Sluts & Relationships - Have you ever seen it succeed?

[piglooking4pigs]

@RawTop ... great question and great thread.  I'm a slut by your definition, but not in a relationship right now.  I think a slut can be in a meaningful relationship, but this can probably only be done by a few guys, as it requires a special set of skills, such as communication, honesty, and intentionally creating the space in your relationship for each partner to live his life to the fullest extent that he wants for himself.

Personally, I feel closer to a partner who is living his life honestly and in the way that makes most sense to him within the guidelines of whatever we have decided and agreed to together.  If each has agreed to the guidelines, then each can be held accountable for trying to stay within them.

I'm a slut and appreciate that men are sexual creatures and sex is one pathway for us to explore in order to understand ourselves more fully.  Trying to suppress or deny this natural desire, to the extent some of us need it (in my case several times a week), will eliminate the possibility of making such a relationship successful.

My two cents....

Edited May 1, 2019 by piglooking4pigs

[Guest]

Unfortunately I think that in the vast majority of cases the two are mutually exclusive. I’m lucky to have a long-term partner to share my life with but I am a wannabe slut and he is not. It’s tricky to navigate these situations and I think most people have to balance relationships and piggishish but not get 100 percent or close to either. 

[everopen1]

I have with a wonderful slut for 3 years we have wonderful open and honest relationship. We met at a bbrt party he was the featured bottom.8 was the host and a responded to an ad that I was looking for twink to be a cumdump at a party.  I think the success has been communication.  Go out have fun but tell each other what is happening. And the hard rule is you must be home in bed before sunrise.  I know he gets fucked everyday while I’m work. And when I get home he’s ready for me to do whatever I need either with him or with someone else. It’s worked so far and there is no reason it won’t continue 

[hornybrownbottom]

On 12/4/2010 at 7:33 AM, rawTOP said:

First, a few definitions...

By "SLUT" I mean someone who's averaging at least 5 loads a week from lots of different guys including a lot of complete strangers.

By "SUCCESSUL RELATIONSHIP" I mean a relationship I mean a solid, meaningful relationship that lasts for at least 2 years where the boyfriends live together and rely on each other.

It seems a lot of sluts are single. I'm not sure if they're sluts because they're single or if they're single because they're sluts, but I sorta get the sense that people think that sluts can't have successful relationships and still be sluts. I don't see why it can't work. If I were single I'd probably look for a slut for my next relationship. I'd love someone who came home with a cummy ass or someone who'd disappear at a bar and I'd find bent over taking dick when I went looking for him. Honestly, it would be a blast to pimp out a boyfriend...

But I'm guessing a lot of gay guys just want to settle down and be "normal" (by heterosexual norms). They might be OK with a somewhat open relationship, but the idea that you're boyfriend's life is largely dedicated to getting fucked and taking loads from other guys might not work for some tops. And vice versa - bottoms might not like sharing their man's dick with other bottoms. I'm guessing so many sluts are single 'cause it's just hard to find compatible boyfriends.

OR, there's the possibility of a partners-in-crime relationship where both guys are sluts - either they're versatile or they're both (vers) bottoms. In a relationship like that their recreational activity would be hunting for cock and loads. They could advertise on hookup sites together, etc. I've seen a few couples like this online, but they're pretty rare and I don't know how long the relationship lasts...

So what's your experience? Have you ever been in a long-term relationship where one or both guys were sluts? How did it work out?

I am a slut by your definition rawTOP and I am in a successful relationship. But my partner does not know the extent of my whoreness. I think you are right in thinking its not easy to be in a relationship while constantly hunting for cock.

[Guest Sydneybbfucker]

On 5/2/2019 at 3:16 AM, piglooking4pigs said:

@RawTop ... great question and great thread.  I'm a slut by your definition, but not in a relationship right now.  I think a slut can be in a meaningful relationship, but this can probably only be done by a few guys, as it requires a special set of skills, such as communication, honesty, and intentionally creating the space in your relationship for each partner to live his life to the fullest extent that he wants for himself.

Personally, I feel closer to a partner who is living his life honestly and in the way that makes most sense to him within the guidelines of whatever we have decided and agreed to together.  If each has agreed to the guidelines, then each can be held accountable for trying to stay within them.

I'm a slut and appreciate that men are sexual creatures and sex is one pathway for us to explore in order to understand ourselves more fully.  Trying to suppress or deny this natural desire, to the extent some of us need it (in my case several times a week), will eliminate the possibility of making such a relationship successful.

My two cents....

To succeed it needs total honesty. It can work well if both of you know what you want and what your partner will be getting up to. Honesty comes in the need to avoid any secrets - those are certain death for a relationship.

