties in September, and see if I can build a trip around that.
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Spoken like a real pro, Tallslenderguy! I can see I’m going to have to work harder if I’m want to take this cumdump thing to the next level!
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Hello guys- this one’s for our Canadian brethren, really. I have to visit New York in September for a personal matter, and having spent some time there over the winter, found it a difficult city cumdump-wise... (and I haven’t had much luck since on here either, finding out from native New Yorkers where I went wrong lol 🙁). So, I thought a sneaky little train ride to Montreal for a few nights might be fun, and would be interested to know how cumdump friendly it is. I understand there are some good saunas there? I’ve been to Montreal before, and like it as a city, but that was before I started taking loads, so have no idea how it scores in that front. Any pointers gratefully received...
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Last week I took more than 30 loads in my arse. If you’d told me a year ago that that’s where I’d be now, I’d have dismissed it as pure fantasy. Two years ago I hadn’t been fucked at all for over 20 years. My journey from cocksucker to a fully-fledged bb cumdump has been swift. Partly due to Prep, partly due to a change in my personal circumstances, and partly due to a realisation that time is ticking and “If not now, when?”, I have taken steps to make my fantasies come true. I too used to dismiss some of the load counts I’d see on this and other sites as fantasy: “1,500 loads a year? How is that even possible?”. But having taken over 30 last week (and with no superhuman effort- just one sauna visit and two evenings in a sex club), I can see how it is perfectly possible. I have no doubt that many of the stories on here that read like fantasies to some are in fact true. I’m also just as sure that there’s a lot of bullshit. But I’m not so sure that I am in a position to distinguish between the two. One thing I’ve learnt on my journey is that there’s nowt so queer as folk, and only a fool would use his own limited life experience to pass judgement on another’s.
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Before I started barebacking, I was just a cocksucker, and for many years, one of my very favourite regulars was an Algerian Arab, with a huge cut cock (obviously). Like many oversized cocks, it wasn’t completely straight and had quite a pronounced twist to it, but somehow that just made it hotter. No-one ever pounded my throat quite the way he did. He was superb. Whether I was on my knees in front of him, or lying on my back with my head over the side of the bed, he used my throat hard, fast and furious, a real piston fuck. He’d mastered verbal too, and really knew how to bring out the whore in me, and make me crave his cock like my life depended on it. Needless to say, his orgasms were intense. He had amazing self-control, but when he finally decided to let go, I could always feel his cock writhing and spurting in my throat, as it pumped his load straight into my stomach: in all those years of sucking him, I never once got to taste his semen lol. Afterwards, we’d both collapse back onto the bed in exhaustion and share a post-coital cigarette as he told me how my throat was better than all the pussies he’d ever fucked, and how I’d ruined any other form of sex for him. I have to agree, it was great sex, and proof in my book at least that good oral can hold its own against anal any day. So yeah- my (limited) experience if Arab men has been very positive!
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No-one gets my spunk. EVER!
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Good luck, CumdumpIT. I was in NY for a month or so during the winter, and found it very difficult. It seems to me the scene is quite different to the one we’ve become used to in Europe: in the city itself there seem to be very few (if any) of the kind of sex clubs, bars or saunas that we take for granted in London or Berlin. I think things are based more around the hook-up apps and privately arranged parties in hotels, etc., so you might need to invest some time in a bit of pre-planning, and try to arrange some meets in advance, preferably with guys that know their way around over there. I’m not sure you can just turn up spontaneously at a given bar or club on any given night, and expect to take multiple loads. I’d love to hear how you get on in New York. I’d also love to hear from any guys actually based in New York about how the scene works over there and where I went wrong in February. I’m planning another trip in September, so don’t want to make the same mistake twice!
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This is it exactly. I have a complicated but effective regime that I just don’t break. If something gets in the way of a particular session on a particular day, then I’ll make it up the next day or the day after that. It’s non-negotiable. If you start finding an excuse to skip one session, then you’ll find an excuse to skip the next, and the next. My motivation is sex. Like RangerRick, I find that at my age, I have to look the best I can if I’m to compete with all the younger cumdumps out there. So far, it’s working, but I can’t take that for granted.
