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First time at Slammer, got a bubble butt looking for as many hung loads as I can take. Looks don’t matter in a dark room. Right? ? Bearded Latino 5’7 - look for me as I’ll be wearing black shorts, muscle shirt and black & white pumas. will be there all night.
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With the consent of @hotcoldgayslut I'm asking this as a variation of a more specific question he asked in the Backroom, because I think it's a very interesting question and could apply to all kinds of situations in which a Top, for whatever reason, might not be able to get an erection when desired. Tops, if you had an opportunity to fuck a bottom, but couldn't get it up, and a strap-on was at hand, would you use it? I can imagine reasons why Tops both would and would not consider it, and I'd like to hear your thoughts. The "What would be the point if there's no load" argument is sort of obvious, but aside from that, what say you? (I'm asking, by the way, because a gal with a strap-on once pegged the holy fucking hell out of me as thoroughly as any Top ever has...) -
I've been getting a lot of this lately - a Top decides he wants to fuck me, makes like he wants it, "Yeah, buddy, that pussy is all mine" etc., puts my body in position, fingers me up, checks if I'm wet, "Oh, man, that's a good wet boy cunt" etc., spreads my ass, lines up his hips, and... Limp noodle. Soft sausage. I mean, what? Now, to be sure, recently I've been servicing a more mature clientele, so I don't expect the raging steel rods of 20-somethings every time. I'm definitely not judging; I've been blessed in that at 50 years old I can still get it up, which is, when you think about it, actually wasted on a total bottom. But back in the early days when I did occasionally return the favor, I could tell instantly whether I was hard enough to penetrate an asshole, and when I wasn't. For guys who routinely Top, how can they not know? Also, how the fuck can they miss? What's with all this poking around? If you're 18 and a virgin, maybe, but how hard can it be to locate the hole with your finger, line the tip of your cock up with your fingertip, and slide it in? Yet over and over again, I get these guys jabbing me repeatedly over or under the target. This boggles me because all they have to do is look down and my fuckhole is right there. What do I need to do, get a target tattoo around my anus? I mean, it's not completely out of the question, but I'd rather do something more aesthetically clever. And then if they do manage to hit the spot, sometimes they'll ask, "Is it in?" What? You can't tell if it's in my ass? (Hint: If your cock is in my ass, you'll by God know it, because you'll think you've died and gone to Heaven. I'll make sure of that.) I absolutely don't mean to sound ungrateful. I'm grateful for every single cock that even tries to fuck my tight hole, and I'm willing to take responsibility for possibility that I might be part of the problem - my ass has always been particularly tight, and I don't do a lot of stretching. I've never been fisted (though I've always been tempted to try), never played with huge dildos, that sort of thing. I sometimes slowly open myself up with an anal speculum, but I've always been kind of proud of the way I can milk a cock with my ass, and enjoy the pleasure Tops seem to get when they fuck me, so I haven't wanted to compromise that. I guess it's possible that the result has been that I've made the door to paradise a little hard to get into. Maybe? But I do know that some damn huge visitors have pushed their way in like a rhinoceros walking through a Japanese rice paper door (and left nice presents). So I don't know. I do my best to work with everybody. I spend oral time trying to stiffen them up, I assume all kinds of positions, I use my own hand to line them up, but the bottom line is that if a cock isn't at least hard to a certain point, penetration ain't happening, and even if you do somehow stuff it in there, you're not going to be doing any thrusting. So explain to me why some Tops try to do it anyway. Wishful thinking? No access to Viagra? Is it just a case of now that they have actually scored some fantastic ass they're not sure what to do with it? The thing is, I know that it's no good asking all you Tops to tell me what I need to do, because the answer is going to be different for every single Top. For some of you, it will help if I act more helpless; for others, if I act more aggressive; for some if I go down on you, for others if I finger myself; some will get hard if I growl in your ear, others if I whimper; some need their nipples sucked, some need them bitten. Whatever. It's all good. Just know that it's okay if the plumbing doesn't work right then. I'd rather you didn't try to force the issue if you know it's not going to work, because it just sets us both up to be disappointed. Just because you're not quite ready to breed me at that moment doesn't mean you can't Top me in so many other ways. Your masculinity is what turns me into your bitch in heat, so spend some extra time showing me who's Top and why you like my body, and spend some time telling me how you like me to pleasure yours. Before you know it, there won't be any need for wishful thinking.
