TIRED of size queens

[PervBBbttm]

Your cock is awesome and I take it often. 

[SubOtter]

A man should never be reduced to the size of his cock, that’s just so wrong. I treat my tops as kings - no exceptions. 

I instinctively crave all cocks and all men so size and appearance have never really been relevant to me. The sexiest men I’ve ever met or been with have been the ones that truly get inside my mind not just my hole. 

[topstud127]

I don't consider myself a size queen, but I do have a "golden zone" of dick size and shape I go after. In part, I'm a big guy (6'1, 220, not the most nimble) and I liked to be stretched and filled. I don't have the most sensitive prostate so thats where my pleasure comes from.

[ErosWired]

On 12/10/2017 at 7:01 PM, barecubtop said:

I use the dick pic you see here (my profile pic) on the apps and websites.  There seems to be a 50/50 chance that I'll either get "that's too small for me" or "that's so thick!"  In addition, I'm not the most photogenic, so when anyone ever asks for a face pic, I often get turned down also.  It sucks, but then I'll go to a bathhouse or a bookstore or something, and I get all kinds of compliments about my looks and my dick.  Just last night at a bathhouse I had numerous people stop by the doorway of my room just to say "hey, that's a nice cock, do you want company?" 

Now see, looking at that pic, my reaction is that that looks like a perfect cock. The best fucks I've ever had, hands down, haven't been from guys with monstrous equipment, but rather from guys with reasonable length and good girth, who know how to use them. I absolutely -love- giving head to a cock that I can take right to the base without choking on it., and I can't get enough of a cock that rams my prostate every time it rides by.

I know that all that sounds like a line somebody would give you if they were trying to get you to fuck them, but that's honestly my impression.

Or, put another way, the fact that I'm trying to get you to fuck me doesn't make it any less true.

[andrew456]

so true its the person size,doesn't enter into it I'm bottom and love guy to fuck my hole as for bbrts its a waste of time when I go to bathouse i always get cock.

[hunting4anon33]

I've never understood why most gay men have a shallow toxicity to them. The gay male community bashes itself almost as badly as it is bashed by homophobia. 

Yes,  we all have our attraction factors.  Nothing wrong with knowing yourself & what makes you interested in a guy..  What makes a btm want to bend over to get fucked,  what makes a top's dick hard & ready to fuck.. 

So many average guys out there whom are potentially good friends,  fuckbuddies,  & more.  A big dick,  I've found,  personally,  is usually attached to a bigger dick.  In & of itself,  cock size is nothing.  It may be a status symbol,  but let's face it,  it is no guaruntee he's good in bed,  just fucking lucky that he has some decent genetics in that body part..

All in all,  when it comes down to it,  our community should incorporate some new rules.  It's alright to not be attracted to someone,  but show some fucking class & respect.  Be polite,  but not apologetic about your turn ons.  Be aware of their feelings,  & give them the same courtesy that you would like if you were in their position & turned down.

Size queens are a huge problem,  because that trait usually comes as a passive & unnecessary part of the shallow,  smug,  toxic asshole package.  Personally,  I find that sort of shallow, callous disrespect to be worse than murdering your fellow man in cold blood.  At least the damage is done & the person does not usually suffer. 

Yes,  I am a proud sexual pig.  When I hook up,  I've always asked myself -  what's the point if he's a shallow blank slate in terms of a carbon copy stereotype personality, & has no respect for his fellow man ?   

     

[hunting4anon33]

That said,  I'm a vers top.  I am an average guy.  I do not hide that fact,  I embrace it.  You want a dick that will tear you apart ?  Well,  keep your eye open for porn stars,  because I am man enough to be realistic about the fact that I am not a porn star.  You're wasting my time after I said that I am a regular joe.  

I don't like inflicting pain,  I'd rather be known as a guy who can fuck you,  fill ya,  & not tear you open because I have respect for my fellow man.  

I am told that I am "just right."  And I am happy with that.

I'd like to think that the guys I've known as regular cum dumps are happy with what I offer.     

[boy4you]

A dick is a dick and as long it’s shooting a hot load who care of the size. If you want something big in your hole that will never get soft and still have the connection try getting fisted.  

[Read1]

Could we have gotten a perception of long, thick cocks from porn? Or from our experiences and what we want shooting in our asses? 

If you want to limit your being fucked and seeded just by oversized cocks, then so be it! If you're happy with any cock spurting in your ass, then enjoy them all, like anonymously in a dark room of a bathhouse!! 

I love dark rooms because you're just fucking/rimming/felching boyholes or being fucked by whatever size happens to be there!

[btm2bbred]

Size queens are depriving themselves of their basic needs by limiting themselves to a much smaller universe of cocks  of a certain length or width or both.

