hntnhole
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To the above posts, I think there was a universally wanton response to the post-covid time. It was like being stuck in heavy traffic, by a stoplight that was broken, stuck on RED - for years. When the DMV finally got that stoplight fixed, and it turned green, everyone "floored it", and all those built-up cubic inches of lust roared to life again.
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I think Ann Slanders (or was it Dear Blabby?) should take her cues from YOU !!!
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The only qualifier that I can discern, however, is if the darkroom/bar/fuckjoint is full of men rawfucking each other, i.e. dozens and dozens of men fucking/sucking at any given moment. In places like that, I've never so much as seen a condom. Thus, when every guy is either fucking/getting fucked raw (or, merely sucking Cocks off if that's his bent), it's not inappropriate to make the assumption that "raw is law" in that joint, otherwise the guy wouldn't be there in the first place. I can understand in places like bathhouses, where private "rooms" are available, a negotiation of limits can (and should) take place. This implies a brief "negotiation", which, upon taking place, if there is variance between what's being offered, the two simply say something like "thanks anyway", and continues looking for what they're prowling for. No harm done.
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My money is on Leontyne .... Beyonce is great too, but ... The "added phrases" applies to the apps? Polite manners take no more time than impolite manners, Thanks for your input.
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Simple: Too late. Assuming the venues discussed above, where there is at least a darkroom, slings, guys fucking raw, breeding, all of that, it's just too damn late once a Cock starts pumping Sperm up bottom's gut. Even if the Top hears the bottom once he's started shooting his load deep in the Hole, there's already the first or second volley in the Hole, and pulling out, wasting the rest of the load won't reverse that. It's also disrespectful for the bottom to merely assume he has control. The bottom's control (to whatever extent) ends when the Cock starts to part his cheeks.
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Should I take it raw with this guy?
hntnhole replied to soki's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Absolutely it will. This experience should make you proud of yourself, in that deciding for yourself what you want, and not allowing some other guy pressure you into what he wants could be called "a defining moment" in your life. It's your decision what to do with your body, how to do it, and good for you for having the courage to back up your decision. -
Well then, the only thing to do is have some short, vaguely polite response ready. Something like - oh - "no thanks", for instance. Every guy gets to say what he needs, and every other guy gets to either accept or decline.
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I'm not sure I understand ... what does rain vs no rain have to do with guys fucking? Aren't there any places where guys fuck inside, rain or shine?
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Years ago, my life-partner and I would attend an annual convention in New Orleans, staying at a hotel called Olivier House. There was a bar on the corner (can't remember the name), two-storey, and it was a absolute pigpen. guys would fuck on the balcony when the inside fuckroom was too full to even get into. It was across the street from a long park, at the end of which was a large (presumably RC) church, and there was a little beignet shop down there where people went for "morning call" - coffee and beignets. I hope that's not the bar you're referencing, since that joint was FANTASTIC !!!
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LOL !!! I'd managed to forget about that practice ..... foreplay, maaaaaybe ...... nothing more? Include me out.
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Is there a way to specify that a guy has "hard" limits on Grinder? For instance, raw bottom only - raw Top only, etc, etc.?
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That bitch should have just walked away and kept his sour commentary to himself. Who, I wonder, anointed him warden of the (wanna-be) pigpen? 😠
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You're not kidding .... there is simply no way I'd consider it for a nano-second. yuck !
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That's just sad .... no wonder you travel so much .... Why even bother in the first place ...
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Unless there are some verrrrrrry peculiar elections going on in your area, who did that guy think he was, as though he's the mayor of Sukoff Beach or something? "WE" like it that way ??? If you were polite in your response, you're a better man than I am ....
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I'll defer to both Bootman & NWUSHorny on this one: It's been a number of years since I used the last one I was a member of (bbrt), and since nothing is ever static, it's very likely that both of them know more about the issue than I do. It does seem (from the conversations above) that guys are using the apps to fulfil a purpose (human interaction) that the apps cannot fulfil as currently formatted. That said, I still believe that in-person contact is something the apps discourage (whether purposefully or not is another issue), and as a group, we're not as well off as we were before the apps came into such widespread use. Thanks, you two. <polite cough> Maybe the divide between the literate and the non is simply more - oh - would "obvious" be too much? More likely, some guys enjoy communicating via the written word, and some don't ... and thus are less able than others.
