cumdump for encouraging partner

[NastyRawBottom]

As a cumdump, I have many goals and aspirations. One of the most prominent is finding a partner who actively encourages my lifestyle and purpose.  

I don’t mean a partner who is just ‘okay with it.’ I mean someone who actually gets pleasure and joy from knowing how many Men dump their load in me. Someone who isn’t satisfied until I take a certain amount of loads in a certain period of time. Someone who is excited about posting ads, going to parties, etc just to see how many Men can use me. I’m already a cumslut, so ‘help’ isn’t the issue. More so, it would be even more reassuring and motivating trying to please my partner by just being more of who I am.

It sounds easier said than done. But I’m optimistic I’ll find the one. lol.  

Anyway, do any cumdumps have a similar desire? Would any guys enjoy having a partner who is a cumdump? 

[Tanbbottom]

I understand. Would luv a partner that appreciates and whores me out. If he also likes to offer his ass, that would be fine. Getting off on watching each other get bred. Heaven 

[Poz2play]

My boyfriend turned me into a cumdump. He’s also the one that changed my lifestyle from straight to being a gay male.

[UseMePlease]

I'm quite the opposite. I am excited by helping people getting more and more pervert. There is so many man I can please myself, it's even better to encourage other people to be more and more slutty!

If you ever come to Berlin, I'd be excited to help you get as fucked as humanly possible.

[FunCheerSlut]

Great question. It has some hard truths associated with it.

1. If you truly want companionship and/or a relationship AND to achieve your cumdump goals; then you must find a like minded life-partner. It cannot work any other way. Whatever form this takes: a) someone who actively gets off on how much you get used, or b) someone who also shares the same desire to get used. 

2. Everything else is a compromise.

3. Be alone. It's the only way to truly be a cumdump without the judgment of a partner who doesn't share your interest or desire (point #1 above), and will never understand.

As for the gray area or "middle ground" this is point number two. Many people who are of good-will and enjoy their partner for reasons beyond sexual compatibility--find a way to talk as openly as possible about it and to make something that is agreeable to both work...but let's be honest - in this scenario it is a compromise and you will not get half as much cock as you wish you could and at the end of the day. A true cum-dump should go with option #1 or #3.

I am trying to find some middle ground personally. I am looking for a once in a while scenario where an "organizer" would help make it worth my while when I do finally get to deviate from my routine and be the fun cheer slut I always want to be. I would love to travel for a long weekend and spend a day or two getting whored out and used - away from the relationship that doesn't find that reasonable. That is how I hope to be able to balance the demands of a relationship (under scenario / point #2) and still get to be a team-fucked slut with cum oozing horny holes that just cannot get enough cock sliding in to unload that nutt.

Once the borders reopen I am sincerely interested in making myself available for any group of guys wherever you may be who want to make use of this slut and leave my horned up holes dripping with all of your jizz and oozing cum.

 

[BootmanLA]

50 minutes ago, FunCheerSlut said:

2. Everything else is a compromise.

I'd respectfully suggest that *every* relationship is a compromise of sorts. I do not mean that two people cannot love one another completely and wholeheartedly (and even, if they so choose, remain monogamous for the duration of the relationship) but that even someone you love completely undoubtedly has quirky habits you don't really care for, or just doesn't quite share your overwhelming enthusiasm for original-colors Fiestaware, or *something*. Nobody's perfectly suited for anyone else down to every last jot and tittle.

Dan Savage, the astute sex advice columnist, refers to forming relationships under these circumstances as "rounding up" - nobody is "the one", but you may find a 0.65 or a 0.71 or whatever that can be rounded up to one - by each of you compromising on some of your ideal attributes in a partner.

And for the OP, that may or may not mean finding a partner who's only willing to accept, as opposed to enthusiastically endorse, his cumsluttery. That's not to say he shouldn't try to find exactly what he wants, but you can spend a lifetime looking, or at least, the best years in which you can actively BE that cumslut, searching for a partner who's perfect and who very possibly doesn't exist. 

 It's also important to remember: substantial numbers of heterosexual couples - who've had millennia more than we have to socialize being in lifelong, legally committed relationships (of various characters) - end up divorcing, with the odds of getting divorced increasing as you get married again (a higher percentage of second marriages end in divorce than first marriages). While it's lovely that many gay couples do settle down and form lifelong pair bonds (legally or not), the reality is that very few "first" relationships for gay men last a lifetime (absent that "lifetime" being abrogated by an early death). Rounding up to one when you're first entering the relationship world doesn't mean you're forever stuck with the same math. Relationships can "end" without being drama fests as people grow (or even as just one partner grows), and it doesn't mean the couple or relationship "failed"; it means they're moving on to other places in life. 

All of which is to say: don't let the search for Mr. Perfect blind you to workable alternatives along the way. 

[drscorpio]

My late husband was not only into me taking loads. He actually loved to watch and be the one who found the tops. I would often wake up after sleeping in on a Saturday to find that he had been on the apps and websites lining up tops to breed me all afternoon. He always loved fucking my cummy hole at the end of the day.  We didn't live near a city with a bathhouse, but the few times we got to visit on a trip, he would put me in the sling and recruit guys to breed me.  

