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I think we should pass a resolution in the new Congress to the effect that there was no 45th President of the United States. Only a mickey that slipped through on a bed of hatred.

Of course. The underlying question therefore becomes, Why Is This So? Obviously. Which means, therefore, exactly what needs to happen? Certainly. Hardly intelligent, yet quite clever, he pried up the rocks under which this inequity - or better, fear of loss of dominance - has festered for centuries. Now. What institution in this Nation has so thoroughly described the very definition of "inequity", that the perceived dominance of one group of citizens - terrified of losing their (here's a hint) privilege, that they will do anything - literally anything - to preserve it? Witness 1/6/21. Trump (the individual) isn't more than a fart in a windstorm. The fears he stirred up, the fires he fanned, have been with us for centuries. I cannot agree. The dispossessed and disenfranchised want only equal opportunity, equal rights, equality before the Law. Obviously there are some that want to grab whatever they can get - and it's hardly a wonder. They've been disenfranchised for centuries, down to this very day. The group in question well-deserved the "covid checks", just like everyone did. What they want and deserve is the equal opportunity to lift themselves out of the circumstances imposed upon them. This question has gone unanswered for centuries now, and the answer is both utterly simple and seemingly impossible at the same time. There simply needs to be a national awakening, a reckoning, and a substantial course-correction, These maga people are scared to fucking death that their sense of privilege will be erased, as well it should have been many many years ago. There needs to be a complete and thorough national effort to finally, finally deal with the filth of our forefathers, once and for all. It may take work on the Constitution - written in large part by wealthy men who got that way off the bleeding backs of their "property" - to right the wrongs. One thing is crystalline however: unless we figure it out, we won't - and don't deserve to survive as the "shining city upon a hill made by enslaving our fellow human beings", as a particularly vacant man once intoned. Exactly. One political party actually tries to improve opportunities, the other offers only efforts to placate the repressed and keep them "in their place". For that matter, anyone that isn't like them is to be targeted. Truly decent Americans of other faith traditions (recall those ridiculous little boys with the tiki torches from Walmart) walking (hardly marching) mouthing an ancient, unspeakable hatred fomented by their Caucasian forbears. More of "the other" to hate. Ever wonder why the British slave-traders chose Africa to steal human beings from and sell into slavery? Because they were clearly, visibly different than Caucasians. Can't be mistaking pale people for slaves now, can we. They have to look waaay different from "us". To the immigration issue: unless we have Native American blood coursing through our veins, we are either immigrants ourselves, or descendants of immigrants. I trace this current self-reflection of the American People back to the murder of George Floyd. Millions of American Caucasians - drifting through their privileged lives - nodding in agreement with the commentary of the disenfranchised, yet unable to recognize any of the causes in themselves - were suddenly, violently hit directly in the face by their complicity in the repression. Unless we are actively working to dislodge the inhuman depravity of Institutionalized white privilege, we are actively (if passively) supporting it. Looking the other way just hasn't cut it for all these years, and there's no reason to expect it to somehow redress the situation. The Republikans have been obliquely using this fear of losing white privilege to their own advantage (I mean personal advantage) since the early 1960's. It simply cannot continue. Thanks to both ErosWired and BootmanLA for the excellent discussion. Apparently there are others who responded while I was writing this - so a round of thanks to every guy.

Thank you, BootmanLA, for the comprehensive reply. When ShotsFired mentions 'Americans waking up ...', I do think he's got a point. Civics isn't taught in public schools anymore, and the resulting ignorance has been showing for some years now. But, the American voting population managed to wake up in time to take the requisite action. This time. But it's not just abortion rights: it's a comprehensive effort to destroy Democracy - i.e. the idea that active participation in Government is required of the citizens. Now that Orange Jesus has thrown his Cheeto-colored pompadour into the ring again (reasons are debatable, of course), we're in for another tiresome shitstorm sucking up the energy of everyone.

Shooting the load all over the Hole is a waste of Sperm, unless there are cumjunkies at-the-ready to at least lap it up and snowball it to each other. Then, at least it's not wasted. But - in the absence of that scenario, loads belong deep in the Hole, where the Cock put them. Spraying our essence all over the place is only for porn, thus proving to the viewer that the Cock actually did shoot it's load.

I like em completely natural. Love body hair, particularly Holehair. I guess we often like what we don't have much of ourselves.

Was about to, but thought the better of it, and I just shouldn't ........

As some of you guys may know, I don't use the hookup apps at all, mostly because they've been disappointing more than they've proved productive. What I can't figure out though, is why some guy would want to carry around the knowledge that he's lied to other guys, mislead other guys, misrepresented himself, all of that negative bs, and it sticks to us. There's no way to do some shit, and then it simply disappears. We carry the shit we've done with us, however ephemerally, and it piles up after a while, whether through the ether or in the flesh. When it starts to outweigh the kind things we've done, we're only fucking ourselves up. It doesn't cost one thin dime to be decent to our brothers-in-the-life, and it accrues negatively when we don't. I had to learn that lesson the hard way, but I did learn it. For that matter, the principle applies to every aspect of our lives. It's so much easier to just be upfront, respectful with each other. And then, get down to the tasks at - well, for some guys, at 'hand", but for most of us probably more generically queer.

Clearly more than I have, and in greater depth. BZ is the only website I use at all, and it's well-regulated, so I don't experience a lot of the problems other guys do. Hopefully someone will figure it out.

