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Perfectly said. It's universal, it's humane, it's the definition of decency, it's singular, it's personal, it's intimate, all at the same time. Is there any way you could pull Mr. Johnson aside for a moment, and share your insights with him ??? Pleeeeease ??? I'll restrain him (have gear, will travel) long enough for you to talk some decency into his head - if that's still possible.
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Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
hntnhole replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
As do I. I understand that many guys don't live in an area like Ft. Lauderdale, and the opportunities for in-the-flesh cruising has faded for a lot of guys. That said, I'm glad I did move to Ft.L., and ditched all the apps shortly after that. I did hang on to one of them for a while, since I had met guys that became buddies, but that scene is over a thousand miles away now. Sure, I still keep in touch with some of them, but it's not the same as it was - and that's ok. -
Wow ... I think so too !!! In the tradition I grew up in, a marriage between a Protestant and a Catholic was incomprehensible for the Swedish-background person. In Sunday School, we were literally taught that the Catholics were going to Hell. Why? Because they worshipped statues !!! This was the official word handed down by the "Svenska Evangeliska Lutherska Kyrka pa Amerika" (Swedish Evangelical Lutheran Church in America). There were other "synods" reflecting different national origins too. One Sunday a month we had Communion, which wound up with the congregation stood up, reciting the Nicene Creed, and it ended with the sentence "this is most certainly true". At the moment when the congregation sat down - nothing but the rustling of ladies dresses - I laughed out loud. This was a big church, balconies, and everyone turned to see who had committed such an offence against the Lord. What amused me was, after standing to recite that whole creed, the necessity of adding a separate disclaimer of affirmation at the end seemed ridiculous. My parents faces instantly turned to embarrassed, blushing stone - and I received the beating of my life when we got home. Right now, as I type this, I'm almost laughing all over again.
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Well, no - you're not the odd one out by any means. I too love natural Holes (on men, not women, which I have zero experience or intereste in fucking), for all kinds of reasons. Just one example: Holehair helps hold the loads off previous Cocks in place, instead of being wasted dripping onto the floor. Well, another example: Holehair adds another dimension to the rim of the Cockhead as it fucks that bare skin can't offer. I could sing songs all day long about Holehair, but - time's short today.
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Welcome, BlondeTabu. "Nice and friendly" is good for starters, but the real reason a lot of us enjoy BZ so much is the honest exchange of ideas - yours included. So, fear not - share your unvarnished viewpoints, just like everyone else does. We'll be waiting to hear more from you.
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What makes you go bareback?
hntnhole replied to WildBreed's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
When barriers are used, there's zero chance for that magical "connection" I sometimes go on about. If every bottom insisted on a condom, my sexual career would be over. Might as well just fuck my fist (without a condom). -
Great reply. I am sure that a large percentage of our BZ members have not a clue about the complexities of Bd/Sm, the "power-exchange", the Leather Ethic, or anything else about that magnificent method of ordering one's life. And, that's ok. No one knows everything about every other thing right out of the box; learning, open-minded-ness (that was awkward, but ...) is one of the important things about being alive and productive. I think that relatively few have the courage to confront any urges to this kind of sexual connection, but for those that might, all they have to do is ask. That's ok too. It's easy to forgive uninformed lack of awareness. Aggressive ignorance, not so much.
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What I wonder is, what planet is this guy on ??? Maybe he's on Earth 2, with all those Johnsonites .....
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Hell, no. I can't even imagine what going through something like that must be like.
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Growing up in a Liturgical tradition, I thought I knew what religious repression was. I knew there were other "types" of protestant churches, of course - like Mission Covenant, for instance - but the world of truly hideous rejection of common sense "churches" was unknown to me. I even knew there was a Catholic church on the West side of town. Growing up, I gradually became aware of the wide diversity within "Christianity", but not until I had a lengthy discussion with a guy I know that grew up with these shackles, did I realize how emotionally crippled these folks are. In that guy's case, he managed to come out the other side of that tent of atrocities, and became a highly intelligent force for good in this world. I wonder if Mr. Johnson would even be able to comprehend the journey my friend had to undertake, just to tear that fundamental mess out and become a decent, contributing human being.