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For long sessions with multiple tops, doggie is better for me. It’s comfortable, and I find I can go for hours in that position. Tops can pound me as hard as they like, as deep as they like and as long as they like. But on my back with my legs over his shoulders is more intimate: I can see his face, he can kiss me if he wants, and his fuck somehow feels more penetrating. But I struggle with the bigger dicks in this position, and after a while it becomes uncomfortable. Even in a sling, my back starts to hurt after a while, though it is undoubtedly a very hot way to get fucked. Every position has its pluses and its minuses. Variety is the spice of life: it’s all good- mix it up!
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I’m afraid to me and most Brits of a certain age, the word “pussy” is always going to conjure images of Mrs. Slocombe from ‘Are You Being Served?’. And for those of you unfamiliar with that 1970s sitcom, it’s not an image you want popping up in the throes of passion!
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
Spunkinmyarse replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Went to Hard On again last night, which is a monthly sex club event in London. Only my second time there, but it’s looking like it might become a regular fixture. Competition for bench space can be tough: there aren’t that many padded benches suitable for fucking to start with, and only a handful are in good positions with plenty of passing traffic. Needless to say all the cumdumps know exactly where they are and make a beeline for them on arrival. Anyway, I did alright, and this time I tried really hard to keep track of the loads I took. Reckon I got 13 or 14 in total. Lost count of the actual fucks, but must have been easily double that. Best load of the night was in a sling actually, of which there are half-a-dozen or so. It was getting late, and I’d lost my slot on the fuck bench. Rather than wondering around, I climbed into a vacant sling, more for a rest than anything else: I rarely have much luck in slings. Anyway, this time I was followed by a handsome blond leather jock, who wasted no time slipping his big cock inside me and proceeded to fuck me with great skill. As I’m usually a head-down-arse-up kind of bottom, I rarely get to see the top’s face as he fucks me, and had forgotten what a pleasure it is. I loved seeing the agony and the ecstasy as he pounded away at my arse, the intense focus in his eyes as he approached his orgasm, and then the sheer relief when he finally came. But what I really loved was the broad grin that spread across his face once he’d finished, the grin that says- from one bloke to another- “That was fucking hot, mate, thanks for sharing such an intense moment with me”. Because after all, that’s what it’s all about- two men briefly connecting on an enhanced level of being. I think I need to make more use of the slings in future... -
I work for myself as a landscaper too, DannyBoyCMH, so understand how that line of work presents all kinds of opportunities for outdoor fun. I’ve also made great use of clients’ garages and garden sheds over the years, always with the slight fear that I’m going to get caught out one time. I’m currently working at a golf course where I frequently invite men over and entertain them in the bushes, particularly now the weather is warming up. Only ever oral, though. I’m too hung up about not being cleaned out to venture into outdoor fucking: working outdoors means I have very limited scope to prep myself.
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Anyone planning on going to Hard On tomorrow (20/04)?
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It used to bother me too, DarkroomTaker. But I’ve got used to it, and now I find it quite hot. Our perception of certain words and phrases can change over time, depending on how they are used. I’m just grateful if a top is verbal/communicative enough to call it anything at all!
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I’ll second that. My nipples are very small, and not sensitive in any way, shape or form. I read somewhere that 60 percent of guys have have sexually sensitive nipples, and 40 percent don’t... or it may be the other way round. Either way- it’s not fair! Those of us who don’t are missing out on an entire erogenous zone (or two)! Very envious of those guys that do... Trouble is, it makes me very poor at nipple play, because I just don’t get it. Usually I just forget the nipples altogether during sex (they don’t even register), and when a guy does ask me to play with his nipples, I’m rather half-hearted about it. Kind of like: “blah, blah, blah- can we get back to your cock now?” I know I’m supposed to please my top, but I find nipple play rather boring, and should perhaps stick with tops who share my lack of sensitivity/interest in that area. I wish I could come up with some clever plus side to having small, crappy, functionally useless nipples, but I really can’t. It just sucks. I should imagine that’s why most of the replies to this thread seem to be from guys who do have sensitive nipples: the guys who don’t will just skip it and direct their attention to something they can get excited about.
