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Does your bf know you bb with other guys?  

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  1. 1. Does your bf know you bb with other guys?

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My partner and I both do it, me being more of a bottom but still, we take and giveĀ loads whenever we can.

but we also know the needs of each other to the point my bf organizes gangbangs for me or sends me on load hunting expeditions. He loves it when I get back home with a cunt full and dripping with cum šŸ˜ˆ

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About half the guys I play with kind of regularly are attached.Ā  They ALL say they're "open", but I don't know how many of the partners know it's OPEN since some of them are WAY more discrete than others lol.Ā  I'd NEVER do monagamy so I don't blame a guy for needing more dick/ass than one guy.Ā  I don't think that works unless both partners have a super LOW sex drive, which isn't much fun.Ā  It would be tough to cheat on me, since I want a slutty bf I can whore around with and also use as bait to get other guys to play with.Ā  My past LTRs we have done a ton of 3ways and some sex clubs and stuff, but I know I was cheated on also by both.Ā  Bothered me a little at the time, but that was a long time ago, and now I'd just want to know as soon as possible so I could eat and reload their freshly fucked hole or maybe get him to breed me while the cum is still leaking from his ass.Ā  Ā  I love cheaters and other high risk guys that are just too horny to care about the consequences :)

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Gays are simply wired for sex. Dig down or wait for just a second or two, and you ask them NOT to wear a condom, they won't. I've played with so many younger guys with rings on their right hand (married to women or men); some have admitted that they're partnered. They're at Steamworks Toronto for sex for various reasons. I don't get into these reasons. My focus: bb sex with them. Cheating or open relationship. Period. OINK!

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When a few years back, I caught my (present) BF, now 'hubby', passed out drunk on the couch on another anti-social, asexual, boringĀ Friday night I wondered what he had been up to, all secretive on his phone. It wasĀ pumping out messages after messages that he in his drunken state was missing out on!Ā  I got curious and read the last one, lewd as fuck, I scrolled, read the others, all about 'breeding' and 'CUMING INSIDE YOU'. Grindr and Scruff messages and some 'dude' texted his numberĀ about 'wanting to breed you bareback' all that kind of stuff. No 'innocent' flirting!!

It wasn't the first time I caught a BF cheating, while I, despite opportunities galore resisted the temptations... I had be a romanticĀ dumb-ass serial monogamist and felt once again DUPED! I threw a fit, a tantrum. Broke shit, as is the custom! He was however OUT OF IT and heard none of it. Then I 'came to' and had a sudden 'revelation'! I was getting turned on! Weird! The thought of some random stranger sliding his fat, pulsing cock into my man and leaving his DNA inside of him gave me chills! Throwing off the shackles of monogamy and fear!

As justification for his 'cheating' whether consummated or just in the planning stages, he explained that I had sexually neglected him after he got ill and he felt undesirable. Well, he was right. He only found out he was poz because of another serious medical issue. ButĀ by that time he had tagged me with his toxic DNA. Well, he is all better now and there were no tears over spilled seed!

So I told him: "98% plus of all couples, whether gay or straight would end their relationship catching the other cheating, typically with total hostility and disgust! I however am intrigued! I'm a bit freaky and we could turn these 'lemons' into lemonade!" I wanted to get back in control of the situation. I laid out the 'law': "INSTALL GRINDR AND SCRUFF FOE ME!" I watched him do it. I told him from now on ALL SEX is a sport. NEW GAME! Promiscuity and 'scoring' with random dudes is not just TOLERATED but also ENCOURAGED! We can hunt as a team, together or alone, go to sex-parties and orgies and there will be NO JEALOUSY, no hypocrisy, no regrets, no fear and loathing.

Footnote:Ā Your mind has to READJUST from 'conventional to unconventional'. Treat sex the same as you get excited going hunting or rodeo-ridingĀ with bros! Exciting, unpredictable and yes, occasionally 'dangerous'. Yes you may get VD but we'll deal with it! And since we both crossed the river into poz-land, all sex is preferably to be conducted BAREBACK. No pulling out! No loads refused!

Sometimes a guy is more into one or the other of us. No problem! Sometimes I don't get hard for the tricks he brings in and wants me to join. "You all fuck, I'm gonna watch 'The Big Bang' instead!" I have said that before!

Sometimes when they interest me, and they are exhibitionists, I take pictures without really participating. I love the close-ups when theĀ guy's cock slides in and out of my man's ass-cunt and especially the cream-pie money-shots. I save those gemsĀ and jerk off to them occasionally on a sleepless late night with a late-night hard-on. My manĀ is better with the camera than me so I wished he would get more into the voyeur thing. Turns out that I score SIGNIFICANTLY more than he does. I have a 'regular' fuck-buddy now who since first 'coming out' into the bareback scene. HeĀ has fucked me more than all tricks and BFs before going back into the 80s. A guy muchĀ younger than me who is one of the most popular 'top sluts' in town. He is like my best bud, but completely not 'relationship material' just TOOĀ WILD! Tricks 24/7, guys coming and going, you can barely keep up! But my man isn't jealous about my new-found HOBBY. Tells me instead: "I'm proud of you being such a slut!" I return the compliment when he had a good score, and even encourage him to be more assertive without coming across as 'needy'. I really want to whore him out! Make out with him as he gets bred by strangers! Sometimes, before going to sleep we talkĀ our dailyĀ exploits,Ā even while we have sex! Gets us even hornier! 'CHEATING' actually brought spice into our lives! I have had more action since I caught him in 2015 than in all the decades of monogamy before!!! All the fun I missed out on!

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My ex and I used to enjoy threesomes (or moresomes) with some regular FWB's.Ā  We are both versatile, but his preference was to suck cock or have me or the third guy suck him.Ā  Ā He really enjoyed oral sex.

I was into more tho ... I really enjoyed rimming and fucking over and above all that oral fun, so it was more likely I would be the guy loading a juicy hole or taking a big load in my ass.Ā  Ā In almost ALL cases, he wanted to watch and film me giving or taking a cock.Ā  I often walked in on him jerking off and watching our own homemade porn of hot scenes at a later date.

We had a pretty open relationship with a high preference to playing together - because it turned us both on to watch one another load or get loaded.Ā  I travel a lot for work, and we would talk on the phone about the latest 'trick' one of us picked up while I was away.... sometimes he would have some tricks over for fun and sometimes I would find a hot guy to share in my hotel.

It was almost like foreplay to tell one another what happened - while 'we' were sucking and fucking.Ā  A LOT of fun!

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My partner knows I bareback other guys as Iā€™ve involved him every step of the way in my getting PrEP, first on the internet when it was a very new thing, later on a clinical trial, now just regular prescription through my doctor. I explained to my partner, who knew I was going to bathhouses at home and overseas on business, that guys were using condoms less and that you couldnā€™t trust them not to take them off during sex. My partner actually parcels out my Truvada into a pillbox for the week and brings me my pill with a cup of tea each morning. He also knows - I tell him - when I get STIs and have to have injections, a pill or courses of pills.

On the other hand my partner doesnā€™t know the extent of my raw fucking. When I first went on PrEP I naively thought I would continue using condoms. My partner probably thinks I still do, perhaps. He doesnā€™t know what a cum slut I have become or the extent of my barebacking.

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Mine knows I fuck other guys bare. Hell our first conversation was basically him telling me how good bareback feels and how he needed to put a load in my hole.

We don't see each other as often as we'd like due to life schedules not aligning. That said, he encourages me to be a slut. As long as I don't share any pics of me being fucked that show my face he's happy.Ā 

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