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Lots of us are of like mind. When it's time, I want to be as deep in the Hole as possible, and stay there until the balls are calling for some air.
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When two guys who love/care for/enjoy all facets of each other's lives are together, I understand that. To me, however, kissing is for lovers, if one is lucky enough to have one. I don't mean the "peck-on-the-cheek" type, I mean the deep sharing that guys that love each other experience. Short of that, the only excuse I can think of for kissing a guy is if he's just sucked a Cock off.
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The "traffic light" construct have been the default "safewords" forever, and the fact that it encompasses three stages of activity (stop, caution, go) can be useful. That said, I prefer to ask the prospective bottom to come up with his own word, which implies he also consider acts he might prefer to postpone in the proposed initial scene. It encourages him to reflect - however momentarily - on associations wherein he might need to use it. I've actually taped a little note somewhere in the slingroom with his choice of word, just to be sure I'll remember it (especially if the scene is to take place in a number of days). Also, as part of the "warm-up", I ask him to repeat his safeword, to make sure he remembers it, and have him explain his understanding of what calling out the safeword will do. The choreography of a Bd/Sm scene is important for two reasons: it demonstrates the capability of the Top to the bottom, and helps the bottom feel confident that he'll receive what he's interested in, and nothing he isn't. I also look for ways to praise, congratulate, encourage (not too much, of course) a newbie, which only builds his own confidence. I know that some Bd/Sm Tops would never let one vowel of praise pass their lips during a scene, for a variety of suspect reasons, but an innocuous word of encouragement almost always helps put a novice at ease, which is one of my goals. There is an old adage among Bd/Sm Tops that states "a boy must be broken down first, and then re-built to the Dom's specifications". That has never made one iota of sense to me. Competency really counts in these kinds of scenes.
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I'm so sorry so many actually had to deal with such an outrage. I simply cannot imagine how one get's past that, but clearly a lot of you are dealing with it as best it can be dealt with.
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So, if that's the case, the next step is to officially "open things up", as the saying goes ... right? Then, neither guy has to come up with bullshit excuses, try to remember what excuse he used last time, and you guys can enjoy the thrill of fucking/getting fucked together ... each of you gets to wallow in pigsex, gets to watch your partner wallowing in pigsex, maybe even going to orgies together. And, all of it will be on the up & up !!! Win/win, right?
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What the word actually is doesn't really matter; Dandelion is as good as any, since that word would hardly come up in any conversation during a Bd/Sm scene., or any other, for that matter. The important thing is that it be established during the required, prior negotiation, and each participant is clear about what it means. Obviously, being a Top, I don't have one: I only need to be sure to remember what the bottom's safeword is. Some also use a "slow-down" word or phrase, which is particularly useful for a novice. In any case, the Top always needs to be assessing the bottom's reactions, and proceed carefully during the scene. Well said. Thank you.
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Thanks for the update. One of the reasons is, guys leave their trash all over the place too, and the neighborhood association has been bitching. When guys get so emboldened, the homeowners - many of whom have lived in the area for many years - get pissed off, and (in my mind anyway) for good reason. Our front yards are not there to facilitate a bunch of guys fucking each other. There is, however, an area just N of the High School, immediately over the bridge into W.M's, on the north bank of the river, where guys fuck. I've never gone over there (it's between the river and Wilton Tower), but I know some guy do in the wee hours. There can be alligators in that river, and no fuck is worth getting your ass bitten by one of those critters !!!
