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Phil, sounds like great personal progress. Your dad's advice resonates with me; perhaps because I am more in line with your dad's age than yours. We humans are great at fretting things we have little control over. And sometimes we go overboard on the less urgent interests and fail to take care of the basics. Here in the US I know we elected a clown as POTUS. But I can't spend every day protesting. I won't the the other self care stuff done; which includes things I do which cares for my community and neighbors. All of us lives somewhere. The geography around us is our community. To the degree we participate in making our employer successful should lead to our own success. And when it doesn't then clearly we have the wrong employer for us. But the idea applies to the rest. Neighborhoods form mostly because different talents come together and create a more comfortable place for all. At least those are to me the elements of wherever we live. We keep our house up because we like a kept up house. And we have the time to make that so. Not everyone else does. When we have spare time, do we use some of that to help someone else? When we think "life is hard", sometimes it is helpful to reflect on those "if not for this or that, life would be worse".
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To some extent, maybe our challenge is recognizing where the insane genius gets his power? When I allow it to happen, this whole shit show is exhausting. I thought the purpose of electing representatives is that they would, actually, represent us. But they don't. Take this big bastardly bill... Much of this takes effect after the 2026 elections. So whatever happens in the lives of constituents won't be felt until the current fktards are voted out of office. And then the public will start to experience the shit show, get pissed off at those then in office and vote them out. Everything they do in DC should be able to be digested, summarized and recounted by Walter Cronkite. But now we have a million voices often saying completely different things. Some fact bases and a lot BS based. It feels like we need fact checkers to check the fact checkers to check the "media" and help us slough off the crap to help us focus...
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You mean the "conservatives" are pushing us all together?
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Driving choice... Do we take the toll road which saves us time? Or the scenic way? Isn't that kind of the basic ongoing life choice we make, pretty much all the time? On one hand, easily answered by "what do I need right now?". But also answered by "what will do me the most good?". I'll toss in something becoming more common here in the US. How much does home delivery cost? While I can drive; pretty much unless I'm buying fresh foods, having it delivered makes some sense. Again though, it comes down to balancing time and money. But I've noticed there are a lot of pantry items I get that I have delivered, because often when I go to a local store they are out of stock. It makes more sense for me then to go to whomever has it vs the close place.... Dating... Most don't lead to "the lifelong relationship". But some can lead to enduring friendships. In fact, friendships in general for me seem to fall into proximity camps. Over time I find myself less in touch with those whose proximity is further. So as my adult life evolved, job changes, relocations, change of primary partnership... So also did my circle of friends. Sibling relationships have also changed as they moved off to the coasts while I remained in the midwest.
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50 years of gay porn and I need to pick a favorite? Sorry, too many great ones. Some of the amateur ones have had a more authentic energy to them. But the eye candy in some of the studio ones are a delight as well.
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Have you ever fucked by pierced dick ?
PozBearWI replied to Ronitsingh's topic in General Discussion
@Pozguyinchi It's just a matter of proximity sexy man. I think we'll have our naked time one day.... -
And perhaps this was inevitable. It might be a consequence of man on man sex being more accepted. Or at least we were getting there. Socially our community seems to be picking up more of the historically straight norms. And honestly from a health perspective ATM does many times result in GI problems. But not always.
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Have you ever fucked by pierced dick ?
PozBearWI replied to Ronitsingh's topic in General Discussion
I imagine. Tat's seem to be the thing more than piercings now. I got my PA in 2008 (TG I took some photos because it is the date stamp that helps me recall). Various sizes over the years. The one I most commonly wear is a 6ga that tucks inside my foreskin most of the time. And after a few days the hole gets irritated. Writing this though makes me think; maybe I need to change it out once a day???- 60 replies
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Trail Running + Outdoor Cruising
PozBearWI replied to BruxoCub's topic in Boston / Providence Metro Areas
I find it annoying that Wisconsin patrols parks so well. Or at least in the cruising areas we used pre Covid. -
Yes, and then I ask myself, "awesome for who?". I love my mate. If he wanted to poz I would certainly bring him into the fold (as it were). But while I am not fretting being poz, some people do and I don't want to be the guy to sneak that into their life. That said, it's really up to us to care for the body we live in however we see fit. And I think that suggests the fault is us if we just assume...
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I take some time in my dungeon to adjust the sling height for the top. It's the considerate thing to do.
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I always prefer naked
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How close are we to having more blocked states than open states?
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Sounds like you've achieved a period of peace. Taking in the pleasure and experience of living today, without a side trip of worry or deep concern. That truly wouldn't describe every day for most of us; but something we can strive for. More importantly perhaps, that we recognize the many reasons for being grateful.
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Mack, I'm over in Wisconsin, but would be a pleasure to gift you.
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I wish I could travel to there but my car is down plus Im about broke trying to get caught up on the thousands of dollars stolen from me the past year and a half.
But I know it would be a fantastic experience if I could get there.
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Can you host? Also, since if you host it is likely I'll infect you. Are you in a position to handle an actual HIV infection?
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Interesting. How did that meeting go?
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Reconnecting with my gay uncle
PozBearWI replied to Jaygusher's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
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Sure, ok. But what if he finds you attractive? What if you find him attractive? What if every day you saw a guy on your train you found particularly "your cup of tea". But you didn't know how to approach him as he seemed to put out a "stay away" vibe on the train? What might you try to get to know him?
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Indeed. And a burner phone is cheap if you're that afraid.
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It seems the essential question, will, for example Survivors of the holocaust, or Veterans of one of our many wars be remembered? And to that end, will they be remembered authentically or through a distorted lens?
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🙂 Hmmm I didn't know there was a "best way" to get pozzed. We get pozzed the way we did....
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Where do you hide your toys?
PozBearWI replied to Utmostdiscretion's topic in Hardcore Fetishes Forum
My stuff is in my dungeon. I can close the door and with guests, I just tell them it's my pantry and tool bin. I don't have to open it for viewing. A closed door should give the message well enough. And if they go snoopin, best they don't hold judgements about me. Snoop at your own risk. 🙂 -
Indeed, we are the reason others decide to be gay. Kinsey showed us that most of us are at least a little interested in same gender sex. And some of us find same gender relationships more fulfilling. Thankfully not all as our species would cease. But we can stand a bit of a slowdown in population growth.
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Sounds like a great evolution Phil. One less from your older friend (being a senior myself), practise not performing around others and like with her, just be your authentic self. Lovely how your thinking progressed from "I like this person, let me buy him flowers" to "who would benefit from flowers that last?". And when the tasks which bring us pleasure bring others pleasure too (and often that's the case) that is a big step towards social progress. We are, after all, connected.
