Boyfriend cheated

[bboi90]

So just wanted some input...

I had a suspicion my boyfriend had cheated on me a few months ago. I made a blank Grindr and got hit up by some guy. He asked for a pic so I sent him a pic of my boyfriend. Immediately was like hey dude its been awhile how have you been etc...so I probed and got that he fucked him on his friends couch a few months ago.

 

I confront the boyfriend who denied for 45 minutes, then admitted he met him at the casino, brought him back, did some oral and jerking off, fingering, rimming...but claims no actual sex. The dude explicitly said in the messages "I loved fucking your ass" so I think he's lying. Maybe he thinks getting fucked would be too far or something...

 

opinions?

 

(FYI - not even mad. dude was hot as fuck. I jerked off thinking about it. just wanna know if he did or not...)

[cheatingjock]

I'd first say this is hot! And def hookup with the hot guy. Were condoms used? I'm guessing you might be ok w not using yourself based on membership here.

You open? or going to be now? Or will this be a don't ask don't tell where you both fuck around on the side?

[bboi90]

the guy didn't say when he said it so I can't be sure. I don't care if they did or not...the boyfriend all day has denied they actually had anal sex though...claims just foreplay and oral and fingering.

[TwinkBoi4Daddy]

HOOOOOOOT  gives you an excuse to cheat too now

[Guest Dickmagnet]

Seeming as you know who fucked him supposedly, Why don't you suggest to your boyfriend to have an open relationship & then suggest to have a trio & after that invite the guy over who has already fucked him that you have been in contact with, get your boyfriend blindfolded & Then you can spit roast the boyfriend & tag team his ass bare. That should clear up your jealous issues.

[justsexnowatl]

Sounds like you're both ready to open it up - your relationship AND your fuckholes!  Either discuss it with the bf, or just surprise him with a 3rd you think he'd be into.  Very hot to me that you're into it and jacked off thinking about it.  I would only ever consider an open relationship.  I HATE being lied to or broken trust, but in cheating scenario and both want more cock/ass, the end result is the same if you get to open it up.  You deserve a little revenge, so I'd lean toward setting it up as a surprise.  It would be fucking perfect if you could get the same top guy to come be fucking you when your bf walks in on it.  Hope you report back!!

[bboi90]

Talked to the guy. He agreed to come over this morning for a surprise. I'll let you know the outcome

[topstud127]

Sounds like they fucked. 

The dishonesty and adamant lying are non-negotiables for me, but sounds like you two are on the same page. He's just chicken-shit.

[bboi90]

Walked in on us fucking...dude didn't stop just kept going. He just looked and then went outside. The guy left, he came back in and said why are you trying to get revenge on me? And then continued to deny that he fucked the dude...still sticking to the story of just foreplay, fingering, and some oral/jo.

[topstud127]

Hand and blowjobs can equal "we didn't fuck" but rimming and fingering, why wouldn't you. In my book, that means the ass was clean and ready for a fuck. Only reason not to proceed is if they insisted on condoms and no one had any.

Edited November 16, 2016 by topstud127

[bboi90]

2 hours ago, topstud127 said:

Hand and blowjobs can equal "we didn't fuck" but rimming and fingering, why wouldn't you. In my book, that means the ass was clean and ready for a fuck. Only reason not to proceed is if they insisted on condoms and no one had any.

Exactly. I feel the same way. He's a big bottom. I have fucked him for 5+ years now...he's the type that if you so much as rub his hole he immediately wants fucked...so fingering to me = they probably fucked.

[fuckrogerbb]

I absolutely hate being lied to. Be honest about who you are, what you want, what you do. Life is so easy that way. If you're partner can't handle what you are doing, then a decision has to be made to continue the relationship or not. NO LYING!

[PissPigBrooklyn]

I don't know what kind of "arrangement" you and your bf had before this incident. Since you say he "cheated" I am guessing that either the two of you were supposed to be exclusive or the two of you were only supposed to have others in your relationship when together. But your name is pozmeup and you are on here and you didn't hesitate a minute to call up this other guy and let him fuck your ass, knowing that your boyfriend would discover you. I suspect the issue is less about whether he lied or not (and I admit that lying is a huge trustbreaker) than it is about your wanting him to go outside the relationship and using your suspicions to allow you to do that. you both need to be honest with each other. you should tell him how much chasing turns you on and how much you want him to either join you in that chase or at least allow you to chase freely. If he is not willing to accept the risk maybe he can get on PrEP but allow you to continue your search for hiv.

[PartyandBreed]

I don't think you mentioned if the guy fucked YOU bare, pozmeup. I sure hope he did!

[Cumjunky215]

I have a fb we've been at it for a couple years, I assumed he had a bf because of the times he's free and how guarded he is.  Well, I get an email recently from him that he wants to come over at a time that's much different than usual, but I was free and always want a fuck and load in my ass.  Then he tells me he wants me wearing a blindfold ass up door unlocked.  Ok, but he never asked before.  So I'm ready in position and on time the door opens.  Soon I feel a hand on my ass then a finger sliding inside.  Something tells me something's "different" but I still felt safe.  Then a dick slides straight in my asshole to the balls and I know it's not my fb--this dick is longer with a serious curve and he always enters slowly.  This guy's not saying a word and I'm moaning more than usual.  He's pounding into me rough.  "You're not ------- are you", I said and he replies "no how does he fuck your ass?"  I'm getting a hatefuck from my fb's boyfriend and although it's hot I'm hoping that's the only anger I'm going to get from him.  

"----------- saves his emails to you and I read how much you like getting a loaded cunt. He won't let me fuck him he says I'm too rough.  I guess we both should fuck you when we want ass".  He's really digging into me, pulling me back with his hands on my shoulders and although I like aggressive fucks this is starting to get worrisome--it's been a steady plowing from when he entered.  But I don't stop him.  I reach back and feel his balls slapping into me, really big and round hairy and fuzzy thighs but that's all I know of the guy.  After about 30 minutes of steady fucking with little change in position he cums his dick jammed deep inside balls deep biting the back of my neck.  He stays in me slowly deflating, pulls out wipes off on my face then spits on it.  "Are you going to tell him you were here", I asked.  He just grunted, dressed and left.  It was hot but rougher than I usually like, and don't know if my fb's coming back.  Or his angry bf.  it's been 4 days and not sure why I'd like the bent angry one to return too although he hit spots that are sore but were also enjoyable.  Jealousy--What an experience.