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Oh, I just put up with it lol. To be honest, there seem to be enough tops to go around, and I usually get my fair share. Of course, I’d rather have them all to myself, but I live in the real world and that’s never going to happen, except in a private gangbang maybe (and I’m always open to offers for that ?). I have to say that in general, I find the ratio of tops to bottoms not nearly as disadvantageous as is often made out on this site. I find it usually pays to get to clubs and parties fairly early. It seems to me that many tops arrive early, shoot and leave. I used to think that hanging around till the end would be a good strategy, but I’ve noticed that by the time the event is drawing to a close, all the tops have gone and you’re just left with the bottoms, exhausted but still horny, all eyeing each other up in vain.
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I have to say, it’s the main reason I don’t like sharing a top with other bottoms. I’m Aries- everything becomes a competition. I’ve had a couple of encounters where a top has deliberately pitted me against another bottom, promising his load to whoever does the better job. I hate that, and although I’ll go along with it because I’m sub, I’ll steer clear of that top in the future. Trouble is, I have to be first, and I have to get the load: the whole encounter is ruined by the idea that I might not get it. I know that’s selfish of me, but I just can’t help it. As it happens, I love hanging out with other bottoms when we’re not in direct competition with each other, eg: the bar area of a sex club. But when it comes to the fuck bench, I want them all to just disappear and leave me as the only hole in the village.
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Oh dear. I’m going to stick my head above the parapet here. I don’t shave. Never have. Hairy all the way- just as nature intended. Actually, I’m just lazy. It seems to me that for every top out there that likes ‘em smooth, there’s one that likes ‘em hairy. So I don’t bother: I don’t think shaving would land me any more cock. But it seems to me from some of the other responses to this topic that a lot of bottoms shave simply because they prefer the look/feel of it themselves. And I’m all for that- it’s as good a reason as any to go to all that effort. But for me- well, I guess it’s just not my thing.
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“Something spiritual”. Love it. It’s not called Cumunion for nothing... I think a lot of us cumdumps may feel there is something spiritual about taking anon cock and multiple loads. It’s hard to put into words because I guess it comes from somewhere deep in our DNA that predates language. But when I’m being fucked by a random stranger, I feel on one level that I’m not communing with just the one individual, but that I’m in some kind of communion with every male on the planet: half of humanity. The individual represents the universal. And so on that basis, it doesn’t really matter what he looks like, because in some way he represents every man that has ever existed. It’s powerful stuff. Not sure if the top feels the same- maybe he’s just getting off. But that’s just fine lol.
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Pig Breeding With Ugly/unattractive Men
Spunkinmyarse replied to SweatyKum's topic in General Discussion
When I first started going to clubs and sex bars, I would find myself wandering round finding all kinds of reasons not to have sex with any of the guys there. I found I was incredibly picky, writing off great looking guys just because they had a slight paunch, or were ‘outside my age range’. But I wouldn’t approach the really attractive guys either, because I didn’t want to get rejected, and if anyone approached me I would refuse them for being too forward (I am English, after all). In the end, I worked out that the only way I would get fucked was if I knelt/lay down on a bench, arse up, face down- and just took whatever came along. I came to the conclusion that as a sub bottom, I’m not made to choose, I’m made to be chosen, and I’m much happier for that. Now I take loads off all cummers- the good, the bad and the ugly- and generally prefer not even to see who’s loading me. And I tell you, it’s fucking marvellous!!! -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
Spunkinmyarse replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Been visiting my parents for a week in the North, and always get horny after a few days’ enforced celibacy. So decided to break my fast on the way home by stopping off in the Midlands at my favourite sauna: the Greenhouse in Darlaston. My god, I’m glad I did. It was Sunday afternoon, so I knew it would be busy. After reading another post on here from cumslut74 about the best place to position oneself, I headed straight for the darkroom downstairs, and got straight down to business. The first guy made a play for my cock, but as soon as I told him I was ‘bottom only’ he told me to turn round and bend over. A nanosecond later he was inside me. His was just the first cock of many. I finally settled on a fuck bench just outside the dark room, head down, arse up, and took whatever came along. Impossible to say precisely how many, as is always the case in these situations. But I’m guessing something like 25-30 cocks, and about 12-15 loads. I reckon about two out of three were bare: suffice to say, it wasn’t long before I was ‘flooded’. Stayed till about 6, at which point the crowds started to thin, and it was time for me to continue on with my journey home. Love that sauna- wish there was one like it in London, but with rents and property prices so high, I just don’t think a sauna of that size is financially feasible in the capital anymore...
