SpectreAgent
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Sounds like a great weekend.
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I’ve reached the age where all I require to know is that they can stand unaided and have (most of) their own teeth… Seriously, I prefer descriptive brevity than a biography longer than War And Peace. For a long time, I described myself as “sarcastic, occasional nihilist and equally comfortable in a leather jacket or a dress suit”, which is all I felt compelled to say. If I’m looking for a shag, I really don’t need to know. If I’m looking for more (rare, as I don’t really use apps for that) then I’d rather find out over dinner or a few drinks.
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Why is this poz thing so exciting?
SpectreAgent replied to bareback-flipflop's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
You are quite correct. I used it in all innocence (and it’s not often I’m innocent these days). I will remember in future. -
Why is this poz thing so exciting?
SpectreAgent replied to bareback-flipflop's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
Goodness, I used a word I would never have thought was on the banned list. Maybe it has a lesser connotation over here. You live and learn (then die and forget it all!). -
Why is this poz thing so exciting?
SpectreAgent replied to bareback-flipflop's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
I made a similar point earlier in the thread. Obviously, one can’t generalise why any human being does or risks anything. Call it an adrenaline rush or flirting with danger or whatever. And everyone knows the [banned word] is attractive, just as prohibition of anything - be it sex, drugs or alcohol - is the trigger of defiance. -
Okay, Explain: Why does “On My Way” also mean the opposite?
SpectreAgent replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
The one good thing about organising/paying for an Uber for a hookup is that you can track them! 😂 -
Why is this poz thing so exciting?
SpectreAgent replied to bareback-flipflop's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
You nailed it in your title - “exciting”. Even since Adam and Eve reached for that apple in the Garden of Eden, the forbidden fruit has always been the more alluring. Why do people taunt Death by scaling the most dangerous mountains? Throw themselves out of aircraft in the knowledge their parachute could fail? Swim with sharks? The list is endless. Danger is an aphrodisiac. It always has been. Time was AIDS was an almost guaranteed death sentence. Now, thanks to medical science, we can poke that rattlesnake with a stick knowing it probably won’t kill us. But it still could. And I think that’s what makes it exciting to some. There’s nothing wrong or hypocritical about you. You’re just human, with human desires. -
Personally, I feel the moderators do a bloody good job maintaining a site that has the potential to spin off into grotesque extremes. But then I’m not a man who whips out the victim card at every slight, imagined or otherwise. And I can’t help observing the only example of bullying on this thread is the singling out of one of the moderators, presumably inviting a pile-in on him. If that was the intention, leave me out.
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Cases in the UK have slowed, if not declined, according to latest government information, despite the number of Pride events through the summer. Hopefully that will be the case in NYC as well.,
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IMPORTANT: Big changes coming to hookup sites and apps
SpectreAgent replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I use Firefox on an iPhone 13 Pro Max. It works fine for me. -
The PA (Prince Albert) Hotel was amazing when I was there. Check out their website - they do themed (including BB) weekends. I haven’t stayed in the (in)famous Trades Hotel for a long time so I don’t know what it’s like now.
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If you could possess a supernatural power, what would it be?
SpectreAgent replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
Time travel. I don’t want it much. Not centuries or anything like that. Just the ability to jump ahead a couple of hours to see if the Grindr hookup actually shows up. -
Tom Ellis is fit as fuck as Lucifer, though…
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It would be a good way to attract an Uber driver. Something I’ve never managed to do (yet).
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Are you on the train? If so, it’ll give a whole new meaning to the Rush hour… Seriously, I’d be fuming.
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Latest post on the BBC News website: “So far there have been 3,017 cases in total across the UK, with officials noting that the outbreak is beginning to slow. The latest data shows 29 cases a day confirmed on average, compared to 52 cases a day during the last week in June. More than 25,000 people have received a dose of the vaccine.” The slowdown is to be welcomed. Hopefully the trend continues.
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I’m often told I’m going to Hell. My usual reply is: “Perhaps. But just think who I’ll be seen dead with.”
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Well said. Particularly your last paragraph.
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There have always been risks associated with sexual freedom and not just health related. Execution. Imprisonment. Violence. Society’s disdain. Caution is always prudent but one cannot go through life shying away from every shadow. Centuries ago the pox was a death sentence. Decades ago so, too, was AIDS. But people didn’t stop fucking because, as the late, great Joe Orton once said “you’ll regret not having fun with your genitals when you’re dead.”
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As someone who doesn’t solely define a man as a life support system for a penis, I couldn’t care less what colour a cock is (or age or religion, come to that.) Only that whoever it’s attached to has some idea what to do with it.
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Permanent residence on the (in)famous Fuck Tree!
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As George Michael notoriously cruised the Heath anonymously, I’ve often wondered if our paths ever crossed there. Actually, I did meet him twice professionally (and fully clothed!) but it would have been a bit rude to ask him about his Heath exploits… One night down there I met a very sexy blond Scottish guy, who invited me back to his. I followed his car for bloody miles. When we got there he dressed as a school boy (cap and all) and wanted me to “punish” him. It wasn’t really my thing at all but I played along because it was 3am and I had bugger anywhere else to go. Next morning we were served breakfast in bed by his flatmate who looked like Kathy Burke in Gimme, Gimme, Gimme. It was utterly bizarre. But that’s the Heath for you.
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I'm pleased you enjoyed the Heath. I sometimes feel that some guys who've never been there think those of us who have (many times in my case!) are exaggerating when we relate our stories. And I get that - sometimes even I have difficulty in believing some of the things I've done and witnessed there actually happened!
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That’s very interesting, To be honest, I was surprised how laid back my consultant was about it all.
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There seems to be mixed messages about this. When I went for my regular 6 month check up and bloods last week, I asked my consultant about monkeypox. She asked if I’d had the smallpox jab as a kid. I said I had and even showed her the scar. “Oh, you should be okay, then,” she said. “You should have some good immunity.” And that was it. Not terribly convincing if I’m honest. But I’m guessing that means over 50s (the vaccination programme in the UK ended in 1971) won’t be prioritised in any new vaccination programme for monkeypox.
