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  2. NordicBtm, you have indeed found the magic balance in your life. It's easy to slip into something that we crave, but which can also consume us. By restricting your cumdumpery to only what you can control, and thus keep balance in your life, you're an excellent example of to others. I restrict exercising my lusts to Fri and Sat nights - with only an occasional "slip" every once in a while. By doing that, there's plenty of room left for other interests, responsibilities in my life. Plus, by waiting for the weekend nights, the fuckjoints are even more full of cock-craving men - and who wouldn't like that? btw .... that's a very enticing photo ....
  3. For me it is still a joyful experience and takes the edge off at least sexually, if I'm somewhere I can accomplish it easily and quickly. If I'm stuck somewhere it can't be accomplished easily and quickly, the effort does nothing but increase the stress and frustration.
  4. I want to say I have over 1K, or more
  5. I've had multiple 9-inchers, but the biggest one I've ever seen was like 12" and significantly fatter than a beer can. The poor guy actually had difficulty getting laid because he was too big for most people to take. I sucked him off (I could barely get the head in my mouth, so it was more of a handjob with my mouth on his cock) and he tried to fuck me, but I couldn't handle it. These days I could probably take it, but I was just learning to bottom back then and what I could take was kind of a crapshoot.
  6. I can't disagree with that, and I do either avoid them on the apps or try to let them down politely and quickly with in person situations. My issue is with guys at a bathhouse or orgy will approach guys obviously trying to get fucked or and try to convince them to do something that doesn't involve penetration. If a guy is laying in a sling at a bathhouse or orgy, they aren't looking for an invitation to come home and cuddle all night with them, it happens frequently even at CumUnion Parties here. The bathhouses themselves hold events that are specifically targeted to sides, as there being a multitude of events they can attend where fucking is not encouraged and even some where genital contact is expressly forbidden in the published rules of the event. In a city full of self identified sides why can't they find someone more amiable to their preferred activity than someone who obviously actively looking for penetrative sexual acts at an event that was advertised as a gay orgy? I don't have an issue with the younger guys or bi guys who are just starting to experiment, I was there at one time myself. It was 6 months between my 1st time experimenting with a guy and the 1st time I topped and a year and a half before I bottomed. They have cuddling clubs and events here for that express purpose. I haven't attended one, but most of the expressly state that genital contact is not allowed as well as the amount of clothing you are required to keep on. Some fully clothed, almost all of them require keeping your pants on. I have no idea whether other guys have been going to these events and trying to turn them into something else, but I have not and never will.
  7. LOL .... well, honesty is (usually) the best policy ..... Or, seconds, thirds, fourths ..... well, you get the drift.
  8. First, Gu1llaum3, Welcome to BZ. Secondly, you have nothing to apologize for, your use of English being better than a number of English-speaking guys (as their native language). There are tons of man around that enjoy both men and women sexually. Sounds to me like you're one of them, and there's simply nothing wrong with being equally attracted to both men and women. While it's not for every guy, if it's right for you, then do what you need to do. That's a good question. If it's ok for her, then why not for you too? If by the term "lovers", you mean ongoing sexual relationships, then you're definitely a verrrrrry generous man with her. I can understand that you may not want to upset the current relationship with her, but it sounds like she's a bit too demanding, without extending her "privileges" to you too. If you've been accepting that kind of behavior from your wife for some time, then breaking her of that habit may prove most difficult. Add in the fact that you and she have children together, it's a situation you don't want to adversely affect. The fact is though, that each of us possesses agency. By that, I mean we're all of equal worth, our needs are of equal worth, and she wouldn't have said it if she had your fulfillment uppermost in her mind. Perhaps you've heard the old saying "what's good for the goose is also good for the gander". It sounds to me like you've been allowing her an undue amount of control in the household. What you do about that however, is up to you. What level of risk of a major rift with your wife are you willing to risk? Maybe you need to address, in your mind, just how much you want to maintain the current situation, versus how much you need sex with men. Once you have that answer, you'll have a more clear idea of what you need to do for your own fulfillment. Best of luck !!!
  9. Mine was a first time in two parts. I was in college at Georgia Tech and knew I was bi, but terrified of being even a little open (in the south in the 80s, being openly queer was a recipe for a beating). I finally figured out the gloryholes in the public restrooms and worked up the nerve to try one. The first time, the guy on the other side was only interested in sucking - he let me suck him a bit, but never got hard, so not much of a first time. He did suck me off and that was amazing. I was still horned up after the experience, so the next day I went to the student center to try again. This time the other guy was hard and we sucked each other for a bit before he suggested we go somewhere else that was less busy. We wound up in another restroom this time in the same stall. He took a while to cum, so I really had the opportunity to fully experience of his cock in my mouth - the taste, the feel - it was amazing. I was nervous about him cumming in my mouth because I had read so much about it and knew that some people didn't like the taste of cum. At that point, I knew I loved sucking cock but was uncertain about swallowing - when he came, I had my answer - totally addicting. I swallowed a lot of cum over the next few years through those gloryholes!
  10. What a way to celebrate your Birthday! Happy Birthday!
  11. Today
  12. Drink everyday ✨️
  13. A good hard fuck sounds sweet 😵

  14. Ya I don't bottom much, but when I do, definitely girth. And can power that girth to get in a tight hole. My deep ring is super shallow, like 5" back, so anything notably longer than that doesn't have a lot of extra feel anyway.
  15. Hi all. Just finally getting back to writing. So sorry for the delay
  16. cman54

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    Thankful for what big brother can give
  17. I am planning to organise an open door play party in a rented apartment in Warsaw between 26 August and 7 September. Are there any takers for breeding?
  18. cman54

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    Clean shaven is very nice.
  19. Willing

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    That is so nice 👄
  20. Bent over the tailgate of my truck in the parking lot of a business in pouring down rain.
  21. Also in the Seattle/Tacoma area.
  22. I spotted a guy on Grindr one weekend while working alone in my office. Invited him over, went into the conference room and fucked him on the conference table. Although hot, what made it hotter was that the guy was a counselor at the nearby clinic where I go for my HIV treatment. He would always come in to the patient rooms to talk about safe sex.
  23. I got a really painful case of oral chlamydia, and also a couple of nasty cases of gonorrhea while traveling. It was a huge hassle to sort it out. I keep fantasizing about taking more loads but I always get pulled back by those memories.
  24. EastTNbareback

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    And I want yours in mine.😉
  25. Owww love it 💦💦💦
  26. Im 6-5 and dreaming about the top that'll make me look tiny like that.
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