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any hot breeding tops in sf today
wonderfulwoof posted a topic in San Francisco / Oakland / San Jose
horned up n nerd to be used by dom top(s) todau now
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I cannot pull out and nut on my bottoms ass. He always tells me to cum on his ass but I just can't do it. When I try to do it I end up stroking but never cumming. I don't know how it is for other tops but I don't want to see my load after sex. I want it deep in my bottoms guts. I keep trying to explain this to him. I don't want the bottom to push my load out. I want it planted in him. To me that is REAL sex. I love a bottom who understands that a top is suppose to plant his DNA inside him. That is the whole point of sex. I might as well jack off if I have to shoot my load on your ass when I'm already inside it while holding your back down with my left hand and gripping your back neck with my right. When I got you in that position just do not ruin it for me please. You're gonna get loaded. Just let it happen. Just needed to rant. . .
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looking for dominate asian tops in the sd area
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I've been spending a lot of time lately trying to wrap my head around my acceptance of my role as a bottom, let alone my role as a cumdump for other men. Our culture raises us to view men's roles a certain way, to put masculinity in a particular light. Traditional, mainstream male culture, even in 2017, places a premium on the idea that "real men" are strong, have a rugged nature, a solid physique, control their emotions, seek the company of equals, enjoy penetrative sex (as the penetrator), and cannot be confused for the feminine. Yeah, whatever. Traditional shmaditional. Gay men were not widely consulted when all that was cooked up. That's a given. But my experience as a sub bottom who has been on the receiving end of a lot of cocks is that Tops and Vers Tops and Dom Tops still often share a sense of the above, a masculinity that a sub bottom does not have in his DNA. The way I've been handled by each of these types of Tops has left me wondering how Tops actually view bottoms. Do you view us as men, equally, or not? Are we a lesser form of men? Are we a feminine form of men? Are we a second-class group? Are we objects? Do you admire us? Do you scorn us? Do you have a manifest right to use our asses because you're Tops? I would love to hear the perspectives of Tops on this subject, and I know those perspectives are many. I'm not looking to hear any particular view, and I don't have an agenda here other than to get an idea of the thoughts that are out there. I would ask, though, that you be honest with yourselves, and us, when you reply, and not just parrot something you think you're supposed to say because you're a Top - tell us what you honestly feel. You won't hurt my feelings. As long as you're still willing to fuck me. :)
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I believe in science. If you want to understand why something happens, the reason for it can eventually be understood if you apply science to it. I had been in a deep grey funk for weeks, and didn't understand what was wrong with me. Yeah, yeah, change of seasons, need a break from work, blah blah blah, not buying it. Exercise? No use. This was malaise. This was one of those oppressive, gnawing feelings that grabs hold of you and doesn't let go until it thunders. It was like an ache that wouldn't stop aching, an itch that couldn't be scratched, a hunger for which there was nothing in the fridge. In retrospect, I now think I really became aware of it when I logged onto this website for the first time. It had been a dry spell, and all the talk of juicy, sloppy, grunting, no-holds-barred bareback sex had my toes twitching. Also my asshole. A man had actually spent five years training my mind to accept a role as a public cumdump, but cut me loose without setting me up to actually perform. Now I found myself reading the posts of those who do, and realizing that my training was not for nothing. I can do this. It's not that I haven't done it before. I've shared in other posts about how much cum I've been pumped full of (Hint: It's never enough). It's just that I had never, until now, seriously considered the possibility of becoming a public sex worker. What do you call a man who gives his body away for free? Escorts and prostitutes have at least partly a monetary agenda. I don't, so I can't even accept the technical definition of "whore". I had never thought about it before. I had never looked at myself in the mirror and said, "Cumdump. You. Get busy." But the guy in the mirror was pretty persuasive, so day before yesterday, I put out my first CL ad, set up a QuickConnect on BBRTS, got a hotel room, propped my ass up with a couple of pillows, and thought to myself, Open for Business. There is some scientific research on the effect that sexual intercourse has on the human body. Of course there is; what else would pervy scientists be studying? The release of a whole complex of hormones and neurotransmitters have profound effects on mood and stress levels. But in my experience, there is an effect that can last days or weeks after a particularly good fucking - a glow that sticks with you not just in memory, but in your whole being, almost akin to a good meal that fills you so perfectly that you don't feel hungry for a long time. The first man who pushed open my unlocked hotel door fucked me just like that for a solid hour. He wasn't hard when he got there, and had a little trouble at first, but once he stiffened up, he was ruthless. He wasn't huge, either - a perfectly-sized cock for marathon fucking, and he knew how to use his tools. He loaded me up about a third of the way through, but he was nowhere near finished. Not long after he hit my personal "breeding zone" where I dissolve into a growling animal-bitch and assume nature's pose for reproduction. He knew exactly what to do with that. Later on, when he had started to soften up a bit, he still hadn't run out of ideas: He used his big tip in and out of my by now exquisitely sensitive hole, inoutinoutinoutinoutinoutinoutinoutinoutinout... until I was nearly out of my mind. I only had one other taker that night, with a great big organ that ravaged my cunt very professionally. The fact that I had only two takers didn't bother me. It's a one-horse town anyway, and this was a case of quality over quantity. But the first Top cured me of my deep grey funk. What I had needed was a good fucking. Yeah, yeah, science, blah blah blah. I needed a man's cock in my cunt, and I needed his load shot deep inside me, and Mister, whoever you were, I'm grateful. Not only for the load, but for confirming for me that I truly am meant to be a cumdump, and that I'm right to start doing this. All you Tops, never underestimate the good you can do with a simple fuck. Sometimes, your decision to share your masculinity, your power, your energy, and yes, your load, with a bottom can make all the difference. Go forth and do good work.