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How long do most tops really last when fucking
hntnhole replied to btmdad's topic in General Discussion
I think this question addresses one of the reasons a lot of Tops tend to like rutting in a number of Holes before Breeding a couple of them. It's just a fact that bottoms can take load after load after load without shooting their load, if that's what they need. Tops usually can't pump out load after load after load without some "off" time in-between. It's just a matter of physiology, not a matter of Lust. -
Have you ever thought when gays discovered fisting?
hntnhole replied to Gingerguy's topic in General Discussion
Be SURE to send that quote to the Speaker of the House (on his phone, so the kid can enjoy it too). -
Interesting comment there, J-raw. What is "sleepy" about the legislative victories he's responsible for? He may appear to be "old", but that only means he's got a lot more experience than younger pols. He knows Government far far better than the former President ever dreamed of. Biden has delivered on his promises, with progressive projects across the board, and some in "red" states. Biden is "sleepier"? I'll take "sleepy" any day over the self-centered, boorish, inveterately self-centered R (assumed) nominee, to the exclusion of any proposal to advance the country. The behavior of the other party's presumptive nominee, whose only statements on his agenda are transforming the levers of Government into instruments of his personal vengeance, is despicable.
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Just to mention again: There is NO fucking allowed anymore at Ramrod; "feelies" through the pants is all you can do: B.F.D. The bartenders aren't commenting, even when directly asked. No one I know has it figured out. Some guys do go behind the used furniture store on the corner, or between parked cars to fuck, but occasionally the cops come through too, since that action is publicly visible. Thus, while RR was a fun bar, lately it's more of a hangout joint to meet up, have a beer and a blab with your friends. I don't recommend counting on anything more than a pick-up at RR, and then going to his/your place to fuck.
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yeah .... riiiiight ...... What's more probable is, he's doing the same, and it's you that hasn't noticed. However, if your other half really is that thick, please mention that I happen to own a bridge over to Brooklyn, and I'll gladly sell it to him. I'll even give you nice cut too; currency on the barrel head only, of course.
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Just a bit of morning silliness ..... but I liked mango's up until just now ... I have a dwarf mango tree in the back yard, and they're sweet as can be ... and now I can't eat them anymore with that hellish connection being made. However, I will do my best to erase that mental picture, and continue to enjoy the mangos. I have a starfruit tree too, so please don't mention anything about them. 😀😄😊
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Yes, the Scott campaign has faded into history now. One reason, as far as I see it, is his milquetoast version of delivering the same old R viewpoint, without the rancorous decibels of the clown standing next to him at the debate. When the audience (both in-house and the folks tuning in) is only interested in promulgating hate, division, dystopian visions of the US and it's future, small wonder his voice didn't break through. I think he's basically trying to live a decent life, but not really cut out to plunge knives into the hearts of those he disagrees with. I also think that if true (that his staff was caught off-guard), that's another fairly good reason he never gained much traction. DeathSantis believes in only one thing, and religious beliefs have nothing at all to do with it; he's as transparent as a freshly-washed window. I think that when (not if) Haley dispatches the noise-machine, she'll wind up on top of that heap-of-wannabe's. She's got experience in government, she's quite able to outline her viewpoints, and she's got a pair of balls under that dress. If it comes down to her and O.J., debating through the bars of a jail cell, I'll be enjoying that "debate" for sure. I just hope the jailers get the precise shade of "arange" right. I don't see Christie as a serious candidate. He's politically savvy, and I think he's just there trying to excise MagaBabble from his position as presumed R candidate.
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You "get it", don'tcha? For some of us, we are merging not only our bodies (the physical/sexual connection), we're "connecting" mentally, emotionally, almost spiritually too. It doesn't happen every time we Breed, or even every time we head out to the fuckjoints. But when that connection does happen, it's so intense, so beautiful, so thrilling that it magnifies the act of mating with other men so compelling that we crave that experience, and keep fucking guys over and over again, hoping to experienced it again. It's not that we don't want to get our Sperm in as many Holes as possible - we do. That's our nature. It's more that every so often, something spectacularly more intense happens, and we need that too. It's not that we expect to "connect" as described above every time either. If there were a 1-to-10 scale of measuring satisfaction, most would fall between 5 and 10. Only occasionally does that 100, off-the-charts of merging on all levels happen, and that's more than enough.