In a nutshell, the above quote from BRF applies across the board. Why any guy would be so lazy as to ask tricks about their sero-status, actually trust that the guy standing in front of him with a hard Cock waiting to fuck, and actually believe what comes out of his mouth, is way beyond me. Take care of your health first, and then hit the fleshpots with all the Lust you possess.

I can't find the 'applause' doo-dad, so ..... clap clap clap !!!!!

To the original question though, I have to admit that I would find it a bit cheeky. I well understand the reason for asking for proof, which is the fact that a certain percentage of us haven't figured out yet that it's always best to be honest, or at least parry and then move on. On the other hand, I have never carried the requisite "proof" in my back pocket, and I rather doubt I ever will. When asked, I answer honestly, and I know there are are guys that lie. But, if my answer isn't enough, there are plenty of other guys that don't ask, and only want to take loads. Those are the guy's I go to the backrooms/fuckjoints for in the first place.

I think what you're describing is endemic across the country since the "secret veil" was ripped off a certain segment of our population in a different context. Once dishonesty became the coinage of a large chunk of the population, the coarsening of our society has deepened quickly. The fact is, where would men like me be without cumdumps? Up a damn creek, that's where. Once the binding elements of any social structure are gnawed at enough, the binds loosen, and the behavior worsens. I think you can and should call out these self-encrusted men that steal your stuff, make appointments and not keep them, all of that negative stuff. The internet may enable them to behave selfishly, but it can also enable them to be shamed for their own selfishness.

Be careful about the Swedish. I got a "warning" from one of the moderators for saying exactly what you said to a guy in Sweden - just for saying "thanks" in the language of my birth to a fellow Swede.

Obviously true. It's pitiful, but it's all too commonplace. OK. I'll buy that. It's how the acts are conducted that's important, not the verbalizing (or would that be writingizing?). Well, how about communicating then .....

So do I. We can't control the actions of others, but we can control our own. Take every precaution available, and then decide if you're comfortable with doing what you want to do. In other words, take the responsibility away from the trick, and shoulder it yourself.

So are we !!!

When I started having sex, the only guys that used condoms (they were called "rubbers" back then) were the straight guys, not wanting to get roped into marrying some girl at 16, 18 years old just because she pulled her pants down and said fuck me. Aside from a small handful of gay guys who "fetishized" condoms, no one used them - it was virtually unheard of - and fucking was almost as casual as saying hi to some guy.

I know what 'degradation' means, but I looked up a number of definitions anyway. "the process in which the beauty or quality of something is destroyed or spoiled" This was one of the least violent definitions I found in several dictionaries. Are you able to substitute this word (destroyed) with something less destructive? Degradation has a flavor of violence, force, Power for Power's sake to it. It seems to leave little room for the magnificence that can happen between a Dominant and a submissive. I know how to Dominate men - I've been doing it for many years. But I never 'destroy or spoil' them. Rather, I uphold and honor their sexual requirements/lusts, fulfill them, enable them, complete them, revel in them. There are myriad ways/sexually perverse acts that men so inclined can, should and must indulge in, sharing the Connection through acts like you describe, and make possible. Virtually any agreed-upon sexual act between men can be uplifting, mind-blowing for both men. Even over the ether, I know you, I uphold you, honor you, and every single quality that makes you who you are. Even if we actually met one day, I could never allow you to be harmed, injured, let alone degraded or spoiled (in the actual definition). "Used", definitely, and in the most respectful ways. Destroyed or spoiled? Never.

Just two experienced Pigs wallowing in the same damn trough, I reckon .... 😇 I wonder what the chances are we both fucked the same Hole in the Eagle's backroom .....

If he enjoys it so much I do hope it lasts longer than 10-15 minutes! Well, I don't see the point in going to a backroom or fuckjoint and not sampling the assets of any number of bottoms. Usually I rut in any number, and then go back and Breed in whichever was my favorite - and take my time about it. There are a lot of bottoms that need experienced Cock up their Holes, and it's up to guys like me to satisfy that need. We probably won't Breed every single one, but we can share our talents / techniques, and that's usually well-appreciated. Thanks for your response.

Oat milk? Never heard of it before ... 🤮 But, thanks for the suggestion.

Of course, but most bottoms need at least something to lube them up for the first Cock, especially if we're on the thick side of things. I've never experienced a bottom that didn't love the frozen Sperm instead of some commercial stuff. They often did suck in their breath when the ice-cube-cum was tongued up their Hole, but it melts quickly. Plus, it makes for much tastier eating too. Another plus is, they know they're in for a hottttt fuck before it even begins .... somewhat of a mindfuck too.

Well, thanks for the recommendation, but I did try almond milk. I like nuts (yeeeessss, both kinds), but almond just seemed to be lacking in taste - more like white water. Thanks for the suggestion, but I'll stick with the soybeans.

Come to think of it, no - but it's really dark in there. You have to feel your way around; there could be a guy standing right next to you, and you hear him breathing, but can't see anything. So last night they weren't there, that I saw anyway. Previously, it's been Sat nights - so maybe I'll see them tonight. That hot Hole is probaby lost to me though, since I'm disinclined to entertain their (apparent) fetish. I reckon I won't go hungry though !! Plenty for every guy.

LOL .... two peas in a pod: Once when I was in grade school, I remember the pastor of our church quietly asking my dad if we needed any "help" - he thought I wasn't getting enough to eat !!!!!! My dad was offended of course, but way too awed by the majesty of the ministerial concern to say anything but "we're fine", or something blandly inoffensive. I ate like God's First Horse back then (well, still do, I suppose), but nothing seemed to stick around longer than a day.