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Which potential reinforces the question earlier; Don't push him into anything (like you ever would in the first place), but since what you offer is so very beautifully refined, it's entirely reasonable that he has some "catching up" to do regarding operating on your level. If that turns out to be so, let it happen for him in the safety of your warmth and care, if possible. Allowing him to feel confident enough to let all his Lusts out - with you as an active participant - can bring enormous rewards. But, I'm only speaking from my own experience; I can't do anything more that offer ideas that may or may not prove effective. ❤️

YES. YES. A thousand times, YES !!!

LOL .... I'd respond to what you post, and we both know it. Now. That sounds like a "tell" to me. Now. He's Hispanic, and right along with that lovely delicious characteristic comes all the "macho" business. It's even got a name derived from Spanish. It's hardly inconceivable that his heritage compels him to reject the notion that he loves to suck Cock, but he can admit it to you because of his feelings for you. I'd suggest that he already knows what a splendid submissive you are, so let's not press him too hard. The seed can be planted in his mind, and only gradually watered and - polite cough - fertilized (my apologies - couldn't resist). The fact that he actually mentioned that he's not a "cum swallower" is interesting. Why even mention that, I wonder? He's not a stranger, he already knows you don't 'need' to be sucked off - that you're focus of pleasure lies elsewhere. It's difficult to get farther down into the weeds at this point, since only you can access his reactions. That said, you may very well be closer than you think. ❤️

Somehow I missed this one - it's already closed - but I would have voted for Topping and eating wet, raw Holes ...

Nothing special - just headed over to the bar, chatted with a couple of neighbors (we have a "traffic pattern inspection" going on around here 🥱, hit Pig Alley (which was chilly - it's not really part of the original building, and the cold wind was blowing in), rutted in a couple of wet Holes, shot in one of them and shivered my way back home. 41 degrees and windy is not conducive to hunting Hole.

Sounds like you're a lucky guy, sweet boy !! Do you know whether what appears to be his interest in sucking your Cock is an attempt to pleasure you, or more pleasuring himself? You mention some degree of shyness - could it be that he likes sucking Cock, but thinks he should cover that part up? My point is, if he doesn't just like sucking Cock - he loves it - then maybe either you or he could invite a third guy next time. In the event he loves sucking Cock, and trying to hide that fact, a three-some could wind up increasing the pleasure for both of you. He'd get not only the primary pleasure of Breeding your sweet Hole, he could also suck off another Cock, and maybe the 3rd guy could summon forth a second load for your magnificent Hole. On the other hand, maybe it's just my filthy imagination ..... in either case, very pleased to know you're being taken care of !!!

Well, not sure how I gave that impression, but - no. I like to stay warm in cold weather (I can hear all you guys laughing that still live back North; and I haven't forgotten what real cold is ...). I generally wear 501's, a t-shirt, and some old engineers when I head out to Breed. Oh - socks too. As to the gear, I've collected quite a bit through the years, and took every bit with me when I moved to FL. Then found out that 95% of the time it's too warm to wear it. Being slim all my life, I learned to detest the cold early on, and I'm thoroughly spoiled by the FL weather now. So no, I can't say I've ever been a minimalist as far as clothes go. But, I do love guys that enjoy showing off a hot ass 😈

The crowd was a bit lighter than usual; cold weather (here, when it feels like mid 40's and windy, people think it's about to start snowing) ❄️ usually diminishes the Lusts. Supposed to be even chillier tonight - but, that's also an opportunity to wear some gear. It's almost always too hot to wear the hides in South FL. I think I'll polish up some Wesco's while the playoff-debacle happens a little later on ...

To my way of thinking, that's spot-on. It's not just we humans, it's everything. Every living thing is part of what you're calling the cycle of life. Some folks choose to mourn the loss, some folks choose to celebrate what was - even if for a shorter span of time than expected. Usually though, I don't feel any kind of "connection" to a performer I've never met. For me, there has to be some kind of personal, *real* connection before I really "miss" them.

