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I was in a terrible relationship. I had enough and put my arse up for anyone who would fuck it. 15 years later here I am with the DNA of thousands of men inside me

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Played safe for so many years, raw didn't interest me but all the talk on forums about barebacking got me intrigued. When i was around 25 i started to watch alot of bareback porn.

I finally convinced myself i wanted to have a raw cock in my pink hole and a few months later i hooked up with a sexy guy on holiday from Brazil. Met him in a bar on an afternoon. After a few drinks he invited me back to his hotel room, we undressed pretty much straight away, absolutely amazing body, thick cock just a tad under 8".

After kissing and sucking his cock for about 5min he turned me over and rimmed my clean shaven hole for a while. 

I decided this was the guy i wanted to feel his raw cock in my hole, while he was still rimming me i said if he wanted to go in bare i was ok with it. His reply was " i only fuck raw" so lucky i was now ok with it 😂 I mentioned that i had never had bareback gay sex on before only played safe and he smiled and said "you are going to bareback forever after this, it feels awesome." 

He lubed his cock, fingered my hole for a bit and then he slowly slid in. I still remember the feeling, an absolute sensational feeling i'll never forget. 

Unfortunately it wasn't long before he was ready to cum but i remember exactly what he said as he was ready to unload. "Do you know what's so great about barebacking?" I replied "the feel", in which he replied "well yes but this warm feel your about to get" and then a few seconds later he grunted and i felt this warm sensation deep inside my hole.

He bred me with a thick creamy load!

He was right, from that day on never used rubbers topping or bottoming. I did become Poz 6 months ago (hooked up with a few poz guys haha) but i wouldn't change it ever!

 

 

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My first fuck was raw and got me addicted to the feeling of having a man's load buried into my hole. Didn't insist on a guy BB when I was younger. Now a condom is not going in my ass, few people ever bring it up anyway. 

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After about 25 years of safe sex - and similar for the guys around me in saunas and cruise clubs - I started to find the odd person trying it on without a condom, which was unexpected behaviour round my way then, and I would resist and re-wrap etc. then I occasionally did not resist and, for example, continue to fuck when I see the guy at the gloryhole has slipped off my condom. 

Then people started to ask me directly if they could fuck me bare. I remember clearly such a request when already set up to go on a bed in a cruise club by a cute hairy Arab guy. I agreed given his explanation about losing his (beautiful) erection and on a promise not to cum inside me.

The real turning point for me was in a Macau hotel room with a cute Chinese  guy (I’m a sucker for Asian boys) who would keep taking pauses in fucking me and take off the condom, I’d let him start fucking me a little bit raw and then I’d put a new condom on him (in retrospect I sound like a bit of a tease). He did ask to go bare but I resisted. The next night, my last, he made it clear he wasn’t coming to the hotel unless we barebacked. I didn’t merely relent but positively decided to not only bareback him but to seek to go on PrEP so that my sexual horizons were widened.

After returning home from that business trip I told my partner I planned to go on PrEP and hunted down a doctor willing to prescribe and a reliable internet provider to purchase from. I haven’t looked back ...

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If I am completely honest it is ever since I discovered I was positive, I figure what the fuck!! I mean it was not right away, but it has been almost ten years since I was diagnosed and was completely freaked out the first few years. Now I really don't care and actually prefer it bare and usually prefer the load in my ass, sometimes I like in in my mouth. I can't even watch porn with condoms now.

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The decision was not a point, but a process.

 

In my early days, I had a lot of sex in crusing areas and wasn't so much on anal sex. I loved to suck cocks. I was strictly in safer sex and everybody else. Unsafe sex was undesirable and stigmatized by "normal and good" gays. Over time, I noticed more and more that I was missing something. Although I had sex but it was always like a soup without salt or as if you eat something delicious but it holds its nose so that you can't taste it properly. I didn't want to stop, but I wanted the guy to come in my mouth and give me his semen. I discovered my sperm fetish. I loved that moment when the guy came in my mouth and I had the taste of his semen in my mouth. I swallowed it very slowly to taste it properly. I had a problem anyway. Many men wanted to fuck. Only oral sex was too boring for them. I agreed to get fucked. Strictly safe. At some point, the first came inside me without asking but with a condom. Everything safe. I continued to discover how nice it's for a man to enjoy his climax in me. I love watching the climax of other men until today (so I like to watch jerk off vids^^). A moment with a very own beauty! From the sperm fetish and the desire that the guys come in me, my safer sex discipline flagged. I wanted to have the cum in me. I let it slowly and was addicted from the first moment. I felt that I had finally found the satisfying sex I had been looking for so long. I love this moment of total union when the guy comes in and gives me his cum and a part of him becomes a part of me. I have now found my sexual role and fulfillment in taking the seed of other guys and I totally love it. Later on, I noticed that the risk of a infection gave me another kick and the poz guys totally blew me off. So I am now part of this community.
I still have sex with a condom today, but I already know that it will not be good. It doesn't turn me on and bores me. Once you get a good insemination as a bottom, you are spoiled for "normal and good" gay men. They can do what they want, they can't satisfy me anymore.

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When I started, it was bareback, it was the norm. Condoms were to prevent getting pregnant and that was never going to be an issue. I was always a bottom, when I tried topping it was wasn’t even second best.

Then came AIDS, condoms were everywhere and so was fear. Friends died, that was heart-breaking. I used condoms only out of fear, the sex was unsatisfying and all you got at the end was nasty lump of rubber to dispose of.

Then I met J – I loved him, really deeply loved him.  For him it was bare or nothing – I went bare for him, the sex was great and having his sperm in me was precious. (OK I’m a closet romantic too).

The relationship eventually ended but I never went back to condoms, I couldn’t. 

During that relationship I learned that my basic core nature is to be the vessel to my tops cock and essential to satisfying my needs is the total intimacy of direct flesh to flesh contact, my active and absolute submission to servicing his needs towards his orgasm – the privilege of being impregnated - receiving and holding his sperm is the ultimate intimacy and the proof that I have served him well. I feel only ever feel used or degraded if it’s not bareback, To me, It says you are unworthy and not good enough and unclean.

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I was curious and at age 46, I met a 19 year old guy in Charlotte and i sucked him off but later that night I told him I wanted to feel his cock in my ass. First time, he nutted in me and it was uncomfortable but I loved it. The second time he didn’t lube up and I hurt for a solid month. But I can’t go on fearing the pain anymore. 

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I could never wear a condom.  I've got a very small cock, so they just kept sliding off, so I just always fucked bare.  As a bottom, I started early on with the anonymous cruising, and quickly moved on to the sleazy sex clubs DC used to have.  Nobody there ever wore a condom.  Especially in the blackout maze.  Even my first fucks were raw, though. 

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Guest Upstateguy518

I tried it once just for the hell of it, to finally said I did it. Didn't notice much of a difference tbh. You can feel the condom for sure but a raw cock just felt more natural I guess the word would be. I don't do it often but I wouldn't mind doing it again.

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My first time going raw and bare with with a friend I’ve seen many times before. We always used to fuck with him covered.

one night we were going at it intensely , he then whispered in my ear that he wanted me raw. I nodded in agreement. Knowing he was poz on meds I was still nervous.

he then slid it off and started rubbing his cock on my hole . Man did it get rock hard!

after that he slid back in me raw and the rest is history!

raw only now please;)

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