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That sounds kinda weird .... what is it they're online for then? Maybe just looking for a little companionship? That's ok, I suppose, if it's made clear via their profiles, but we're dealing with cruise apps, right? As in "lets fuck" apps?
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I take your point. In this area, there are lots of LGBTQ+ places, clubs, i.e. "in-person" venues where gay folk get together for some common purpose other than fucking, such as political action, shared interests, such as theatre clubs, car clubs, musical clubs, etc. But, of course, after a quick chorus of 'getting to know you', some pair up and leave together. It's just less overt, I guess, and at least it implies some talking, interacting with others before fucking. It's that human connection with each other - in the flesh, but not necessarily overtly sexual - that seems to have withered on the vine with the coming of the fuck apps. I think that some of the younger guys don't have those opportunities (or take advantage of them), and wind up trying to replace in-the-flesh human interaction with the apps, which can't possibly equate with actual human interaction. The sad thing is, in many less populated areas there either never were much group interactions available, or they've withered on the vine by now. Fortunately though, there are some areas that still maintain a substantial population of "out" gays/lesbians/not yet sure folks where we can actually communicate with our peers. Thanks for your input.
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Is fucking with a married guy (married to a woman) that bad?
hntnhole replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
Most interesting discussion above. All I have to say is, I wouldn't knowingly be a part of a destructive act. That said, I'm absolutely certain that I've fucked guys on the dl (either from a wife or cheating on a bf) in the fuckjoints. The way I see it, if they're in that kind of joint, part of the act of breeding them is not interviewing them to find out what's none of my business in the first place. They're there (pardon the awkwardism) to either fuck or get fucked, and whatever baggage they may be carrying is theirs alone. I'm not a relationship counselor, I'm just another horny guy that needs to unload in a cumdump that needs what I have. If anyone thinks that's shallow, well - it is what it is. They have what I need, I have what they need, and that's the extent of it. -
Years ago ... standing in a large swimming pool, up to my shoulders. The load looked so strange, clots of Sperm just suspended in the water .... As someone famous once said; kids do the darndest things ....
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If that's the case, it's truly sad. I think we need actual interaction with other humans, regardless of the purpose. There are clubs/organizations for all kinds of interests for a reason. We need to experience each other, interact with each other, and not just sexually. Shut away in our own little existence can easily turn us into disagreeable, inward-looking people. Attempting to "live" via the ether, is ultimately not fulfilling. It's Kinda Basic, as you so aptly point out.
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Actually, I don't think the grammar schools teach reading much anymore, and they certainly don't teach writing very much. Maybe we (as a society) don't depend on physically reading / writing all that much anymore .... except places out in the ether ... like, well ... you get the drift.
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Add me to that mix .... at one time, I drove over to Rockford regularly, and there was a particularly filthy gh joint just W of Elgin by 10, 15 miles .... on rte. 20, if I recall correctly. Wouldn't it be cool if we "knew" each other - however briefly - at one time long past?
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Well, I know perfectly well that I lived in a very active city for most of my life, and then moved to another (smaller) one. I can't speak for the situation of when the bars/bookstores open presently in Chgo, but when I lived there, they opened in the early afternoon, particularly the bars/fuckjoints in and around boystown. The tubs was open 24/7*. True, the "heavy-duty" type places here in Ft. L (i.e. Slammer) don't open until early evening, and then only Wed through Sunday nights, but Ramrod opens around noon here. That doesn't mean the joint is full - not by any means - but it's at least open. By mid-afternoon there are plenty of cars parked over there. *At one time Mans Country fielded a little "band", and I was keyboard. When acts were booked in from the coasts (remember Manhattan Transfer?) I'd often have to re-work** charts, since MC didn't provide a full complement of instrumentalists, and went over there to receive the charts for re-working in the late mornings, then head upstairs to the Music Hall to do the score reductions. There would always be guys sleeping on those huge, whole-body pillows (infested with Gawd-alone knows what) in the Music Hall, and always at least a handful of guys fucking each other. **i.e. reduce the scores to keyboard-only
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and on a second "side note", I've noticed that around here too, and I have zero idea why they do that. It doesn't bother me - at least they don't paint their Holes - but I don't find it appealing. Maybe they just don't want to bother with cleaning their fingernails?