Deal !! Except the "unpaid" part ..... every employee gets paid in cold, hard, cash as well as hotttttt, hard, Cock. Fair is fair. Last I heard, not even the clerics praise the Lord for free !!!

We're two peas in a pod, in this regard. I noticed this thread weeks ago, and didn't pay much attention because - like you - if I want to do it, I just do it. Nothing came to mind that I want to do, yet haven't gotten around to doing it. Still, the subject surfaced in the back of my head occasionally, and, being retired, I could use a venture of some kind to keep busy. "The thing is, though…the question then is whether, or how determinedly, I intend to try to find one…" Same here. In my case, the business opportunity would almost have to fall into my lap in order for me to actually do it. It's the hunt for the right location, jumping through the municipal hoops that I would tire of.

I don't anticipate this ever happening, but ...... Owning/running a raw fuckjoint. No vanilla guys, no rubbers, just guys Breeding each other. Nothing fancy, just a "destination" pigpen w/ gh's , darkroom, maze, all of that cool stuff .... Probably would need a first class law firm too, come to think of it .....

I've mentioned some facets of my life-partner in other threads, so I won't rehash that again. I'll just mention that yes, this kind of relationship can and does exist, and for decades. We met at the tubs, and that was the beginning of just over 30 years of a magnificent, wonderful, truly loving relationship. Yes, there were arguments, disagreements, but not about sex. I miss him every day, but not in a sad way; more like a "how did this gift come to an asshole like me" kind of way. So yeah - two pigs definitely can love each other very deeply, and have pigsex with other pigs separately, together, and in any combination. Putting the other guy first, keeps you first.

There's another way to deal with "group" Breeding events, but it does take a while to develop, particularly in sparsely populated areas; Say you know 4 or 5 other guys that love raw sex (T or b), and you've known them long enough for them to become somewhat of a "regular". Get those 3,4,5 guys together, and form a "fuck group". Don't let them get too big; instead encourage "spin-off's", i.e. other groups forming. Make getting together to fuck a regular thing - monthly, every other month, daily (wouldn't surprise me, ya bunch of pigs), whatever. The schedule isn't important, the regularity of the group Breeding is the point. Each guy can/is encouraged to bring fresh meat to the next event, whether Top or bottom or switch. Don't hesitate to mention the group to other horndogs you know, and spread the word. Try to get the word out within the gay community that there are these groups forming in the area. It doesn't work as well in large cities, where there's easy sex in numerous bars, backrooms, fuckjoints, and it's more likely to "take off" in smaller towns / rural areas. The point is, if a handful of these "groups" can be established (naming them can be a hoot), then gradually one group turns into 2 or 3 "groups", and larger events can be planned with the camaraderie of guys that have at least a glancing knowledge of most of the other guys. That, in itself, will retard any negative behavior alluded to in some of the above replies. The ability of those who never learned manners to not mess up other people's places, or ghost events will either be eliminated, or the guy will be. This may not be an attractive idea for some guys who love the adventure, mystery of cruising fresh meat, but it can be a fairly reliable source of action when getting enough raw sex is presenting a problem. Obviously, not every guy will be able to make every single event, and that's fine. This worked fairly well some years ago in Northern Illinois, where there are plenty of very small farm-towns along route 173 far enough from Chicago to inhibit a lot of going "into the city" for sex. Some of those farm boys will take your breath away !!!

First, thanks so much for that clear explanation. I'm familiar with copyright laws, in that I was in the publishing business, and had to take care the editors knew what they could and could not do. But I had no idea about all the electronic stuff, and now I do. I don't blame rawTOP one iota, either. He'd be the one on the hotseat if some guy decided to do something stupid. So, thanks yet again for making the unfathomable somewhat less so.

Come to think of it, I suppose I have too, particularly at the fuckjoints. In their preferred position, taking on every Cock that cums their way, without the need to adjust position, or whatever. I seldom ask a bottom to adjust at the fuckjoints either. However. pre-covid, when I had guys over to my house, I would "ask" for an adjustment to my favored position if they didn't automatically do it. Lots of guys can't "see" themselves in this or that position until it's explained to them. I guess it's a bit of the old "my house, my suggestions" thing.