We were both devoted barebackers when we met. We fucked bare from the beginning although we did monogamy for a while in the beginning. We discovered our compatible kinks for my being a cumdump and his whoring me out after we opened our relationship. 

I'm not sure how to tell you to find a guy like this. I do make it a point now when I feel like a hookup is becoming a fuck buddy to ask him if he would enjoy whoring me out sometime. I haven't had any take me up on this even though most of them seemed turned on at the thought. 

Good luck to you! 

[LittleCumSewer]

I have had a few boyfriends like that and it is great! the first one just gradually started by taking me to the bathhouse to watch a few guys fuck me and invite 1 or 2 guys over to breed me , then he started whoring me out online and taking me to the porntheatre to watch me get used. the second one started taking me to the bathhouse to watch me take loads all night, usually blindfolded in the public sling, fuckbench or his room and rally got into whoring me out online a LOT. he also got into taking me to cruising spots, and taking me or sending me to the porntheatre regularly for loads and he would actually take my clothes, put them in his bag and have me offer myself to EVERY guy that came in. he was the first boyfriend to whore me out as a t-girl and post dirty ads online looking for men to breed me. he also set me up with my current owner cause he knew he could really turn me into a dirrrrty tranny whore. I had a few other boys into passing me around for a few weeks for fun, free party supplies and more. its awesome to have a boyfriend who understands what a cockhungry, cumthirsty, bottom boy fucktoy I am and how much I crave cum being shot into my body by as many men as possible and who is willing to let hundreds and hundreds of guys, of all ages, races, looks, and cocksizes fuck their boyfriend up the ass bareback and unload their balls in him. who are willing to find strangers for their boyfriend to suck off and get me fucked raw by anonymous men who wanna use me like worthless trash, post ads online, let their friends fuck me, and turn me out as a t-girl cumdumpster. I love laying blindfolded in a bathhouse sling and hearing my boyfriend brag about what a dirty whore I am and how many men have just bred me, or brag to guys in a club or on the street about what a great cocksucker I am or how good my sloppy pussy feels wrapped around a big raw cock and offer me to them. I have even had my boyfriend offer my fuckhole to homeless men to use in an alley or a park. the perfect boyfriend for trashy cumdumpster faggots like us is one who accepts what cum addicted faggots we are and exploit us and pass us around like they own us rather than some guy we have to sneak around behind their backs to take a couple dozen loads in the bathhouse or stop by the porntheatre for 6 or 7 loads and quick pump n dumps in random guys apts. plus when you're a total whore word gets around and they find out anyways. I had one boyfriend who busted me several times when friends of his saw me taking loads in the bathhouse, naked in a porntheatre, and in guys apts. one time he even busted me taking loads from several guys in a cruise mall restroom. he was in there for an hour and he actually heard/saw me take 5 guys loads before he fucked me under the stall and left while another guy was in the stall fucking me. but afterwards he broke up with me cause I was "too slutty" lol I prefer boyfriends who push me to be even sluttier.

[theplayerking]

I agree with FunCheerSlut. I’ve found that people’s views on monogamy versus promiscuity rarely change. It’s important to be open and honest about what you like at the beginning. 

[Runningforraw]

On 5/24/2021 at 12:00 PM, RawBottomAriel said:

As a cumdump, I have many goals and aspirations. One of the most prominent is finding a partner who actively encourages my lifestyle and purpose.  

I don’t mean a partner who is just ‘okay with it.’ I mean someone who actually gets pleasure and joy from knowing how many Men dump their load in me. Someone who isn’t satisfied until I take a certain amount of loads in a certain period of time. Someone who is excited about posting ads, going to parties, etc just to see how many Men can use me. I’m already a cumslut, so ‘help’ isn’t the issue. More so, it would be even more reassuring and motivating trying to please my partner by just being more of who I am.

It sounds easier said than done. But I’m optimistic I’ll find the one. lol.  

Anyway, do any cumdumps have a similar desire? Would any guys enjoy having a partner who is a cumdump? 

I've thought about this alot too. i think it would be amazing to pursue the cumdump lifetstyle together

[PigBoyDallas]

I’ve hooked up with a handful of couples who were like that and I love hearing the one dirty talking to me as I breed his boyfriend raw. There’s one couple I do regular…Raunchy Ricky is my nickname for the bottom and he almost always already has a load in his ass. His BF is super fucking hot with a nice cock and it amazes me he’s whoring his ass out to other guys…hell…I’d be riding his BFs cock until his balls are drained. But I’m not gonna yuck someone’s yum. I love unloading in Ricky and he clearly can’t get enough. His BF loads me sometimes too. Apparently it all started when his BF kept busting Ricky cheating on him and finally he decided he wanted to “cure” Ricky of his cheating on him by lining up a bunch of guys to fuck him. Turned out he enjoyed watching it as much as Ricky enjoyed getting fucked and boom.…a fetish was born.