[Faggotuser]

it can work if a cumdumps top knows what a cumdump it is and how their slutty boyfriend was born to suck cocks, get fucked and take loads. they need to accept that it will always be hungry for more cock and thirsty for more cum and so lots and lots of men are going to use their boy for sex. it also helps if they accept their cumdump boyfriend is gonna get knocked up. instead of getting in the way, the top needs to enjoy what a dirty cumdump their boy is and help line up men to fuck it, take pics n videos and watch it taking loads in bathhouses, porn theatres, hotel rooms, alleys, public restrooms, parks and guys places

[bbpoznow]

like the attitude  Faggotuser . want to find a top that will use me that way  and make sure I get knocked up  by a variety of tops

[gangbangsuperstar]

my best relationships have been with boyfriends who love watching me suck cocks, get fucked n take loads from lots of random guys.guys who whore me out online and go to the bathhouse to watch me take load after load from a lineup of strangers in the public sling and on the fuckbench or in our room on my hands n knees with my slutty ass to the open door. boyfriends like it best when i take loads blindfolded so i have no idea who fucked me but they can see every guy that shoots his load in my ass and love to shove their hand in my sloppy cumdripping fuckhole. love it when my boyfriend finds guys in the bathhouse and brings them to me to use my ass or when my boyfriend eats my hole with a couple dozen loads in it then makes out with me so i can taste the cum

[beanna]

10 minutes ago, Faggotuser said:

it can work if a cumdumps top knows what a cumdump it is and how their slutty boyfriend was born to suck cocks, get fucked and take loads. they need to accept that it will always be hungry for more cock and thirsty for more cum and so lots and lots of men are going to use their boy for sex. it also helps if they accept their cumdump boyfriend is gonna get knocked up. instead of getting in the way, the top needs to enjoy what a dirty cumdump their boy is and help line up men to fuck it, take pics n videos and watch it taking loads in bathhouses, porn theatres, hotel rooms, alleys, public restrooms, parks and guys places

perfect description of such a relationship

[gangbangsuperstar]

On 5/12/2019 at 12:24 PM, Faggotuser said:

it can work if a cumdumps top knows what a cumdump it is and how their slutty boyfriend was born to suck cocks, get fucked and take loads. they need to accept that it will always be hungry for more cock and thirsty for more cum and so lots and lots of men are going to use their boy for sex. it also helps if they accept their cumdump boyfriend is gonna get knocked up. instead of getting in the way, the top needs to enjoy what a dirty cumdump their boy is and help line up men to fuck it, take pics n videos and watch it taking loads in bathhouses, porn theatres, hotel rooms, alleys, public restrooms, parks and guys places

sounds like you're talking about me daddy! after all you did meet me while my boyfriend had guys running a train on me in the bathhouse sling

[Faggotuser]

12 hours ago, gangbangsuperstar said:

sounds like you're talking about me daddy! after all you did meet me while my boyfriend had guys running a train on me in the bathhouse sling

i was literally thinking about you when i wrote that faggot. the day we met you were laying blindfolded in the bathhouse sling with cum dripping out of your gaping fuckhole and your boyfriend was rounding up guys to bareback your slutty little body.when i first saw you you were surrounded by about a dozen guys who were taking turns fucking you while you begged every single guy to blow their load in your ass.when i saw the puddle of cum under your ass and how much you needed to take loads i knew you would be a special cumdump. sluts like you need a boyfriend who will treat you more like a whore than a boyfriend and nurture your cumdump nature. when i found out your boyfriend was actually trying to get you knocked up i knew i hit the jackpot.your girly girl body just made you easy to feminize and turn into a tranny whore

[vainlust]

28 minutes ago, Faggotuser said:

i was literally thinking about you when i wrote that faggot. the day we met you were laying blindfolded in the bathhouse sling with cum dripping out of your gaping fuckhole and your boyfriend was rounding up guys to bareback your slutty little body.when i first saw you you were surrounded by about a dozen guys who were taking turns fucking you while you begged every single guy to blow their load in your ass.when i saw the puddle of cum under your ass and how much you needed to take loads i knew you would be a special cumdump. sluts like you need a boyfriend who will treat you more like a whore than a boyfriend and nurture your cumdump nature. when i found out your boyfriend was actually trying to get you knocked up i knew i hit the jackpot.your girly girl body just made you easy to feminize and turn into a tranny whore

Amen! And, Yes Please!!!!

[Faggotuser]

i met a faggot once who was trying to be monogamous and safesex with a slutty little cumdump but he knew his boy was too much of a slut for just one cock. which i knew was true cause i fucked his boyfriend a few timesas had a few of my buddies (btw the "top" boy was sucking my cock on the regular)so i told him his boyfriend is the king of faggot who always needs cock and he should just have fucking getting the little queen  fucked by a lot of guys.i also told him that cumdumps like his boy always end up getting used by a lot of men so he should  take him to porntheatres ,bathhouses, cruising spots and take him to mens apartments to take loads, whore him out online. the kid became a porntheatre and bathhouse fixture,  and became a tranny whore. the "top" boy got to enjoy what a fucking whore his boyfriend was rather than getting worried about the inevitable. discovered born to be a dirty, slutty, cumdump. a faggot that was born to be used for sex by strangers. the boyfriend loved it

[ThroatFag]

I'm 30 and never attempted to date anyone. I've only ever hooked up w strangers. If a feeder claimed me n made me his loyal cumslut, that's be the closest thing to a relationship a faggot would have.

[hairyone]

It needs honesty, communication, and ethics. There is a book called, "The Ethical Slut."  Amazing book.