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Any rough, dom poz tops want to poz my neg virgin hole?
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I've not long got into barebacking (just a few months), and have very quickly become addicted to it. I've found a site that has plenty of local guys willing to fuck bareback, but they are, by far, mostly married bi Tops. I've begun spending a lot of time cruising the site and getting into convos to arrange me being bred. However, the main issues with meeting seems to be the problems with arranging the time when they can come and use me. This week has been my most prolific week to date. It has been about one raw fuck every week or two, but this week I've arranged six meetings to breed my hole. One of the two Wednesday evening fucks was cancelled in the morning, due to his unforeseen domestic situation changing, and tonight another very keen married Top cancelled because his young son wasn't well and didn't go to a football session, and he had to stay in with him... because his wife was out. Hopefully, the next few will be successful breedings this week, but it's very frustrating to be at the whim of their family lives' permutations. I've had 2 very horny Loads this week so far, and I appear to be becoming a married men's faggot slut, which I'm totally fine with... but it's frustrating. I'm sure that others have the same frustrations? Mike
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I sometimes travel for work and while that can be a drag, it is great to turn on the computer or open an app on the phone to see who is cruising for sex. Without fail, every time I go to Singapore, Philippines or anywhere in SE Asia, there is a bonus to being a European. For some reason, these guys who are usually smaller in stature, like bigger white guys of all ages. On a few occasions in Manila I have met the same guys on different visits. I want to tell just one story. I saw this guy on one of the websites. His profile suggested a safe sex status as 'sometimes'. Usually, as we know, that means the rule is for this guy to bb. So, he came to the hotel and he was 160cm to my 179. He was slightly built to my big frame and he was a good fifteen years younger. Polite, friendly and happy to meet when talking over a drink, I got the surprise of my life when we went to the room. In seconds, he was naked and on the bed. His cock was not big but Im not huge so I don't get too hung up on other guy's size. He became powerful and dominant in the bedroom. What i like was that he was serious and not acting or putting it on. He needed to urgently cum and made it clear that he had to blow a load fast. I was ordered to my fours and he climbed up on my back and smelled me from head to toe while his cock just got rock hard. "you don't drink milk, do you.. I cannot smell dairy from you". and with that he just spat on my ass hole and plowed his very hard cock into my arse.. he was small but he fucked that cock of his in several directions inside me so that I felt like i was being plowed by a piston and he did it as if he was twice the size. I knew he was strong and he blew hard and heavy inside me... After that he relaxed for a few minutes and asked me to take him to the bathroom.. I did and got into the bath with him for the shower but I had that wrong because his shower was his piss in my mouth which he did to show me he was in charge of what happened. Once back in the bed, he took his time. He wanted to suck and be sucked, to rim and be rimmed and then fisted me gently until he was ready to fuck again which he did. First on my back, then he flipped me to my side and then flipped me over again on to my knees. he threw me around as if I was the little guy and he the big guy. Clearly a wrestler or something he was so strong. By the end of that first meet, he had cum in me three times. he came again on two of the nights that I was there. He told me that he was cheating on his boyfriend who would be horrified. I met him on any trip I have taken to Manila since but now he is in a new relationship with a guy who is as promiscuous and free as he is.. he continues to breed and enjoys it. It was one of my favourites because it was not just hot but unexpectedly so.
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Is it just me or does there seem to be an influx of picky tops on bbrt lately in the LA area? I am blk vers and like to get fucked from time to time, but lately haven't really had anyone interested. Or do they just not like vers guys? Not trying to sound desperate or anything its just what I am experiencing right now. Anyone else?