This post & replies are important for Tops to read and understand. We don't want to hurt you bottoms, we want to make you feel like a million. If there is some particular position/arrangement of limbs that will make it better for you, then by all means let us know. Conversely, let us know if there's something we should avoid. Yes, there may be some Tops that actually like to make things uncomfortable, but they're in the minority, and that urge is founded in something other than fucking. The better it is for the bottoms, the better it is for the Tops, the better it is for all guys - which is the whole damn point, right ???

You're right. I didn't, and I did. I still don't know what it is, but at least I know better than to find out !!!

I agree with ErosWired. To me, Sperm is too important to "waste" on wearing it as a badge of depravity. Yes, in the backrooms/fuckjoints "accidents" happen, but they can quickly be rectified by an alert Top (or, alert bottom, if the Top is distracted). The way I see it, Sperm belongs inside a special man's body, The cool thing is, any man might be "special" in some way, but every man in the backrooms/fuckjoints is nothing BUT special !!

Oh? You're not? Well, what do you call it then? The behavior you describe says one thing, and the introspection describes something different. It's great that you took a decade off of the hunt while figuring out what to do, so congrats for that. I wonder why you don't want your internist to know anything about your sexual proclivities. Are you concerned h/she will tell your spouse? Or that it might someday prove embarrassing to snooping authorities? That's less-than-nothing, compared to the angst once you pass something onto your spouse - male or female. Pay attention to The BootmanLA's excellent advice, particularly #3, as well as the input from other respondents. To re-work an old saying slightly: A chaser, by any other name, is still a chaser.

I only have one question: WHEN are you being published ??? The depth of your thoughts on this matter can be easily appreciated by a much wider audience, which could benefit millions.

Sure there is - but as a society, we just don't do it anymore*. It used to be called Capital Punishment. It's what the crazed mob tried to do to Pence one year ago, if they could find him. As we all have seen over and over again, they even brought the gallows with them. Obviously, it implies catching what you're calling the "few bad people", prosecution in court, and passing sentence, and carrying it out. *or, to be more clear, some of us don't do it anymore. These past couple of years though, it seems that more and more Americans - perhaps in their hundreds of thousands now - seem to think it's ok. Given the glut of guns of every kind and description on almost every streetcorner these days, maybe the new Congress will reinstate that infamous old policy - we could even name it Kevin's Law !! btw - does anyone know who that black-haired little queen that seems to be attached to McCarthy at-the-hip is? It seems that every single shot of the recent endless votes in the House that include McCarthy also include this guy. Sitting next to K.M, standing next to him, following him around like an adoring little shadow-boy.

That treatment can turn the most shy, blushing wannabe into the most brazen, starving-for-loads, wanton cumdump imaginable. I think it should be available over-the-counter. More, it's not addictive, in and of itself. The result may be, but the substance itself isn't.

If 18 is young, then I guess you're correct, since it was a fraternity brother that brought me out when I went away to school. Prior to that, I had never so much as touched another guy with any kind of "warmth". More, I never went back to that paragon-of- repression of a city I grew up in, other than moms/dads birthdays, mothers/fathers day, and occasional "day-visits". As far as I recall, no other guy ever touched me "in that way" either.

A couple of thoughts: There is no way to enforce any "age-of-consent" laws in the spirit they have been conceived. These laws, hardly uniform, exist only for punitive purposes, once some event is reported to the authorities. I don't believe it's possible for every parent to "protect" the little darlings 24/7 anyway, so I don't think tinkering with the existing laws will offer much in the way of amelioration to whatever these laws are intended to ameliorate. However, if there were some way to actually protect children from predatory behavior, I'd be all for it. Meaning, prevent that from happening in the first place. Bothering little kids, as yet unaware of any sexual thoughts, is criminal by any definition. If this were even possible though, smarter folks than me would have already figured out how to do it. If a kid can get a drivers license at 16, he can officially start to fuck too. He's gonna anyway, so save the CockCops for more important things. My vote goes for No Age Restriction, only serious punishment for inappropriate predatory behavior.