As a bottom, your basic function is to provide a willing fuckhole to be a receptacle for any Top man's cock and cumload(s).   That's your raison d'etre.    Why limit yourself to only cocks exceeding certain dimensions?  I want to be fucked and filled as often as I can.     That's why darkrooms and such are the great equalizers.    Not my cup of tea all the time, but you are presenting your ass to be used by any and all.    No judgments of any sort.

If you are a Top, you only want to find a bottom with an open door policy.    Once the Top plants his bareback cock in your willing hole, the bottom should stimulate the Top to the point of orgasm so the Top relieves his horniness, and leaves his cumload as his souvenir for the bottom to savor.

Size queens are missing most of the action if they stand around waiting only for Mr. Perfect Top.

[ErosWired]

1 hour ago, Read1 said:

Could we have gotten a perception of long, thick cocks from porn?

DING ~ We have a winner. Porn is all about the visuals, and it's easy to reach a point of saturation with it so that you need something more titillating each time to get the same effect. So producers have to find actors with bigger, longer, more sexualized features, until now porn is more a caricature of actual human sexuality.

That said, I have to confess that I have had a legitimate issue before with significantly undersized cocks. There does come a point at which a cock can be too small for satisfying fucking.

[NLbear]

More often than not it's the visual, the idea and excitement of getting fucked by a really big dick. Can't deny that it turns me on too. But also often it turns out that a. he doesn't know how to use it, b. can't get it hard or c. his ego is even bigger and having a big dick makes him think that's all what's needed. Don't get me wrong, I had great times with guys with a bigger than average dick but I also know the most satisfying times for me as a bottom are/were with guys who are average and knew what to do with it.

As long as it's big and thick enough to rub my prostate, or, if he knows how to keep going for a while (or more than once) and doesn't shoot in 5 minutes I'm a happy bottom ;-)

Doesn't mean I don't like to look at guys with a massive dick, it turns me on and I fantasize about it, but I also know it's certainly not a guarantee for a good fuck and I certainly don't reject guys based on their dick size. Unless - as @ErosWired says- they are really undersized. Simply because I think I won't get any pleasure out of it myself and it's just him having all the fun (I'm selfish). That goes for a 1-on-1 date. In a group, darkroom or bathhouse I couldn't care less, in those cases a dick is a dick.....

[bbzh]

I'm not a size queen, but I have had enough penises in my rectum to know what shape, girth and length work best for me. Last night, I got fucked by a guy with a cock that wasn't that thick but it was long. I was in fucking heaven. I think he enjoyed it too given that I got a huge load from him - and then after suitable rest - another huge load. I struggle with short thick dicks. And dicks that curve downwards often don't work well. I will run (seriously) from well endowed men. I can take a pounding from a hung guy but he has to be patient. I find that most hung guys are NOT patient because (I think) they are frustrated by how few guys can handle their dicks, which makes them just want to ram it in. I have some hung guys in my phone right now that I simply don't fuck with much because they are too rough for my tastes. Sometimes I really feel like pulling out a big dildo and ramming it up their asses to make the point that assholes are not built for violent entry and thrusting. A hung top that knows how to fuck is waiting for the moment his bottom is relaxed and knows when he can start pounding that hole. And by the way, I have come across hung guys out there who LIE about the size of their dicks so as not to scare you off. 

[Phallarchist]

While it's not my personal policy, I completely support the choice to reject men with small penises. Mating is brutally competitive of necessity. If you can't stretch cunt, you had better find other ways to demonstrate that you can make an impact as a man.

Edited April 29, 2021 by Phallarchist

[Guest]

On 11/23/2017 at 1:17 AM, constructionguy said:

Bottoms are constantly complaining they're not getting enough cock .... well, maybe if you dropped the size queen fetish you might.

I have a nice thick cock that fucks really good and never disappoints and big balls that shoot a real good load but a lot of bottoms say "sorry, I never connect with anyone less than 14 inches". or their ads say "HUGE cocks only'.

Listen boys, step outta the porn film and into real life and you might be laid more often.

End of rant.

I agree. Personally, I think 14´´ cocks are even unreal to find in a real world, even 10 the size fetishists dream of, when looking for a top. When I bottom for a guy, I actually prefer normal or medium size cocks, since large ones can literally be pain in the ass. Also no man or woman ever complained about my 14-15cm (5,5-6 inch) piece 🙂 I would even say the M-sized people can give you the most pleasure, since they mostly know better how to use their piece. It is also the best when you encounter a medium sized vagina, which is just the best for a cock, tight enough to squeeze you perfectly, just deep enough that you can feel her cervix with your tip if you get in, balls deep. I also love when they are medium to super wet and lubricate you both naturally. Its also the best amount for eating her out and lapping at her pussy juice. But that´s just my personal preference. Sex can be great with people of any size, if you find the right way and activity 🙂