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At one poinT in time, I heard there was a special night at a LA Bathhouse that a Bottom, such as I could be a Cumdump for either Black Men or Down Low Black Men. Does anyone have any answers? Does it still occur? slamandfukme@outlook.com
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I posted this chart "Master Temeck's Submission Scale" on another thread, but thought it would be interesting to throw it out here. The chart outlines four different types of sexual submissive, from "Bitch" which is almost purely about sex and not as much about absolute domination, to "Object" which is far more about over-riding and complete dehumanization and restriction. I'd argue there are gradients in-between, but this is a great place to get started. For me, I'm pretty much on the "bitch" side of things (obviously, it's in my profile handle) but, as someone else pointed out, with more than a bit of the "fag" stuff mixed in. If you are into submission, which of these four would best describe you? Are you somewhere in-between? Is there another category that applies to you? If you are into domination, which kind of sub do you prefer? Or do you care, as long as you have a hole to use as you want?
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Raw bttm will be in Toronto on Wednesday night, staying overnight and looking for anonymous tops to fill me with cum and piss
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Id love to get plowed and loaded up text me 512-450-3186 if interested do not call host usually at night and love being shared
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Bottoms Do You Or Have You Ever Rewarded An Alpha Male Top?
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Anyone get off on worshiping alpha male tops by providing them with gifts/rewards? Gifts because they're a real man, with a big dick and a horny superior fucker? -
We are always reading about how many loads bottoms take at the baths or sex parties but we rarely hear about guys who also enjoy breeding anon holes. Number of holes are you able to breed in one night: Do you just breed one hole and your done and usually go home after the breeding? Do you combine breeding holes and taking loads?: Some guys may want to first bottom for a while before they are ready to top and breed holes. Then back to bottoming. -
Which city have you found has the most tops in your experience? For me it would have to be NYC. Had no problem getting breed several times on each of my visits. Guys seem to be easy to find, ready to come over quickly and unload. Maybe it's just my luck. Thoughts?
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Who else thinks bareback.com is awesome The original & best website. Love to hear your comments from other members please.
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Any top guys into chubby bottoms around London?
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Hey men...where are all the big brutal, rough fucking tops here? Somehow only really seem to meet the gentle easy kind, which is great, don't get me wrong, but sometimes, really REALLY need my holes raped and pillaged and whatever other words come to mind...any ideas? And if you ARE one of these kinds of men, get ahold of me asap please! Desperate to be ridden hard and hung up wet to be used again before dry...!!! -
I'll be visiting Chicago for two weeks starting October 15, 2015, and I'm looking to hookup with some guys while I'm there.
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So this is more of a general rant, but maybe other bottoms ( or even Tops?) are in a similar position. Let me explain. I'm around my 30s, with looks of 20-25 (good genes, I think). I workout 6+ times a week and keep myself generally healthy. By no means am I muscular, or have a six-pack, just a normal guy who takes pride in taking care of himself. Anyhow I've loved to play with my ass since my teens, and occasionally in my mid-20's I barebacked (like four times. 2nd time was a disaster, 3rd-4th I seroconverted. No I wasn't chasing). Since seroconversion It took some time to adapt to the meds and get my health back on track, but figured what the hell, now I can bareback with impunity, right? Wrong. (and yes, other STDs do worry me, hence why I look after myself. I can only hope others think the same way. Actually had a discussion about this with my doc. Can't believe people would be active whilst having a STD like chlam, herp, gon,hep C etc...and thus how it spreads). It's impossible for me to find decent Tops who are willing to fuck an otherwise healthy (undetectable, fit) ass. A lot of the times on chat sites I get 'Hey', or 'facepic' or lol tel nr). I don't actually like men. I don't enjoy kissing, cuddling, nipples, et al. I enjoy cock in the ass and/or a cock in my mouth. It could be a short pump n dump, or a long fuck. But the lack of action is really starting to get to me. I know how to clean myself fully out so that Tops can go balls-to-the-walls without worrying about getting dirty (something I learned along the way whilst playing with various size vibrators/dilos/buttplugs/self fisting). But reading these forums seems to be about Tops also enjoying a good kiss with their bottoms, something that is not my cup of tea. The Europe/Russia forums seem to be a bit dismal as well (Netherlands here, how come there is no Amsterdam Metro area? Seriously? Also lack of action in NL in general. It's a shame tbh, I'm willing to take cock, be clean, do what is needed, but no dice. I'll leave a picture here for you all to judge. Maybe other bottoms, or Tops, have the same issue? (there is a big issue of fakers in online chats as well). If people want to make a serious sexdate, and commit, I'm willing to travel. Netherlands isn't all that big, even to Amsterdam (ok train service here is pretty bad), but Tops need to play their part as well.
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Visiting sydney for 3 days end of this months. Looking for tops to use my holes and feed me cums. I have hotel im cbd so can host. But happy to travel as well and aiming to get 15-20loads each night. So msg me if you are keen. Ideally looking for tops who can organise a group fucks:)
